Updated AF Collective
Welcome to the "Updated AF Collective," podcast where we celebrate the power and resilience of women.
Join me as we dive into inspiring stories, engage in meaningful conversations, and explore topics that empower women from all walks of life.
We believe that every woman has a unique strength within her, waiting to be unleashed.
Whether you're an entrepreneur, a leader, a creative, a caregiver, or simply on your own personal journey, this podcast is for you.
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“You Were Meant For More” With Self Love Coach Lisa Kelly
What happens when you decide to truly embrace your potential and embark on a journey of transformation? Join me as we uncover the incredible stories behind life's biggest changes. With Lisa Kelly, a trauma-informed self-love coach, we navigate her inspiring journey from a life that felt incomplete to one bursting with purpose as she empowers women around the globe. We share moments from her adventures in Bali and Morocco and her impactful work, including an upcoming masterclass on EFT tapping that promises to be a game-changer for anyone keen on personal growth.
Lisa (Kelly) is a self-love coach and trauma-informed Kundalini facilitator dedicated to empowering women to embrace their main character energy. With a focus on healing and transformation, she helps women reconnect with their inner strength, break free from limiting beliefs, and cultivate a deep sense of self-worth. Lisa also invites you to join her vibrant community, where women connect through truth, honesty, and vulnerability, creating a safe space for growth and support. Discover how to become the leading lady of your own life!
From nurturing authenticity to embracing change, this episode is packed with powerful stories and practical strategies. We talk about the courage it takes to pursue a more fulfilling life, the significance of having a supportive network, and the transformative power of EFT. Whether exploring life coaching, manifesting dreams, or building meaningful relationships, listeners are invited to dream big and manifest love in their lives. Don't miss Lisa's inspiring story, my personal healing journey, and the exciting possibilities that lie ahead for those willing to step into their true potential.
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Hey guys, welcome back to Updated AF Collective, the podcast. I am your host, megan Worth, back with another incredible interview and I have to tell you you are about to fall in love with my next guest. She is literally like just the biggest cheerleader for women around the world and you have to listen to her story. It's so inspiring because, you guys know, I love when somebody realizes they're not living their full potential and they realize, you know, like in order to make that happen, they have to literally get rid of everything and rebuild from the ground up, and that's exactly what this woman did. Her name is Lisa Kelly and she's not only a life coach, but she's a trauma-informed self-love coach, energy healer, kundalini and somatic healing self-love sisterhood community on her Instagram.
Speaker 1:And this woman gets to travel all over. She goes to Bali, she stays in Morocco, and that's how I kind of found when I DM'd her. You know, I think she was in Morocco just again living her best life, but I couldn't really figure out. Like I'm like who is this person? Because her Instagram stories were her so raw, so real, so authentic and, um, of course, it like that's like it intrigued me. So I was like I need to know this girl. So we chit chatted back and forth for like two months, I think, just getting to know her and loving her more and more as I was getting to know her. So, um, I wanted to throw it out there.
Speaker 1:You guys, like I said, you're going to fall in love with Lisa, and Monday this coming up, monday October 28th she is hosting a live masterclass on EFT tapping and we do have a little bit of a conversation about EFT. I mean, I love EFT, I think everybody should do it and I kind of you know we kind of break it down like what EFT is and interview. So you'll have to listen to it. But at 7.30 PM UK time you guys need to be on this live call. It's a masterclass and the link to the masterclass to sign up, to get the email to get the link is going to be in the show notes. I think what you guys need to do like I said, you're going to fall in love with her go follow her on Instagram Her Instagram is also in the show notes sign up for her live masterclass and I mean I'll be there too, so you guys will see me there too and say hi, she is the sweetest person with such an inspiring story and the nicest girl.
Speaker 1:If you are looking for somebody, if she resonates with you and you like her story and you and you feel like she's somebody that you want to work with, one-on-one she she does take one-on-one clients for her coaching and definitely reach out to her. She's like I said, I personally think she's the UK's biggest cheerleader when it comes to like self-development. She's a girl's girl. She loves to see people succeed and she loves to help people because, as you're going to hear, you know she's changed a lot about herself when she realized she wasn't reaching her full potential and the best part about when you start to climb out of a dark space is when you get out of it. You turn around and help the next person in line, and that's exactly what she's doing with her life coaching. So listen to the, listen to the interview and then, like I said, go sign up for her masterclass. It's on Monday, the 28th, seven 30 UK time and if you are here in the States, we're six hours behind them, so it would be middle of the day for us, but I will be on that call. You should be on the call too, guys.
Speaker 1:Welcome back to the show. Welcome to the Updated AF Collective podcast, where we celebrate the power and resilience of women. Join me as we dive into inspiring stories, engage in meaningful conversations and explore topics that empower women from all walks of life. I believe that every woman has a unique strength within her waiting to be unleashed. Whether you're an entrepreneur, a leader, a creative, a caregiver or simply on your own personal journey, this podcast is for you. Together, we'll share stories of triumph, discuss strategies for success and provide a supportive space for women to connect and grow. Get ready for real, authentic conversations that ignite your inner strength and inspire you to chase after your dreams fearlessly. Welcome to the Updated AF Collective. Hey guys, welcome back to the show.
Speaker 1:Today I have a really special guest who I have been trying to get on my podcast now for a couple of months, but because of the time difference, I keep screwing it up. So I have her today. Her name is Lisa Kelly and she is a life coach. She's a trauma-informed self-love coach, energy healer, kudalini and somatic healing. Did I say that right? The somatic healing? Oh my gosh. Self-love, sisterhood, community, trauma release and subconscious healing. Welcome to Updated AF, lisa. I'm so happy that you're here and, like I said, it took a while, but we finally made the stars align, and now you're here with me.
Speaker 2:Thank you for having me. It's good to be here.
Speaker 1:So you're also a world traveler and that's what I feel like attracted me so much, because I was like she's living the life that I want to live. You know, I don't live it yet, but I want to live like you. Um, but let's go back to the beginning. What was Lisa like prior to you being this business woman to being a transformational coach? Like? Who was Lisa Like? We'll go back all the way to childhood.
Speaker 2:Let's talk about that really quick um well, I'm I'm 36, so we're going back quite a long time yeah, same.
Speaker 2:Well, I just turned 37, so I hope you oh, belated birthday wishes. Um me as a child, so I've always been like um. I always described myself as like a confident, shy person, so I would never really show up as my real self, but everyone would feel like they knew me, which I suppose they felt like they did. I was into sports. I was always couldn't sit, still like to be busy, and then through my teenage years, just don't know who was trying to find my place in the world and figure out what I wanted to do.
Speaker 2:I've been the busiest person I've ever known for most of my life. You know, when I was at school, I had a job after school and, you know, always got to be busy earning money, hustling, working hard, you name it, and I don't know how far to go back, I suppose, as the years went on like just before I turned 30, I decided that there had to be more to life than I was currently experiencing, and that's when I started to really dip my toe in the self-development world. I've skipped a whole chapter there where I did bodybuilding.
