The Magical Midlife Crisis

Episode 7 - Part 2: Dan Bolin's Manifestation Magic: Seek The Light, See The Magic

November 19, 2023 Megan Zdeb & Courtney Beth Anderson, Daniel Bolin Season 1 Episode 7
Episode 7 - Part 2: Dan Bolin's Manifestation Magic: Seek The Light, See The Magic
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The Magical Midlife Crisis
Episode 7 - Part 2: Dan Bolin's Manifestation Magic: Seek The Light, See The Magic
Nov 19, 2023 Season 1 Episode 7
Megan Zdeb & Courtney Beth Anderson, Daniel Bolin

In this continued conversation with our guest, Dan Bolin, the personal experiences from darkness to enlightenment carry on! **There is a audio interference right about the 33:33 timestamp** Here are some highlights in Part 2 with Daniel:

  • “Once you have a transformation, you want to give that gift to the world”
  • mindfulness and meditation's role in calming the monkey mind, shaping our days and energy, and leading us to more conscious and enlightened states of being
  • the power of consciousness & manifestation, he explains how humans manifest their realities 24/7
  • emphasizes the importance of emotional energy and belief for effective manifesting
  • personal growth doesn't stop, spotlighting the beauty & magic of life's transformations & shifts, he encourages listeners to embrace their journeys and always keep growing
  • The work he brings to others: becoming aware of triggers, what’s “behind the scenes”, where it shows up in the body, how to retrain it to learn that it’s your superpower 
  • Altered states are a beautiful thing too, no shame on that, we’re all here for experiences. …and do it in a way that’s not going to affect my life negatively.”
  • puberty is a midlife crisis, let’s support the youth out there with relating & listening
  • allowing young humans, to show us how to clean up our energy to a level of safety for nature to connect back with us

This deep conversation on The Magical Midlife Crisis, involves topics of personal transformation, energy work, manifestation, high consciousness, spirituality, and authenticity. A key part of the conversation also revolves around 'vision boards', 'meditation', and 'the fight or flight' patterns we run on a day to day basis. Dan talks about his recent launch of the 'Elevated Mind Club' retreats, a community for high-impact leaders in the space of self-discovery and enhancing one's innerwork & spirituality.

Connect with Daniel Bolin: www.facebook.com/Dubdbo


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Show Notes Transcript

In this continued conversation with our guest, Dan Bolin, the personal experiences from darkness to enlightenment carry on! **There is a audio interference right about the 33:33 timestamp** Here are some highlights in Part 2 with Daniel:

  • “Once you have a transformation, you want to give that gift to the world”
  • mindfulness and meditation's role in calming the monkey mind, shaping our days and energy, and leading us to more conscious and enlightened states of being
  • the power of consciousness & manifestation, he explains how humans manifest their realities 24/7
  • emphasizes the importance of emotional energy and belief for effective manifesting
  • personal growth doesn't stop, spotlighting the beauty & magic of life's transformations & shifts, he encourages listeners to embrace their journeys and always keep growing
  • The work he brings to others: becoming aware of triggers, what’s “behind the scenes”, where it shows up in the body, how to retrain it to learn that it’s your superpower 
  • Altered states are a beautiful thing too, no shame on that, we’re all here for experiences. …and do it in a way that’s not going to affect my life negatively.”
  • puberty is a midlife crisis, let’s support the youth out there with relating & listening
  • allowing young humans, to show us how to clean up our energy to a level of safety for nature to connect back with us

This deep conversation on The Magical Midlife Crisis, involves topics of personal transformation, energy work, manifestation, high consciousness, spirituality, and authenticity. A key part of the conversation also revolves around 'vision boards', 'meditation', and 'the fight or flight' patterns we run on a day to day basis. Dan talks about his recent launch of the 'Elevated Mind Club' retreats, a community for high-impact leaders in the space of self-discovery and enhancing one's innerwork & spirituality.

Connect with Daniel Bolin: www.facebook.com/Dubdbo


If you feel called to it - please 'follow', rate with some stars & share any episodes to spread the magic! Reviews & reflections can be shared here -> https://tinyurl.com/TheMagicalMidlifeCrisisPage

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Directly connect with Meg: @meg.itate.8itch
Directly connect with Court:
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Connect to us both: themagicalmidlifecrisis@gmail.com --- Write to us! We'd love to learn about a magical midlife crisis story of your own or someone you know!

