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Episode 082: She did not shoot....The....DEPP..U..Tee!!!
What does it really mean to be an inconsiderate friend? When Issa Rae publicly acknowledged this as her biggest flaw, it sparked a fascinating conversation at The Table about friendship dynamics, emotional availability, and the unspoken rules of adult relationships.
The hosts dive deep into their own friendship styles, with refreshing honesty about when they check in and when they don't. "When I shut down, I shut down for real," one host admits. "I'm talking McDonald's ice cream machine." This vulnerability creates space for listeners to examine their own patterns – are you the friend who always reaches out, or the one who disappears into work and life?
Parenting challenges take center stage as we hear the raw account of a father forced to make the difficult decision to pull his son from basketball due to falling grades. The conversation explores the fine line between supporting our children's passions and preparing them for adult responsibilities, reminding us that sometimes the most loving parenting decisions are also the hardest ones.
From a Florida man's triple-marriage scheme to a shocking story of a father's retaliation after losing his son to police violence, the episode weaves through current events with the hosts' signature blend of humor, outrage, and empathy. Their "Dropping Gems" segment delivers powerful insights, including the reminder to stop being "the go-to person for someone you can't go to."
Whether you're wrestling with friendship guilt, navigating parenting challenges, or simply craving authentic conversation about life's complexities, this episode delivers thought-provoking perspectives wrapped in laugh-out-loud moments that will have you nodding in agreement one minute and gasping the next.
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Speaker 1:Welcome back to the table for three everybody.
Speaker 5:Hope you enjoyed your weekend and we end.
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Speaker 4:Hey.
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Speaker 5:I got more bombs than this cop's at a donkey Donut shop.
Speaker 4:Show enough, I got bop from the kids on the hill With my mom and my pops. I came to get down. I came to get down. So get down to your seat and jump around.
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Speaker 4:Let's go. Kids in the cribs want dibs on the big man. Can he come out? Can he come out and slam a jam? I'm his number one fan. Yes, I am. All these kids realize that I'm the man Six foot three and maybe a quarter inch bigger than last year, but still a unique figure.
Speaker 4:Rob Swinger, doc Nodin, Kid Hotdog know that I'm a man that was born to have a mic on Next to me at. That'll get me out of financial bind. That's why, when it comes to fans, I never mean Kids on St James between gates, and green Always says hello, cause I'm a modest fellow. Never try to play a superstar, that's fellow Cause if these kids don't go by our records, we'll be has-beens and plus naked. So we owe them. So pull out your pen, sign an autograph. You might make a new friend. So just get your boys and bring the noise. Swing it. I'm part of the people in the house sing it. Yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo yo. You can't touch this. You can't touch this.
Speaker 1:Oh yeah, you can't touch this. You can't touch this.
Speaker 4:My, my, my, my music hits me so hard, makes me say, oh, my Lord, thank you for blessing me For the mind to mind and deep. Like me, it feels good when you know you're down, a super dope homeboy from the uptown and I'm known as such, and this is a love you can't touch. You can't touch me, don't touch me.
Speaker 3:Oh, oh, oh, Don't touch me.
Speaker 4:Funky lyrics Like that.
Speaker 1:Ah, ladies and gentlemen, how y'all doing out there, don't touch me. Oh wow, who can't touch who and why? Why do you want people to touch you? Whatever, touch away, good morning, rub you the right way, oh God, oh.
Speaker 2:God.
Speaker 1:I am close. I was going to do that set today but I was like, let me give it a one more week, I'll get to that set. I got a real good set next week. How was your weekend? Happy holidays. Happy holidays. Happy Mother's Day to everyone who will be enjoying the Mother's Day over the weekend. Happy Mother's Day, nene. Happy Mother's Day, sean, not the Mother.
Speaker 3:Day over the weekend Happy.
Speaker 1:Mother's Day Nene. Happy Mother's Day, sean.
Speaker 3:Not a mom, no sir, thank you.
Speaker 1:Yeah, what's going on, y'all?
Speaker 3:Well, I don't know how was everyone's week.
Speaker 1:Well, I was starting with you, I guess.
Speaker 3:It always starts with me.
Speaker 1:Okay, Sean.
Speaker 2:Oh, does that mean it's starting with me? Okay, sean, does that mean it's starting with me?
Speaker 1:Okay, I'll start. My week was fine, you worked, yeah, no, this is my short week. I have a job. Let me do my job. Okay, tommy, but it was a difficult week.
Speaker 1:The start of the week was a little difficult. I had to pull my son out of AAU. Wow, I had to take the whole basketball away for the remaining of the AAU season and that was probably the hardest thing I had to do. Only because his grades are dropping like crazy. Really, yeah, all I ask from him is to stay on his grades. I do. You know whatever I need to do to make sure the basketball side can dig it. Whatever he needs to go, I'll pay for these hotels. Do all this stuff. All you really need to do to make sure the basketball side can dig it. Whatever he needs to go, I'll pay for these hotels. Do all this stuff. All you really need to do is keep the grades up.
Speaker 1:And I found out that it was slipping and slipping bad. So all things ceased. Electronics ceased, phones gone, tv gone, internet gone, basketball gone Everything's gone. I want them grades. No food, food gone, basketball gone Everything's gone. I want them grades. No food, food gone, no blankets One bed you want to go night-night nigga, you want to go night-night?
Speaker 1:Yeah, he's down to the bare essentials. If he really wants his basketball thing, the grades got to come with it and he's been busting his ass ever since, so hopefully Got the bare necessities.
Speaker 1:He got a month and a half left in school. You know, I think they do how they do the grades. They kind of do I'm looking for the word but throughout the high school years they kind of cumulative, they kind of Compile them together, yeah, and kind of make the best grades out of the four years. So his GPA is still good to get in college, but it failed significantly. He was like a 3.5, 3.4. Now Okay, it's in the two somewhere and I didn't like it. So I don't like the fact that he you know he was riding high in that. I don't want him to leave like that. He can still get into the college he's going to, but I don't want him going there. That like that yeah.
Speaker 1:I'm saying I don't want him limping in. He was, he had a good, so so got to do what I got to do, and and and take him out and Got to treat them like an adult to a degree, to let them know that this world is not a pretty place. They eat you up and spit you out. It's not a pretty place, so you got to be prepared.
Speaker 5:Be prepared.
Speaker 1:That's how the start of our week went, and then by the end we started talking again. We talked it out After you beat him. No, no, I didn't beat my children. Somebody call child service. I shook the shadow.
Speaker 3:Not newborn baby syndrome.
Speaker 1:He's an adult, so if he wanted to throw blows we could go to blows.
Speaker 2:Oh my God, If he wanted to throw blows Somebody call 911.
Speaker 3:I seen your son he going to beat you up. I he wanted to Somebody call 911. I seen your son he gonna beat you up.
Speaker 1:I was talking to him and I looked so ridiculous. Looking at his chin I'm like nigga and he was looking down at me like little nigga and I was like I wish you would. It was a Smurf and Gargamel. Yeah, pretty much. He was looking at me like little nigga. I'll whoop your ass.
Speaker 2:I'm looking at him like I wish you would, mom, he was down there like you. Better get your grease up, because I'm young, literally, literally.
Speaker 1:I had to walk away because I'll start getting cross-eyed, because I'm like hey, yeah, that's crazy.
Speaker 2:Maybe he picked him up by his shirt. Yo, my legs dangling and shit.