Speaker 3:I was like there has to be a reason for the pivotal point.
Speaker 1:You know like I mean. I feel like we all have a moment and it doesn't have to be like a rock bottom moment we all have that moment where it clicks in our head of like there has to be more. Did you have any specific moment in time that made you shift your perspective?
Speaker 2:um no, I think I was the. It was a relationship really that was happening. I was turning 30. I didn't know what I was really doing with my life. I felt like I kept trying things doing them for a bit. Moving on, I was like where do I want to be in the world? Is it England? That's where I'm from and I live. I didn't really know and I was like I actually feel like I need to get out of here and I need to go on this travel, like this journey, to find myself started reading some books and started to think, oh, maybe I could think different and things could change for me. Um so, but it's a message, my friend, in the middle of the night I was drunk, I'll be honest I was like, hey, do you want to get out of here? Like I need to get away and if you're up for it, let's go somewhere, like far away. For a long time and I said this is a drunk text, but I promise I'll mean it in the morning and the next day in the morning.
Speaker 2:Yeah, yeah, the next day she was like, let's do it. So we ended up booking like a five-week trip, um, to Thailand and Bali. And I remember going to Bali for the first time and everyone's like you know this eat, this, eat, pray, love era this was in 2018. And all I did was cry my eyes out, like I suddenly had stopped being so busy and had to sit with myself and was like, who even am I and what do I want?
Speaker 2:And on that trip, the guy that I was seeing at the time, I was really hoping that things would work out with him, even though it wasn't really going that well. And I remember sitting there with my friend and she said you know, what are you hoping for, um? Who's Lisa when she goes home? And I was like all I was focused on was this relationship and feeling like I had to have all my ducks in a row with you know, settling down, because now I'd turned 30, um, and she she had a completely different point of view, um, and then, as, like I came home, I then I actually then trained to be a teacher, as you do, um, and things just started to unravel and unfold in like the wildest way, um, I think. The more that I really started to believe and tap into that there was a better life out there, the more unfulfilled I felt.
Speaker 2:And it's really weird to say that, because it's in the moments where you feel lonely and you're keeping yourself busy for no reason and I found it really tricky and like the more I looked at things, the worse it got.
Speaker 1:I almost feel like it's because you saw what was going on on the other side of the fence. You're so used to your reality and you know your world and what you've created and you're trying to tell yourself like no, this is it. This is it for years and years and years. You're like, no, I'm happy. You're convincing yourself, you're happy, you're convincing yourself that you need to be with this person. But then you get that contrast and you're looking over there and you're like, all of a sudden, you're like looking at yourself and you're like, wait, there's more than just what I see here. I can reach over to the other side of the fence and get on, get into some of that. What's going on over there? It's like you had that realization that like were there. It's like you had that realization that like, you don't have to settle. You know 30s, the new 20, so you know it's, it's your life was opening up to bigger and better possibilities. Right, I mean? Correct me if I'm wrong, but that's just what it sounds like yeah, and it was.
Speaker 2:And it was like I'd got you're so right, like I've got that taste of what I wanted life to be like. And you know, I was then in the school system, which is obviously very regimented and very controlled, and I kept trying to tell myself, or ignore that part of me, like that little whisper that was saying this isn't for you. You know, try something new, can you do it? And it's like all I would like if anyone listened, or not, if anyone, when whoever listens to this, like those voices and those internal whispers that you have, they don't ever go away. So, like, the quicker you can act on them and almost not get them out your system, but actually explore them, the better.
Speaker 2:Because I'd wanted to go, like properly traveling and go around the world and do all the things I think I've done in the last year really such a long time and I kept dipping my toe in and then coming back and I was like, oh, I can I, oh I'd go home and and I was just, I was afraid and I I had these internal nudges, these whispers, these like go on, explore that, that's for you. And I just didn't have the courage to do it because I didn't believe and this is where it came down to that I was worthy of it. I just thought, oh, I can't. I can't live a life like that. Why could I? Who am I to think I could do those things? I have to stay in the system. I have to fit in in the mold that I'd, you know, created for myself or was created for me yeah, that's your intuition.
Speaker 1:people are like how do I know what the difference between my ego and intuition is? Because your intuition is not going to leave you the fuck alone. It's going to keep nagging you and nagging you, and it's only going to get louder if you ignore it. And then what you're going to find is when you're pushing yourself to go in the opposite direction. Your, your intuition, is trying to keep you back on track, like the little GPS system that it is. Your life is going to fall apart, and that's when we hit rock bottom and have these quote unquote spiritual awakenings, is when we try to force something that is never meant for us. So when you decided to take this trip to Bali with your girlfriend, like did you quit your job, did you just say I'm out, like I'm done, like quit your job, do all the crazy things, or what did you do?
Speaker 2:So that was like part of the pivotal moment. Just as you were talking, I was thinking, oh, I know what the other one was like, the real, the real big change in that moment I was, I was working like all the time as I did, and I was working like part-time in a gym and I actually got sacked because I took the holiday. Um, it wasn't a completely legal contract, let's say, I didn't have, you know, in a HR department that I could go to. But, yeah, I definitely had a very good working relationship where I was meant to be there and, uh, the gym owner said at the time if you take that trip for all those weeks, then you can't come back here. Um, that actually means there was so much more to that story and I was like I knew that that was going to happen, so I'd kind of saved up the money, knowing that that would come back, that would happen, and then I'd go on this five-week trip, come back and figure it out. You know, it would just be like right now, what? And I do believe that the universe has a funny way of supporting you. You, oh, absolutely, oh, my gosh, yeah.
Speaker 2:And so I then dipped back into the education system and ended up. I feel like again the universe was supporting me although it didn't feel like it at the time with this job that I got. That was, and that same relationship I had this year of absolute hell, I can't even tell you. I cried every single day. I was so miserable Like I didn't recognize myself at all and I finally again went on another holiday a year later and I started to find myself again and come back to who I believed that I was Broke up with. The guy got a new job and then the pandemic hit and I think that everything caught up with me. So we're in lockdown in the UK and I started to get these like funny symptoms and like not. Well, I can go into the detail if you'd like, but to cut along.
Speaker 1:No, please go into the detail, because you know, and what I always tell my guests is like you don't know who's listening Somebody out there needs to hear the story, because I guarantee somebody out there is going through what you're going through right now. Talk about the signs, talk about the symptoms get real girl yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2:so I, as the pandemic struck, I started to um again I was still deaf in my toe and looking into the self-development world and I started to find my voice and get a bit more courageous than I ever had been. And I I ended up contacting this girl and saying to her I think we were in a relationship with this guy at the same time. Um, I was in a place to deal with that then and, anyway, we ended up piecing together all the bits and realized that we actually were in a relationship with him at the same time. You know, I spent Christmas Day with him and his family. He spent Boxing Day with her and her family Like it was very close, and I managed to find some strength to start to start digging into, like my past and my history and I started some therapy.