Court and Meg here with the Magical Midlife Crisis. This podcast is intended to inspire and support you on your personal journey towards feeling more magic. Breathe, press play, expect real and raw stories and shifts. Come back with your own stories, shifts, and magical light moments through your darkness in your life. Once we pinpoint The mind to search for the magic, the magic will show up. It's just a matter of time. It could be at any moment in the middle of this magical ride we call life. Enjoying this episode. Grab your seat every Sunday. Expect magic Hey, Hey, magical friends. This is court. So this episode picks up in the middle of the conversation. This is part two with our friend Daniel Bolan. And the first part, if you haven't listened to yet, I suggest that you backtrack just a tiny bit tune into that because it was awesome and it continues on to be awesome. So it's kind of nice to tie it all together. So I think, I don't know, 15 minutes or so into this, we tried to say goodbye and the energy just. It didn't allow for that. So we can send you a non for. About another 30 minutes or so I want to say that the feedback and reflections that we're getting from our magical friends and family is really heartwarming. I Know that Meg and my journey is. Not relatable to everyone. So, and we're learning that we're not supposed to be it's it's we are designed to not all be for each other. I also want to give a shout out to my friend, Valerie. She sent me a message that just really makes. It makes it clear that we're, we're not alone as much as we think we are. And so she said to us, I just got caught up on all the episodes of your podcast and I love it. It is so good. Thank you and Meg and your two guests so far for being so open and real. It is very raw. And relatable, awesome job. And I'm a permanent van. So obviously that is positive confirmation from our external sources, which we are learning more and more that we do not require too. No, that what we're doing is as it's supposed to be, but we absolutely appreciate it. We're all in this together. So if you feel compelled to share your reflections in a review, I'm going to have a link in our show notes that you can share with us, what you think, what you want to hear more of, what speaks to you. And. The power of sharing is really just emitting a positive signal. Of vibration frequency. Into. The world incident universe. To let anyone. No, that we're not alone in this. And. If we want to have. Or see, or feel more magic on the other side of our dark moments, we need to. Connect with other people through these types of messages. So we are so incredibly appreciative. And grateful for each of you. Thank you so much for tuning in. We know your time is valuable and we're so. Grateful to adds any value that you see. So please enjoy this part to our conversation with Daniel Bolan, as much as we have.

Dan Bolin:

