Entry Level Mom Episode 22: What Our Kid's Interests Can Teach Us with Mel Carrion

In this episode, my friend for 20 years and counting, Mel and I discuss what our kid's interests can teach us. Mel is an encouraging friend, a wonderful mother, and has a beautiful mind.

We discuss dinosaurs, and questions about dinosaurs, and our kids interests are an invitation to learn alongside them! For example, I used to think legos had nothing to teach me, but I've learned a lot about city planning. Our discussion highlights the valuable insights and growth that come from engaging with and learning from their children's interests.

We also discuss our most important resource: time, and how playing with our kids teach us presence, joy, and the gift of slowing down.

She shares the beautiful lesson of "letting go of the fear of doing it perfect the first time."

Mel has been my friend for over 20 years, and actually read the very first draft of Entry Level Mom, and encouraged me to continue this project. I am so thankful for our friendship.

Takeaways

• Pregnancy and delivery can be unexpected and come with challenges, but with the right support, they can also be positive experiences.
• Playing with kids and engaging in their interests can teach valuable lessons and create lasting memories.
• Being present and avoiding comparison are important in motherhood, allowing for a more fulfilling and joyful experience.
• Learning from and growing with kids is a continuous process that brings new perspectives and insights.

Chapters

00:00
Introduction and Background

01:24
Pregnancy and Delivery

03:05
Jaundice and Complications

04:10
Support and Affirmation

06:27
Playing with Kids

08:42
Sentimental Moments at Disneyland

10:34
Learning from Kids' Interests

12:53
Lessons from Playing with Kids

15:34
Takeaways from Motherhood

18:42
Learning and Growing with Kids

19:47
Avoiding Comparison and Focusing on What Matters

21:20
Being Present and Enjoying Each Phase

22:40
Favorite Things to Play with Kids

23:41
Learning from Kids' Play

26:58
Advice to Younger Self