The Feeding Couch
I am a midwife and Lactation Consultant and over the years of working with many families I’ve seen such a variety of feeding journeys and I can tell you that not one of them is the same.
In our worId of perfect portrals of postpartum on social media I feel its time to shine a light on the real stories, raw, uncensored, challenging, triumphant and just plain real life.
Breastfeeding ain't black or white it's a pantone of colours and we need to talk more openly about what really goes on.
The Feeding Couch
Raylea - Undeveloped breast tissue 12% Weight loss - Using donated breast milk - supply line breastfeeding - Anxiety choosing formula
In this episode I’m joined by Raylea, a first-time mom to baby Ellie,who faced more challenges in her first week of motherhood than many of us can imagine. After a significant weight loss of 12% by day three, the stress began to mount. Ellie’s weight loss was compounded by jaundice and a diagnosis that would change Raylea’s feeding journey: known as Insufficient Glandular Tissue or underdevelopment of the breast and milk making tissue. What followed were days filled with stressful weigh-ins, supplement calculations, and a host of anxieties. Lucily in the midst of all the challenges—amid the fears, the grief, and the overwhelming responsibility—there was also incredible beauty. Raylea found hope in her sister in law’s donated breast milk and was surrounded by supportive midwives who were trained in breastfeeding support. Together, they embarked on a triumphant journey of long-term supply line breastfeeding.
For nine months, Raylea nourished her baby with a combination of donor milk, formula, and pure determination. We’ll talk about the real struggles—like the anxiety of traveling with formula milk, coping with the endless tubes and cleaning involved in using an supply line feeding device, and the ongoing challenges of dealing with unhealed perineal damage. We’ll also get real about the moments Raylea felt like she needed to quit breastfeeding, and the powerful realization that despite it all, she was breastfeeding her baby.
Raylea’s story is a testament to the strength and resilience of mothers everywhere. Whether you’re struggling with low milk supply, navigating the complexities of using formula, or dealing with the emotional toll of feeling like you’re not enough—this episode is for you. So grab a cup of tea, find that cozy spot, and get ready to be inspired by Raylea’s incredible journey.
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