And I'm so. Grateful to be in this energy because I know exactly what you're talking about when you said that we're uplifting each other I literally feel it. My heart is pumping with gratitude right now. It is just pumping. I want to touch on that The graduation of life is definitely one of the great ways to really Appreciate every day that every night we we go to that same place and we don't call it death every night But we don't, when we wake up, we don't remember that place. And it's just like the big sleep, but we don't invest, most don't investigate it. They don't like learn about what offerings are in that, in that sleep every night, which there is so many gifts to how our waking life, much of that is under illusion under a dream. And we learned to be more impeccable with our thoughts or our words to ourselves than, than the, how we create. magically transforms. And I know that you guys have had those transformations or you would be creating this podcast. So you want to share that once you have a transformation, you want to give that gift to the world. And when you have that, that death that speaks to you of your own mortality, whether it's a sibling or a parent, when you finally have to have that wake up moment with yourself, like, Hey, okay, wait a second. I'm going to die. That's legit. Like my parents now gone. My dad's gone. He's, I'm, and then when you shift that to wait a second, I know energy can never be destroyed. So I was taught to fear that and put this label of this is my, my cancer or my diabetes, my death. We're taught to put a bullshit label on it. And so, but it is a great moment for us because it helps us To break the illusion of the hypnosis we're under by these words of death of what, you know, okay, wait, every day. I'm not really appreciating this. I'm not really putting this to the, like, I'm being so wasteful. And so now I'm more motivated to, to do that stretch or that exercise or to make sure I'm putting in the better foods and the better thoughts. Why? Because I want to be at my best to have the best days, to have moments like we're having right now, to be, you know, in the past I'd be too groggy or afraid. I'd have to, oh, I better have a drink to loosen up, or I better do this, I better do that. Or even be too afraid, like, what do they want? Like, I don't want to do a podcast with them. Oh, or get, get my ego in the way. Well, what are they going to give me? I, I should get paid or, you know, whatever nonsense. The stories that we keep going with in our heads versus doing what? Saying that's hilarious. I can't believe my mind would be like not just honored and super excited Like I should just be more curious. Like hey, what why would you want me on like instead of why wouldn't you why would you? Like hey, could you tell me as I'm I'm just as curious as you like, why would you want me on your show? I would love to know anything. I'm just so glad the universe did connect you and Meg for the reason that it did, because that reason is manifesting right this very moment. Yeah. Have you worked with manifest manifestation, like manifesting anything in your life? Massively. Everything's a manifestation. Well, yeah. Well, right. But like an intentional, I guess. Right, right, right. Manifestation. Like, cause I never really knew what manifesting was. I would hear about manifestos and all those types of stuff. I always had a negative connotation of it, you know, cause I would hear about, oh yeah, what, and I'm like, I never really knew what manifesting was. And I didn't realize that I manifested the home that I have, my relationship, like my whole life that I didn't realize. Vision board is definitely powerful for that. I encourage doing vision board for sure. And yes, I've done a lot of work with manifesting. When I first saw the secret, I was disappointed because I'm like, when are they going to tell me the secret? Because I already lived my whole life with that attitude. So I was always a master manifester without really knowing what it was. There wasn't those labels back then, but the bigger secret is, is we're manifesting 24 seven. It's just your strongest energy, emotional energy, and your belief is what's going to be manifested. So if you keep going to those worries, this isn't going to work out. This isn't going to work out. Well, you're going to manifest that you're always manifesting. What you're being your strongest being that you're being emotional. So when you do vision work to make manifesting more powerful, the ancients, they all talk the same thing is that they would get into the. Their circle to do the prayer work, the vision work, and they wouldn't like pray for rain, they would pray, they would see the party celebrating the harvest and enjoying it and being in that energy where it already been created. If you're sitting there praying for rain, I want rain, I want rain. Well, that's a, uh, it's actually lack because you're not in the knowing that you create everything and you're saying, I want this, I want this. And so that tells the universe there's a void, whereas true manifesting, you'll say, of course, it's going to rain and you, you'd be done planting that seed. You wouldn't keep like putting all this energy into the lack of it. I want this. I want it. I want it. I want it. And have this. energy tantrum. And that's another thing of manifesting is a big key to manifesting is a lot of times if we don't clear space in the energy, it doesn't create a void for the new energy to come in. So the biggest key to doing great manifesting and energy work is to work on simple things. And so I got a book called energy square. And it gives you, I don't know if it's 9 or 12 energy experiments that you do. And it shows you how you manipulate the field on a day by day basis with these energy experiments. And so... When you start doing that, you, you know, you're bending reality that you influence it, but that's also what Einstein taught me with the double split experiment, that the universe, um, the energy, the, the experiment is affected by the observer. And so the double split experiment showed that the experiment, when they shot these lights. Uh, this energy through the single split, it would have a single line on the other side, and then when they did a double split, it should have