Bougie Bayou Witches Podcast
"Ways You Can Manifest Money, Love, & Protection"
Ever wondered how to transform your financial struggles into a story of abundance? Join Toni alongside guest experts Marquise, Q the Alchemist, and Bossa NovaB as we guide you through the mystical and practical world of manifesting money. Our latest podcast episode focuses on candle magic, gratitude, and the revolutionary 369 method that could drastically shift your approach to financial freedom. We're not just talking theory here; we get personal, sharing our own journeys with money, and the pivotal shifts that have led us to success. We also dive into the importance of maintaining a wealth-attracting mindset, why it's essential to budget with intention, and how to invest in a way that invites even more abundance into your life.
Our conversation then takes a heartfelt turn as we examine self-love's impact on relationships. We're getting deep and real about our own challenges and triumphs in love. Hear about the transformative power of setting firm boundaries and learning to prioritize self-care, which can magnetically attract a love that respects and matches our own vibrational energy. It's a candid exploration of how we've taught others to treat us and the power that understanding our love languages holds in forging lasting, meaningful connections.
Finally, we protect what's most precious – your inner peace and spirituality. We're sharing protective practices, from prayer and crystals to candle magic, that can shield you from negativity and keep you grounded. As a motivational speaker, I offer personal insights into safeguarding your spirit against life's darker moments and energy vampires. We also celebrate the unseen forces that uplift us and discuss how to harness creativity and nature to reclaim and empower your path. From manifesting love to guarding your peace, this episode is your ally in navigating life's complexities with spiritual savvy and heartfelt wisdom.
Ever wondered how to transform your financial struggles into a story of abundance? Join Toni alongside guest experts Marquise, Q the Alchemist, and Bossa NovaB as we guide you through the mystical and practical world of manifesting money. Our latest podcast episode focuses on candle magic, gratitude, and the revolutionary 369 method that could drastically shift your approach to financial freedom. We're not just talking theory here; we get personal, sharing our own journeys with money, and the pivotal shifts that have led us to success. We also dive into the importance of maintaining a wealth-attracting mindset, why it's essential to budget with intention, and how to invest in a way that invites even more abundance into your life.
Our conversation then takes a heartfelt turn as we examine self-love's impact on relationships. We're getting deep and real about our own challenges and triumphs in love. Hear about the transformative power of setting firm boundaries and learning to prioritize self-care, which can magnetically attract a love that respects and matches our own vibrational energy. It's a candid exploration of how we've taught others to treat us and the power that understanding our love languages holds in forging lasting, meaningful connections.
Finally, we protect what's most precious – your inner peace and spirituality. We're sharing protective practices, from prayer and crystals to candle magic, that can shield you from negativity and keep you grounded. As a motivational speaker, I offer personal insights into safeguarding your spirit against life's darker moments and energy vampires. We also celebrate the unseen forces that uplift us and discuss how to harness creativity and nature to reclaim and empower your path. From manifesting love to guarding your peace, this episode is your ally in navigating life's complexities with spiritual savvy and heartfelt wisdom.
Hello, I'm Toni from Bougie Bayou Witches Podcast. Of course, I'm the host and I am here with my guest.
Speaker 2:Marquise Q, the Alchemist.
Speaker 3:BossaNovaB.
Speaker 1:All right, so today this is episode 14, and we're going to be talking about ways that you can manifest money, love and protection. So we're going to go ahead and get started off, y'all, by manifesting money. So what are some ways that you manifest money?
Speaker 5:oh working um, no, I'm burning my candles too, my green candles. I do do my green candles and for me I'm just looking up what the color green means. And then actually when I started practicing, uh, candle magic and stuff, I just I look at that intention, I'm on the definition when I'm, when it's in my living room and it's burning on my altar, I'm just yeah all right, what about you, sir?
Speaker 2:writing.
Speaker 1:Write it all down let me guess that 369 method write it all down and make it plain.
Speaker 2:I write every day. Um, I don't miss a day. Like I said, I have nine tablets and I'm running out of room. I gotta give him another tablet when I leave here I love that just write it all down. So is it a?
Speaker 1:369 method that you um normally write down or you just basically just write down stuff that you want to manifest I write down what I manifest I thank all my guys, I thank everybody.
Speaker 2:Then I go into and then I write I am healed, I am, I'm strong, I'm wiser, I'm, you know. I write down those things and then after that, um, I'm, I'm thankful, okay, right, thankful showing your gratitude, you know showing you know, saying thankful, three, three well three times saying thankful three times and then I share at the end you know all right, what about you?
Speaker 3:um, for me, the way I manifest money, um, I literally I like to take care of my health and I feel like that plays a important part with manifesting money, because your vessel is a lot more clear so you could channel uh, you know, the money faster. I feel like manifest faster and, um, I use affirmations and just the gratitude. That's a really major key is to express your gratitude and already claim it like if you already got it.
Speaker 1:You know, act as such and then, you know, be in that energy of money right you know, and it'll come to you I agree, yeah, I would say some of the ways that I um manifest money is I like to do my little money rituals. I like to do my little work weekly, bi-weekly, or, you know, during the full moon or new moon cycle um, also um. I like to keep a positive mindset and set goals for myself.
Speaker 1:Um every new year I like to do me a vision board and set out the goals that I want to accomplish this year. I'll pull some tarot cards and I set them up and see, okay, how my life going to play out this year. Okay, got you All right, thank you spirit. So, like I kind of do things to where I kind of get an overview of how that year or this year will play out for me, since this is the year that aid, you know, money, abundance, prosperity and wealth for a lot of people. So I try to, um, basically just do like my candle work and just say a lot of affirmations this is a certain um meditation music oh yes, oh yes, that too, that's very helpful.
Speaker 1:I just do a lot of that and I just stay positive and set goals. And I feel like when you do stay positive and you set goals for yourself, they might not always happen when you want them to, but they'll happen when they need to Exactly, and so that's just the type of mindset I set, because I know a lot of people come in and they say certain things like oh, I'm broke.
