Marketing & Mayhem
Quickies, Priorities, & Raccoon Shirts
We kick it off - talking love languages and our favorite resident nocturnal animal. After a 17 hour drive home and a sunrise view of the Statue of Liberty, we are again ships in the night. A front porch t shirt drop - and today’s recording - are the few moments we stole before one of us was back to jet set. And in classic style - we’re taking you with us on this catch up session.
The act of showing someone you’re thinking of them - will forever be one of our favorite love languages. It’s not just a t shirt - it’s a gesture. And in typical mayhem fashion - we add some depth - debating the qualities of our favorite spirit animals.
And a theme - you know your girl loves a theme. And she headed out to NKOTB in a hot pink bodysuit and silver jellies, coloring the rest of us green with envy. Somewhere between thunderstorms and gas lights - we are still finding romance in the everyday.
And - what’s more romantic than a quickie? We end today’s episode with a conversation about prioritizing family and friends. From scheduling time - and protecting it - no diff than you would a doctors appointment or time with your stylist - how do you ensure you get time with your people? There’s always room for flexibility - and the impromptu quickie. It’s the balance of both for this duo.
Last week’s snail trail episode was the podcast version of the quickie - and y'all had lots to say about it. We questioned the chaos of it - but you came back and said it was one of your favorite episodes! Something about hearing you say “it felt like I was in the car with you guys” or “on the couch with you” or “at your girls dinner” will always mean so much. We welcome the feedback, and while we know we will continue to grow - we would be remiss if we didn’t snag the opportunity to celebrate your voices and thank you, for everything.
R & J
The hot pink bodysuit !
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The jellies !
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We kick it off - talking love languages and our favorite resident nocturnal animal. After a 17 hour drive home and a sunrise view of the Statue of Liberty, we are again ships in the night. A front porch t shirt drop - and today’s recording - are the few moments we stole before one of us was back to jet set. And in classic style - we’re taking you with us on this catch up session.
The act of showing someone you’re thinking of them - will forever be one of our favorite love languages. It’s not just a t shirt - it’s a gesture. And in typical mayhem fashion - we add some depth - debating the qualities of our favorite spirit animals.
And a theme - you know your girl loves a theme. And she headed out to NKOTB in a hot pink bodysuit and silver jellies, coloring the rest of us green with envy. Somewhere between thunderstorms and gas lights - we are still finding romance in the everyday.
And - what’s more romantic than a quickie? We end today’s episode with a conversation about prioritizing family and friends. From scheduling time - and protecting it - no diff than you would a doctors appointment or time with your stylist - how do you ensure you get time with your people? There’s always room for flexibility - and the impromptu quickie. It’s the balance of both for this duo.
Last week’s snail trail episode was the podcast version of the quickie - and y'all had lots to say about it. We questioned the chaos of it - but you came back and said it was one of your favorite episodes! Something about hearing you say “it felt like I was in the car with you guys” or “on the couch with you” or “at your girls dinner” will always mean so much. We welcome the feedback, and while we know we will continue to grow - we would be remiss if we didn’t snag the opportunity to celebrate your voices and thank you, for everything.
R & J
The hot pink bodysuit !
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CSK39RLX?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share
The jellies !
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B06XCHLJDZ?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share
For more mayhem, be sure to follow us:
Insta @marketingandmayhem
YouTube @MarketingMayhemPod
And don't forget to leave us a 5 star review! Or message us to deep dive into your topic or just give us feedback!
Hosted by @raebecca.miller and @jennyfromthe843
you do, I wait I look straight, raccoon right now, with all of the love in the world, but you do I do, I going through it.
Speaker 2:Can we first start, though, with the fact that I am literally wearing my like new favorite t-shirt.
Speaker 1:So let me tell you what happened. Okay, so I was shopping online and I was looking at t-shirts, cause I'm you know, I'm just like to shop and I saw what is this?
Speaker 2:going to be with you in t-shirts? You don't even. I'm just like to shop. And I saw what is this going to be with you in t-shirts? You don't even. But I was like I don't even wear t-shirts, I know. But then when you said I just like to shop, I was like oh, this is my first time.
Speaker 1:And then they have like this whole section of raccoon t-shirts, so I mean Like we're in Marshalls, except you're online, yeah.
Speaker 1:I'm online, it's like a whole thing apparently so, and I was shopping under Nate's account and so I bought these shirts and he got the package he opened he was like dude, what's up with all the raccoons? And I was like I got them for Becca. So anyway, I went by your place this morning. I knew you got back late last night so I just left them on your door and I sent her a text and I said I left you some goodies to my favorite raccoon. I'll see you when I get back in town.
Speaker 2:So the weird thing is, like I really am sort of a raccoon, like this has become my thing, this raccoon thing, but like I know, Nate was like is that her spear animal or something I'm like?
Speaker 1:I think so.
Speaker 2:Yeah, so, and then somebody sent me I would have to look for it a while ago about what that really means and it was like typically these people are really good problem solvers, very much in tune with their creative side, and they are definitely like semi nocturnal and I was like that is actually me.
Speaker 1:Nate called it a trash Panda. People call them trash.
Speaker 2:Pandas, which, by the way, the Panda thing. I'm being targeted a little bit on Instagram for Panda reels, but they're all like um, when my wife says she's going to go out with the girls but she's only going to have one drink and the pandas. I don't understand what they're doing with their life, but they're a hot mess.
Speaker 1:They are. They're so cute, though I can't with it.
Speaker 2:That's like a big animal to just be like falling all the time.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I don't know. Why do you look raccoon status right now and again, I love you. That is not an insult, you know. We just have some days where we look like we had a rough night, more so than others.