had a double split on the other side, but it had a wave form, and then they moved it and, and moved it in, and it did get the double split. But what that experiment ultimately showed was that the universe was conscious of when it was being observed. And to me that, that shifted everything. That, that gave me, brought me to that kind of, when I had those out of body experiences where I went to the oneness where everything was connected as one. It's all energy. So I don't know if that concept kind of threw you off or not, or if you have questions on that. But I'd love, I'd love to know what, what your thoughts are. We're creating all of this. And again, it can shift so fast. Like, it's like, I believe there's multiple realities occurring and shifting and shifting and shifting. And that's what the shift happens. And you can see it day by day, especially if you start practicing some of this energy stuff, which you guys have Dr. Joe stuff, you're doing meditation, you're learning how to calm the monkey mind and the chatter. And see how that affects your day and your energy and what you have to, you know, when, when you're constantly being put in fight or flight, you, you can't digest food in a way to make the right serotonin to be happy in the gut. So it's impossible. If you're continually in survival mode and fight or flight, you cannot produce enough serotonin to be happy. You're just too stressed out. There's too much cortisol. You're not gonna get the sleep. You're not gonna get the rest and digest. And so you're just going to be in breakdown mode. So the big shift does happen when you can learn how to do the breath work, the meditation, calm the body, get the better sleep. And then everything starts having an upward spiral. So that's kind of in a nutshell, what I bring to the table on energy work is really what getting aware of what's triggering you. Some of the things behind the scene where where it shows up in your body what to do with it How to retrain it to know that that's your superpower Like anything that irks you is actually your superpower because there's a polarity to that There's the exact opposite and so whatever is really irking you if you can start laughing at that and say, okay What's the exact opposite because that's technically what you want The opposite of pain. You want, you want usually whatever's irking you the most is the lesson or something that you can let go of or shift, but it does take to stop being triggered or understanding. Oh, hey, I'm, I'm triggered and laughing about it. Getting that conscious awareness, that shift. And, and just making it, it's like working out, I'm not gonna be perfect, I'm gonna mess up, I'm gonna get super triggered again, I may make an ass of myself, it may be hilarious, I may get the laugh, but my old self wouldn't laugh, my old self would ruin friendships, have grudges, you know, hide out, all kinds of weird stuff, but now, I get to share it and help other people have transformations that are so powerful, it can make me cry, because, It's, it's that it's multiplied because we both raised their energy and that energy was multiplied in a way like I'm doing this out of the kindness of my heart and you guys are doing this out of the kindness of your heart. And in that space. That is the ultimate gift of freedom of servitude of go giving. And so in that space we were definitely one, and our power is multiple. I know this. So thank you for that. Thank you. Thank you. Really. I have a lot. I've connected some dots that you talked about to help anyone else, but I didn't know I was living in that fight or flight realm until I started doing new things. And making that shift happen little by little, but I did take a year ago, the six month higher consciousness course. And the first module was all about the double slit theory. And that blew my mind, like, like nothing else. I tried showing you when we were in, oh, you're Peter Sage course, Minnesota. When I tried showing you that video, but we were. We were, we were, we were feeling pretty good. Yeah. We were, we were in a different mindset, not in the receiving mode. We were in the party mode, but all three states are beautiful too. So I don't want to shame on that. We're all here for experiences, right? Yeah. Right. So I don't want to shame that it's just, we use those things for the wrong things sometimes. And that's where these conversations are like, Hey, it's great. I'd love to, you know. Get celebrate world. Uh, but I, I love to do in a way that's not going to affect my life negatively. Yes. Yes. Yeah. Yeah. Oh, so good, Dan. This is just really fabulous. Yeah. That's another thing I'm going to be bringing to the table in the future as well. I'll be doing the elevated mind club retreats. Ooh, yeah. Uh, inner work and we'll have different things that can help. It's kind of like Dr. Joe, what he does. He has a Like a month long online course you got to do before you could do his one week in person. Have you to look at his ready. Sorry. What was that? Dr. Joe has an online course and you guys definitely should do it. I'm taking it right now. Oh, excellent. Yes. So that will get you invited to do his is week long But when you get connected to all the machines you get this like they know when you're gonna have a breakthrough they know Okay. Hey, whatever you're doing right now feel that know that they can teach you how to be a master meditator to do all these Things that take people lifetimes to achieve so i'm really excited about that a a good friend of mine His sister marissa. She's with hay house Yeah. Um, she used to work with like Oprah and all these other high end people, uh, and she's with Hey House Radio. She has a book on atonement. Her name's Spirits. So she, she used to work out of California, but now she's here in Vegas. So I may be connecting with her in the future. So who knows, but, uh, I, I love where this is going, the little thread of connection that's been, um, re reconnected today and, and show me how the, the light and the energy and the spirit works. So. I just want to humbly thank you guys so much, uh, for offering me this space today and opening it up. I do feel like a great connection has occurred. I'm so excited to follow you and all the work that you're doing in this world, really. Yeah, so with