Speaker 4:I say oh, no, no, around here, okay, we don't speak.
Speaker 1:Brokenness, exactly your funds might be a little low, but you still. Yeah, you have to be careful and mindful of the words that come out your mouth, because you can curse your own self exactly, yeah, be mindful of things that I say and say positive affirmations and keep a positive mindset for sure, words carry energy, man yes yes, they do yes, people don't realize how strong words are, you know, and it's like, if you speak that on yourself, like you're basically cursing yourself.
Speaker 4:Yeah, that's real.
Speaker 1:Yeah, that's all real, exactly. I wonder why you always have financial problems.
Speaker 4:Yeah.
Speaker 1:Because you're thinking about that Uh-huh, about that mindset For sure. You got mindset. Get out of that poverty, mindset people. So yes, so do you feel um that?
Speaker 5:you must change your mindset to manifest money, absolutely, absolutely, just like you were just saying, if you coming in, you're saying like you, you know you broke, or you having all these unhealthy words that you're speaking of yourself, um how you expect to see better.
Speaker 5:You know what I'm saying how you expect to know better if you just focused on you know what I'm saying, what's present at hand, when you know there's a whole future and hope. You know what I'm saying much more to look forward to. The best is yet to come. That's my, one of my models man, the mind is the matter.
Speaker 3:to all means you know to think about it like.
Speaker 2:Life is like a canvas. You can paint it however you want to.
Speaker 4:You can paint your reality however you want to Make sure you have a pretty brush. Yes, I love that, I love that.
Speaker 2:You know, just have a mindset man, Just you know energy got to be well, has to be well, because the thing about it we have a thing called the inner me, where we bat ourselves a lot. So yes, you gotta gotta face him, her, well you know male or female, but face that still on a positive note.
Speaker 3:Right, you're good, that's real yeah, yes, I definitely agree with that, because you know everything that happens in the physical is how you really feel on the inside, you know.
Speaker 1:So it's like uh, it is a mindset thing, definitely it's a mindset thing, yeah I totally agree, um, I feel on how, if you um must change your mindset to manifest money. Yes, I totally agree. Like I said, you know prior that you have to stay positive and think positive, because if you don't, then it's not going to happen you'll forever be in that same situation and you'll forever be comfortable in the situation that you're currently in because, you're not trying to move upward and think positive.
Speaker 1:So, yes, okay. So do you, um feel budgeting and managing plays a part and manifesting money? Budgeting and managing play a part in manifesting money. Budgeting and managing play a part in manifesting money. Hell yeah.
Speaker 5:Because I'm definitely not doing that. Yeah, definitely not doing that, and I feel like that's really really important as I'm getting older and I'm starting to realize that, you know, become aware of that. It's actually me learning to understand it. So I said that, backwards, I'm starting to become aware of that, I'm actually getting into the moment of understanding it.
Speaker 1:Okay.
Speaker 2:All right, for sure, because you know you can't be reckless. Can't be reckless, brenda, because, like I was saying earlier, the mind is the matter to all means. So you have to be mindful of the things that you ask for and when you ask for it, you can't be reckless with it or careless with it. Right, you have to be, you know, just careful, very careful. You know what I'm saying Micromanaging everything Like balling on the budget.
Speaker 1:Don't baller block us, but yeah.
Speaker 2:So one of those things, man, you got to just you know, you just got to just not saying be stingy with yourself, but prioritize some things.
Speaker 3:You know and.
Speaker 2:I have been learning that as well. More you know to prioritize and to learn how to budget things. Bottle on the budget.
Speaker 1:There you go. Bottle on the budget, ain't no?
Speaker 3:wrong with that what?
Speaker 1:about you.
Speaker 3:I have a different view. That's kind of different budget ain't no wrong with that. What about you? I have a different view. That's kind of different.
Speaker 3:Okay, I feel that when it comes to budgeting, I feel it's more like uh, I'm gonna invest my money into something you know, that's what I want you know instead of, because I feel, if you're like budgeting and like penny pension, it's kind of like you know, you're kind of showing the universe like, okay, I'm like like you know, it's like like I kind of just you know, it's like when you take that money, yes, you're gonna save it, but invest, invest into something so you can make more money.
Speaker 2:So you can make more money. You know you got to find the right investments yeah, exactly, yeah, it's also giving the universe like, okay, I still have a sort of type yeah, scarcity mindset, yeah, yeah, scarcity mindset.
Speaker 3:Yeah, scarcity mindset. To where?
Speaker 6:like if you give me this I have to hold on to it. So tight to it I'm not going to get no more.
Speaker 1:Exactly so I get it, I get it. But see, the good thing is, you're not squandering your money, you're investing it.
Speaker 3:Yes, exactly. So to me that's not mismanaging exactly. I wrote that down exactly, uh huh, yup, exactly, I wrote that down. Yes, most definitely money education on where
Speaker 4:to invest. Yeah, yeah, for sure it'll be back in two weeks.
Speaker 5:Yeah, for real, cause you know, my allowance is gone yes for the moment, yeah, spend that check and get it right.
Speaker 3:Yes, cause I also feel like money is water you know, that's why it's like water, like cash flow. You know bank, like currency. You know Like it's water, so it's like it has to be recycled. You know, recycle it and it's like it's going to come back. You know, and if you have that abundance mindset, it'll come back like tenfold. You know what.
Speaker 2:I mean. So basically speak to her, Tell her where it wants to go.
Speaker 4:Yeah, that's real, it's that in-between check week where.
Speaker 5:I'll be like I know I shouldn't have bought this lunch for me and everybody. Oh, I got it.
Speaker 4:Yeah, that's it. That's all you want. Yeah, that's all you want. I'm going to get the state you better put playing at the modest, because I know what comes to me.
Speaker 2:You know what I'm saying. So it's like within that, in between check week.
Speaker 5:That's when. That's probably why it ain't coming back so much since then.
Speaker 6:I should have done that.