Speaker 2:What time do you get home? Okay, let's start. So here's the short story of the long story. I was in New York. I always drive with the girls. We go to home to New York. It's a whole thing. A lot of people give me pushback. I will say this the day we would have flown was the Friday, where you couldn't fly anywhere, and that's exactly what would have happened to me. I would have been in the airport with two little girls. Flying by yourself is different, because you can always get one seat somewhere, but, like Amy Muay Thai, amy was in the airport when I was already driving and she was like this is a nightmare. I have to get to New York City from just Charleston. It took her like 10 hours to get to New York City from Charleston via plane and I'm like it's just not worth it.
Speaker 1:It's such a cluster. Even Delta is still a cluster, which is crazy because it's still days later.
Speaker 2:A week, and so I had the initial thought when I woke up that morning if I had flown because I would need three replacement tickets that's never easy this would have been a nightmare. We would have been hostages. Okay, so I drive. This is my excuse. I started driving during COVID. Now I like having my things, I like being in control. I hate driving. So I would like everyone to just take a moment to understand. I have said it a million times in this podcast Just because I did this does not mean I have changed my mind.
Speaker 1:No, I will forever drive you. Just to be clear.
Speaker 2:You Whitney, it's like a thing. I hate it, curse word style. So yesterday I'm in New York, I need to get the whole way home. I mean I could stop, but it's, I'm ready to be home. I have things that we're doing. I have to catch up. I need to be home and I'm done making the drive last two days, cause it's actually painful. So I set my alarm for four in the morning, but at two I woke up and I was like I laid there for 10 minutes and then I was like I'm just going to lay here till four. That's a big waste of my time. So I got everyone in the car and we left at 2.20.
Speaker 1:That is totally something I would have done.
Speaker 2:It is because I'm like I'm not going to waste time. I could be going Same.
Speaker 1:Yeah.
Speaker 2:And by the time they really woke up around nine, we were almost at the halfway point like it's genius.
Speaker 1:Yeah, we've done that before with clark coming back from florida.
Speaker 2:It's like yeah, I think two o'clock, because I think the other thing that happens when I do four is I actually do get into a deep sleep in the night, and when I hit two I basically took a nap, yeah. So I was kind of like ready, I had coffee pot. I only had to bring two bags out. They had to bring their blankets. We got right in. Everything was already packed. They slept in their clothes that we were going to drive in. We got right in the car. Can I tell you, the most magical thing happened when we were starting to come close to Manhattan. Um, it was still dark, so the girls got. They were awake for a little bit there. They would be like, off and on, you could see the city lit up which is so beautiful, like that's.
Speaker 2:I'm not a big New York city girl, but like I love the city at night. It was so beautiful to the point where, by the time we actually got through and out the back, when you could see the statue of Liberty and granted, it's a little far away, cause we're getting to the Jersey turnpike the freaking sun was rising when we got to the Statue of Liberty and I just got chills. It was one of those moments where I was like God, if I'd been even closer I probably would have cried, because it was so good.
Speaker 1:I love that yeah.
Speaker 2:Sun's coming up, got my girl with her torch doing the thing, and then we went right to a Starbucks, first one on the Jersey turnpike. I got a coffee. The girl sees the two little girls with me, puts two cake pops in a bag. Like I'm like you know what, maybe I still am. I'm just going to be romantic forever about my life. But like I've, as long as I keep centered in that stuff and you know I'm pretty good at disassociating we got home right before 7 PM, perfect. I only lost my mind a couple of times. I didn't actually yell, I got tired. Taco Bell kept calling me.
Speaker 1:I had it the other night after New Kids on the Block and it was banging.
Speaker 2:Oh no, like actual Whitney called me, I love that Literally Taco. Bell was calling you and I was, like it, called me, called me like times to make sure I was okay, which, by the way, I ended up. This is a side note, but I ended up sharing my location to her because the storms kept rolling in. Once I was in South Carolina and it was so crazy, so she was worried.
Speaker 1:I was worried about you too, but I feel like you were posting on social media, so I was like all's good.
Speaker 2:I was her. You know she's like I don't know how you're doing this because, much like you, she knows I can't drive. Well, yeah, so. I go to share my location and I realize that I have already shared my location to another friend, but I forgot that I did this because of the state of mind I was in with Whitney last week.
Speaker 1:So you remember?
Speaker 2:when I ghosted everyone for like 24 hours, you saw me.
Speaker 1:You were with me that morning but no one else.
Speaker 2:I got the tattoo. I went off in La La Land. Then I was with you. Well, so Amy sent me Moita. Amy sent me that thing on Instagram about like post hash Browns, if you need help, or whatever. I didn't see that until four days later because I had ignored all of Instagram. But she had reached out via text when she couldn't get to me. She told me to share my location. So when I was at that dinner with Whitney where I like sort of tied one on and then passed out and got ready for the trip the next day, in that I must have shared it to Amy. So I texted her yesterday. I was like did I share my location to you? She goes yes, I'm going to need it. I need to know where you are.
Speaker 1:Honestly, when this morning, when I didn't hear from you for a bit, I was like I swear she shared her location with me. Do you want my location? You can have it. I mean probably, not like a weird way. I didn't realize, I didn't.
Speaker 2:I only thought I had it to my mom.
Speaker 1:It was funny, I went out with my girlfriend the other night. We went to kids new kids on the block, yes and before we left we had, like the group text going and it was like let's share our location till the end of the day in case we lose each other. I'm like this is partying in your 40s, Like this is genius.