Speaker 1:Like look, look, father, I would so pay to see that. But yeah, we're back on track, hopefully he's back on track and okay good, good, that's it, yeah, so how?
Speaker 2:was your um, the hardest thing I did all week oh wow, we all know that I don't I don't know anything.
Speaker 2:I don't know, I don't know, my week was actually. It was good and actually it did go by slow for me. I felt like the week Dragged, its ass, was dragging Cause. On Monday I was like, okay, why is it still Monday? And then, you know, I did a little. You know the Some of the Workers from Pratt Whitney are striking right now. Oh, contract negotiations, nice. So I was on the strike line with them, supporting them. Good, oh, nice, nice, yeah, it was an eventful week. Yeah, yeah, I can't say anything. Actually was bad. So how were you supporting Just being out there? Yeah, I was walking the line with them Walking the line. Yeah, my little sign Got you Poon Poon shirt sign.
Speaker 5:I had my t-shirt and my panties on Panties. Yeah, they going to get the contract.
Speaker 2:Now you're Poon.
Speaker 5:Poon Sean.
Speaker 1:They going to get that goddamn contract. Yeah, shut up. Who that with the Daisy Dukes? Who, who that?
Speaker 3:with the daisy dupes, who that made a contract. He was like come on, guys, pull up to my bumper baby, get out of here.
Speaker 1:All right Nene.
Speaker 3:Well, my week was, like you said, slow. It was slow as hell. I ended up actually calling out on Friday.
Speaker 2:Oh, no surprise.
Speaker 1:It seemed like she got all this extra time somewhere and just called out.
Speaker 2:She got to hit it, make it time.
Speaker 3:I know, I just got this little button. It was like oh, reload, boop, boop, boop.
Speaker 1:Shit, I need that damn button.
Speaker 3:Time to go. No, it was just. You know, my boss told me I'd have to, like, do some traveling. No, I always work. I have to do traveling coming up soon, so I had to mentally prepare myself. Is it far? Yeah, it's like Uncasville. Oh, like Norwich, the scene I was in. Yeah, is it far? Yeah, it's like Uncasville.
Speaker 1:Oh, like Norwich, the scene I was in, yeah, Really.
Speaker 3:Yeah, I'm not.
Speaker 2:I ain't feeling that Is that like More than one time you have to do it.
Speaker 3:It'll probably be like Once a week, until when, until they find, or the person that's out, come to see you God damn See that's what happens when you important, that's out, god damn.
Speaker 2:See, that's what happens when you're important?
Speaker 1:I guess, yeah, yeah, they got to pay you like you're important too.
Speaker 2:Don't sit fast on that one. You need to wear your t-shirt and your pants, yeah.
Speaker 3:Get in there. I put that on. I ain't getting shit.
Speaker 1:Like where is her ass?
Speaker 3:They be like can this lady boy oh?
Speaker 2:my god, you never know.
Speaker 3:We love some lady boys. They've had a contract. Hey yo.
Speaker 5:Get out of here, god damn us.
Speaker 1:Oh my god.
Speaker 2:Alright, I can't with y'all.
Speaker 1:Oh, you can so what is going on In the world Today. We made it back to Florida. Have we ever left? You can? So what?
Speaker 2:is going on in the world today. Woo, we made it back to Florida.
Speaker 1:Have we ever left? For a little bit, I thought.
Speaker 5:We did for a little while.
Speaker 1:For about a month, I can't remember. Was it that?
Speaker 2:long. We left Florida for a little bit.
Speaker 1:It was like Georgia, Virginia, like those type of stuff. It's been a minute since we left. I think we was in.
Speaker 3:Alabama. I feel like we passed on some Floridas, probably so they Florida ain't going nowhere. We was just like you know what Florida?
Speaker 2:you done enough, you right so there's a crazy story coming out of Florida, where a fine gentleman by the name of Henry Betsy Jr is now facing felony bigamy charges after three women, who each of them thought were his only wife, found out that he was married to all three of them at the same time. Well no.
Speaker 3:They all from the Himalayas.
Speaker 2:They all in different parts of Florida. Oh, I know who that sounds like so he met each of them on different dating apps, might be in Maryland now. Oh my God.
Speaker 3:That was an inside joke, guys.
Speaker 2:I hope they're not listening. I'm sorry, I'm sorry. So he met them each on different dating apps and, sorry, the thing that surprises me the most out of it, cause it's not a dating app thing, cause that's whatever, right, right, but the court system, they each married them like a couple weeks after meeting him. Well, that's on them.
Speaker 3:You know it was a red flag well, it did say, because I dug deeper, that I dug real deep. He prayed. He prays on like divorced women so they're already like it's a rebound yeah pretty much yeah, so he um.
Speaker 2:So he met tanya betsy on tinder in 2020, married her oh, during the pandemic, so she was already fucked up then he later met brandy betsy on a dating app called stir, married her in a different county and then right after that he met michelle betsy through matchcom and married her in a different county a few months later. And I guess Tanya was the smart one because she started feeling like something was off and she started doing a little Unsolved Mysteries investigation and started checking county records and stuff online and that's how the discovery kind of all came about. And I'm trying to understand how old are these people? Too old to be doing this? No, they're you know 50s, 60s.
Speaker 2:I want to say they're in their 50s, yeah.
Speaker 1:Okay, but I got so many questions.
Speaker 2:I blame everybody involved. Yeah, because Absolutely, I'm not saying that they don't feel like they found true love after two weeks. But why are you marrying somebody a couple weeks after meeting them on a dating app?
Speaker 1:Because they thought he was an African prince.
Speaker 3:You know, he almost.
Speaker 2:So they met Prince Hakeem, did you see?
Speaker 3:the picture, though no, I never seen the picture. Oddly familiar, but it's not, it's close.
Speaker 2:Could be. What did he look like, mister? Oh shit, but it's not, it's close. Could be what he look like, mister.
Speaker 1:Oh shit.
Speaker 2:I think I'll wait with it. You know, I think they married him because he got pretty eyes you think so.
Speaker 1:Oh Well, look at them, sir. They look gullible.
Speaker 3:And that's crazy, being in Florida.
Speaker 1:They look gullible as hell. I know what the fuck you find on matches. Yeah, it was three different dating apps and they all of them was pre-divorced Before meeting him.
Speaker 2:And yeah, and a couple weeks in it was like Wait, all three of them Like-divorced before meeting him. And yeah, and a couple of weeks in it was like all right, wait, all three of them Like all three of the women.
Speaker 3:He specifically has a thing to go after. So I'm assuming so that they were. It could have been either divorced or widowed, either, or it's Florida.
Speaker 1:Florida is what state they represent. Is they blue or red?
Speaker 2:They red, they're primarily red.
Speaker 1:Go ahead, man. You know what?
Speaker 3:But I'm surprised that the court's not catching none of that. Three times it's different, it don't matter.
Speaker 1:Is he doing this in Jacksonville?
Speaker 3:They didn't do no background checks, it was three different counties.
Speaker 2:It was three different counties.
Speaker 3:So nobody do background checks, because it sure as hell would pop up.
Speaker 2:Especially because they're all legal marriages.
Speaker 3:Right, that's what I'm saying. Well, the first one was legal Right.
Speaker 1:The other two was like.
Speaker 2:a week later you said no saying no, no, no, it was like, um, like he married the first one, I think, in november.
Speaker 3:Oh, they met the other one and I think they like married.