Speaker 1:You know, I would say budgeting and managing your money. It does play a factor, you know when you are manifesting, because if you do mismanage your money and don't budget right, then guess what you might not have but you can get it back. You know doing what it takes to do it. So I do feel like that plays a factor. And also the next question what are some stories of ways you manifested wealth into your life? You know you don't manifest some wealth into your life.
Speaker 5:I'm going to say just recently I set up here a $50 check in the the mail and when I tell y'all needed some gas, and knowing that all of this was going and I didn't have to phone home, yeah I was like thank you, thank you, thank you and even more so with that. To go just a little bit more deeper, being transparent, it was all came from, um, the ex-moms that you know did some fucked up shit to me, so, uh-huh, the crime victims paid all my medical expenses but when the?
Speaker 5:da got everything. It's like I don't know. He still gotta pay you this money, so all that money, instead of going towards medical bills, it just comes towards me now. So it don't happen all the time. But I wasn't expecting this, so when I sat up there and I got me a light green candle burning too, I didn't know what.
Speaker 4:Yeah, look, and.
Speaker 5:I really wasn't trying to manifest it. I'm just like God, you, I know what I need right now.
Speaker 3:Shout out to Toni with her spiritual candle.
Speaker 2:Look yeah the employment that I have now. You know that it's like I've been signed up for the job way in October when I was going through the karmic cycle and it's like, after that, everything left, the car that I wanted left, everything came. So I'm still writing and certain things are happening. You know, I know this year I'm going to be a millionaire, this year I'm not.
Speaker 3:Oh yes. I'm going to take it. Claim that.
Speaker 2:You know, I'm going to let my voice make my money for me.
Speaker 3:So I'm going to make money while I sleep yeah.
Speaker 2:That's what I meant.
Speaker 3:I love that, that's what I meant.
Speaker 2:I love that.
Speaker 3:That's so real. Yes, yeah, so a story. When I manifested money A few years ago, like during the pandemic, I was kind of like going through some financial hardship and you know, I'm a single mom, so like my daughter just depends on me and stuff. So I didn't know how I was going to pay my rent, but I knew in the back of my mind that it was going to be paid Right. You know, like that's the thing, Like you have to just kind of not worry. I know it's hard, it's easier said than done, people Right.
Speaker 4:You know, it's easier said than done.
Speaker 3:You know, like, but you have to just know that it's going to be okay in the end. You know it's going to be okay.
Speaker 4:That mindset that you was talking about. Yeah, you know, yes yes.
Speaker 3:And next, thing, you know, you know I had applied for some stuff, you know, months prior and I got a $10,000 check in the mail. $10,000 check in the mail. Yes, yes, okay.
Speaker 1:Yes, yes, yes, it's not too close, yes, yes yes, now it's in class, because you wasn't stressed and thinking about it?
Speaker 3:Yeah, exactly, exactly. I just knew I was like you know what? I'm going to just leave it in God's hands, I'm going to just leave it.
Speaker 1:And next thing, you know I was like Well me let me see. My story is back in 2020, when you know COVID and everything happened. Um, I had this guy I used to talk to and if you're watching, hey, how you doing and so he was just like you ain't gonna mount to none, you ain't gonna make this you know, I was the type of person I always like to speak. What it is that I want to make into you know existence and so he was just like you ain't gonna make that.
Speaker 1:Let me tell you how this, let me tell you how the universe went mysterious way so my business contacted me. They said hey, you know, sad to say, this tax repair died and we have a business in austin and if you want to buy it, we know, um, we'll sell it to you. Ain't gotta pay us right now, when you start getting your money that I would break it down so I got my own second tax office.
Speaker 1:I must say and year, even though it was a sad year for a lot of people, it was the year that I made my first six figures. Okay, yes, you know, I was thinking about this negative person saying you ain't going to mount a six figure. You transbuted that girl. A couple weeks later, I got a blessing opportunity to buy a business. So that way that was my first year I made six figures.
Speaker 4:Yes, and I've been speaking it to existence.
Speaker 1:And it happened so like I say as long as you keep a positive mindset and you don't let those negative naysayers get in your ear, you can do whatever it is you want to do.
Speaker 3:Let me tell you when the universe is ready for you to make that money and do what it is you want to do.
Speaker 1:They'll create a way.
Speaker 3:Trust me. And they did for me, so you know I mean that's, that's my story, and oh yeah, girl, I love it why he said nobody's still struggling yeah, and you know what? Honestly, girl, I feel that.
Speaker 4:I feel that all the way you know, because I've had some people in my life told me I wasn't ever gonna amount to nothing and you know, oh, you'll always be trash and blah, blah, blah and it's like, oh really, look at, look at me now, baby, I'm smiling.
Speaker 1:Okay, all of you, all of you, all of you For real, all of you but you know what I feel like too. A lot of times, people are miserable and they're not happy with who they are and they try to take you down and anyone else around in their past down because, they're not happy with who they are. But you can't let what they say get to you. You gotta overlook them, because if so you'll never amount to nothing, exactly.
Speaker 3:So I didn't let what he said get to me.
Speaker 4:I said well, anyway and look what happened he called he's like oh, but you know I'm so proud of you I was like oh, you're a get that trouble shit out of here. You proud of me. I was like you know you would have done it. Get that trouble shit out of here. You proud of me when you're doing fake love. I mean, I wasn't like don't know, I was like we'll get out of here.
Speaker 1:That's what you call, that fake love that part, that part Fake love Because they sitting there like dang. I can't believe she made that.
Speaker 4:Yeah, it's a thing.
Speaker 3:It's like you could have been right here with me.
Speaker 4:You know, I don't think he would have. Oh, tony, teach me how you do that again. Can I do it while I'm on the treadmill at? The gym or something Stay positive, stay positive.
Speaker 1:Stay positive. That's what it is Stay positive. Yes, definitely I didn't let that negativeness because I did have know for a time A lot of negative folks Get in my ear.
Speaker 4:Yeah, and tell me.