Speaker 2:I love sharing my location Because then I feel like have you seen the reel where it's like this. It says when you go out with your girlfriends.
Speaker 1:You put a balloon on top of the head of the girl who's the wildest so you can keep an eye on her.
Speaker 2:That's the air tag. I'm air tagged Like I can share my air tag. Have you ever seen like when they're in Vegas and the girl has the air tag tied to the back of her dress? Yeah, but it's. You know what it is? It's my golden retriever energy. I just kind of go out looking for like love, just a little bit, I'll wander.
Speaker 1:See I'm like Houdini status, Like I'm that friend that like you, go out with you are. Houdini status and I'll. You will look, or I'll be like life of the party and then you'll look up and I am gone. You go home, maybe, maybe, okay, okay, or maybe I hit up.
Speaker 2:Taco Bell, Always Taco Bell. I hit up Taco Bell yesterday. I felt I kept thinking the entire time about like how twisted everyone gets about my obsession with fast food and I was like the freaking way that five layer burrito hit yesterday. I it was borderline inappropriate.
Speaker 1:My quesadilla the other night was so piping hot yeah. So I get a chicken quesadilla and three crunchy tacos.
Speaker 2:Oh, I get the crunch wrap Supreme too. Well, no, I lied to cheesy gorditas and the five layer.
Speaker 1:Okay.
Speaker 2:Every once in a while I'll get a crunch wrap supreme, but not often, and I only get it if I get the cheese sauce with it.
Speaker 1:See, I've had the same order since, like, actually, the only time I used to change my order was when I was in high school and I would get my braces tightened and then I would eat soft tacos because my teeth hurt.
Speaker 2:You know I went. So yesterday when I got Taco Bell, I went to a McDonald's to get the diet Coke because they need the. I don't, I really don't have an appreciation for Pepsi products and I'm sorry about that, oh my.
Speaker 1:God, they're the worst. It's foul. I mean everywhere I go. Before I go on vacation, I Google to see how easily I can find Coke products.
Speaker 2:Do you know? Did you see the real? I posted like maybe a week ago, where the guy said he and his wife picked their house based on the diet Coke walking distance.
Speaker 1:That sounds like something you would do.
Speaker 2:He lived. They live in Nashville and they picked it based on the diet Coke he he had a name for it and they both laughed and they explained it. And it's Diet Coke walking distance.
Speaker 1:I love that.
Speaker 2:I'm going to find it for us.
Speaker 1:So yeah, when we were in Vegas sorry another side note about that In Vegas you legit cannot find. Coke, Inappropriate, Inappropriate. No hotel has it. And there's somebody cause. I finally gave up and asked somebody and they were like it was something to do with some kind of agreement with one of the major hotel chains. They were like very anti-coke and they were so it's all pepsi. So when I'm in Vegas I have to flippin drink diet pepsi and it pisses me off.
Speaker 1:I am so disturbed right now, yeah anyway, I don't know where we got off on this.
Speaker 2:Okay, so I get home at seven, like literally 15 minutes before seven, which was my goal, I was like if I can get home which, by the way, was only one hour more than what GPS said at two, 20 in the morning, which I think is incredible because we hit rainstorms, we had stops in gas. I almost I did the gas thing. I almost ran out of gas in Arlington, like I. The light went on and I hit my odometer and I got past 20 miles and I was like, ooh, now we're starting to flirt with, like the scary spot.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I feel like this is like a thing with me and honestly it used to drive my husband bananas. I did. I am reformed. Ever since I got pregnant, I've been terrified of running out of gas. I'm not afraid of it, but yeah, I don't like push the envelope anymore. Like I get down to like a quarter of a tank and I'm like I got a hip Costco.
Speaker 2:Yes, well, it was like I wasn't. It wasn't good timing, like I purposely filled up the day before I left, purposely filled up the day before I left, but it wasn't good timing, like where I was going through, cause I was going through like DC and stuff, oh yeah.
Speaker 1:That's like a lot of the shirt, so I dropped them off. Read tell everybody what this one thing you have on says, cause it's so cute.
Speaker 2:It says every day is trash day and it's. We should leave these, because it's the softest shirt and you got it for me in an extra large, which is amazing.
Speaker 1:Right, I get the same shirts for me in extra large, I'm like. It is so thin and so soft.
Speaker 2:Okay, I'm drawing that the guy with his little peace sign and, like I will tell you, from an art perspective, it's extremely balanced between the orange and the black.
Speaker 1:Isn't it so good? And what did the other ones say that I got you. Do you have those handy? The other ones say that I got you. Do you have those handy? Yes, I have it right in my closet. I keep catching a whiff of something that smells really good in my office slash recording studio and I don't know what it is. It smells like sunripe and raspberry. Do y'all remember that Bath and Body Works back in the day?
Speaker 2:Wait what.
Speaker 1:Do you remember sunripe and raspberry?
Speaker 2:Yes, I told remember I said first of all all I'm a delight and it has like a little possum on them. But um, I, and then the other one has like the cutest little raccoon at the top. I wanted bath and body works to bring to do an old school summer. I actually it's one of my side little things I talked. I started talking to the old ladies at cole's the other day and we were talking about sunripe and raspberries and I told them that I was going to reach out to Bath Body Works and see if they would do a throwback summer. And I was like I'm actually going to do that in my free time at some point, is write a nice note from a marketing perspective and see if I can lure them into it. I would petition for this Right. I think everyone would Maybe like the what was the cucumber one called?
Speaker 1:Cuc cucumber melon. Omg, I loved it.
Speaker 2:Bless America. One of them goes on eBay to buy the old school sunripened raspberry.