Speaker 3:Um, yeah, I think he like marries them and then then he married the other one in february, or something like that I think it's because he marries them and then he's like oh, we should get like a joint account and all this stuff so if they're like uh no, because one of the I think the, the last one was like that happened, like he was such a sweet guy, he was nice, but then he wanted them to open a joint account and she was like, uh no, and that's when he became like verbally abusive and he just she kicked him out yeah, they just.
Speaker 1:They wanted him a chocolate hakeem.
Speaker 3:He's not even African. His name is Henry, I know.
Speaker 1:They thought they found themselves a black prince.
Speaker 2:That could be his telemarketer name, though Telemarketer.
Speaker 3:Like. That definitely sounds like a made-up name. Is that his real government name, henry Betsy?
Speaker 2:Yeah.
Speaker 3:Like because you hear it, Henry Betsy.
Speaker 2:Mm-hmm.
Speaker 3:Fuck wrong with your appearance. It's like Henry Betsy, because you hear it Henry Betsy, fuck wrong with your parents. Henry Betsy, you walking across the stage to get your diploma, henry Betsy, and you see him walk across the stage and you're like, oh, I didn't expect that His first name is Heminadu.
Speaker 1:What Hem and I do. That's his first name. You know how they got Short in there, for like Him and I do.
Speaker 3:Yo, him and I do Is wild. Why are you like this?
Speaker 1:Him and I do.
Speaker 2:You are necessary I don't know how they fall for that shit I mean they don't know how they fall for that shit.
Speaker 1:I mean they don't know about it, but I mean I would think you would put a little bit more effort On learning a person before you marry them.
Speaker 3:I don't know how they fell for it.
Speaker 2:Because, people get scammed all the time but two weeks to marry somebody.
Speaker 3:You don't know that. I mean people feel like love at first sight, love at first website.
Speaker 1:You see what happens under 30 days. You see what happens under 30 days.
Speaker 3:You see, I could tell you some stuff that happened after 30 days, so I don't think it really matters.
Speaker 1:Yeah, you're right, but I'm just saying Mostly it's under 30. Mostly it's under 30.
Speaker 3:I beg to differ, sir.
Speaker 1:It's the honeymoon stage.
Speaker 2:Thoughts and prayers, well wishes, do better, because in 2025, why are we still getting scammed? So he was married to that first one.
Speaker 1:For five years he was married to that first one for five years.
Speaker 3:Divorce him and take him for everything he don't have.
Speaker 1:They're taking him for what they have.
Speaker 3:The other two can't take him for shit. It's not real. The first one is the only one who's actually entitled to something.
Speaker 2:They only gonna take him for his rations because he's going to jail. He's going to prison.
Speaker 3:He's gonna go back on the website and find somebody else and they gonna put money on his books.
Speaker 2:He's gonna be on Love After Lockup what you?
Speaker 3:say Nothing. Nah, nah, you might as well go ahead and repeat it, because we gonna hear it back.
Speaker 1:Love After Lockup is when they had that Lockup. That's when that big girl got that. He gonna find himself with one of them big girls suck on his kneecap or something.
Speaker 3:You was alright when he gonna find himself one of the big girls, but you had what, what, what in your mind said you know what I'm just? I'm just gonna have to jump off this cliff with it because yeah, life like why.
Speaker 2:Why would someone just say oh, you know what? That is a tasty looking kneecap.
Speaker 3:Where did that come from, or?
Speaker 1:that gristle.
Speaker 3:Let me get the gristle. Oh my God why?
Speaker 1:I don't know why do I do the things I do?
Speaker 2:The gristle A while Y'all eat the gristle on chicken the chicken one.
Speaker 1:No, I know y'all, I know people out there, y'all eat gristle.
Speaker 3:It is some people out there who do eat who do eat gristle.
Speaker 2:So we're gonna go right on over thank you, because I don't even know why you started I did that's my bad.
Speaker 3:No, sir, we're done here, we are all set. So, we're just going to go head over to Cincinnati it's even worse when the father of an 18-year-old was fatally shot by the police in Cincinnati. He has been charged because he intentionally ran over the deputy with his car and killed him Because in retaliation to his son being shot, murdered by the police.
Speaker 1:Where an imaginary weapon was found.
Speaker 2:But he ran over the deputy right so he didn't shoot the deputy. He didn't, but he might have shot the sheriff.
Speaker 3:Well, the sheriff wasn't around, no.
Speaker 1:The way you did that. Shit was smooth. That is correct. He did not shoot the deputy, he did.
Speaker 3:Oh, he didn't shoot the sheriff, no, he said I shot the sheriff, he didn't shoot the deputy. But I didn't shoot the deputy.
Speaker 2:Yep, I ran his ass over Deputy, deputy, deputy. That's why your boss got you traveling, because you out here, deputy.
Speaker 3:I almost couldn't breathe.
Speaker 5:I should go get my hair look Deputy.
Speaker 4:My money is turning.
Speaker 1:In this goddamn grave, the fuck she say oh my god, I'm sorry. I like the fact that he ain't let none, None of those motherfuckers intimidate him as they was bringing him in. It was like a line Wait so is he dead?
Speaker 1:No, they're arresting him, but as he was bringing, Surprisingly, right, yeah, as they was bringing him in the building, there was a line of officers kind of just mean mugging him and he's giving oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. He's kind of looking at him back like yeah, and he's giving oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. He's kind of looking at him back like yeah, motherfucker, I'll do it again. I'll do this. You know what I'm saying. You killed my fucking son? Yeah, absolutely. And trying to yell out some bullshit like he has a weapon. He had no weapon on him, mm-hmm, so yeah.
Speaker 3:Again they keep saying we are not our ancestors.
Speaker 1:Yo, we ain't them.
Speaker 2:And fucking with us.
Speaker 1:Y'all go ahead. You're going to get deputied, deputied, you in.
Speaker 3:Sharif. Now look, I said sheriff, right, I know.
Speaker 1:Shit. But yeah, yo, I mean you shouldn't condone violence, but that got to start with the police. It got to start like you're on a foot chase with a kid Understand that the first thing you want to do is protect yourself as a policeman. But we, you know they're children.
Speaker 3:For the ones that, honestly, are actually doing their job right, because it's countless, countless times where you will get cops in that situation and they do the right thing, absolutely. So we can't. We can't say like, oh, you know, um, they, they are so afraid and all that stuff. No, it's proof that everybody's afraid. Yeah, if you're that fucking afraid, then that's not the fucking job for you. But fear is just a natural reaction. It's a human yeah.
Speaker 1:I get it. You're a policeman. That is fearful, I got it. But you have a vest on. You have all this equipment on that could possibly save your life. If you're shot at Rubber bullets, there's things that can stop you from dying. I mean, you're going to get shot. It might hurt, but you probably still live with all the equipment you have on.
Speaker 2:we've seen, and history has proven, that the fear usually only works in one direction, because how many times have we seen like it was a video I was watching this man wielding a machete at the police and they were still trying to talk him down like hey, buddy, put the machete down and it's like okay, cause what that's an active threat right there, Right, you know Like yeah shoot, shoot. You know these people that go in and shooting up the schools and they trying to have conversations with them and they try to arrest them alive.
Speaker 1:Like come on, that man was just running from being scared. He stole a car. He's a kid.
Speaker 2:Of jail.
Speaker 1:So he's running. Okay, wait, because he has a afro pick you're gonna shoot.