Speaker 2:Like I was working from home, I lived alone at the time and as I opened Pandora's box and all this stuff was coming up, that's when my health um took a turn for the worse. So, um, I was running, it was raining and I'd parked my car at the supermarket. I was running, I tried to run to go into the supermarket and my right leg felt like it was someone else's Like, it just was not working. So I'm like, you know, as I said, I've been a bodybuilder, I'd been into athletics, gymnastics, netball, you name it. I'd done it Me not being able to walk or like.
Speaker 2:At that time it was run and I'm like, okay, that's really strange, but my leg just thought like started, um, or stopped connecting with me really. So even to get in the car, I physically had to pick my leg up and I'm like what is going on? That's not good. Yeah, no. So I started going, you know, investigating, and they, they kept saying is it this, is it that? Like every, could it be? There was this thing called corda equina or something which is to do with losing sensation in your leg, and I was like no, it's not that it feels fizzy, like I can feel it, but it just isn't receiving the message yeah so then, at the same sort of time, I was on a trip like to the coastal area where we live and I started to notice that there was this pain behind my right eye I think.
Speaker 2:And then when I was there, I took a shower and was shaving my armpits and look into the extremities. So, if you can imagine, you've got your arm up and you're looking at your armpit to shave your armpit. The pain behind my eye was unreal.
Speaker 2:And I was like huh, I don't know what's going on. Obviously, dr Google was becoming my best friend and I said to my mum at the time I think I've got something called optic neuritis, because every symptom that that linked to I could relate to, like my vision was going so I was starting to not be able to see out of my right eye. It was painful, the light was affecting it. Plus, at the same time, I've got this leg thing going on and it said on google.
Speaker 1:It was like if you get optic neuritis, there's a really high chance that that's the first sign of the um neurological disease, multiple sclerosis and I was like me multiple no the girl that goes to the gym, the girl that works out, the girl that's like the bodybuilder, all of a sudden, to have a body that is now in dis-ease girl, oh my gosh so I was.
Speaker 2:I was like, okay, I need to make some appointments. So I went to the the eye test and they, um, fast-tracked me to the hospital and were like, yeah, you've got optic neuritis at the same time had like every blood test under the sun, multiple MRIs, and like there were so many things happening at this time because I was, one of my uncles said to me you can, you know, go private with your, your investigations. We really want to support you. And I remember like it obviously cost a lot of money. In the UK we get free healthcare, don't we? And we got to pay for it. And I remember them pulling me out of this MRI and they were like we're going to put contrast in so that we can see the if there's lesions on your brain and if they're fresh, and that's going to be, you know, 250 pounds. Are you okay to pay that? And I'm like it's not my money. I felt like again the worthiness was coming up. I just didn't feel worthy, like how could I allow my uncle to spend this on me?
Speaker 2:yeah, you know the bills are mounting up, so by the time it come around to the diagnosis, I'd well and truly diagnosed myself anyway. And, um, I, I just thought I looked at the reasons for it and it was like um, ms, if you read Louise Hay, comes down to mental hardness, being tough on yourself. You know, if you look at the causes and effects and and it can be brought on by stress you know it's like a western disease really and I thought all those years of toxicity, all those times where I've put myself in situations that I should not have been in and people have taken advantage of me and they've been like not to be like a child, super mean, but like some of the things that have happened have been awful and it's like I stayed again because of this worthiness wound and it was like I've got to change my fucking life like I am.
Speaker 2:I sat there in the doctor's office with the diagnosis and it was actually on my. My sister, my oldest sister, um, has passed away and it was on her anniversary that I had this appointment. And I was so mad because I was like, of all the days, why does it have to be today? Because I knew that, like the, I was getting the results and that was going to be like my official diagnosis day. And then I thought to myself, because her life wasn't straightforward.
Speaker 2:She was actually left disabled and brain damaged from the vaccine when she was a baby and she always say she taught me so much about life and she couldn't ever speak, you know, and she was older than me, she didn't really know I existed. And I thought the reason I've been given this diagnosis on this day is because she's got my back and she's saying little sis, you're stronger than this, you are strong and I'm with you and it's not gonna, it's not gonna affect you. This will be your, your life-changing point. And it was at that point I was like I said to them. They started to speak to me about treatment and I said to them no, I don't want treatment like I appreciate that you've got evidence. I've got some lesions on my spine and my brain which give me the diagnosis of multiple sclerosis, but I'm so unavailable for it.
Speaker 1:I was like I'm not I love that you said that unavailable for it, because you're like I'm going to fix this. And the fact that you felt your sister with you as backup and support. Again, this is what listening to your intuition is all about Feeling the people around around you, feeling the support and saying, no, like I got myself into this mess and I'm going to get myself out. Like, thank you for your suggestions, but I'm going to fix this and you can, because you know how you got into it. So all you have to do is do the opposite of that. So that was a huge awakening.
Speaker 2:Absolutely, and it was like taking that trust into my own hands, like that self-trust. I had to sit there and think what the fuck are you doing, lisa, are you sure?
Speaker 1:And that's scary because your brain is going to start talking you out of it. Like take the medication, Lisa. Like, no, like just do what the doctor tells you to do. But your intuition is like yelling at you at the same time.
Speaker 2:Like don't do that absolutely and I thought to myself I don't want the medication, I don't believe in it. Like, let me try it my way first. And do you know what, if I get it wrong and when I go for the MRI I've got more lesions or the disease is developing, then I'm a listen, and you have two years from like a relapse, which is what happened with my leg and my eye, um, to take medication in the UK. And then you have to wait for a relapse and I was like I'm gonna sit and wait because it's not gonna happen to me. Like when I say I'm unavailable for it, it's like, okay, I know that I have to declare it and whatever. But I'm like no, I'm not fucking having it, it's not gonna. I will change, trust me.
Speaker 2:And then it's also a really good catalyst like this is why this was like December 2020. And you start to get this bee in your bonnet where you're like in one part of my brain it's like what happens if it is real? But I only use that as fuel to be like then you better live now. You better fucking live now, because if, in one day, your mobility does change, you're going to be so pissed off with yourself that you sat at school when you didn't want to be there and you were too afraid to book the next flight to Bali or to Morocco or to wherever it was that you've been, you are going to be, so let like I use that as my fuel and my motivation to be like I'm gonna live. Now I have no, I don't have all the answers and I don't have it figured out, but I'm like I just trust myself, like my self-trust is huge and I think every time I go for like an MRI cause I have to have them annually, um, and they're like oh no, there's no progression. I'm like duh.
Speaker 1:I don't. I'm not a slave to my job anymore. I'm unavailable or unavailable for the bullshit. Like when you take all of that out of your system and you just detox from the just the bullshit around you and and and actually live like you're going to pass away tomorrow and just put yourself out there and live authentically, I feel like you can completely change not only your health, your mental health, but just your physical, all around wellbeing. And that's exactly what you did. Like I said, you got yourself into that point, but then you're like all I have to do is the opposite of all of that and you have that awakening and you just, you just fucking did it.