Speaker 1:So shut up. See, I bounce back and forth between um Bath and Body Works and then Vicky Secrets. Do you remember like the payer one?
Speaker 2:It was like um yes, their gloss, say, is my. I'll tell you right now I could get down hard on some pear gloss.
Speaker 1:So here we are in the nineties, like smelling like a fruit cup and like we didn't even know.
Speaker 2:Love spell. Remember love spell. Oh my God, Love spell. So good, I will go hard for some. I will. I need Victoria's Secret and Bath and Body Works. They used to be owned by the same company.
Speaker 1:Yeah, they were Express Structure.
Speaker 2:I don't know how that works anymore, but I would go hard for some pear glasses.
Speaker 1:Did you ever wear the grass from Gap? Do you remember that one?
Speaker 2:No, oh no, I wore the blue one from the same. What was the name? It's from the same, exact. I know exactly what you're talking about, because there were four colors. I had the blue.
Speaker 1:Okay, I wore grass occasionally.
Speaker 2:I really liked that smell.
Speaker 1:I really liked that smell.
Speaker 2:It might have been dream. I am a big scent person.
Speaker 1:Oh girl, you know I love them. I already have fall candles burning in my house. I have one right now.
Speaker 2:I went into Bath Body Works to get more soap and they were pulling them out because they had the floors that night.
Speaker 1:They're $12.95 right now.
Speaker 2:Well, so I apparently have really been shocked. So I went into Bath Body Works maybe two weeks ago and I don't have the app, and the girl at the front was like get the app, all of the body wash. The app is amazing. Okay, well, all the body washes were $2.95 if you had the app, so I got a bunch. But then I earned four free one wick candles. So I got all the fall. I was like, just give me one of each of all the fall ones and they all have like the ghosts and stuff on them.
Speaker 1:They're so cute. I got all the um, pumpkin-y ones like the fall, so I'm already burning and so I feel like in my head and this is probably stupid fall to me is like when school starts yeah, so, like always, my favorite.
Speaker 2:Not because of school, it's just like you know I don't, and it has nothing to do with halloween, because I don't love halloween. But it.
Speaker 1:well, it's my birthday month in October. I'm a Libra, so I love October. October starts all the fun things I feel like for me.
Speaker 2:I feel like we're settled into the routine. We get excited for Thanksgiving, we get excited for Christmas, october we actually have an anniversary. It's on my calendar.
Speaker 1:We do, we do.
Speaker 2:We have our anniversary. I'm a big October fan. One of my daughters was born there and you know I'm actually a big Libra fan also.
Speaker 1:Obvi.
Speaker 2:Obvi, obvi.
Speaker 1:Obvi.
Speaker 2:Big Libra fan.
Speaker 1:Yeah.
Speaker 2:There's something about Geminis and Libras, though that is like very I'll have to find were a very dynamic match. I think the one thing I've saved has to do with romance, but like everything is romance for me, so well, I know, but I think it's relationships. I told you, platonic love is like one of my love, and platonic love because I hate the idea that we get served. This idea of all of the love has to be about like getting married. My girlfriends are some of my favorite love stories right now.
Speaker 1:I was actually had this conversation with Clark today. We were talking about it and she said we were talking about marriage and I was like you know, it's because she heard me and Nate squabbling. You know, cause that's what we do about furniture, Cause, God darn, I can still not find an effing couch I was afraid to ask. Don't ask, because I'm telling you I'm not going to.
Speaker 2:I need you to stay up late with me. It's just bad. I'm so glad I get to talk to you, right now I know we haven't seen each other.
Speaker 1:And then I'm freaking flying out again tomorrow.
Speaker 2:I know, and I didn't mean to interrupt you, but okay, so Clark and marriage.
Speaker 1:Yeah, yeah. So I was telling her, I was like no, what you do is you marry your best friend and then that way it's like you get to hang out with this person all the time. And she was like right, but like it's a girl. And I'm like no, I said my relationship with your dad is very different than my relationship with my girlfriends. I said so, it's just different. And I said, and I want to kiss your dad, I don't want to kiss my girlfriends.
Speaker 2:She was like oh okay, that's a good way.
Speaker 1:She was, she was, she was processing.
Speaker 2:I love it, though my girlfriend's, like some of my, like big heroes right now, especially after, like the year that I've had, but I've always been like a good, a big girl's girl. You know this like just from some demon stuff I'm not and that's what it's.
Speaker 1:So I'm just, I've never have been, and I don't know if it's because I I don't know, like I've just always been a guy, like all of my friends have been guy friends, I don't know. No, I feel like they were easier. I don't know.
Speaker 2:I ain't talking on the ladies, but I feel like my girls keep my secrets really well and they're really good listeners. You know I need a lot of like. Attentiveness is like a one of my love languages.
Speaker 1:It is yeah.
Speaker 2:So I think that's like part of it too.
Speaker 1:So we got to talk about the feedback that we've gotten from last week's episode.
Speaker 2:Please.
Speaker 1:Because people, we've gotten a lot of good feedback.
Speaker 2:I don't know if you've shared it all with me, but like I will tell you this, kirsten Hatcher from Raising Marriage did reach out yesterday and she's like. I think last week's episode might be my favorite episode it was a good one.
Speaker 1:It is so random because that was one of the ones that, like I mean, you and I have just been going a hundred miles an hour. We are prioritizing recording.
Speaker 2:I woke up at noon today. We forgot to tell everyone the full record story I got home at seven, left at 2am. I woke up at 1238 today. That's why I hadn't answered your text. So yeah, I legit thought you were dead.