Speaker 3:Yeah, it's very blatant.
Speaker 1:Yeah, well, we know why the police was decided and we know why the father did what he did and why they still here.
Speaker 3:That shit has not changed and it's not it has not I'm not gonna.
Speaker 1:I'm not gonna say anything bad about the father who did what he's supposed to do for like, nah, no, that officer got what he got. Deputy, that deputy, you're gonna cut the shit so isa ray um.
Speaker 2:Isa ray had a, had a recent conversation and we actually have audio for this but she was speaking about. One of her biggest flaws is that she says she's not a considerate friend when it comes to her friendships and she kind of gives like a you know explanation as to what that means for her and how. She kind of gives like a you know explanation as to what that means for her and how she is as a friend.
Speaker 5:And I find it very curious and I wanted to know you guys's thoughts on her thought process on that, if you shared it or what you thought a person I'm a very much when when I'm here, it's all about you, but I don't check in as often as I should with friends and I've been told that in the past and I've adjusted, but you just have to tell me.
Speaker 5:But it's not a natural instinct and so with this I understand, understand, like Eva, being like this is kind of a high maintenance friendship in a way where I can't. I'm not going to be the same type of giving friend that you are to me, but I will show up in the ways that I can. If you need me, I will always be there. And that would make me consider like, oh, am I a bad friend Because I think about you but I might not text you to be like, hey, I just want to make sure you're okay. But you should know that I would hope you would call me if you weren't okay and know that I would show up for you and be there for you. I'm just not the, I'm not considerate. I'm not a considerate friend in the way that I would like to be.
Speaker 2:That's a pronouncement there.
Speaker 5:It's true, it's like one of my biggest flaws, because I'm just so work focused that I'm not like I'll think about you but not tell you that I'm thinking about you.
Speaker 1:I completely agree because I think I'm the same way. I think I am the epitome of what she's talking about.
Speaker 3:I don't know if I would use the word considerate, though that's what I kind of think.
Speaker 2:She means she's not considerate of their feelings or how they might feel. The friendship is one-sided.
Speaker 3:One-sided, then yeah I feel like all good long relationships are kind of like that, and that's just my opinion on it, off of how my friend relationships are and me looking at other people's relationships, when they're always together, the always together friends got the most problems, and those are the ones who's either always, oh ended up backstabbing a friend, stealing from that friend, sleeping with their man doing some shady shit, as opposed to your friends that y'all know y'all busy and y'all have lives. You have kids and you're doing that stuff, but you do check in. It's not often, though, but you know, when you meet back up, y'all know y'all busy and y'all have lives. You have kids and, and you're doing that stuff, but you do check in. It's not often, though, but you know, when you meet back up, it's like y'all never was separated. Yeah, I never check in. You know what I'm saying. So like.
Speaker 1:Well, I think there's a difference between someone who never checks in and someone who like I think about my friends, but I feel like I let too much time lapse to be able to check in. So like if you know what I'm saying, like I feel like if I reach out now, they'd be like I didn't hear from this motherfucker what the fuck he want.
Speaker 3:Like I think it would be like that. I feel like that's just your own little guilty conscience. That's me, yeah, that's me.
Speaker 1:I don't think that it's not considerate of you, it's just the fact that you kind of sabotage yourself from doing it. But however, like if, if we were like, if I put something out on social media and they respond and then we talk through that and then not, then I'm like, oh, let me call them real quick, and I call and then we have a regular conversation. It's like, oh, this shit is, this is right, so I'll try to keep tabs or or try to keep up with the communications as much as I can that way. But then I fall back into the life, just life, and I'm, and I'm busy and I'm running around and it gets a little too far between communication.
Speaker 3:So my question with that, though, is is it are they reaching out to you, or it's just the same on both sides?
Speaker 1:Uh, I think it's well. Yeah, I think it's the same on both sides, but I think it's created because when they were reaching out, I wouldn't pick up the phone Right, so they started acting accordingly. Yeah, like. But I can't even say that because you are inconsiderate that because you are inconsiderate.
Speaker 1:I can't even say that because, um, that only happens with certain people and I think they know their place with that. But, like, like my good friend I have. I have two real good close friends that I haven't talked to. In. One of them I haven't talked to in about a year now, like he was going through some shit. He'll call me up, I'm there for him. Boom, he had to get some shit done, had to go OT for a little bit. I'm thinking like yo, what happened? What's been going on? I haven't heard from him. He don't call me for nothing. I call him. He don't answer the phone. So I'm like that For him. He's like me in that situation.
Speaker 2:Like I'll reach out. So you mean, you actually put the effort in, which means that you could do it, but you choose not to for the other one.
Speaker 1:Yeah, it's certain people I'll do it for.
Speaker 2:Which I think that goes into like, because a lot of the comments there was a lot of back and forth on that um, where people were like calling bullshit because they're like everybody's busy, everybody has lives, but people make time for the things that they want to and I think that actually you kind of prove that.
Speaker 2:Yeah, because as busy as you are, you make the effort for who you deem to be a close enough right friend to do that yeah I guess that's true, because in my situation I'm that friend, yeah, that um, yeah, that it'd be a long time, maybe, not even.
Speaker 3:I'd probably say I might go a month, probably the most I would go. But I'm always constantly thinking about like oh, how my friends are doing. So I will randomly reach out, whether I'll text them or I'll just pick up the phone and call Like, hey, what's going on? I'm just checking in. And that's whether I'll text them or I'll just pick up the phone and call and be like, hey, what's going on? I'm just checking in, and that's all I'll say. I'm like I'm just checking in, and they'll respond like you're such a good friend, and then we'll talk from there and then that's it. But that.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I need to do that more with one other person who's like I grew up with the dude and, like I know, we spoke a lot during the time when my father passed and all that and I didn't get really reached back out to him since the funeral. So I should be reaching out. I'm like, hey, let him know how the funeral went. I think he reached out one time and I was just busy doing something and I couldn't pick up the phone at that right time and then I was like damn I think I fucked it up and then I just kind of called him back since.
Speaker 1:So I'm going to reach out to him. Yeah, you need to stop doing that to yourself.
Speaker 5:Yeah.
Speaker 3:I think it's just a mental thing for me.
Speaker 2:I would say, based on what she was saying, I would probably classify myself as an inconsiderate friend too, only because it's the same type of thing. So I live a very busy life, but there are certain people in my life that I make time to interact with more regularly than others. It doesn't mean that I care about certain other ones less, but for me, because I know who each of these people are, some of them drain me a little bit more than others, yes, and so I don't reach out as much because I don't have the bandwidth sometimes. Right.
Speaker 1:I don't think that's inconsiderate. I just think that's you just trying to protect your peace.
Speaker 2:Well, I just mean because if you have a friendship and that other side of the friendship is doing the reaching out, you never reach out. It's like, okay, how much do you value the friendship? That's true, yeah.
Speaker 1:Because I know people and I know exactly what they're going to talk about and I don't want to talk about it. Yeah, you know what I'm saying and this is like I know what this is going to be, I know exactly what this is going to be and I don't have the time nor I have the brain width to want to have this conversation again and again and again You'll be like oh my God, I'm so sorry, I've just been so busy.
Speaker 3:And then they see your Facebook profile and you've been scuba diving with your friend and it's like I was about to say I understand that with what you're saying too, because I have a co-worker friend and she will say to me she's like you don't even reach out to me and stuff, and like that. And I'm like, yeah, you know what I? I'm such a I would tell her, like I'm saying what my friends say to me, like I'm such a horrible friend, but it's.