Speaker 2:Why are you?
Speaker 1:trying to do this. You're doing too much. You need to stop. Uh huh, uh huh. What? Yeah Right, I used to knock those people Out my life, you know people like that. You don't want them and need them around In your life or in your circle. They're haters.
Speaker 3:Yeah, they're jealous yeah.
Speaker 1:They don't need to be around you Because what you got for you will happen, and sometimes you got to dismiss certain people.
Speaker 3:That is so true.
Speaker 2:Because, they could be your blockages. Yeah for sure, they're blocking you from moving forward. Yep, yep, shit. I'm living with one of my blockages For real.
Speaker 4:That's true.
Speaker 2:That's true. It when I walked away from my situation, everything came.
Speaker 4:Oh yeah, and it's still coming, it's still climbing.
Speaker 2:It's still going like my podcasting that I've been doing. I've been wanting to do it, but it was just bound and blocked and bonded up and tied up in a crazy gift. But I had to release it and let it go with love. When you release something with love, man, I'm going to tell you, man, when you release something, with love and really release it, because my grandmother always said when you're angry, baby, you're going back.
Speaker 2:When you're angry, you're going back. That is true. When you release it with love, genuine, unconditional love. That is so true. And what's the best man? It's the best ever man.
Speaker 3:That is so true. So it's just that yeah man, that yeah man. A lot came after, oh man steady, steady coming.
Speaker 2:I'm just on, this block is open up and up, right, yeah, good, yeah, just climbing that ladder.
Speaker 1:I'm going up and up to the top. All right, speaking on love, we about to get next. The next topic is manifesting love. So what are some ways that you manifest love?
Speaker 5:oh, but not having boundaries. What I'm, what I'm manifesting, I can't even say would have been love. So you don't believe in having boundaries. What I'm, what I'm manifesting, I can't even say would have been loved so you don't believe in having boundaries? Uh, it's not that I don't believe in it I definitely do now, but it's the.
Speaker 5:It was just again lack of self-awareness, lack of uh, just low self-esteem all of that like, made me manifest certain situations that I did not want to be in but, as far as, like, I guess, now in a way I'm I'm creating that, I'm manifesting that again by having these boundaries, and yeah loving on myself, yes, always self-love, yeah, so I guess, okay, my bad, let me rewind me sitting up there saying no to some, to some bullshit that I chose myself over the situation, basically gave me my crown, I feel like. And metaphorically like was crowning for me. I'm like no, I didn't choose me.
Speaker 4:Who is this? Who the fuck is this? Yeah, yeah yeah, yeah. I'm friendly, I like you though, but they playing you, yeah. They giving you kibbles and bits yeah, for real. Oh my God, oh my.
Speaker 5:God.
Speaker 4:Give me my pedestal back. Shit I make, that shit Give me that shit back and the thing about it. Ooh, man, you said so much more than that. I know right, I know.
Speaker 6:Can't even piggyback off of that.
Speaker 2:When you growing in love, not falling, yes. I don't want nobody to catch me when you growing in love with yourself and you love on yourself the certain type of way that the type of love that you want will automatically come to you. Because when you loving on yourself, that certain type of way and you falling in love with yourself and when you get in that mirror, like you were saying, man cause, like, oh man, I'm at the gym, but they, like boy, look at the fuck yeah.
Speaker 6:Like bro, look at you Like, and I'm like man, I'm farting, I'm like I'm in the best shape of my life at this moment.
Speaker 2:Like right now and I'm just like damn Q, yes, you far, because, like man in the journey I was there while I was at, I was like 265, I could not drop. I could not drop it. It's just you know so much going on, like right now I'm at 230, I'm okay running good, so I'm, I'm at like I couldn't do certain type of pull-ups.
Speaker 6:I'm doing like 100 pull-ups now so I'm like mobile, I'm in there so like um the manifesting love you want is just loving on yourself yeah, loving on yourself in that right type of way man Falling no, not falling, but growing in love with yourself.
Speaker 1:Falling and growing what?
Speaker 5:you talking about.
Speaker 1:Yeah.
Speaker 5:That part In that order.
Speaker 2:In that order. You know, just you know. Yeah, growing in love yes.
Speaker 1:That self-love is something.
Speaker 2:Oh man.
Speaker 3:What about you, man? They already took my answers. Yes for sure, but no, honestly, the way I got into my relationship was loving on myself, self-love, because when people they see that you are giving yourself that love, it emanates like the people see that you know and they want, like they're like damn, like this girl's confident, she knows who she is, you know, I like that, you know, as opposed to like somebody with low self-esteem and they just don't think much about themselves. That's going to show off too and that's when you're going to attract the abusers, manipulators, liars, people that just want to take your power and stuff like that. So, yeah, definitely self-love. When you start setting boundaries, you'll attract somebody that is like the mindset.
Speaker 2:It's like a vibrational match. That's good you said about the boundaries, because at first I didn't have none, you know. You know, sometimes you fall in love With the potential. Oh my god, that part and we looked at that part Like okay, damn this. You know.
Speaker 6:I, you know it's like okay, I see you.
Speaker 2:But then again, you ignore certain things. You ignore the red flags, you ignore the thing that you try to get the benefit of the doubt. But never was the benefit of the dog so now, when you set those boundaries, you look at yourself and then you love on yourself differently. You're like man, I did all this shit, but look what happened look who I became. Look who I alchemized, look who I'm going to become. That's when you be like boy, you dangerous yeah for real dangerous, not something you dangerous yeah no more manipulation.
Speaker 5:They can't come back as like we growing and things like that, I'm just like wondering like, is that just a way of it, just like trying to test you like really?
Speaker 2:on, like you know what I'm saying that you make that agreement. Okay, okay, okay, yeah, cause you get tested on those things and see that the things that you was working on you'll get those same tests back again.
Speaker 3:Different face, the same test yeah, that's so true, so I'm going to go see if he's grown or your ancestors are grown.