Speaker 1:How many people do we know? I have friends and family that I just want to shake and wake up, and I'm like there's so many things that you guys all say you want to do, but nobody's doing anything Exactly. But that's why they have coaches like you. They have coaches like you to wake them, the fuck up when they are ready, cause you can't force somebody to wake up. You have to wait for the student to be ready. So let's fast forward. You have healed your body. You're starting to travel. When did the coaching come into hand. Like when did when did that start? Because now you help women all over the world, correct? Like you have clients, because I remember just booking you internationally. We laughed because you're like, oh, like, I do this with my international clients all the time. We screw up the time, so you're helping women all over the world. Wake up, let's talk about that.
Speaker 2:So it really links, it coincides with the diagnosis. Like I happen to be in and out of hospital and obviously Instagram was listening to me wasn year round. I would go off season, as it's called, and I'd gain like probably two, three stone, but I'd still post pictures, like in my bikini, in my underwear, whatever I did first trapping, let's just own it. Um, and I remember getting a speaking gig at an international women's day event because this lady was like you, you, you're just, you don't try and pretend to be to look, you know competition ready the whole time. So, like I'd started to do like dip my toes again.
Speaker 2:I don't know why I use that phrase a lot, I don't know where it's come from, but I'd started to like, yeah, get into like motivational speaking or keynote speaking, whatever it was. So I saw this coaching course when I was I was going into hospital in London, um, and I was like, huh, there's a course like what, and you get a 10-day, like free trial. And it was like this is a life coaching course. I'd had one life coaching session at that point with somebody. I'd won it free somehow.
Speaker 2:Okay, and you manifested it yeah, well, because I was like oh, this is really interesting. And I remember having to like I think I had a sick day to do the call and I was like, oh my god. I looked up at her because I was like her boundaries are so strong. Like she didn't say, oh yeah, I can fit you in in the evening. It was like no, these are my working hours and this is that, and I thought I need to be like that right yeah.
Speaker 2:So I was like I'm, um, I thought, let me, let me register for the free course. So I'm sitting in hospital hooked up to these steroids, because they gave you, they gave me three days of IV steroids to repair, like, the optic neuritis and my leg. Thank god it worked, you know, um, it almost like to 100% recovery rate. So I'm sitting there on this IV drip and, um, I was like I'll just watch one of the modules and I was hooked like the way that the lady spoke she it's the course that I ended up doing for my certification. And I remember like I'm in London at this point and I'd never spoken on camera, like not really, and I thought I'm going to test myself.
Speaker 1:Like I'm already going to start somewhere.
Speaker 2:Yeah. So I walked along the street in London it was quite a quiet road and I filmed myself talking and I was like shitting myself. But I thought, do you know what? That's who I want to be. I want to be that person that does that like when I actually share, because I didn't tell anyone what was happening at the time. I want to record that I'm doing something whilst I'm going through something really shit.
Speaker 2:And um, I remember signing up to the course and, uh, I had to put it all on my credit card, of course, because I was like I haven't got three thousand pounds lying around. But I was like I really want to do this. And when I looked at the outline of the course, I thought, if I never make anything of it, if nothing ever comes of it, this course will change my life anyway, because it was all about the mindset and the framework and and you know getting rid of these limiting beliefs and doing different. Um, there was like an NLP element to it. There were so many things that I thought if, even if I just run through it myself, it will be awesome.
Speaker 1:That's your return on investment. If you're, you're worth it. You're worth every single freaking cent of that three grand If it saves you in a way that nothing else would have. You know, sometimes, these, these courses, that's your return on investment, whether you make money or not. If your mental health repairs because of it, there you go. Money well spent.
Speaker 2:That's my personal opinion on on courses, you know yeah and like, yeah, it teaches you how to to run through it and then to help other people with it. And again, all the limiting beliefs and the imposter syndrome. Who do I think I am to do that? And um, I remember like turning up to the calls at first and, uh, I didn't even have my camera on on zoom, because I was like I just didn't feel like I belonged there. You know, I talk about this worthy wound, a lot imposter syndrome, like, yeah, like three thousand it was.
Speaker 2:It was amplified and then I was you know, so that was in the September and then asking, it is given, not that I manifested the pandemic, but I was like I wish I could do this. I was doing the course, like before work. I was waking up at four or five in the morning but I was excited. It wasn't stressful, I was excited and I thought I want to do that. That's what I want to do. I'm going to be a life coach. I'm going to help people. I'm not going to let any motherfucker feel how I felt and get themselves into that health predicament that I did. So I'm like I'm gonna do it.
Speaker 2:And I was so excited and then, obviously, lockdown struck and the calls that I couldn't attend because I was teaching. I could attend every single one, those practice clients that I wanted. I had a whole network of people that were like, hey, I'll be your client, I'll practice, I'll practice. Because I never told my my people at the time, I just did it. I told my mum, I tell her everything, but I didn't really announce it and I was like you know, imposter syndrome again, who's going to listen to me?
Speaker 2:Who's going to want me to help them? And then I remember merging. I had a different Instagram to the one that we've connected on my life coaching one, and I remember just putting it out there. I was like I'm going to do it on Saturday. Saturday is my day. And I was like, come on, you can do it. So I'd got the post all to go and on my personal page and I just put hey, everyone, I've been doing this thing. Um, if you want to follow my journey, I'd appreciate your support. But here's my page. I've kept it a secret. I kind of explained it.
Speaker 2:And that's the day I got my first client, my first paying client because one of the ladies that I knew I'd worked with her and she followed me straight away and she went on that on my page and she was like I want to work with you. And I thought, okay, well, I'm taking on clients, let's see. So I said I've got an application form because I thought you know what your friends are like. They want to support you. Yeah, she filled in the application form and I was like, okay. Then we did a discovery call and she was like I really want to work for you. And then when she paid me for the, the 12 weeks of coaching, I was like I've fucking done it.
Speaker 2:And all it took was me being brave enough to show people what I was doing. And she said to me I watched you leave the job that you. You were so unhappy in what? At the time they told me I'd committed career suicide because of the way that I handled it, which wasn't my finest moment, let's just say. And she was like and you did it and you've never been. You look so happy you, you stood up for yourself. I want, I want a bit of what you've got. And I was like, oh my gosh, you didn't.