Elevated Minds, we'll be creating retreats and we'll be, like, meeting up in amazing places where you're outside of your energy, but you're in such a amazing beauty and energy where this shifts. Where we can play with this types of stuff and bring leaders together and so you guys will definitely get advice to those and We're there to stuff that we're sharing. So now that I know that you're on the inner mind game Yeah, we're addicted to growing. We are just yeah addicted. Yeah to growing learning contributing Deprogramming. Well, the opposite of that is death. So I'm glad that you're in it. We're in it. We're in it till we're Not human anymore. And we're floating spirits. Amazing. All right. You guys have great energy. That is for sure. I can feel that. You do too. This has been so elevating. Yeah. I'm so stoked to be a part of your future elevated mind club. That's such a cool name. It's so right on. Well, thank you. When we roll out the podcast, you guys will definitely be getting an invite. Awesome. Thank you so much. Deep, deep gratitude for you. Yes. Thank you for accepting my invite and coming on here and just sharing all your amazing knowledge and your story. And it was a great honor and surprise that you invited me again. I was, I'm still, I would love for you to share like what, like, I'm like, she, why is she inviting me this, you know, you knew I am like, what's, what's this invite about? You know, I just, every time I would see you just outside meditating and I used to never really relate and never resonated with any of that. Obviously we were friends on social media, but just the more I started evolving and seeing your posts and stuff, I was so intrigued and just like drawn to your energy through Facebook and I reached out and we've commented. We've had small interactions on Facebook and stuff all the time. You're always having enlightened stuff So that's why I connect you with you because I can tell You're on the path and the stuff that you share is is the deeper inner work that most are busy hiding and and not acknowledging and and so You're you're it's it's very obvious your growth And how serious that you take it and, and how much work you have done and the success you're having with it, it does show with your glow. Uh, I know that's a great thing about Facebook and it gives us the memories and we can look back and you can say, wow, like I was trying so hard, like 10 years ago, right here in this picture. And because I was still like over medicating with alcohol. Even though like my workout game was through the roof and I was eating, eating like, like a champ, like I just poisoned it right here with my lack of belief and my need to escape my life, like, and then to see like, wow, like without effort, how, like how much easier my life is now and how much, how much more like blissful moments I can have, whereas, you know, a young man, I missed 99 percent of blissful moments because until I had a child and started like seeing the beauty of, you know, A garden, a beauty of all these simple little things like an interaction with a, you know, a dragonfly or interaction, you know, from a child's mind, a child's eye. And even now if, you know, when the kids get older and they go through the, the puberty, that was a huge indicator. Like, wait a second, this is their first midlife crisis. We're all going through this and we don't give these kids enough credit to say, Hey, guess what? We've been there. We didn't really have the support, but we want you to know that we get that you are losing your foothold on who you were and who you might be, and there's all these questions, and guess what, because we can relate, because that's all happening to us now. Like, I put all this effort into becoming this thing, and now I was this thing for so long, and I realized there was, I didn't really want to be that thing, or that thing is just a thing. So what? Now what? You know, a lot of people are left with like, well, now what? And then they look crazy like Jim Carrey because he's just being free himself, but he was already being free himself. So now it's at like such a level that. People can't even like contemplate it unless you're on the path and you're like, okay, wait, I get that. Like, it's funny that you brought up Jim Carrey. There was, he was on an award show or something and he like blew the lady away. She didn't even know how to respond. She was like, oh, you're happy to be here. He goes, well, I'm not actually physically here or whatever. He started just talking about like spirituality and she was just like not expecting it at all. He is so high vibe and higher consciousness. It is unbelievable. He's like, he's a manifesting manifester, like, yeah, he's got some great manifesting stories about the 10 million check that he carried around manifested. Yeah. So many good that came out of Hollywood. Yes. Yeah, I love his work. He he is definitely him and Dr. Joe, like couple together. So well, you got like, Dr. Joe giving you the science of why this is legit. And then you got Jim giving you the funny of why this is legit. Yeah. And they meet up kind of in, in the same realm of manifesting and creating. Jim, one of Jim's quotes that I love is that I wish everyone can get rich and famous so that they would finally know that's not where it's at and they can begin to live. Yes. Yeah. Money does not give you happiness. Or fame of being somewhere or something that you, you have to create who you are. That's the energy of life as we create it. Creators of our own reality. Correct. Yep. We are the creators. I love this co creation right here. Yeah. I am so, like, I am, I'm in tears. Like, really. This is just so freaking beautiful. That is a great compliment. That is such a, is that, how's that energy feeling for you? Is it free? Oh yeah. Those joyous? Yeah, you talked about dragonflies and I just, I just, it's streaming down my face. Like, yeah, it's about, it's about just seeing the beauty in life. Yeah, my daughter taught me some stuff about the being like a bird whisperer and the insect whisperer to like show the consciousness of a dragonfly to trust us to let her hand be touching it. So the camera would focus and to have that moment of all our three energies coming together. Like, wait a second. Like that has a tiny