Speaker 2:Let me see if my child has grown in this area I'm going to go sit right back up. I'm going to do it again and then, when you pass that, test, because all you got to do is pass the test to get to the next level. So you got to do. So we started leveling up, we started coming into our higher self To get to the next level of the we pass them, we feel a whole lot better and we're like man, I didn't fall for that.
Speaker 6:That got me here this first time.
Speaker 2:I didn't look at the potential that I fell in love with, and grew in love with.
Speaker 6:I'm supposed to grow in love with and I see it differently now. No manipulation, no more of the narcissistic characteristics of the behavior that you could come at me different you got to come at me healed, you got to come at me in a certain type of way, to where you have to transform, to come at me now, that's true.
Speaker 2:So if you're not vibrating here with me, miss me, that's right, yeah it is Miss me. Stay in the 3D.
Speaker 5:And I find myself seeing folks like because I'm vulnerable and I'm telling you about you gotta be, you know what I'm saying. Yeah, it's like don't, but don't, don't get it twisted about my journey with my shadow work and my healing and all that that I've done, that I'm, you know, in that like for you to try to you know what I'm saying, bite on that or you try to use it again. You know what I'm saying. So I'm feeling all that that you're talking about q. It's like I can see right through that because I feel like since I didn't share.
Speaker 5:You're talking about Q. It's like I can see right through that, because I feel like, since I done shared certain things with you, now it's like you know, you trying it, you trying it, but no, no, no, no, no, no, let's try again with somebody else.
Speaker 1:I would say, you know, some of the ways that I manifest love is whenever I am ready, you know, to step back out and I'll do like my little manifestation spell work or whatever. Okay, I'm ready to attract the love of my life, let me do this. You know, I go on my little dates and stuff and I feel like, okay, you know, this ain't working out, this ain't for me, I'll step back. But I feel like, you know, even just manifesting, you know, life, you always got to make sure that you love yourself. It's all about self-love, because if you don't love yourself and put yourself first, then how can you manifest or bring someone else into your life when you don't even love who you are exactly boundaries.
Speaker 1:That's why I guess I am by myself, because I'm not gonna settle, yeah I'm at that point I know what it is a life that I want, and I will be patient and wait until that's real for sure the universe, so my spirit team bless that person into my life because, I have no rush. I'm having a rush, I mean I'm good now I'm yeah, you know, but when it? Do come to me. I will accept it and I will have open arms but, then I'm going to be patient and wait, because you can't just rush and want love exactly and deal with anyone mistreating and talking to you in a type of way like how some people do.
Speaker 1:Exactly, you know you gotta love yourself, so that way when you get somebody in your life, you will know what she's afraid to do and how to treat them.
Speaker 4:And how allowed to treat you.
Speaker 2:That part. But see the thing about it, you gotta train certain people to how to treat you too.
Speaker 3:Yeah, that's true too. You gotta show them how to treat you. I would say show, show show.
Speaker 6:Yeah, yeah, yeah, they try. That's like with dogs. I mean, that's true too. Dogs walk up a couple of times.
Speaker 4:Yeah, yeah, yeah, I see what you're saying Walk them like a dog dog. That'll be nice. Okay, thinking of Walk him like a dog. You went back home with it, babe.
Speaker 3:You got to teach people how to love you, because some people don't know your love language.
Speaker 4:That's real, you know? Yes, yes, because they don't know you. This is what.
Speaker 1:I mean If y'all getting to know each other y'all talk about different things like that instead of when you're going to get the cookies? No, no, no. How about you get to know who I am before you get the?
Speaker 3:cookies, exactly, so that way y'all sit down and y'all talk about each other. Yeah.
Speaker 1:Because if they ain't on that same page as you, then you shouldn't even be moving forward. Exactly it's nice knowing you.
Speaker 2:Some of us skip the serious conversations when we're dating and when we get into the relationship and want to talk about the serious things. Yeah, the things that make it rocky, you didn't know that in the beginning the things that was like okay, don't pause it, con this and that, this and that, but no, but see, like our boundaries help me to where. Like okay, look we talking about this shit from the gate.
Speaker 6:Yeah.
Speaker 2:Straight out the door. You know what this, how it's going to be.
Speaker 3:Like you know, if you can't rock with it, deuces. Because next thing you know, you'll be like I'm not from you.
Speaker 2:I'm not for you. Yes.
Speaker 1:That's how it is.
Speaker 3:Next thing you know you'll be in a situation with somebody or a relationship with somebody, and then you won't even like them, you know. That's why you be like you.
Speaker 6:Yeah, I don't like the way you put that sock on, you get somebody in.
Speaker 2:Yeah, I know they smack, but they smack and you be like you smack air, you snort.
Speaker 6:Oh no, I can't do this. I can't do this. I can't do this. No, no, no, no.
Speaker 4:I didn't sign up for this, I don't need to change on a bed when I'm trying to go to sleep, oh dang.
Speaker 5:So, do y'all feel like?
Speaker 1:manifesting love is difficult to do yes or no?
Speaker 5:I guess no, yes or no.
Speaker 1:Again up the balance it's that balance scales them skills yeah that's look.
Speaker 5:Libra, sun, mercury and Venus. Okay, it's gotta be, because I'm like tell me what broke you. You know what I'm saying. Let's get into some childhood traumas.
Speaker 5:Let's talk about some pain real quick, that's one thing, like I'm not gonna bring my up in this, but I know it's some real shit you gotta talk about. You know that darkness, that realness, like, and you was just saying like let's get to this, you know, from the jump, let's talk about it, let's get into it. Like, yeah, I don't wanna see. Like let's get to this, you know, from the jump, let's talk about it, let's get into it. Like, yeah, I don't want to see. Yo, you know, yo, show me your scars, show me your thorns show me your shadow self, so manifesting that love.
Speaker 2:It's like creating that safe space too, for it to have that sacredness to to come about right right, see, with the love thing, we can sometimes look past the red flags, and I'm speaking for self because it happened to me. Because we try to love people back to pieces, because the love that we want to give to them, that we see that they never had it before, but we so much love and it's so heartfelt, we want to give it to them. Yes, and that's the empath type of feeling that we have, the heart that we have.