Speaker 1:No joke, I was about to text tina and be like yo, where's your sister-in-law?
Speaker 2:because I'm very confused where she is and concerned. I woke up confused also.
Speaker 1:So yes, your car, when I came by it's parked further down because we're all full the spots.
Speaker 2:Yeah, okay, but yes, go back to us going 100 miles an hour, because I, yes, we're going 100 miles an hour.
Speaker 1:So when we record, sometimes it's almost the equivalent of like a quickie, like we've just got to get it. Like let's bang it out, becca, because we got to get this done, we got to drop an episode next week. She won't let me, she won't, let me skip, I can be like on my deathbed. She's like I'm sorry, we're gonna have, I'm like okay. So we had to do a quickie on that one last week and it honestly has been one of everybody's like favorites.
Speaker 2:I love that you said it's a quickie too, cause I think there's something about like a quickie only works if you're like fairly, like compatible, right, the quickie has to be like I love you.
Speaker 1:We need to make space. I love you. We need to make space, we love you. But we got, like I got things to do. No, no, no, Like I love you.
Speaker 2:I need to make space for you, but I only have five minutes, so let's go. We need to reconnect. Yes, basically, very much a cookie, yes, but yes, it was all.
Speaker 1:It was very off the cuff, but I it goes back to like how everyone really relates to how real we are, and I think one of the things that people have enjoyed is our talk about rubbing poo on the face. Even my husband was like you would totally do that and I'm like I would totally do that.
Speaker 2:My cousin Amanda reached out. She's the one that sent me the one text where it said beard, maybe beard logic or something like that. I wasn't terrified to listen to our podcast Because I was like I could have said if it's about a beard, I could have said anything Like I'm panicking.
Speaker 1:Honestly, I didn't even listen to it again after we recorded last week, cause I just I didn't have time, I did because when I was doing you know I live for it when I do the caption and I was rolling. I mean, I knew we talked about snail trail.
Speaker 2:I knew we talked about snail trail but when she said only a vegetarian animal, she goes. That is such a Rebecca thing to say she goes. I'm going to pick an elephant.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I need to listen to it. Honestly, once I do these, it's just kind of like oh, I listened to it with the girls yesterday. Pilot. Was it good? Was it a clean one? It was one of the safer ones. It's funny when I upload the podcast and, like quote unquote, produce them. I always check the box. This is explicit because I cannot remember for the life of me.
Speaker 2:There's explicit in it, but it's not like one of our left turn explicits which happens, and so pilot loves to listen to the podcast. She asked in the car right after we got through, when we were on the jersey charm bike. She said can we listen to your podcast? And I was thinking through the episodes and I was like, um, okay, so then I would. I had just listened to that other one, the last one, and I was like that's, I mean, we talk about elephant poop, but one. And I was like that's, I mean we talk about elephant poop, but like in snail trail, but like that's all alluding to something it's not clear.
Speaker 2:So, you know we were rolling, she loved it.
Speaker 1:Oh, that's good, I don't. Clark doesn't really listen to it. She hears me produce it and go back and forth about it, but she doesn't. She's really. She's still really bitter about the mother's day episode.
Speaker 2:I'm gonna be honest with you oh, okay, I'll be quiet you're fine, I um we can redo it, though we need to, because maybe we do like a back to school and we talk about our goals for the year and, like our teachers and our classmates, and like how we're going to show up, I don't know.
Speaker 1:Okay, back to school. She, she, she's, she was a little, she's a little bitter.
Speaker 2:It's pretty bad. Someone asked me a lot if we can listen to the Mother's Day one and I'm like that's, we're still working on that.
Speaker 1:We're working on it. We're working on it.
Speaker 2:This is we're working on. It. We're working on it.
Speaker 1:I'm glad you made it home and you're safe.
Speaker 2:I'm home, I'm safe and it's actually a really good segue because we were going to talk about family time and relationships today and you are flying out tomorrow for more of that. I am, yeah. So me and my dad and Clark.
Speaker 1:This is our third year I've taken like a. So me and my dad and Clark this is our third year I've taken like a. We call my dad Poppy because that's his grandpa name.
Speaker 2:You know I live for the different grandparents names. I'm going to pull that. What do you want to be called? I have no idea what I want to be called, but I, my brother, chose my parents grandparents name because he had the first kid. So my grandparents are Nana and Papa. See, I'm between.
Speaker 1:Gigi and Nana. I love Gigi Well just because it's Ginny and I feel like it's a smooth transition there. Yeah.
Speaker 2:I have friends who are like Nani and Poppy. I have friends who are like a Gigi that sounds dirty. Nani and Poppy, I don't know.
Speaker 1:Well, like the Poppy, you know. That's all, Hi Poppy. That's all I can think when I hear that I don't know why it's like the motorcycle guy.
Speaker 2:Remember, I took that picture on the way to New York and I was like, ooh, daddy's here Shoot.
Speaker 1:Anyway, so, yeah, so we're leaving tomorrow to fly out to Orlando for five days. So you're going to hold the four down and I'm going to hold the four down with my dad and Clark. Yeah, and this is our last hoorah before school starts.
Speaker 2:This is our last one. The girls are actually going away, I think this week with Matt somewhere I don't have the details yet but I think they're taking one more little trip. But I feel like I've been home for two nights in the last three weeks between like Lake Norman, new York, but I'm also we were just talking about this offline even though it makes me crazy exhausted, I'm a big fan of like I don't know like making space for, like my friends and family right now, and the cost as far as like being a little bit sleepless and having some extra bags under my eyes is just worth it.