Speaker 1:You never know who's watching and how they're seeing you, and I was like maybe I can do this, maybe I can all because you took one action step to say I don't care who sees this, I don't care what you think, I don't care. If you think I'm crazy, like this is what I'm doing, you can support me or you, you don't have to but this is what I'm doing, you know. Like again, like I do believe that that everything happens for a reason. As much as 2020 sucked for everybody in the planet, including myself, I mean, that was my awakening. That's when I knew I needed to quit my job and sell my house and move halfway across the country and start over. But a lot of people had to sit with themselves. Some people didn't even make it through 2020. People they sat with themselves and couldn't face reality became depressed and then, when the pandemic was over, went back to their nine to five job as if nothing had ever happened, you know. But then there's the few of us maybe I don't know, maybe 10%, just throwing that number out there. I'm not a scientist. So maybe, like the 10% of us in the world, like we're the ones that were like, like the 10% of us in the world, like we're the ones that were like there's another way, like we don't have to live this way, and I feel like that's when I remember I'd never heard of life coaches. I've never heard of women out there, even men out there, who are helping people to get better lives, to, you know, help heal the trauma. I've heard, obviously, I've heard therapists and all that fun stuff, but there was this rise of life coaches that were saying, hey, I can help you. And each life coach has a different story and that's what I love about life coaches is because there's a lid for every pot. Somebody who resonates with your story is going to be more drawn to you. Anybody that's going through something where their body is in like dis-ease, you know, can look at her and be like you know what, like she got herself out of that situation. And I'm knees deep in mine. You go find a life coach that you resonate and I feel like that's why people resonate with you. Because women let's be real, no offense to men I feel like we deal with a lot more stress and we're the ones that we have to appear to be perfect. You know, our Instagrams are perfect and everything. It's it's stress and that's what causes your body to go into disease and that's when shit like that happens.
Speaker 1:So after you got your first client. It just did. It just snowball, did you? Was it a slow moving ball? How did you be like, okay, I want to do this? Did you leave the country for a while and start coaching from your computer in front of a beach in Morocco? Or like what happened? I need to know Because I'm like, can I come with you?
Speaker 2:I think you always say that you see my stories and you're like what I know.
Speaker 1:You guys, if you're listening, you need to go follow her and, of course, I'm going to have her Instagram. You live a life that is just. It's so beautiful, it's it's. You're going to be on your deathbed when you're 110 years old and you're going to be like I lived, and I hope other women follow you on Instagram and choose to to go to you for life coaching, because you do live a beautiful and authentic life and we'll get into that Cause. I have a couple of things to say about that, but I want to hear how the ball got rolling into life coaching and like what you did next.
Speaker 2:Um, so I, what I? Then what did I do? I had my first client and I was I'm just trying to time it together, I think when I went, no, we never ended up going back to school. So the year the group that I worked, that academic year cause this all happened, yeah, that same year we never ended up going back to school and I was like, okay.
Speaker 2:But when we did, I think I said to to them I don't want to work five days, I couldn't do much less than that. I were like you know, I couldn't completely quit. I wasn't there yet. Um, I've got a mortgage, you know. Yep, welcome to being a homeowner. And I was like, can't do that. So I asked them if I could work one day less a week. Could I just have one day? My head teacher at the time was incredible, is incredible. She was like we have to apply for you, but we can do it on a medical basis so we can use this MS thing to your advantage. Okay, cool. So I started off just having one day off a week, like the Thursday, and then trying to fill that with clients or practice clients or still studying and developing. And then I got a couple more clients, but they weren't. There's never been consistency, you know, it's not just been the snowball effect at all.
Speaker 2:I'll be totally honest and that's great because you're learning and you're building yeah, and I think energetically, I was blocking myself and I've learned that this year a lot, um. So then I was like, okay, I'm at the place where I can now do two days um off a week, so I'll just work. What would then be? Well, it's part-time, yeah, so I work three days at school and I do two days of my coaching. And I think I went on another, like, honestly, I've traveled, so I'd gone on a holiday with my best friend and her son and it was over like the October break.
Speaker 2:And I remember getting back into the country and the minute I landed I was like I don't want to be here anymore and I thought it's not my place now. You need to amp it up, now you need to go balls to the wall. So I went in to see my head teacher and I said I don't think I can do this anymore. Um, and she was like, so supportive, like do you want to be a teacher in another country? I've got she's worked all over the world, I've got connections, you can go anywhere. I, I know people in this place, that place, this place like I'll hook you up, I'll get you in.
Speaker 2:And I was like I don't know what I want to do, but leave that one with me. But I, I think, you know, I I need to, we, we need to talk about it. So, anyway, a couple more months went by and then I just thought I honestly cannot do this anymore. So what I did first was I had the conversation again and I said, no, the time's coming like I need to actually leave. And she said to me, and I was like, I've made a promise to the children in my class, um, because I think it's really important and like so many layers to that. But, um, I was like I will see them out, I will do this academic year with them, um, but then I've got to put me first and like one.
Speaker 2:The reason I'm sort of like hesitating there is because I thought to myself good, but if I was pregnant I wouldn't have had any qualms about leaving them if I had to, because I was having a baby. But me putting myself first, me doing what I wanted, still was a stumbling block for me.
Speaker 2:I was still finding it hard to just truly put yourself first, yeah, yeah, I really have struggled with that and um, so, yeah, it got to the march and then I said to her on the Friday, I think I'm gonna hand in my notice. She was like you need to give me an official writing. So I booked a one-way ticket to Bali on the Saturday and then was like, um, I've got no end date, but I'm gonna hand my notice in, and I don't really know what I'm doing. But I'm just gonna take a big leap of faith and just trust that what's meant to be will be. And if it doesn't work out like, I'm employable. Do you know what I mean?
Speaker 1:like, if I you can always go back, but you can never go forward unless you take the action step and, like you like, just free fall out into it and just see what happens.
Speaker 2:Yeah, and keep an open mind, like if you'd have told me the last 12 months especially have been the craziest that they've ever been and my life has been pretty up there. But if you'd have told me cause I think I got back from Bali around this time last year that it would have unfolded the way that it has, I I wouldn't have believed you because I'd have thought what you know, I'm what. I'm gonna fall in love, go through another breakup, which was really rough, and I know that, um, I shared that to my close friend's story and and then I'm gonna do energy healing and train in this other modality and then work with women in closer communities and I'd have, but also, I think I've spent three months in Morocco this year. I've spent one, two, three, four, four months in Bali this year. Um, have I been anywhere else? I don't think so. Um, yeah, and then I'm. I am heading back to Bali in one month's time.
Speaker 1:My gosh. And so, now that we we're almost done with 2024, what does your business look like today? Are you how many? How many clients are you actively working with? Do they just keep coming in, or is it pretty steady? Now that you have, you know you're bearing and you're getting the hang of everything, what does it look like for you right now?
Speaker 2:Well, with the travel this year, like I haven't been able to decide, like I've had clients in Australia, but that worked because I was partly in Bali, so the time difference was okay. There I've got a client. I don't actually know where she lives, I think it's it's near Madagascar, but that's the one that I turned up late for on the call she did I can't remember because of the time zone difference um, and then I've got a UK client at the minute as well, like just on a one-to-one basis and, like my, longer programs.
Speaker 2:I've then started like training, or I trained in like EFT tapping and have done like one-off sessions with people for that. So they're all over the place. But that's what I was saying. I haven't known when I wanted to work and I think that I actually, like, when I left teaching the summer that I did, I just went straight coaching. It's got to work. It's got to work. It's got to work Like, even though I was traveling around at the time I was on, I was constantly on.