brain, but it has this higher consciousness that we're not going to hurt it. It feels your energy. It knows that it's safe. Yes, but we had to learn it was safe. We had to get our energy cleaned up and get it safe. Right. So my daughter had that purity. I didn't. She was the bridge in between to show me like, Hey, this is possible. I can walk right up to this. This hummingbird and pet it, I can walk up to this dove and pet it like I couldn't, right. And then all of a sudden, through all these, you know, these changes, we go camping and this giant, most beautiful moth lands on my butt and is on my butt for a half an hour while I'm making my camp and is like my best friend and I'm like, what is this about? Like, is this really happening? And sure it was, you know, and It might have had its own reasons, like, hey, it was nighttime, it might get eaten by some other animals, and it knew I was safe, who knows, with deeper consciousness, but I know it was a deeper connection that until I freed my mind and my energy, I wasn't capable of, and I didn't even jump into one of my most enlightening moments was with my daughter, and a light worker, she was the one to say, hey, just Focus on your daughter. So show and teach you everything you didn't know. And within a month and a half of being told that it happened in Gilbert, Arizona, we're at the house and my daughter, she's a very different girl. She, she's a born, we didn't know this until she was like in kindergarten, but she's more than 50 percent death at birth, but we didn't know, they just said she wasn't passing her tests. And so she was, had way different influences, way into books and whatnot, but. So one, one day I'm out doing the weeding and just being in the yard, enjoying my time. And my daughter comes out and she wants to go on a bike ride. And I said, sure, no problem. You know, we, we did this routine with the bike and through the neighborhood. It was the same routine go safely into the middle of the neighborhood and the roads are 25 miles an hour. And we, you know, we always went the same exact way and enjoyed bike rides. I'd jog behind her, teach her how to ride and make sure she's safe. And, uh, So, I'm like, hey, let me finish up, and I noticed a helicopter was flying above me, and the reason why I noticed it, because it was new technology. It was silent. I was like, wow, you know, this is, um, about ten years ago. And this helicopter was silent, and it was a filming helicopter, and it was just hovering above the house. So I knew something was going on, on the big streets by my house, because the helicopter was hovering. And so my daughter got her bike and we went on the ride and so things were different on the first turn out when we're going down the neighborhood she wants to make this turn that we never made she's like I want to go this way dad I'm like no we don't go that way we go this way and she's insistent and so I for the first time ever I let her budge and figure I could just turn her back into the middle neighborhood on the next turn but she wasn't having that. And there's only a couple more opportunities to do that. We go to the main road, which is 45 miles an hour. It's a sidewalk, a bike lane, and cars going 45 miles an hour. And she's just learning how to ride her bike. I don't want her in that environment ever, not even, even as a good bike rider. I don't want her there ever, even with me there. I don't want her there. So anyways, we, we get to that situation. And so I'm like, Hey, come on, we're going to go this way. And she is just not having it. Like, no matter what I say. I'm like, okay, hey, you're never to come over here by yourself, but today we can cross this road when it's safe. And there's a giant park over there that we've never been to. And it'll be super fun. She's like, Nope, I don't want to do that. I want to go this way. And it's along the 45 mile an hour road, which I don't want to teach her is okay to do and I don't want to do it. But she's a very persistent child. And so I'm like, fine. And there's the shopping centers are huge. So there, you know, like a quarter mile, one way in a quarter mile, that one way. And it's a big L and there's, you know, like a hundred shops and we have like the discount shops and the fast food and all that stuff in this giant shopping centers on the corner. And so it's like, um, a quarter mile before we get to that. And then that's another quarter mile and there's light, the main intersection. And at this point I can see what's happening is. There's a fatal car accident that's about an, uh, a 16th of the mile beyond Path to Light from us. And they got the rope, roping off the street, you know, with the caution tape and all that stuff, and they are gonna do the full investigation because it's a fatality. So I definitely don't want to go over there. And so as soon as we get to the corner of the shopping center, I'm like, hey, let's go to the 99 cent store. We'll get you a bunch of treats for your lunch. She's not having that bribe. So, like, I, I'm way against fast food at this point in my life, and, but I know that, you know, her mom gives it to her, so I want to bribe her with that, like, hey, let's go get this fast food, and she's like, no, don't want that. I break down to my last level of defense on not going over by this car accident, because she still wants to go over to this car accident. And I'm like, hey, we can just, we can go over here and get ice cream. And she hardline know that, and at that point I knew there's nothing I could say or do. That, you know, without being like damaging to my child and say, we're not going there because I said, so, so I just bowed down to it and we went across the road one way and across the road the other way, which was kind of odd. She kind of went to the far side of the whole situation. And puts her bike down. She stops and puts her bike down and turns towards the fatal car accident. And we're on the side of the road. And in my mind, I'm like, I knew what happened when my dad told me about religion, how it messed with my mind and what it did to me. So I'm kind of like reeling, like, I don't want to do this to my daughter. I don't want to, I want her to have a better self discovery than I did. Cause it was really damaging for me. So I had this fear state, but