Speaker 3:It's not, um, that I don't want to reach out. I literally am doing a lot of stuff during the day. So, after I don't spoke to reach out, I literally am doing a lot of stuff during the day. So after I don't spoke to whoever I could speak to. The time to speak to you in that time slot doesn't work for me. So, like a lot of times, for me it's literally only probably one, or probably, I would say, three people out of my life. As two, I'm like two people.
Speaker 1:There's two for me too.
Speaker 3:One it's literally because I'm like, but those are family members. So I have to say two people that are actual friends that I would, I would sit at home and talk on the phone with. I've done it with the co-worker friend a couple times too, but it's just um, and it's never a long conversation. It's quick and boom or whatever, but um, it's not as often as it would be if we were like my other friends. But she's new. I've only known her probably, like god what, four or five years now, not even, I don't even think it's five. But so that's.
Speaker 2:I mean we, we talk more now, but yeah, I, and I think that there's different variations of it, so like there's the situation of you have this friend that reaches out to you and you don't really reach out. I think that's where sort of like the inconsiderate thing comes in. But then there's friendships, because I even have, like one of my really like best friends.
Speaker 4:Neither one of us reach out like that, but then when we do end up speaking or coming together it's like whatever, because we both understand we're just those type of people.
Speaker 1:That's how I feel, like the ones. I think that we have that type of relationship. It doesn't matter how long we go without talking, but I feel like I should reach out, but I never do. You know what I'm saying and it's like damn how long we go without talking.
Speaker 1:But I feel like I should reach out but I never do. Yeah, you know what I'm saying and it's like damn, I didn't need to change that. But I I'm just stuck in my way at this point. But it'd be those, it'd be those that I think I just lack the emotional patience to hear about just bad drama every time. So it's sort of like, when I know it's so, it's sort of like when I know it's coming, it's sort of like I'll be on the phone and I'll be engaged and as soon as I hear the conversation switch to that, I'll just be like, oh okay, and I'll just I tap out Like mentally, I just tap out.
Speaker 2:And it's not that we all don't go through our own stuff, but there are just some people that it's like you always just have something, yeah, yeah, yeah. It's like why are you always the victim? Yeah, and it's like you know either your head and rolled off your shoulders this week, or like the baby fell off the cliff this week.
Speaker 1:And it's like, it's like, at some point, the baby off the cliff, because you'll I actually inconsiderate friend.
Speaker 3:I actually had one friend and we used to talk all the time and it was always just bullshit and I'm just like it's nighttime, I'm tired Bitch, I don't care. So at this point I kind of just stopped, yeah, answering the call and I don't even call anymore. Yeah, I mean it sucks. We still talk, but via like message, but other than that it's just like yeah, I don't, I can't do it cause you're never happy yeah, and I felt I kind of I just accepted my emotional impatience.
Speaker 3:Yeah, yeah To certain things, but is that emotional impatience, though, or are you protecting your peace, I think?
Speaker 2:it is.
Speaker 3:There's a difference.
Speaker 2:I think his is emotional impatience.
Speaker 1:I know how to protect my when I protect, protect my peace. I'm not answering the phone At all.
Speaker 4:Like.
Speaker 1:No, you know what I'm saying. Like I want to talk to you, like if I'm picking up the phone, I want to talk to you, I want to say something to you. We could chat. I'm in the mood to chat, but Then the emotion of impatience Comes in. But if I'm protecting my peace, you probably won't hear from me for a couple weeks.
Speaker 3:Oh, is that what you be doing to me?
Speaker 1:Yes, Absolutely, absolutely.
Speaker 3:I know this bitch see me calling him. I gotta ask a question.
Speaker 2:You see him out there treating you like a deputy. Okay Shit.
Speaker 1:Look at this deputy calling Yo shut the hell up. That's what you want to talk about now.
Speaker 3:So I don't know how we got here and how he got here, but Smokey out here being a mess, smokey who Smokey Robinson, is in the hot seat.
Speaker 1:Real hot seat. He is coming after these artists.
Speaker 3:Yes, he has a massive lawsuit against him in Los Angeles.
Speaker 1:The OG artists are going down From four women. Yeah, all them lines they had in their pocket.
Speaker 3:I don't even want to do the story, no more.
Speaker 1:Shit, catch it up with them. That is crazy. Baby oil and lines Fucking crazy. It's fucking crazy. They didn't give a shit back then. Now, all of a sudden, all these women remember, knowing damn well, never mind.
Speaker 3:Don't do that. Don't do the victim blaming.
Speaker 1:No.
Speaker 3:I'm not Cocaine's a hell of a drug. So basically, I'm not Cocaine's a hell of a drug. So basically in the suit. In the suit they allege Smokey used coercion force and manipulation. They claim he penetrated them with his fingers, demanded oral sex and, in some cases, raped them. At least two women say he didn't use protection and ejaculated inside of them without consent. Smokey, hey yo, you green-eyed bandit. Smokey.
Speaker 2:Smokey. Do you think it's true?
Speaker 3:I think so, I think anybody who smiles like that. Yes, smokey, do you think it's true? I think so. I think anybody who smiles like that.
Speaker 2:Yes, Smokey used to have them with his eyes. Wait a minute Now are these women from?
Speaker 1:It doesn't say all that Recent, or these old women that Like 50 years ago and they just got sober.
Speaker 2:You know what, don't victim.
Speaker 3:It says it started in 2007.
Speaker 1:Smokey was like 86. Stop it, oh sorry.
Speaker 2:You said when they win the lawsuit they're just going to get dust. A couple coins Wooden nickels. Couple coins wooden nickels hey, yeah, send us, oh my god, the real copper pitch. Um yo what? I really hope it's not true. I hope it's not true and I also hope that these people wouldn't be lying on people also. So it's like it's so hard because, he old as he, old as fuck.
Speaker 2:Because you don't want to think that someone would do something like that, but you also don't want to think that there's just these evil people out there that would just make up these stories and ruin somebody's life, right yeah, and yet there's. There are on both sides.
Speaker 1:It's like it's like and this year it's almost been like a string of victims coming out and saying, hey, jay-z did something to this. Oh well, maybe he didn't. But Shannon Sharp, well, maybe he didn't. Well now, smokey, it's called money. It's crazy and it's sad that it has to come to if they got a coin or not to figure out, like, is she telling the truth or is she not?
Speaker 3:it's not enough money to pay me to shut the fuck up if you did something to me, are there horrible?
Speaker 1:people. Is smoky a horrible person? Is shannon sharp a horrible person? Are these people horrible people and you? You want to. You want to say no, but it's like maybe they are yeah maybe they're and maybe these people are telling the truth, or maybe they, or maybe they just see a payday. We can't tell no more.
Speaker 3:We don't know, because when people have a level of power, like people in the entertainment business, what I mean by power is that amount of money where they could potentially pay off to get away with a lot of shit.
Speaker 1:I'm not surprised if it did happen yeah, I just don't like these stories anymore. I don't like them because it you, you always find yourself trying to fall on which side of the fence and it's sort of like you just get so pissed because you don't, you don't know, you don't know because all of a sudden, years later you got an old white lady in bed, said hey, I didn't say anything about emma till.