Speaker 2:Even though I was traveling around at the time I was on, I was constantly on and I it was only this year that I was like I actually want to turn my phone off for a week and not think about coaching and sending emails and trying to get clients and, you know, thinking about the marketing and all the hats that we have to wear. And I was like so this year I've still had clients, but I haven't known when the time zone I wanted to work from. So, as the years gone on, I also trained in Kundalini activation this summer or in June it was and I want to offer that. So I've done like online sessions with that, but everything's quite clunky at the minute it is. I don't know when this will air, but I am launching something at the end of the month.
Speaker 1:So, yeah, no, your, your episode is coming like in a week. So if you want to go ahead and share with the listeners, like what you have in the works, I feel like this is a good time okay, cool.
Speaker 2:Yeah, so I want to. I am. I am still working one-to-one with clients, like a hundred percent. I love the transformation that people get, like it just lights my soul up. It's it's my purpose. I've started doing women's circles, like wherever I am, so I've hosted some in Bali, hosted some in the UK, but I'm I'm doing a free masterclass at the end of the month, on the 28th of October, and in that masterclass that's where I'm going to launch it's called the self love sisterhood membership.
Speaker 2:Okay, and this is where I want it to be like a monthly thing where we do cover EFT tapping to shift the limiting beliefs, like to release them from the nervous system or the subconscious. Um, there'll be like the community, like I want to bring people together. I want them to have a focus for the month where they can you know, really I'm going to say focus again but have an area that we're looking at where we double down on it and like really make some changes. And I just think like the consistency for me across the last, however many years, has been what's got me to where I've got to. And I think if people can have like a place where they can come together and focus on something then with, like the support as well. Like I want there to be some open coaching and, yeah, community events. So, yeah, that's coming at the end of the month and plus one-to-one coaching, but also the kundalini, like it's.
Speaker 1:It's all just floating around at the minute it sounds like almost like an accountability um group of women. You know, it's just it's. So this is going to be virtual, I'm assuming. So anybody from any part of the world can join this call at the end of the month of october and then that's when you're going to be talking about this more of a like a monthly. Is it going to be like a monthly zoom accountability call where you guys go over EFT and all that stuff like is, is that, what that, this, what this is?
Speaker 2:yeah, yeah, so there'll be like a community aspect where we can you know I'm going to use telegram for it there's going to be, yeah, monthly themed call. You know there'll be pop-up things as well, because I know like what's a good thing is I've made so many connections so I'm like I have a guest expert at least once a quarter. Like I host like a morning mindset um club. I run it live. But again, it would just be the challenge where we're focusing on our morning habits.
Speaker 2:Um, the accountability is where it's at, because I actually spoke to some people who um joined that club at the beginning of the year and they were like when we did morning mindset club, I was on it, but when I wasn't or when you didn't host it, I didn't do it. So I'm like right, we'll get that accountability because that's what people need. Do you know what I mean? And it's like I want people to feel like they belong, like what I noticed was like a lot of my friends have changed where I've changed as a person and they go. When you're like leveling up or for your own self leveling up, you do start to lose people, you start to be misaligned with them and there's a lonely period there is Yep.
Speaker 1:You have to find a new village. You're you're going to see a shift in friends and family of who you hang out with when you grow, when you're growing out of the old version of yourself. You're going to feel misaligned, like you said, with your friends that you used to go drinking with on the weekends or go hang out with or go shopping or whatever you're going to you, you're gonna feel a little isolated because you're like I don't really wanna do those things anymore. And that's why, for me, a group like yours actually changed my life. I didn't have anybody around me, I didn't have my village to push me, to kind of give me that permission to go ahead and just do the things that I want to do. And now I have a virtual village. I have my girlfriends in Canada, all over the States, and that's why a masterclass like this or I wouldn't call it a masterclass, but this monthly call where all these women, like-minded women, are pushing each other. You want to be in a room, even if it's a virtual room, with women who are like-minded like you and can push you and give you new creative ideas. Because, let's be real, we don't know what we don't know, and every single time I go to a networking event, I learn something new. You know it's crazy, cause I'm.
Speaker 1:You know I like the saying you don't want to ever be the smartest. I learned something new. You know it's crazy, cause I'm. You know I like the saying you don't want to ever be the smartest person in the room. Well, when you're in a virtual room with all these other women, you're going to learn so much shit and you're going to be like I'm so glad I learned that and you can get takeaways from calls like this. I love that you're doing this, because there's so many women who don't have a village or they live out in the middle of nowhere, they don't have any friends, but they want to be with women like you and this is the you know. Thank God for Zoom and all this other. You know FaceTime stuff, because that's what's bringing women together and that's what's changing lives, because all this can be done virtually and you can still feel like you have that connection with that person yeah, absolutely.
Speaker 2:And it's about coming together and realizing, like, for the things I've been through this year, like women aren't my enemy, like I've been putting it, I found myself sorry in a very mixed up situation where, you know, I was being cheated on and, instead of seeing the other women as my competition and like being at war with each other, it was like no, I'm going to stand with you, sister, because you didn't know this either, and I'm going to be raw and vulnerable and tell you my side of the story and put my shit on the table, because I'm I am expecting you not to judge me and I'm going to show you that how that can look, because a lot of the time, women think that we're just going to like we've been taught to be in competition with one another and I think that goes way back to the caveman days. You know where we wanted to be. We wanted to survive, we wanted to reproduce.
Speaker 2:And it's like there's these wounds that we've got where women find it hard sometimes to be with women. And I want my whole mission is to be like I'm going to show up as my raw and authentic self. I'm going to tell you if I'm having a bad day and I'm still hosting a call, like I held two women's circles this week and on the Monday one. I said someone said yeah, you were right. And I was like not really. And they said, oh, I bet this is the last thing you want to do. And I was like it's yeah, I'm not going to pretend, but I'm going to come anyway and I'm going to show you that it's going to make me feel better by being in this space.
Speaker 2:And then I think it's so important for us to be able to like remove the shame of anything that we're going through, like even if you're you've been cheated on or you've been sacked or you've you're in debt right now because your spending's out of control or maybe you're overeating, whatever it is like I want to create this space and I will create it where it's like you get to come and you get to bring that and there is no shame, no judgment. You're, I want you to release the shame, to then feel like now we've got that big, you know element of shame out of the wardrobe, you've got some space in there to put some healthy habits in. Exactly we, we can unpack that shit, and that's what the tapping does as well, so that we're going to do like a tapping for self-love on that call to, yeah, get rid of some of those negative thought processes and start instilling some new ones. That's the bit I'm excited for. I love EFT.
Speaker 1:And I love that you guys are going to be doing on that call, because EFT, the way I like to think of it for people who really don't know what tapping is, I like to think of as our brain is like a garage and it's full of just stuff, right. So you have boxes and just shit everywhere and it's unorganized. It's just a freaking shit show in our brains. When you tap, you are organizing that shit inside of your brain, you are categorizing, you know, christmas stuff over there, halloween stuff, like you're organizing your garage, aka your head, by EFT tapping and that's what it does. You have to like it almost puts you in a meditative state a little bit, as you are calling yourself out and replacing it with something better, if that makes sense. Is that analogy? Did it make sense?