Speaker 2:We want to give it to you know. So they love them back to pieces, but we're doing it all wrong.
Speaker 4:Yeah.
Speaker 2:We're doing it all wrong and the thing about it, when we have to understand that we only can love to a certain type of extent the only way that we want to love them all the way. But we can't give all because, the thing about it, I got to save something for me.
Speaker 3:True If I dig it all out.
Speaker 6:I ain't got nothing left for me, that's true. Oh my God.
Speaker 2:So that with my boundaries that I set now within myself, I got to have love for myself first, before I can even love you, because if I love you without loving myself, I can't love you properly, baby. Right, yeah, I can't, I can't get me first, before I can get you, that's right, so that's the basic you know thing about. When it comes to love man, we have to be very guarded with it and understanding about it, cause love is man, it's.
Speaker 2:It could be a scary thing but, with a certain person, a special person you'll be. You'll rather be scared with them than be scared without them. Okay, you know. So that type of thing. What about you?
Speaker 3:um, I feel with love, manifesting love, because, um, I mean people. They could, you know, have that like oh, I love you, I love you and this and that but. If it's too fast, it's like no, that's kind of lust you know what I mean, you know and it's like love. It shouldn't be like I feel. Love shouldn't be possessive or anything jealous. It should be like a natural flowing like type of like friend thing at first, you know what I mean.
Speaker 3:It's like you know, if you're, and it shouldn't be rushed. Like you know it should not be rushed like no forces exactly you.
Speaker 4:Exactly, it's got to come natural.
Speaker 3:It's like you generate that love and then, like he was saying, to piggyback what he was saying, how could you pour from an empty cup If you're not filled inside? You can't give somebody the proper love because you're not filled up and it's like you know, it's kind of draining at the end of the day, that's real.
Speaker 5:Keep them little drops, yeah, for sure you know at the end, of the day.
Speaker 4:That's real, keep them little drops, yeah, for sure but it takes you to be broken.
Speaker 2:It's like you know to go into that shadow, to understand what love really is love is not a feeling, it's a choice.
Speaker 6:Yeah, it's really a choice the thing about it.
Speaker 2:We get it so mixed up with a feeling yeah, we get pimped or simped out our feeling that we thought was love.
Speaker 3:But when you?
Speaker 2:understand how love really is transmuted and reciprocated and projected onto a person. It's a choice, so I'm giving you a choice for me to even step out to love you in that way. So it's a choice. It's not really a feeling.
Speaker 1:Yeah, very, very, very, very deep. I enjoyed that. Well now we're about to get on the protection part, on how to manifest protection. So what are some ways that you manifest protection?
Speaker 5:I pray, I wear my crystals. Um, I mean that's I don't know, that's probably like one-on-one, like type of like stuff beginning stage, but that's for me, that it. That's what it is like when I think about tiger's eye or when I think about obsidian or the uh, I forgot what it was, what it's called, so let me not even try to say it black tourmaline, oh my god, yes black tourmaline.
Speaker 5:It's, like you know, for again, kind of like with my. When I'm doing burning like candles and stuff I'm if it's like the long ones with the colors, I'm looking at that color and what it means. So so when I'm looking at that black tournament and I'm knowing it's like psychic attacks or you know, just protection. Overall, I'm like I feel that. And I do feel protected.
Speaker 4:Right.
Speaker 2:Yeah, oh, we. Um, I'm just getting into protection thing. You know I'm like I'm not a baby but I'm a toddler in it, so I'm just trying to understand more when it comes to the protection part and that part, you know, because I want to, you know, be able to protect my energy, protect my peace, protect my, you know, my temple. You know, realign everything and keep everything protected, Because the thing about it, when we're not protected, we bring stuff home, we bring things with us, Certain things that you step in, certain things that you carry, that latches on to you.
Speaker 1:Then you got babies right, hit them, it hit different you know what?
Speaker 2:they're going through, when they, when it hits them, they're cutting up and you're like man, why is this? And you know, not even knowing that you bought some home because you're not protected for sure.
Speaker 1:Well, I don't know if your grandparents ever used to say, like you got the devil in you or something wrong with you, you got demons on you, but I know my grandparents would say that all the time I'd be like, what are you talking about? But it's like, oh, do I see what they're talking about?
Speaker 3:For sure.
Speaker 1:We do get demons attached to us. We do get evil deities and spirits attached to us. That's why we have to cleanse ourselves and protect ourselves, so yeah, All right.
Speaker 3:What about you how I protect myself and keep myself protected? I like to take cleansing baths, that's my thing.
Speaker 3:Yeah, I take spiritual baths and you know I speak protection over my home and myself and my daughter, my family, basically. And you know I, you know, use my sage and stuff like that, get rid of all the negative energy. And you know I do candle work, I do candle magic. Yes, yes, uh-huh and um, I just basically it's. It's all about uh, speaking too. You know you gotta speak that and then return to center because I feel like, if, and back to that, you gotta eat right too. You gotta eat right because your vessel has to be clear. And you know, because if you're eating all messed up and stuff, it's easy for things to attach to you. You know, and drink your water. People.
Speaker 4:Drink that water. Yes, drink your water, you know, and move around and move around Go to the gym.
Speaker 1:What if the drink got water? Like you're drinking tea and lemonade, but you know you got to make good water.
Speaker 4:You drink coke, but you got to make good water. Is it alcohol? I don't see why not. I don't see why not, but yeah that's how I stay protected.
Speaker 3:I try to stay in a high vibration as much as possible and I feel like you know, anything that's sent to you it'll bounce off, you know because you are in that higher vibration, so yeah, I feel like you know, like ways of me manifesting protection.
Speaker 1:I would say I do my candle work. Of course I talk to my team and I get them to also continue to protect me, like they always have done, and I try not to too much focus on the people that are sitting in that negative energy, that evil eye.
