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Parenting advice on-the-go, with fun episodes that will make you laugh, cry, and feel better armed to be the parent you want to be! No punishments, rewards, or ultimatums required. (they’re actually discouraged).
Join your host Andee Martineau, founder of the breakthrough parenting framework Connect Method Parenting, as she helps parents discover why their kids don’t listen and shows them the step-by-step process of regaining influence and building relationships that will last a lifetime!
Connect Method Parenting I Conscious Parenting, Positive Parenting, Gentle Parenting, Connective Parenting, Peaceful Parenting, Slow Parenting, Parenting Teens, Single Parenting, Joyful Parenting, Positive Discipline, ADHD Parenting
Ep #53 Three Vital Parenting Decisions Pt 3
Happy Wednesday! Today, we conclude the 3 Vital Parenting Decisions Series. If you haven’t listened to the episodes from Monday and Tuesday, check those out first because they lay the groundwork for today’s discussion.
Today's Focus: Practicing extreme self-compassion. It’s essential. My coach emphasized the importance of being gentle and loving towards myself, even when I felt I had failed. This approach transformed my ability to connect deeply with my children.
Self-compassion prevents us from slipping into survival mode, which can lead to negative reactions and disconnection. By practicing self-compassion, we foster a peaceful, connected family environment.
Key Points from the Workshop:
- Day 1: Stop energizing off-track behavior with punishments and rewards.
- Day 2: Proactively connect with your kids to create lasting bonds.
- Day 3: Practice extreme self-compassion to support personal growth and deeper connections.
Practical Steps:
- Redefine mistakes as growth opportunities.
- Welcome all emotions as part of the human experience.
- Practice the "SOS" method:
- Stop: Be present and aware of your thoughts and feelings.
- Open: Approach your thoughts with curiosity and compassion.
- Stay: Stay with your emotions long enough to process them.
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