my daughter asked me something and I can't remember what she asked me with, cause I was. In that triggered fear state of what do I say? What do I say about this? Like, I don't want to give her the dogma. I don't want to give her the limiting beliefs, but the best I could come up with at the time without even listening to understand her question, just babbling some crap off to her was, well, you know, sweetheart, um, sometimes we don't go home and sometimes we, we go to another place and some people call that heaven. And, um, so. I look on her face like she's totally calm, totally chill, like no distraughtness whatsoever. I mean, this is a fatal serious car accident. It doesn't look pretty and she looks at me totally calm. She goes, I know dad. I'm like, what do you mean? You know, she's like, well, I see the light. And I was like, um, yeah. What do you mean? You see the light? And now she, she takes a different stance towards me. Like I'm like messing with her, like. He was like, it's just like the light that comes out your head and your eyes. And so at that point, of course, sweetheart, yeah, that light. But I didn't make fun of the line. I was taught to make fun of them. I was limited. You can see no light. I heard people talk about splitter to her. I had first iPhone four. So I took it out, and I took a picture. I first light I saw when I meditated, when I first saw color, after 10 years of trying to have a meditation, was her iPhone 4 picture. The sun was above us, but down the side, across the driver's side of that whole car, a pair stood up. At the Celestine Prophecies that were two miles. Events that happened to me because my daughter's like, I see the light. To this that story, all my hair stands up. It was my waking moment. Of course, I know that pulled my body. I was the light that surrounded me in the shower. I was the light of the Holy Spirit. Cosmic self taught to be afraid of it doesn't exist. And the audio changed. Like, I don't know what, something happened, something changed in the audio. And I don't know if it's cosmic or what, but. Like, what? That's absolutely amazing. So It's my own daughter. I've had some good people reach out to tell, to share stories. They made me know how to shine on and we're all connected by this energy. We're all connected. We all, we are all one. It's, wow, your daughter. Wow. Yeah. How old is she now? She's 18. Oh! Oh, cool. Is she, is she like, deeper spiritually now, or like, like, what's her life like now? Oh, the same thing as indoctrination. I got us all, took her out of that. She stopped seeing the light, my light came. So, the same things that make us often close off our mind from our society, from not feeling worth being shown, made fun of, you name it, we close all that stuff off. She still has all the gifts inside of her, and she's been very fortunate. She got to do Montessori school in high school. In high school, she got to go in Phoenix. She got to go to the number one school for, for arts. So it's a high school. It's only, it's actually a junior high and high school. So seventh grade all the way through high school, it's only the richest neighborhoods in Phoenix. And so that school was absolutely great for those rich kids. And so she Well, there's some creating there. Yeah, and she's got accepted into ASU for, um, Ooh, I'm not gonna say it right. It's a special field of engineering, so. Cool. Wow. So cool. What a moment of life. What a crack. Yeah, a cracking open. Yes, and so now we get to have more here and now moments. The real here and now moments, like, There's little tiny gifts all over the place when we, the more and the more the dots connect, the more that you start seeing the synchronicity, you start having those blissful moments that you know are, the universe has got your back so good that you can't deny it, that you're gonna giggle like an insane maniac and people are like, what got into her? Because her joy is through the roof. She is just the happiest person there. Her giggle is, is making my energy just feel at, at peace. And that is something that when you see that in other people, you know it's authentic. And people, the right people do want a piece of it and will multiply it with you. Incredible, Dan. Bottle is up. Bottle is up. Just shower in it and drink it and share it is. Yeah, when you multiply it, there's an abundance for everybody, so you don't have to worry about the lack mindset when you multiply your energy. I can't wait to share this episode with everyone. I know, I know. I can't wait to listen to it. I know it's going to be on my repeat every morning. I can't wait to get more involved in the things that you're doing and explore that and share, share everything that you're doing. It's incredible. We're better together. So the collaborations is what I'm super excited about. We can accelerate all this with that multiplication factor of being our authentic selves. Giving ourselves permission to go for the bigger things they have, do something for the pure fun of it. Like, when did we lose that permission? To overjudge ourselves, like we're not even supposed to judge, but we're overjudging ourselves. So I love when the cat comes in, the cat down the road comes in, it's always a good sign. Oh, my cat's taught me so much about life. It's amazing. Yeah, the cat and the dog taught me so much about like the stretching and the yoga, the deep breath, shaking it off, staying in balance, protecting your energy. Like they'll protect their energy. They don't have, they won't tell you no more than once. They'll, they'll, they'll let you know. Yeah. Their communication's on point when it comes to messing around. They're so themselves, not pretending to be anybody else but them. Yep. So cool. I love it. I love it too. Well, definitely let me know how I can, uh, find the episode and looking forward to seeing how this grows. We'll share it with you and. Thank you. Another a billion abundance times. Like I just, I can't stop saying thank you. Thank you, Dan. I am just grateful for this moment and so much gratitude for you taking time out of your day to share your amazing life's journey. Well, it was not taking time out of my day. It put a life into my life. So thank you for the opportunity. I love it. I love learning from you and it's going to