Speaker 1:Oh, a hundred percent. I feel that way and it's so funny. I was talking about that with one of my girlfriends the other night. We were trying to remember the last time we saw each other and it's been since October, october when we went out for my birthday and she was like I. She said, yo, you know, everybody's just so busy. And I'm like, yeah, like I just feel like that's just a crutch though, like I feel you need to prioritize your relationships. Like I schedule daughter's appointments, I schedule hair appointments, I schedule daughter's appointments.
Speaker 2:I schedule hair appointments.
Speaker 1:I schedule lash appointments. Your girl's got to get her lashes done. So it's like what? Like I just have to schedule that time so it gets done for me. And like I don't mean it like in a negative way, it's just more of like I want you to know that you're a priority, so I'm going to keep that appointment quote unquote. You're a priority, so I'm going to keep that appointment quote unquote, because I want to be with you and see you and hang out with you.
Speaker 2:Well, I think that's very much who you are to the scheduling thing, and I don't mean that in any sort of way other than like.
Speaker 1:Oh no, it's so dead on.
Speaker 2:You will very much like create very thoughtful space for things, and so if I were you and that wasn't happening from like the other sides, I would that I that probably wouldn't feel good for me if I were you too.
Speaker 1:Like yeah.
Speaker 2:Cause you're like. I know that this is important enough for me to like literally block it and save it.
Speaker 1:Yeah Well, yeah, I mean you and I schedule. I mean pretty much my days are fairly, you know, I'm very um, I mean just like, yeah, it just you. It's well you have to be when you're doing eight gazillion things.
Speaker 2:It's like you know, like you're talking to the trash, yeah.
Speaker 1:I mean, it's like I'm gonna be gone next week, so every night this week I worked until like 9, 30, 10 o'clock at night, because it's just like I've just got to do it, like that's just. It's just, you know, something you got to do to do this other stuff. So, yeah, I mean, but I feel like I prioritize things that are important to me, like yeah, I bought you those shirts, they came yesterday. Like I wanted to drop them off before I left to go out of town, cause I'm like I.
Speaker 2:Like you know that my other love language is just like being thought of. It made me so happy. You text me at 10. I woke up at 1238. I panicked, I was concerned, I panicked. I literally was like, oh, I was like, surely it's nine. I came out on another clock and I was like, oh, I don't know if I've ever slept like that in my life, like I just I don't know you needed it though.
Speaker 1:Well, and it was funny, when I went to your place, like I didn't want your ring camera to like pick me up, so I did this like mission impossible, like try to dodge, like your camera so it wouldn't see me, it was yeah, I'm going to find the video.
Speaker 2:I will see this Lately. There was a moment there in January where I just raw-dogged the whole month. I didn't even use my agenda.
Speaker 1:I was so overwhelmed that makes me mad Skin crawl just thinking about it. But go ahead.
Speaker 2:I think I only made one mistake. My brain was very overwhelmed trying to remember stuff, but I just couldn't. Physically it's been a very interesting year. One pattern change that has happened for me lately is also saying yes at like the most unplanned situations ever. So like last week in three weeks. I have only not had my girls for three days. I had Monday, tuesday, wednesday. Last week, monday at 11 o'clock pilots uh, best friend from gymnastics, her mom texts me and she was like, hey, her mother-in-law is in town all summer and her husband is away in business. And she's like is there any chance that you could meet me for dinner? And I love this person's soul. So I was like, oh, my first reaction because it was my first night kid free and I have so much work was like I really shouldn't. But then I was like you've got to fill your cup, girl. Like you love your girlfriends, you, you can't be a good mom If you don't make this space. I had the best time. We went to basil.
Speaker 2:We love basil, you love basil.
Speaker 1:It's my favorite meal in Charleston Basil duck.
Speaker 2:I haven't been there. I've gotten takeout but I haven't been inside in a while. We didn't stay there forever, we, she did. I don't know what's happening or if you're just manifesting it, cause I don't think she listens to the podcast. She goes, they have this beer I love. And I was like great, get to. She goes. And there's this appetizer I love. I was like I love it, perfect, let's get to. And she, I, she goes, what do you normally get? And I said I usually get pad thai, but I think something different. She's like always, look at this one. And I was like I'm gonna, I just don't. I, my space is so much more about people lately and and then nothing. I keep having great meals as a result of not being in control. Got the tattoo.
Speaker 2:Tuesday, wednesday, wednesday, went to dinner with praise like completely last minute. Talk about whitney I. When we sat down, she was was like what do you want to drink? And the waitress came over who loved us. She was like we have my ties back. They're really good. She goes, we'll take two. She handled all of the dinner ordering. I was like you know what?
Speaker 1:You're like my dream date, cause I'm telling you that is my energy.
Speaker 2:Okay, Cause I seem to make sure, sure, because, like, there's a part of me that's like am I taking advantage of the other people in this?
Speaker 1:yeah, well, I, I don't. I can't speak for anybody but myself.
Speaker 2:But like I love it, but if somebody did that to me, I would lose my shit just no, but I don't think you have the same energy about it that I have, like I the other person would know, because you would be like, well and like, the minute I started to speak when the server came back and Whitney just was like, handled it and then said this we live here. Now we're gonna be here for a few hours, so I always say that, yeah, I'm that person, I'm like don't try to rush us out.
Speaker 1:Dining, to me, is an experience we're settled in. I'm about to take my shoes off. We'll be here a bit, but I'll tip. Well, I normally say it.
Speaker 2:Yeah, that's exactly what happened to me on Monday. On Wednesday I was like the universe is giving me, it's meeting my needs in a very big way right now, but I love that.