Speaker 1:Yeah, you dig what I'm saying and it's sort of like she, you want to create these fucking, these narratives that you, you, want people to believe and then, once you get them to believe it, a couple years later, it was never true. Surprise, surprise you know, I'm saying it's like, it's bullshit, like. So I kind of hate these stories, yo, I hate that yes, because it fucks up real victims.
Speaker 3:Exactly that's what I mean. Yes, it fucks it up for real victims.
Speaker 2:Yes, and I think all of this really came to a head where now people are more and more doing. It is when the me too movement started.
Speaker 3:Oh, yeah, that me too. Movement started a lot. Yeah, and not saying they're taking away from it and saying like probably potentially a lot of them, women, stuff happened to. But also a lot of times too, when you're dealing with like celebrities and stuff, y'all know y'all drugs, yo Like I mean you're going to these parties.
Speaker 1:No, I'm not saying all of them, I'm just saying like some of them. You're dealing with Smokey Robinson. Smokey Robinson is from like the 50s, where it was nothing but pool parties and lines of coke. Yo shut the fuck up. You think that's ever? Gonna change you think that's ever gonna change? You think Smokey's gonna ever change lines of coke?
Speaker 2:well, if he's been doing, he ain't got a nostril no more. That's what I was about to say. If he's been doing lines of coke since the 50s, allegedly, I don't think he has's what I was about to say.
Speaker 3:He's been doing lines of coke since the 50s, allegedly. I don't think he has a face. I was about to say I don't think Smokey does cocaine.
Speaker 2:That's an AI-generated face he has.
Speaker 3:I was going to say I don't think.
Speaker 1:Smokey, does you think it's a real face? This shit is pulled back.
Speaker 2:I don't think Smokey does cocaine.
Speaker 1:Why are? I'm bullshit and I'm, you know. I don't know what Smokey does in the past.
Speaker 3:Yeah, you like to ride that fence?
Speaker 2:Yeah, but I just hate these type of stories. Well, you see, like, because Diddy's trial is like yeah, do you see his picture that nigga can't find dye for nothing, he's stressed. But you see, now he's saying that him and Cassie was in a mutually abusive relationship, that she was beating him as well. I don't believe that at all.
Speaker 1:You got to say what you got to say. Until the video comes out, nigga, you bust her ass and you stop trying to push the blame.
Speaker 2:He's also saying that video with the whole elevator thing was doctored.
Speaker 1:No, and you know what's fucked up. Hold on, did he stop it? Hold on Before I jump to conclusion and say, no, right with ai generated shit. Yeah, it's possible. Ai, all that shit, 5, 10, 20 years down the line they're gonna say, oh yeah, by the way, maybe, maybe studies say, scientists say, uh it, people say that could have been a possibility At this point.
Speaker 3:She got her money, Nobody fucking cares.
Speaker 1:And it's fucked up because now they ruined his life, career.
Speaker 2:and all that because of some bullshit, Because there's a video of me running down a hotel hallway in a towel as well, and I just feel like if you're going to generate an AI version of me, you sure there was a towel.
Speaker 1:There wasn't a towel and he was still stuck in you. It was a hula skirt. What? Turn your mic off?
Speaker 3:Turn your mic off, Wait what?
Speaker 2:Turn your mic. He was the smoothest butter getting it passed. And then neither one of these bitches at the table read Okay, you're not about to butter this butter up in here and just move past.
Speaker 1:Okay, you just smearing butter all over your body Because you would be a golden turkey if you ran out on the wall.
Speaker 3:No, you're not saving yourself.
Speaker 1:That's not even If you was buttered, if you would be a golden turkey, if you ran out on the wall Nah, you're not saving yourself. That's not. Even If you was buttered. You would be glistening gold Like a golden Rotisserie, running down With no towel.
Speaker 3:I don't know why I picture the buttered Golden rotisserie just rolling down the fucking hallway.
Speaker 1:He's already that complexion, like A little bit of tan. You look like a golden turkey rolling down the fucking hallway. He's already that complexion, what A little bit of tan. You look like a golden turkey boy Everybody at this table.
Speaker 5:Good thing I'm not at the table.
Speaker 2:We're going to move past that.
Speaker 1:You put yourself in there, straight out the oven.
Speaker 2:Go ahead. We now in Georgia, hey Georgia, a Georgia jail went on lockdown after a convicted murderer seemingly vanished. Oh yeah, that's always good. Julian Brooks DeLoach was convicted of murder in 1984, and he has since been out on parole. And he was temporarily in the clayton county jail on a misdemeanor charge and after his court appearance he was supposed to be going back. And, because it's a miscommunication, for 13 hours the jail officials were searching frantically for him because they couldn't find where he was. And it turns out that they forgot his ass At the thing At the thing.
Speaker 1:Yo, I read this Like all right. Well, he deserves to be free now, because y'all stupid.
Speaker 3:No, seriously, because and he probably sitting there chilling like, well, hello, ain't nobody going to pick me up. I'm at the courthouse, guys, what's going on? He's ain't nobody gonna pick me up. I'm at the courthouse, guys, what's going on?
Speaker 2:he's like, well, dumb ass is running around and niggas sitting there until they finally, like, reviewed their surveillance footage and was like, oh, he's right there did he stay there. Yeah, he was there well, good for him.
Speaker 3:Take some time off that convicted murderer.
Speaker 1:He ain't killed since the 80's. Come on now. He should go home. Take some time off that convicted murderer. This is not an X matter at home. He ain't killed since the 80s Come on now.
Speaker 2:The one thing I have to actually say I'm actually happy with when it comes to the law and the justice system is two of the sergeants have been demoted and two of them have been suspended. Three officers have already accepted their punishment. Good, three officers have already accepted their punishment. I'm glad that they're actually following through with holding these people accountable for the bullshit that they do sometimes because you know you went to the courthouse with somebody. It's like leaving your child in the backseat in the summer.
Speaker 3:No, seriously.
Speaker 2:How do you come back?
Speaker 1:They can't wait to get ice cream Yo.
Speaker 3:I could see them. I could see them Locking down that facility and doing like Roll call checks For 12 fucking hours. I know them. Employees Was pissed Yo for real Shift change. People had to go home and they couldn't leave. I'm not doing this with y'all, I'm trying to move past it Please.
Speaker 1:Hey, yo Fucking idiots.
Speaker 3:Georgia do better Do better All right guys. So one got to go.
Speaker 1:Okay, one got to go, let's go.
Speaker 3:Claire Huxtable no, florida, evans, florida. Chocolate Aunt Viv and Vanilla Aunt Viv, not Vanilla.
Speaker 2:Oh my god, she said birthday cake. Battle of the TV, moms, one has to go.
Speaker 3:I'm gonna get rid of Vanilla Aunt Viv.
Speaker 1:I was going to say Vanilla. I like the original Aunt Viv. Miss Cosby ain't going nowhere.
Speaker 3:And you can't get rid of Florida.
Speaker 1:I'm getting rid of.
Speaker 2:Florida. So, flo Rida, I'm getting rid of Florida. Why are you getting rid of Florida? Because I actually appreciated both Aunt Vives, for different reasons. I liked the original Aunt Viv, but I actually liked the second one that came too, and I feel like they both played their part. Florida was before my time, so I have no connection to her.
Speaker 5:Damn damn, she can go.
Speaker 2:And she looked like Dope Damn.
Speaker 3:Don't do that to Trick Daddy.
