EP 2: YOU Deserve More! Stop Accepting What Is Given And Receive What You Deserve.

Are you ready to unleash your potential and embrace your deepest desires?

I, Cheron Hamner, am here to help you break free from limiting beliefs and rewrite your narrative. In this episode I'm challenging you to confront the programming ingrained in you since childhood. We're going to write down those mental barriers holding you back, and in their place, place positive affirmations. Picture yourself living the reality you've always wished for. Feel it, embrace it and know that you have the power to make it happen.

In this journey it's crucial you set clear goals and surround yourself with the right support system. As we all know, everyone is busy, and your goals may not always be prioritized by others, so staying consistent and persistent when you reach out for help is a must.  Keep dreaming, pushing, and believing, because you're worthy of the best. 

It's time to show the world what you're capable of!

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Speaker 1: 0:02

You are listening to. This Is Some Crazy Shit. With Sharon Hamner. This podcast is for you if you are tired of living day to day feeling unfulfilled, you are frustrated and you are doing too much with no return. This is for you if you are ready to take charge of your life, if you are ready to let go of managing other people's insecurities and their expectations and live life your way. Here we have dope conversations about saving yourself, so we can get off these street corners and stop waiting for Captain Saviour Ho. You ready? Let's go, because this is some crazy shit. So you know how computers have an operating system. We, as human beings, have an operating system that has been programmed by the people who raised us Our parents, grandparents, teachers, mentors and we really need to be careful at who we are allowing to speak to our children.

Speaker 1: 1:15

And I remember a time when I was in a Girl Scouts and we were on a field trip at this convention center and on the field trip there were some vendors in the convention center selling their goods and we were going by each of the shops and there was one who had tons of fur coats and I was about eight years old and I just found myself going through the racks of coats and touching them and feeling them, and they felt so good and amazing. And I turned to my scout leader and I told her I said you know, if my dad was here, he would buy me one of these. And immediately she shut that down. She's like, oh no, he wouldn't. And I was like, yes, he would. If my dad, if my father was here, he would definitely, he would buy me this coat right here because I like it. And so she was adamant no, he wouldn't. She just shut me down. And that really hurt me. I mean, just think about it. I was eight years old when it happened and I remember that moment to this day as like I can see everything happening in my head right now, and there are so many moments of dreams being deferred because somebody told me that it was not possible for me.

Speaker 1: 3:01

And I want to tell you that it is possible for you, that you deserve more and you don't have to accept that which is given. And just because somebody told you that and I just want to say that a lot of times the caregivers, they really just do that because they want to keep us safe and they've seen some things that we didn't see growing up, and they really, really, really wanted to protect us, and that's okay. However, we got to let that shit go and get back to what program that we want for our lives and whatever that more is for you. I'm here to tell you you deserve it. You deserve to have that car that you want to drive. You deserve to have that job that you want to have. You deserve to have that business that you want to open. You deserve everything that you want. If you thought about it, that means that it's yours. That means that it's yours, and all we got to do is believe and ask for it.

Speaker 1: 4:40

A lot of times, like I've heard in Christianity that they say this thing where oh, if it's God's will, then you can have it. Well, if God gave me the idea in the dream or gave you the idea in the dream, then that means that you have the assignment of making that thing happen and that it is possible for you. So we have to have the ownership of it, because God wants to give us the desires of our heart and he also wants to have his people looking good Like. I am not into this poor conception of what God wants you to look like and waiting for a heaven to get all of your rewards. I don't know about y'all, but I want my heaven here on earth, and if it's written down that we can have heaven on earth, then I believe that it's possible. But we have to convince ourselves that it is possible and that we don't have to wait for our pie in the sky and buy and buy that we can have more right here. And I want to challenge you to look at the programming that you've been running on and see what needs to be eliminated out of your life of limitation and lack. Really, go and write down a list of the things that you were told that you can have it because you're black, you can have it because you're a woman, you can have it because you're short, you're tall, whatever it is. Go back, write those things down and then I want you to shift that and change that into a positive mantra that supports the things that you want to do. So you are qualified, because you have that idea in your mind, to get everything that you want and you deserve it. So if nobody ever told you that you deserve it, I'm here to tell you that you do deserve it and all of your dreams matter. Every single one of them is possible if you just believe. And believing that you can have it is the first step.

Speaker 1: 7:51

When I was in Harris School, my owner, the instructor, mr Dudley he would always say if you can look up, you can get up. If you can look up, you can get up. And if you can look up, you can get up. But I didn't know what that meant for a long time, and what I know that what it means today is that you really need to see it. You really need to see what is possible and when you see it, that creates a vision. The next step when you see it, get the feeling and the vibe of you being in those moments with the thing that you want. Those two together will make you unstoppable. When you have a vision and when you can feel it, you get on the vibration of you already having it. You can't help. But to get it in your life you don't need to justify to anybody.

Speaker 1: 9:09

I'm so tired of y'all explaining yourself to people who don't even get you. A lot of them. They don't even like you. They don't want you to have anything. They don't. They were just waiting for you to fall. Stop talking to some of these people and keep something sacred to yourself and have the conversations that you need with somebody who has already done what you are wanting to accomplish.

Speaker 1: 9:51

A lot of times, we can get frustrated because we ask somebody for help. We reached out to them. They didn't call us back, but these people are busy. I want to encourage you to follow up with the people who you reached out to. If they offer to help you, more than likely they are being sincere about helping you to help you hit your goal. Just be consistent with reaching out, because you're not at the top of their mind. Like I said, everybody has a lot going on. Many people, especially, have a lot going on and they have their own agendas. Just like you have your agenda and you're going to stay focused on your agenda and get things done. It's all about getting things done, because you deserve the best and you can have the best. Whatever the best is for you, keep going, keep dreaming, keep pushing, keep believing.