Speaker 4:Yeah, don't focus on it.
Speaker 1:I mean F y'all. I ain't even worried about y'all.
Speaker 4:Y'all ain't even worried about y'all. I ain't even worried about right. Y'all ain't worried about me.
Speaker 1:I'm up here so I'm trying not to focus on it. I continue to do my work and think positive and, you know, communicate and talk to my team and like I tell people. As long as you do that and if this is something that your team wants you here to do, no matter what, they gonna knock all that yeah negative stuff. The people are sitting your way away.
Speaker 2:Yeah, for sure, because they have you here for a purpose, as long as you know that you are here for a purpose, you have nothing to worry about no matter how many people come your way and try to detour you and try to get you to say, okay, this it.
Speaker 1:I don't want to do this. F them, yeah for sure, get them, kick them out the way, because they ain't nothing but some little soldiers, that little toy soldiers, need to be knocked over, little pawns. They ain't working their time, so you just got to.
Speaker 1:Really, you know, stay positive and you know, think positive and just not stay in that negative mindset and continue to continue to do. If you want to have your little crystals to carry with you, you want to put your little protection oil on, you want to talk to your team, burn your little candles, do what you do yeah you stay protected, or if you want to go to my girl mine, you know she represents spiritually a candle call and let her remove that negative energy and spirit.
Speaker 1:And this is a way for you and protect you and cleanse you. Do that too because at the end of the day you got to protect yourself because ain't nobody gonna do it but yourself exactly, exactly that's your team, will do it for you, you know yeah, uh, huh, yes definitely and.
Speaker 3:I also feel like you know where attention, like energy, flows, where attention goes. So if you're paying attention, to that yeah, and focusing on.
Speaker 1:You know what I mean.
Speaker 5:It's kind of like okay and a world full of snakes. Be a glamorous honey badger, okay love that keep that honey badger.
Speaker 4:Cheering love that keep that honey bad and cheery baby keep it, keep those snakes away from you, yes, or?
Speaker 1:as they say, keep your enemies close to you too so yeah what is an experience you feel protection has helped you out with on certain situations that you were. In what ways do you feel like, by you keeping yourself protected, it helped you out in certain situations that you were in.
Speaker 5:That's a good one. I didn't have no, I guess, regrets, Like I didn't have no sorrow or pity or like you know, like damn, if I would have, just maybe, or if things.
Speaker 1:Or that situation that you told me about how, what happened to your ex, what he did to you. You had to know your team was with you, protecting you.
Speaker 5:Oh, yeah, yeah, your ex what he did to you.
Speaker 4:You had to know your team was with you protecting you. Oh, yeah, yeah. So that's because, yeah, I feel like I kind of be going off track, but no, for real.
Speaker 5:Yeah, because I was about to bleed out and die, so spirit was definitely there for sure, keeping me protected.
Speaker 1:Your team was with you.
Speaker 4:For real, he can't go nowhere.
Speaker 5:We got him that part, that part we need him now, that part, because I was just like, let me go to sleep, no, no, no.
Speaker 2:Well, I was in a situation to where that I was being attacked by a bunch of people with craziness and wanted me to act out, wanted me to go to that, that, that me, but bad as I want to go there, just my mind was just at ease, like at peace, and I knew it wasn't me I know it wasn't me.
Speaker 2:I know it was, you know it was my spirit team. It was the most high, just, you know, just protecting me like man, just and like. At the end of the day, they end up closing their mouths and they always end up scared of me. At the end of the day, they end up closing their mouths and they always end up scared of me at the end of the day, like man, what's wrong with him?
Speaker 4:He's by himself.
Speaker 2:He's not from here, but we didn't move him. I ended up walking him out the door and telling him you know, have a good day.
Speaker 4:Wow.
Speaker 2:And you know through the whole time I was just like cool. But I know the old me, I would whoop everybody in there, I would smash everybody in there, but the thing about it that helped me get out of the group and understand that I was walking into my power yeah, your purpose Stepping into my power, knowing more who I am by just stepping in it at the moment, and that's when my ascension started.
Speaker 3:Just going up.
Speaker 2:So that part it protected myself, it really protected them too as well.
Speaker 5:Okay, cause I'm the old energy, so what you wanna do?
Speaker 2:So what you wanna do, and I'm telling you Like the chill, I was halfway there, cause I'm talking about I strung up the old 95 Al Max.
Speaker 6:I strung them up. I waited on laws.
Speaker 2:I waited on brothers. Hey man, bro, you coming through she said she's supposed to do this.
Speaker 4:Hold up, hold up.
Speaker 1:You didn't have them jabobs and them reeds on.
Speaker 6:No, no, no, hey, no, no See, I didn't want to get those dirty, I didn't want to get those dirty, those were classic.
Speaker 4:Those were classic moments. That white tee and them reeds.
Speaker 6:Yeah that's for a classic moment no-transcript. So I'm like good.
Speaker 2:I'm standing on business. I don't care, I'm like man.
Speaker 6:I ain't cocky, I ain't you know, arrogant.
Speaker 2:I'm humble, I stand on business, man, you know, and I love everybody man. Mm-hmm, it's just no ill intent, no trying to hurt nobody.
Speaker 5:Don't y'all rule the heart. Yeah, that's what I'm talking about.
Speaker 2:You know. So it's you know. I just, you know, I just like to stay one way. I really do like to stay one way. That's why I just have certain things from around me.
Speaker 3:That's right away from you. What about you, hon? Um, how protection has helped me? Definitely. Um, for a while, for about a few years, I was getting gang stalked and, uh, you know, I had people just preying on my downfall, people trying to do well, not trying, they were doing spell work on me and uh, you know, I had somebody wanting to mix blood and stuff and all Swap destinies with me. Basically, that's exactly what happened Wow.
Speaker 1:Yeah, yeah, and you know you must have a great future ahead of you. I do, but then no one would be here and do that.
Speaker 3:I do.
Speaker 1:Wow.