Speaker 2:But Claire Huxtable, hey yo.
Speaker 3:Claire Huxtable ain't going nowhere. Claire Huxtable ain't going nowhere.
Speaker 2:That was always my TV mom.
Speaker 3:She should never be on this list Ever.
Speaker 2:And Florida looked like she got those dough kneading hands and she'll just knock your ass right the hell out. And you got a flower print all over your face.
Speaker 3:Talk about damn.
Speaker 2:That was James. Florida was before my time so I don't have a real connection to her and I feel like the way she was raising her kids might have been not the way I wanted to be raised, right.
Speaker 1:Because JJ was crazy wild. Jj was wild, jj was stupid.
Speaker 2:God, no man, because I would have been at Bel Air Mansion regardless of which mama was there chocolate or vanilla.
Speaker 3:Shut up Chocolate or birthday cake. You could go with either or I could.
Speaker 1:Turkey basted and everything.
Speaker 3:Go home. Who would y'all pick to go out there? Let us know, because I'm just Mr.
Speaker 2:Overhead acting up. So let's talk about stupid as the stupid does.
Speaker 3:Okay, so we have a man I forgot about this.
Speaker 2:It was a 27-year-old Chinese student who ended up embarking on the trails of Mount Fuji back in April and he ended up coming down with symptoms of altitude sickness and he ultimately had to be rescued. Oh, this is.
Speaker 1:Go ahead.
Speaker 2:The fool ended up going back on the mountain because he forgot his phone and had to be rescued again.
Speaker 1:You're a fucking idiot.
Speaker 3:They should have made his ass pay for that shit.
Speaker 1:Is it acceptable, white people doing white?
Speaker 3:things.
Speaker 5:That's funny.
Speaker 3:I don't know he's funny.
Speaker 2:I mean I don't know he's Chinese, he's Asian, yeah.
Speaker 1:White people doing white things.
Speaker 5:That's funny.
Speaker 3:Get out of here.
Speaker 2:You don't ever got to hear about that.
Speaker 5:I'm sorry.
Speaker 2:How do you not say you know what? I can get another phone, Like you're, from China, Like they have-.
Speaker 5:Don't do that, don't do that.
Speaker 3:Gumanji, gumanji, me in the windows to my soul shut the fuck up.
Speaker 1:Ay yo, ay yo with the tariffs, he wouldn't have got it on time he wouldn't have no tariffs are you right, he was already home. He would have went to the corner store, little stop it I think they need to charge his ass.
Speaker 2:He needs to pay with you a hefty like come on. Yeah, you have now put your life in danger twice, one of them for absolutely no reason good reason and you taking away resources from other people who potentially needed those resources, like people calling 9-1-1, faking and playing around.
Speaker 3:You're taking resources away. You're going to go back up there. It's the same.
Speaker 1:Jumanji. I said Jumanji like the game. That's crazy. Wait, maybe that's what they said.
Speaker 3:What's worse the work snitch or the wannabe supervisor? Mr the.
Speaker 1:You said what's worse the work snitch or the wannabe supervisor. Ain't that the same people? No, not always okay, I would say that's crazy. The wannabe supervisor. I would go with the wannabe supervisor Because you possibly fucking everything up.
Speaker 5:You fucking work, snitch up and anything.
Speaker 1:Like. I don't like how you try to communicate to the actual people who runs this shit how we work and we work fine, except your ass is telling on everybody. The wannabe manager is telling on the. The wannabe manager is telling on the work snitch.
Speaker 3:So the work supervisor is worse. That's who you're picking. Yeah, sure, that's who I'm going with. I'm going with the snitch, because one thing about a wannabe supervisor you're not the supervisor, so you can get these words, but a snitch they're going to tell. Even if you threaten them, they gonna tell.
Speaker 1:They gonna tell that you threatened them so I never, I never encountered a work snitch yeah yeah, I never. I've seen plenty of wannabe supervisors.
Speaker 2:I've seen both in action. Yeah, me too, but I'm gonna go with the supervisor only because you can tell whatever the hell you want. First you got to prove it. Yeah, and I'm the type of person that you ain't going to have nothing to snitch on me about anyway, because my job done. I know who to do shit in front of and who not to Right.
Speaker 2:True, True it is. You can say whatever you want to. Who to do shit in front of and who not to? True it is, you can say whatever you want to. But the wannabe supervisor. Sometimes in certain places they end up playing that role so much that they end up kind of getting a certain level of power. And sometimes the wannabe supervisor is the pet of the actual supervisor or manager and allows them to have certain authority or powers.
Speaker 5:And I don't got time for that.
Speaker 3:Yes you are.
Speaker 2:Needy's a wannabe supervisor and I'm like I ain't got no time for that.
Speaker 1:Yeah.
Speaker 2:I ain't got no time for that at all. That's great, that's great Damn.
Speaker 3:Mm-hmm, mm-mm, I will Welp, mm-hmm that's good.
Speaker 4:Mmhmm, I will well, mmhmm so deep down.
Speaker 2:Women don't really want to work. Do we find that to be a true and accurate statement?
Speaker 1:yes, I think nobody wants to work. No, that's not true.
Speaker 2:Not as people who want to work.
Speaker 3:Yeah, can they be whistling while they're doing it? You know what?
Speaker 1:Yeah, those who love their jobs Don't get me wrong. I love my job too, but If I didn't have to work, if I had hit the lotto or some shit, I wouldn't work.
Speaker 2:It's funny because I have said I love my job, though over the course of time like and just like my working career, like, oh my god, if I came into a bunch of money like I'm just not working again, like I would still work. But I I find I would still work because it might not be those same hours. Right. Different capacity of work I need something to occupy my time in a different way. You can only travel or shop, so much yeah.
Speaker 1:I think the capacity of work would be different. I'll probably do some charitable stuff. Go out there in the community type stuff and do that type of work when it impacts something positively. Charitable stuff. Go out there in the community type stuff and do that type of work where it impacts some something positively of. But I wouldn't go in the office.
Speaker 2:Yeah, nothing like that there is a certain point where you actually have you need to like, use your brain yeah yeah, you know like so yeah, but I I agree with you. I would probably like more of that type of work.
Speaker 1:The capacity of work would change for me, yes, but you know I would still do something, because if you burn, you're going to burn through your money as faster than you think. When you're just sitting there with your ideas Correct and ideas, some ideas might go, some, most ideas might fail. That's how things work. Right, you find the success out of the failures, but how many failures are you going to have before you run out of money?
Speaker 2:so you got to do something but do you think that it's more women than men? I'm not answering that question.
Speaker 1:I'm not answering that I am not touching that shit.
Speaker 3:I would say in an older generation, definitely women. I think my wife would. I would say in an older generation, definitely women. I think my wife would tell me I would say this generation right now it's about 50-50. Maybe more so on the men.
Speaker 2:My wife would Our generation, or you mean, like the no, not our generation, no, the generation after us.
Speaker 3:Okay and down, we got a tree job.
Speaker 1:We grew up on Living Color. Oh no, the generation after us and down, we got a tree job. We grew up on living color. It was like you got to have two or three jobs, shit like that. But no, my wife would consider not working, but she hates not doing anything, so she would complain about going to work, didn't complain about having nothing to do at work. Yeah, so it's like which one is like you? Know so I can't even say it.
Speaker 3:I couldn't, I can't agree with your wife with that one, because yeah, it's like, being busy makes the time go. You need something to stimulate.