Speaker 2:because, like that's what I think of EFT tapping yeah, that is such a good way, and I think the last part is like, when you've organized all the shit that you want to get rid of, the last part is you get rid of the box. You don't keep the, the junk that you've had for nine years, you know. You literally are like right now I'm gonna tap it away and we just shut the fuck out.
Speaker 1:We don't need clothes from the 1990s in our garage anymore. You know, it's just like that old, limiting beliefs, like you don't need it. But you can replace it with something a hell of a lot better and that is the power of EFT and I love it.
Speaker 1:I love it. Can I be on your first call? I know you said at the end of the month you're going to have that discovery call where you kind of like is that like, can I, can I sign up to be on that call? And just, I just want to like, I want to watch this because I love, I love a good power session with women and, oh my gosh, I think that would be super exciting. So I'm going to, I'm going to sign up, Thanks.
Speaker 2:I'd love to have you there. I love your energy. I've always said that. Like oh, my God, I always tell you, I was like if you lived closer.
Speaker 1:We would be best friends. I feel like, yeah, you're so real and that's what I want to just bring up one more time. I love the fact that on your Instagram, it doesn't matter if you're having a shit day or the best day of your life or anything in between. You show up and you're real, raw, authentic, and that's what I love. I'm so sick and tired of very tailored Instagram posts.
Speaker 1:But there's life coaches out there. There's a ton of them, but, like I said, there's the few that are living their truth and they're practicing what they preach. And there's so many out there that can just sit back in their beautiful house next to the pool and then preach to everybody about how life great or great life is. And now you can change your life too, but you're living it. You're in the moment helping these women. So every time you overcome something, you gain more knowledge, and then you turn around and help the next girl in line. Anybody that looks at your Instagram is going to see that. Like I said, I've been following you now for what? Like six or seven months, and I love going to your stories because, like, they're uplifting. They're so uplifting and they're real that it's just that's what is so magnetic about you, so oh my gosh.
Speaker 1:Yeah, and like I said, for anybody listening and you guys want to go follow Lisa, I'm going to put all of your stuff in the show notes and, yeah, I hope people reach out to you. I need to know what's next. I know it's too soon. I don't want to start being like girl. Are you writing a book, like what are you doing, but what? What do you want to come out of this? Or or are you just kind of taking it day by day? What is next for you?
Speaker 2:Well, it's a great question because I've got no idea.
Speaker 1:Like that's okay, Cause you're in it You're living what you've always wanted to do and you're taking it slow. I just didn't know. I can see you writing a book about this experience. It's like the next eat, pray, love. You are my Elizabeth Gilbert who's going out into the world and then I feel like at one point you're you're gonna write about this. That's just what I'm feeling.
Speaker 2:It's so funny that that is something that comes up a lot, where people, when I tell like my date in, like just even my dating life, people are like you need to, you need to write a book. Like, yeah, I think you have to work on how to protect the characters, but there's definitely some juicy stories in there. I don't know I'm going. I'm going to Bali in a month. I literally fly in one month's time. That's because I've, like, rented my house out and I've kind of made myself homeless.
Speaker 1:Good for you. No, that's the responsible thing to do. That way you get that passive income.
Speaker 2:You know that's great, so I've done that. And then, yeah, I've got a one-way flight at the minute. I mean I think I need to book one to come home, because immigration are funny with that, but I don't know. Like I'm, I'm honestly like I maybe I'm going to be the example at the minute, like I turn 37 soon, like I do want a family, I do want to meet someone. I know that thing are those things I do. I won't fucking settle like I'm.
Speaker 2:I crossed my mind earlier this year when I went through that breakup where I was like, oh, could I, could I just part with this Because I knew that he wanted children and I was like you know, maybe like total transparency, can I get my children out of this relationship? And then I, but I couldn't do it, I couldn't settle in it. I'm not saying I had the choice. I want to be very clear there. But you know, I suppose I chose me. So I'm like, yeah, I want to be very clear there, but you know, I suppose I chose me. So I'm like, yeah, I want a family, I want to. I want to find a relationship that is a healthy one. I know all the red flags to look out for.
Speaker 2:I think I've collected every single one going and I'm going to go to Bali I don't know where I'll go on the way home, like I'm starting to think maybe I could dip to different places. Like I've got a six-month visa for there. I'm gonna launch the membership. I'm gonna call in more clients, um, wherever they are in the world.
Speaker 2:I find it incredible, like even as you said, like international, I'm like that is actually true, like this was a dream to have clients all over the world. And um, yeah, so I've got space for, well, I'm gonna have a space for like three to five one-to-one clients, which um gives me three to five, one to three spaces. I've got two on the books at the minute um, and and just see, like honestly, keep an open mind and an open heart. Like even with all the heartbreak that's happened like recently, it's like I won't close my heart to love. Like I've got big dreams for what I believe my life can look like and who I want to be, and I'm not there yet. So I'm just going to keep stepping into her every single day and learning, learning along the way, I don't know.
Speaker 1:Yeah and we're pretty much this, yeah, and we're pretty much the same age I've, I'm with you, I've manifested my dream career, I'm manifesting everything around me and I'm finally living. I feel like what I've always wanted to do. But here's the thing I feel like with dating Cause I don't date, but cause it's. But this is what I've noticed, and maybe you've noticed this too there's a lot of unhealed men walking around the world. And when you build yourself up and you learn and you're reading all of these self-development books because that's what we do and then you see all these walking red flags, it makes it hard to date.
Speaker 1:So I always wonder, I've always am I too healed to never be able to find love? Because I look at all these men and I'm like, ew, no. And then I like anybody that does ask me out, you know, when we start talking, we're in the talking phase. I was like what books do you read? And they're like, really read books? And I'm like, so you don't read, like self-development books, like you haven't read atomic habits, the 5 am club, like what? Like it's so hard, isn't it hard? When you've healed yourself and you're continuously healing yourself because we're always evolving, it's hard to find love. It's like we we become undateable because I don't know. That's just what I think. Am I wrong?
Speaker 2:I've been single for six years, lisa, six years yeah, but I I made the joke to my last, to my ex-boyfriend.
Speaker 2:Now I was like when we first started talking he was like we're learning each other and I said I'm so healed it hurts like I'm so healed and he went oh yeah, are you, and I think I I wasn't as healed as I thought, because I definitely let him slip through the net.
Speaker 2:Um, but that's a story for another day. And I think, though, you like not open your mind, but look at like. I look to relationships that are with, like conscious men, with men who have done some like the work, some of the work, and I just try and collect evidence there that there are men out there like that and like when I, um, if I go to events like not just in Bali, there's been some ones in the UK that I've been to where I'm like, oh for you to be attracted to this kind of event, it's just I'm not saying you they were my type, but it's just like you, there are men out there that are interested. So I, you know that what's it? Your reticular activating system to put it on your radar that they're out there, and then start calling in more evidence, like start calling it, cause I'm like I totally resonate with what you're saying. I totally resonate, but I'm like I'm, I think I have to have some hope that I'm going to have to refuse to do it.