happen more and more. So yes, we're going to, we're going to have a episode two. It's going to happen. So thank you again. Then we'll be celebrating with the higher, higher minded retreats when we're celebrating the, Oh, Hey, we're on the third annual celebration of the podcast. So I hope you get that from Dr. Joe, it's all about, um, creating that in the mind and then the subconscious mind will make it a reality. So fire and rewire, baby. Yeah. When you do the vision work, be very specific. The deeper you go, the better the result that you be self aware and know the intention and be as specific as possible. Feel it from all the different angles. To celebrate like, you know, you don't have to see yourself going across the stage of like getting your 250k subscribers, but you might be in the celebratory like, hey, you know what? We did it. Let's, let's book a, a two day retreat and go to the beach and just like really bask in this, do nothing and, and take notes. And, and that's the vision work that makes it come together like so easy. To to because it will get tough and when it does get tough, you want to be able to go back to that energy of that specific created. Why the outcome. So when you have the end in mind, that is going to be super powerful to always show up at your 100 percent best self in those hard moments, you'll be able to take the five deep breaths and say, my why is because this is how I get to change the world. And put your own voice behind that. And that's going to be so powerful. Like, I really love that, uh, this was so effortless. It really was. So thank you for that. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Do you know how much time we put in? Um, I think we'll have to check because I know we're having some. Yeah, I think it's hour and a half ish so might be like two episodes and be cool to like do part one part two, I don't know, it's going to be just awesome however it is. Yeah. Well, one thing I recognize is when, when you're having fun, it seems like it was only like 20 minutes. No, I really, I'm not sure. We'll have to see. Yeah. I've had to pee the whole time and I just was like, I'm not taking the headphone out and I'm not getting up. I'm just sitting here and I'll be fine. All right. We got the bloopers. Oh man. All right, Dan, please. Let's stay in touch. Yes. It's happening. It's happening. It's happening. It's happening. And yeah, if you have any questions or if you want to throw anything past me, um, the messenger's great cause you can do a voice memo. So it's like more authentic, more vibrations put through there. So I'm, I'm open to any questions cause we learn better, faster together. We're on the similar path. I'm creating a podcast. I'm creating a tribe. I'm creating this, you know, community. And I feel that you guys definitely are well on your way to doing that. So. Feel free to throw anything at me. Don't hesitate and just, you know, know that there's no sorries in that. Just any time, even if it's like 3 in the morning, you can throw stuff to that because I don't have the notifications on. Okay, cool. It's just a great way to accelerate the communication in an authentic way that isn't like... You're fumbling to figure out the right words. No, just do a quick voice memo and we will grow way faster together. So consider ourselves peers and mentors to each other. We both have like 5 percent more on any given part of this creating a podcast community journey, and we're both going to have our unique talents and specialties. And so if you say, Oh, I'm having a hard time with this or Hey. You know what? We're always fumbling with this. Do you have a different solution? Things like that is really gonna be fun and allow us to grow faster. And if people want to become your peer, where can they, where can they connect with you? Right now, you can connect with me on Facebook or Instagram. I, I really don't take on, um, many high level clients anymore. I only have a couple of clients. Really particular with my time now. And so like, if I was to charge someone, it would be rude for them to hear the amount that I would want to charge. They're like, really that much? I'm like, yeah, I don't want to give up my time to nobody. So, but I, I do, uh, we're going to be creating the elevated mind club. We just launched it about two weeks ago. So that I'll, I'll get you guys into the chat with that, because that's going to be for leaders to come together and share. This higher level mindset stuff to bring to out to our tribes So that's going to be the the first level because that's really what I want to do. I love working with other leaders I'm a better cheerleader Of others because i'm an energy feeler. And so when you try to feel your own energy You really that push and pull and the blocks get really messed up. So my talent is in helping other people so That's where you'll be seeing me grow is you can always hit me up on Facebook or, um, Instagram, but the elevated mind club is where you'll start seeing it grow. Amazing. Thanks for asking. All right. Amazing. Do we have to end this? I know I have to pee, but I can't, you know, in the future you could be hardcore like that, the NASA crazies, and you can have your pee diaper on so you don't ever have to worry about it. You can just go mid podcast. My goal is to never have to wear diapers, Dan. Yeah. I'm going to live as a healthy 100 year old and never have to wear diapers. I'm gonna like, live like Mark Hyman. If you keep holding it through every podcast, you could develop problems. Yeah, that's true. It's true. We're, we're gonna, maybe we'll, we'll have our travel potty. Or something. Next time I'll have my own headphones. We won't be sharing one. Yeah, there we go. The podcast will come from the bathroom. You'll be safe. Oh, that's great. Yeah, we can come up with all solutions from all the different parts in our, in our inner self. Really good acoustics in there. Okay, Dan, thank you so, so, so, so much. Thank you. And let's raise the vibration of the earth together as peers and mentors and leaders and cheerleaders and all the things. Let's do it. So meaningful. Thank you. We'll keep sharing what's working for sure. Awesome. All right. Thank you guys. Very soon. Thank you. All right.

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