Speaker 1:But I feel like you know you're very, it's just like an open thing. You know what I mean. Like I feel like. If you're like, I feel like and I'm not like trying to get deep here by any stretch of the- imagination, we always get deep.
Speaker 1:That's what she said Every time I know that's what she likes that's what she said every time, I know, but that's what she likes. I feel like you've been so closed off and like just real I don't know the right word like, like closed in, like just real small, yeah for a bit. And so now you're not and you're like unleash the kraken kind of thing and you just have this like very open. You know, know, that's just your, that's your energy right now and I love that for you.
Speaker 2:Like my mom said that that actually she is like you are very much back to you. Oh, I love that compliment, especially from your mom and she and for her it's a little emotional because every time she sees it continue to happen. And then I was with her in person for a week. She is realizing as a mom how far away from that I accidentally got. So like for her there is some emotion to that journey and like I won't even get into it but we're going to work through that for sure. But she, in the very most mom way, said your energy is back to like this is actually who you are. She's like I thought you just got really serious because marriage is serious and kids are serious and I just and she's like you have all these businesses and these things that are important to you and I just thought that you were actually just becoming very serious. But your actual nature is like this yeah, I'm back to that I'm a raccoon.
Speaker 2:I'm back. You're right, you're back to him.
Speaker 1:Well and same for me, becca. I mean honestly like and I don't think it has anything to do with my marriage per se, I think it's just 40, I don't know if yeah, honestly I do think.
Speaker 1:I think that's a lot of it, because it's just like and we talked about this on the like, original episodes of the podcast about how you know you people, please, through your thirties or at least I did oh, I need to be the perfect wife, the perfect mom, the perfect this, the perfect, this checklist. It's like, and it's just like I'm effing exhausted. And now it's like, you know, let's embrace everybody, just being a raccoon and a hot mess and forgetting their suitcase and not looking perfect all the time and all this. So it's just like, I feel I do think it has a lot to do with getting in your forties. Just like I don't freaking care, man. Like I'm exhausted, Like whatever.
Speaker 2:No, that's very Shania Twain. Like you just want to kick that door open.
Speaker 1:You're like actually, no, actually I don't care if you don't like me, that's where I'm at, it's like that.
Speaker 2:That's on you. I want you not to. If your nature is that you don't like me, knowing me better is not going to make you like me better. You like me less. So if your instinct is like this raccoon is not my raccoon, this is not my trash panda, you should leave immediately. And if I sense that you don't like me, I'm going to help you. I'm not going to help you like me. I'm going to help you. Be that. Be totally okay with not liking me. I don't want to be in spaces where you don't like me.
Speaker 1:I agree, yes, I agree, I agree it doesn't feel good, but you know we went to um. I gotta go back to new kids.
Speaker 2:I have. I have only Instagram keeps updating me on everyone's journey. It looked like it got very cool.
Speaker 1:I hadn't even done it. So you know I love a theme. Let's go back to that. So we did. I bought a neon hot pink bodysuit, which is very gritty gal. It's so cute, like super cute. Um, it's got these cute little straps. I'm gonna have to link it because it's super, super cute and you don't have to wear a bra, which is my fave.
Speaker 2:And if we can say that, by the way.
Speaker 1:Oh, it's double lined. There's a, there's a hint of a nip, but nothing. That's like Everyone loves a nip, everybody loves a nip, and I don't get the. I don't get the hype, why I don't know. Like it's just a nipple, everybody's got them. Like I don't understand You're a girl I do.
Speaker 2:I just live for it because like it works in my favor.
Speaker 1:So I'm like you live for a nipple.
Speaker 2:No, I live for my own, like, if that's what you need. Unfortunately I already have them. So, like, I want you to like me in that way, whatever. So, yeah, I mean, if that's your thing, man, I can serve that on a platter. I did not A platter full of nipples, my boobs in general. But I'm just saying like, if Jesus, okay, but I'm saying if you or I, cause we are not in on the A team or the B team here. If you were with no bra, I'm literally a 34 F like buffet style lunch lady. We got all cash money up here, yes, a 34 F.
Speaker 2:I got measured at the nice store by Shem Creek. I've been measured now for three years in a row. I'm hands down every single time a 34 F. Oh, my God, I'm like a C. There's no way, not me, because you're probably wearing the wrong band size. So, apparently, cause I have a small waist but I have big hips Once I got to the right band size, that's what made me the F, because I was trying to wear 36 double D's and they were like still not really fitting that well. And she's like because your ribs are are 34, but you got a lot here.
Speaker 1:I got some bigger ribs. I do have some bigger ribs.
Speaker 2:I was wearing a 36 double D and that's interesting.
Speaker 1:All right, anyway, we digress. So I wore the body suit, I wore some some denim jorts, but the highlight of the outfit, I ordered some jelly shoes, dude. I can't tell you how many times I I ordered some jelly shoes, dude. I can't tell you how many times I got stopped at the concert.
Speaker 2:Damn, that was a good call.
Speaker 1:They smell so terrible. I legit was high off of fumes from these shoes. I can't let them in my house because I'm like we're to die of asphyxiation. But y'all, they are so cute. I think I pay like I don't know. It was like less than $10 for them. I got so many compliments on my jellies For the concert.
Speaker 2:It was so comfy. No, remember when you were a kid, you used to get tore up On your first round in your jellies. You would get like yeah no these jellies are like oh, I might need a pair. What color did you get? Clear or pink?
Speaker 1:like silver, silver and clear. It looks like a sin. It looks like a cinderella slipper. True story, oh my god, I mean yeah, and well, in effing monsooned so. So I did like hair.