Speaker 1:I just had a light bulb moment. It's because I'm not going to these places, like these activities and these locations that I'm interested in and these, you know, because there's a good chance I'll find a like-minded person or a like-minded guy at these places, you know, because I'm not looking for love when I'm, when I'm going to these like networking events, I'm there to network with the women and that's what's on my radar. I'm like, oh my gosh, who can I talk to? But I'm not looking at the guys. So maybe that's where I'm wrong. It's because, like, if we're all here, there's there's a good chance that that person has a, you know, like a mindset like mine. I don't know, that's just what came to my mind when you said that.
Speaker 1:Again, I just maybe maybe next week I'll be in a relationship because you just said that. But I, you know it's so funny because, like I said, like it's so hard to date, especially when you are, you know, healing or I've been in self-development now for six years. I've come a long way and it's made it hard to tolerate men especially. I feel like no offense to Texas men, but Texas men are like really mean and I'm just like you're. You're weird and gross, like you're just mean. There's's mean here.
Speaker 1:I feel like I personally feel like my soulmate is in the UK throwing it out there, I do oh, wow, like I feel like if I left this country because I lived I used to live in Japan for a couple years, um, when I was married, because we were military at the time, but um, so I do want to live abroad again. So I keep thinking like, maybe my soulmate is in London, maybe that's where I need to go, because that's another bit major city, I don't know. Throwing it out there though well, I'll tell you what.
Speaker 2:I don't think they live where I live and I hate to have a closed mind, but I like being back um because, like when did I get back? Um, not even a month ago. And like you know how it is new moon or full moon energy, and they certain people creep out the woodwork and I'm like I had recent, like this week, somebody um messaged me and I was like how have you even got through? I thought you were blocked everywhere and I'm like I mean I've given the deadest chat of my life where I'm like I haven't responded in a at all in a good way, but I look and I think what was I doing? How did I even get myself into that? Like he has not changed, which means I found that attractive at one point.
Speaker 1:I do the same thing, I look back and I was like you can see, I wasn't healed when I was dating certain people and then I tried to fight for them and I would like. I was like I can't believe, like I cried over you and I'm just like I can see which, with each man that I've dated, like what parts of me were hurt. Isn't that sad? Like my insecurities, that's crazy. No, but I'm I don't know when I I I have to eventually come to to the UK eventually, because I have friends over there and now I have you. So I was like maybe I'll just take the trip and I'll fall in love and then I'll just stay there. Absolutely it.
Speaker 2:I'm very delusional. Good, be delusional. The more delusional the better. Because I always think, like, like we have to dream massively big. Yeah, I don't think we ever quite get to it. No, we do get to our dreams. I don't want to say that, but we'll get quite close, but maybe not exactly. So dream even bloody bigger. Like don't, don't dim it. Don't be like oh, maybe I can't like. No, maybe dream it all it has to. Don't dim it, don't be like oh, maybe I can't Like. No, maybe dream it all it has to be, and I mean it's gotten us here.
Speaker 1:Think about it Like you quit your job and threw yourself into entrepreneurship. I quit my job, threw myself into entrepreneurship, and then we just like landed on our feet and things fell into place. And so I keep thinking like, okay, I've already manifested my house, even though, as you can see, it's a huge mess. I've manifested everything, but I haven't like tried to manifest love yet, cause I'm convinced that I'm not supposed to be with anybody from the States. So maybe my next thing is I'll travel to another country and manifest the love of my life. So stay tuned for that. Everybody Like see how that goes.
Speaker 2:Don't you dare come to England when I'm not here.
Speaker 1:I'll be like, I will make sure you are there. I need my girlfriends with me.
Speaker 2:So it would be so fun.
Speaker 1:Okay, Tell us how we can find you on all social media, and again I'll link it all in the show notes because everybody needs to go follow you. Like how can we find you?
Speaker 2:My main platform is Instagram. I'm not going to pretend to use TikTok, I mean, I have an account but I don't have notifications on. So main platform is Instagram. At Lisa Kelly Life Coaching, you'll never guess what I do Nice and basic title or handle. I have a website and then I do send out a weekly email, which I love because I normally spill quite a lot of tea in there, and then that's where you get to know me truly.
Speaker 1:That's the real, authentic stuff that you can't say on the internet, but you can type it up and then send it out in like a blog style email. Is that what you do?
Speaker 2:yeah, like just a weekly, yeah newsletter where I tell you what's really going on, some of the things, like, I try and show up online as much as I can with authenticity, um, but I find my email list a really safe space, which is cool, um. And then, yeah, I got my master class or, you know, the webinar, whatever you want to call it at the end of the month, which I'm so 10 days time from now, because this is the 18th of October really looking forward to that. And, yeah, if anyone does come over from listening to the show, then pop me a DM, say hi, she's super nice guys, I promise.
Speaker 2:She's super nice.
Speaker 1:So, I did the same thing. I'm pretty sure I slid into your DMS. I don't remember how it happened. No, I know we were. We're in the same uh, virtual book club, right, so we're in the same book club. And then I think I was just looking for inspirational women and I think I think that's how we connected. And I just remember thinking, like when I saw you, I was like, oh, she needs to be on the show because you were living the life that I eventually want to live, and that's why I was like I love that Cause.
Speaker 1:I was like, oh, her and I are going to get along just great, and I didn't even know we're like very simple, I thought I was way older than you.
Speaker 3:And.
Speaker 1:I'm only older by a year, but I was like, oh my gosh, but trying to get you on here with the time differences. And then, when I first talked to you, you were living your best life. I believe in Morocco is when I very first slid into your DMs, and then since then we've been trying to get this podcast episode recorded and I finally have you.
Speaker 2:Yeah, I'm so grateful to be here. Honestly, thank you for having me and I'm so glad you made it work. Every time I open your messages and we connect, I'm so grateful to be here. Like, honestly, thank you for having me and I'm so glad you made it work. Like every time I open your messages and we connect, I'm always I just feel so I don't know like light and fun and excited, so it's a bit good, because I'm fangirling over here.
Speaker 2:I put all the heart emojis and you're down like oh, it's mutual, we're in a, we go to go crush we do.
Speaker 1:Thank you so much for being on update today. Evan, we'll definitely have you back because I have a feeling like watching you expand your business and travel more in the next like 12 months is just going to be. You're going to be in a different, you're going to be up leveling and I want to have you back on here because I want to, I want to share with everybody like your up levels, cause I have a feeling you are going to go far with this and I literally, as I say that, I'm getting chills, so I need to have you back on. Oh yeah, it's happening. Okay. Thank you so much, lisa, for being on the show. Oh, it's amazing.
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