Speaker 3:Yes, yes, definitely. People can tap into your energy and see your future?
Speaker 1:Yeah for sure. Exactly. That's why you have to be careful of the people that you let read you, man.
Speaker 4:that's what I feel be going on right now, exactly.
Speaker 3:I've been feeling that, exactly, and that's what was happening. I've been feeling that like lately, look I'll.
Speaker 4:Yeah, that's what I've been feeling.
Speaker 6:Yeah.
Speaker 1:Man, she gave me chills with that one like because I want that energy.
Speaker 4:Yeah, exactly that's exactly what was happening.
Speaker 3:I was unaware. Because I was unaware, I knew that I had something special about me because I've heard it all my life, but I wasn't really fully tapped in to who I was. I'm getting chills.
Speaker 4:This is my brother's confirmation. That's real.
Speaker 3:Yeah, and so once I started realizing and I, like you know, quote unquote woke up, you know what I mean yeah, you know, and I started. I was like I was at my wits end. I was going through my dark night. So I was like I need something. I need something like these people. I felt like my back was against the wall. Wow, you know what I mean? I felt like my back was against the wall.
Speaker 4:Wow, you know what I mean.
Speaker 3:I felt like my back was against the wall and you know they were just. It's like I almost, I was almost here, you know. I was almost here, you know, and you know obviously there was something, unseen forces that were like nah, like we're not going to let this happen to you. You know, like watch what we're about to do?
Speaker 5:you know.
Speaker 3:And yeah, now I'm over here, you know just doing great things for myself, helping people. I'm also a motivational speaker too, you know on instagram.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I'm on instagram too, and stuff like that, yeah and tiktok, you know but I don't know where can they find you at okay, you can find me on instagram at bossanova B, underscore 88,.
Speaker 3:Uh, eight, eight, eight. And then tick tock Bianca bossanova to and now.
Speaker 2:King's kid. Uh, the I was with uh seven 83 at um Instagram. Uh, I'm mastermind on uh tick tock um I'm mastermind on TikTok Facebook. Just me, quincy. But man, you just spoke half of everything that I went through.
Speaker 3:Definitely, and it's like people see the things in you that you don't see in yourself, especially when you're coming on this extension.
Speaker 5:They see you and they want to take everything out of you until I drain everything out of you, because I don't want him to get to where he needs to be, going or to get to that destiny, to where?
Speaker 6:he's going to.
Speaker 2:So I'm going to pull everything out of him because I want what he got. Yeah, all of his potential, because he don't see it right now. That's an energy vampire, but I want. It hits here, it hits here and it's like it takes you to put you in a trance of certain type of things, like you think it's love, but at the same time you balancing it. That's what happened you fading in, but you fading?
Speaker 2:out. You're intuitive, hitting in, but you're intuitive hitting out, but you think about that. You mind wrestling with yourself, like where it start becoming to, where, like I'm tripping, I'm going crazy Something ain't right like nah a billion for sure when I stepped
Speaker 2:back into nature and I started back writing. It's like okay, I'm about to pull you out of this, let's go. So when it was that, I just kept going for it. I never looked back, I never chased it. I said this and said that. But then the thing about it when your intuitive kicks in, you tell them, like I know everything that's going on over there, you ain't got to be over there.
Speaker 3:Yeah.
Speaker 2:I see it.
Speaker 3:Nature really helped me and you warn them, and you tell them before this even happens and when you warn them and you try to tell them before it happens.
Speaker 2:They don't listen. But then again they say oh, you done, put something on me.
Speaker 1:No, I something all of a sudden.
Speaker 6:Like no, I'm just trying to keep it real.
Speaker 2:But now it's just my team popping that hard, though you know what I'm saying, and then you don't even look at it like okay, you don't know who's protecting that person on the other side. You don't know Exactly so people please be careful when it comes to people and it comes to Just because you powerful don't mean the next person might be too.
Speaker 3:Yeah, just be careful with who and what you do Exactly you never know who you might be messing with.
Speaker 2:Yeah, for real, especially when they got to get a starting five or a starting seven to try to come at you, and still those seven don't even succeed. Double up that's a weak move, man all right.
Speaker 1:So what do you have to leave with the viewers before we wrap this up? Is there any messages you want to leave for them?
Speaker 5:I want to leave y'all with continuing the same message and the same vibe has been going on love yourself and as far as this protection thing goes, I'm learning too today a lot a lot about the protection, so, yes, it's important yeah, also man.
Speaker 2:I'm learning about protection too. Man, protect your man, guard your peace, guard your soul, guard your spirit man. Guard everything that you believe in and understand that spirituality is the best thing. And don't look at it as something bad or anything evil. Man Ignore the idols.
Speaker 5:Or something wrong with you it is, but in a good way, in a good way.
Speaker 4:You ain't crazy, that's what.
Speaker 1:I'm saying you ain't crazy, you ain't crazy.
Speaker 2:Love man, Just love man. Search for yourself, Seek for yourself. Don't listen to what nobody will say Find out for yourself, find out what works for you, what resonates with you, your spirit, your peace, just go for it.
Speaker 3:What I have to say for the viewers is make sure to stay in a high vibration, maintain that you know to stay protected, because if you're not in a high vibration it's easier for things to attach to you. And you know, um also just tap in, tap into your power, tap into you are, you know, and you can't let the naysayers get to you, because that's another form of not being protected, is thinking, you know, just taking, basically internalizing what people are saying, because most of the time you're just projecting their insecurities and fears on you. So, yeah, stay prayed up too. Drink your water.
Speaker 4:Drink that water.
Speaker 1:Even if it's lemonade or tea. Okay, what I would like to say is continue to manifest money, love and protection in your life. However you manifest it. If it's crystals, if it's candle work, if it's affirmations, if it's meditating, do it. Do what you feel is best for you, manifest, and whatever it is that you want, you will get. Think positive, keep a positive mindset and you'll get it. And again, as always, always drop your feedback below, like share and subscribe. And until my next episode, what I always say bye.