Speaker 1:Yeah no, some women would love to be just stay-at-home wives and take care of home and be able to make their home look fucking great and do those type of things.
Speaker 2:In some ways they consider that a job yeah.
Speaker 1:And men do the same thing. I know men who would love to be stay-at-home. Yeah, love to be stay at home yeah.
Speaker 3:Yeah, if I had that situation now, I would say me younger, it would have been nice, but too overwhelming for me because I didn't know how to handle myself back then. But me now knowing how to handle being overwhelmed a little better than I did when I was younger, I could probably be an at-home wife with the kids, but I mean, there have to be kids with there though. I can't be an at-home wife and just sit there and be like, alright, I'm cleaning everything and this bitch has nothing to do. Like no.
Speaker 4:I gotta have kids.
Speaker 3:Right. You can only dust that shade so many times my husband would come home and be like bitch. You changed this shit again you my husband would come home and be like bitch. You changed this shit again.
Speaker 2:You just changed it yesterday.
Speaker 3:Blake, you better go apply to be a deputy. Yo get out of here Y'all get on my fucking nerves.
Speaker 1:That's the name of the fucking episode. Deputy.
Speaker 3:Deputy, I hate that you said liberty, bippity though that's how that's messed.
Speaker 2:Alright. What's next your?
Speaker 1:favorite part oh, my favorite part of the show yes, once again.
Speaker 5:Looking like that. The diamonds and guns are now gems. Pull gas like a bass head. Pull on stems. The mall got the ball Run out and tell the friends drop a gem on them.
Speaker 1:Yeah, drop a gem on them. Let's drop a gem on these motherfuckers.
Speaker 2:I don't know what the fuck I'm doing. You was getting your turkey pieces.
Speaker 1:Hey, yo Straight out of you. That's crazy, that is crazy, that was crazy.
Speaker 3:I'm just going to rewind that real quick. No, we're going to keep that in.
Speaker 1:Hey yo, gym number one, gym number one, gym number one. You got too many basters in you anyway, wow.
Speaker 3:Now she tried to save yourself. Wow, that's crazy.
Speaker 2:Gym number one Too many basters Really.
Speaker 5:Wow.
Speaker 1:When I shut down, I shut down for real. I'm talking McDonald's ice cream machine. Yeah, I talked about this too, like if I mental, mental peace man I'm. When I shut down, I'm gone, don't, don't bother me yeah, I have to agree I have to agree yeah, but to the degree of mcdonald's ice cream machine.
Speaker 2:You ain't fucking with nobody If I get to the point that I've now shut down.
Speaker 3:Yeah, I think if I ever get to that type of shutdown, just put me in the institute Like a loony bin, just put me up. Just leave me there All right Gem number two.
Speaker 1:We right gem number two. We've been thinking about this. Someone said stop being the go-to person for someone you can't go to. How do you feel about that? So I think again it just plays on what we talked about earlier about being a friend or whatever. Sometimes it'd be like that yeah well, you're the friend that they always go to yeah and you know like the type of issues you might have they cannot help you and then sometimes you end up being that person for everybody in your life.
Speaker 2:right, everybody, everybody identifies you as the person to lean on, be the shoulder, the strong person.
Speaker 3:That strong shit is sickening it really is. It destroys a person.
Speaker 1:You ever had that person where you try to have that conversation with them and they somehow make it about them oh, absolutely, and it's like okay, well, I guess my shit ain't it.
Speaker 2:And that's when I'll turn into the McDonald's ice cream.
Speaker 1:Yeah like all right, this is over. Yep, that's pretty much how it goes, uh-huh. Yep All right gem number three. This is how y'all feel I want you to talk about working. Missed one day of work and my check was $200 less Worked one extra day and I only made $7.20 a month.
Speaker 3:Yeah, the math ain't mathin'.
Speaker 1:Never math. Do you feel like that when you work overtime and you just be like that's it.
Speaker 3:Let me tell you something. So when, like my boss would be like, oh, we offer overtime, but you know it's like two hours or whatever a day or something like that, and I'd be like, yeah, nah they just take it, she's like you don't want to do it. No, I'm like, if I'm not working five hours or more, I'm not doing it because that's just your tax. It's stupid. Yeah, you're just paying the taxes. Even with the five hours, you still kind of just paying your taxes.
Speaker 2:It makes no fucking sense yeah, I don't get overtime, but I feel like when I used to get overtime, like back in the day, like when I worked like retail and stuff, and be like, oh yeah, I got overtime, got a couple I don't work 80 hours this week and nope and you know what else?
Speaker 3:I found out too, which is crazy if you actually work, say like you do like. So I used to do like 10 hours extra, right, and if I was to go over those 10 hours, they take more fucking taxes out the more money. So it's like the more hours that you so 10. My 10 10 hours is a cap off for me, because that's the perfect amount of hours over for overtime where they don't fuck with your check like that.
Speaker 1:But if you go 15 hours, the more money you make, the more taxes they take out.
Speaker 3:They take that shit and it's like, well, this looks like the check I get on a regular fucking basis. That's stupid. So I'm like mm-mm.
Speaker 2:How is that? Usually when you're working the line or I'm excuse me what?
Speaker 3:online or I'm scoozy. What Next?
Speaker 1:Jim Sean, I want to know how you feel about this. Why me I just?
Speaker 2:want to get rich. The way y'all get pregnant Unplanned and fast. Yes, please yes, sign me up. Look, you know how rich we be. Yes, please yes.
Speaker 3:Sign me up. Look, you know how rich we be 4-5 Nigga In a, in a Two month span.
Speaker 2:Somebody need to base this bottom. I need some.
Speaker 3:That base at the bottom is wild Drop that jam.
Speaker 1:We got anything else. We got any uh listeners questions. We have any uh fan mail. We have anything. We come on, guys, we miss you out there, plus ones.
Speaker 3:Let's go, let's go we just got turkey basting and butter.
Speaker 2:I know what I'm going to be for Halloween this year. What Turkey Basting and butter. I'm going to say Purdue on my back, you're going to be a Tudurkin A Tudurkin, a Tudukkin, tudukkin oh A Tudurkin.
Speaker 1:A Tadurkin, a Taduckin, taduckin, oh, a Tadurkin with a deputy.
Speaker 2:Sounds like you had a dirty turkey duck.
Speaker 3:Oh my god, I've never had it. No, you never tried. A Taduckin I have, is it good?
Speaker 2:Yeah, it's, you know, just three meats.
Speaker 1:And we know you had a Tadakin. We out of here, we out of here. Thank you for joining us.
Speaker 3:We see y'all next week later, guys, later can you handle this? Yeah, beyonce.
Speaker 4:I can. Can you handle this? Yeah, beyonce, I can. Woo, come on, baby, don't you wanna dance with me? Can you handle? Handle me. You gotta do much better if you're gonna dance with me tonight.
Speaker 5:You gotta work your jet-lag if you're gonna dance with me tonight. Read my list carefully. If you like what you see, move, groove, you can hang with me. But it looks like I just shook up and scared of me, so go to sleep. Tell the time for me. I don't think you're ready for this yet. I don't think you're ready for this, jay. I don't think you're ready for this, jay. I don't think you're ready for this. My body's too good and it's just for your back. I don't think you're ready for this, jay. I don't think you're ready for this, jay. I don't think you're ready for this. My body's too good and it's just for your back. Can you handle this? Can you handle this?