Speaker 2:That's what I keep seeing on Instagram.
Speaker 1:I did full makeup and you know I don't do that. I mean I was jewelry now.
Speaker 1:I love that you do it though, dude, it monsooned and I'm not talking like oh, I got a little sprinkle. No, no, no, no. My clothes looked like I had bathed with them on, we were drenched. I had bathed with them on, we were drenched. Speaking of Raccoon, my makeup and my eyeliner was like running down my face. We didn't even stay to see new kids because we were convinced the concert was going to cancel, because it was that bad.
Speaker 1:It was like lightning around when we were on the stage, so only in Paula Abdul canceled. She no-showed. I was pissed about that.
Speaker 2:I was so angry.
Speaker 1:I was so angry. They had a DJ though DJ Jazzy Jeff. He did such a good job. We danced our heart out. I had the best time. I wish she would have been there. We had an extra ticket. I'm like, why is she not here?
Speaker 2:I know, you know I would have been so down. I would have been so down. How about the fact that I was camping? Are you even the least bit surprised? Um?
Speaker 1:no Cause, I feel like you're cause. I feel like you're adaptable, like. I feel like you're that person who can kind of roll with it.
Speaker 2:You know what I mean. Take her to a gala, all right, take her camping.
Speaker 1:But I'm like that yeah, that's true.
Speaker 2:I mean, you know, yeah, I'll roll with it. I would never choose camping for you or I.
Speaker 1:I mean, if I had like an option A that's like spend a night in a five-star hotel and go to a spa and get room service or B camping I would opt for A, just to be clear.
Speaker 2:But I could roll with it if you know.
Speaker 1:You said you want to go camping and be like all right, let's just roll.
Speaker 2:If I say that to you, I think you should just take us to the hotel with the spa, though. Yeah, I mean, I agree, I think you should just take us to the hotel with the spa, though. Yeah, I mean, I agree, I haven't had room service in so long, oh my.
Speaker 1:God.
Speaker 2:I love room service. I freaking love like Weston room service, oh my.
Speaker 1:God, we've talked about this before, do you not?
Speaker 2:remember I was just thinking about how kind of Uber Eats is kind of like room service, but it's at your house. That's why I love it.
Speaker 1:Is that why you love it? Yes, I love anything that I can like choose. I have like options, I don't have to put pants on for and it just like comes to my door.
Speaker 2:So I want to. This is actually reminding me of a story from Lake Norman that we should talk about. I, summer and I took the girls to Cheesecake Factory. I have only been there once. Oh, the girls to Cheesecake Factory. I have only been there once. Oh, I love a Cheesecake Factory. I haven't been in probably a decade. But we were like, oh, we're going to be at the American Girl doll store and that's at the mall that has Cheesecake Factory. We both live for it. Right, the big menu, yeah, oh, yeah, love it. Tell the girls like, oh, like, yeah, cheesecake Factory. We're in the middle of dinner and one of the girls and I remember who might've been pilot was like I really thought you guys were taking us to a factory, and I do, you know how, like living as a kid is so out of context, cause you're like she's just literal, it's oh okay, I know like the most literal.
Speaker 2:And they, and then they all were like, yes, we totally thought we were going to go and watch people make cheesecakes and we would get to eat a cheesecake at the end. And I was both summer and I felt bad because, you know, as a kid, you're like, okay, we're going here and you have to get dressed and put your brush your teeth and put your shoes on and here is abstract right, you just trust the people around you and you hope, to God, you're going to have a great time. Oh, yeah, so they've been hyped for an entire week about.
Speaker 1:Cheesecake Factory. Oh poor things, Hang on. One second Nate's coming in here to give me a. He's bearding me. Oh my God, I love this. Our tech guy Hi how are you Hi to the viewers and the listeners?
Speaker 2:Guys, our IT guy is here, nate.
Speaker 1:You're already here.
Speaker 2:Say hi from the IT department.
Speaker 1:Come on. Oh no, I was just denied. That's fine, I can play that game later.
Speaker 2:But they like, and so in the middle of dinner, oh wait.
Speaker 1:He changed his mind when he heard that Hang on. Oh, I said I want to remain a mystery, you want to remain a mystery?
Speaker 2:Oh, he's like the man behind the curtain In his deep voice. I want to remain a mystery, oh my God. So then we're in the middle of this beautiful like lunch and they're like this is so much better than we thought it was going to be, and I felt guilty.
Speaker 1:But honestly, in their defense, the first time somebody told me they wanted to go to Cheesecake Factory I was like I don't want just dessert for dinner.
Speaker 2:I didn't know, I didn't know either the bread, let's talk about the pumpernickel at Cheesecake Factory.
Speaker 1:It's so good, I love pumpernickel God.
Speaker 2:What is it about it? Because it is intimidating. All of them were afraid to try it, but then, once they did, they were obsessed with it.
Speaker 1:I call it the brownie bread. Ooh, we should call it brownie bread. It makes it more fun. Yeah.
Speaker 2:Brownie bread, mm-hmm. So this has been you know what. I'm having a moment where I'm thinking actually back to our New Year's resolutions because I am exhausted. But if you asked me right now to go to New Kids on the Block tonight I wouldn't say no, which is really kind of out there for me. But like this year of more, this like year of faith at, I guess, a seven-month check-in, yeah, I'm afraid for us in november, like I watch our new year's resolutions next year be like slow, slow but no, I'm the same way, hillary.
Speaker 1:um, she tagged me in uh, broadway, you know, we theater. I don't know if you love theater, I love theater.
Speaker 2:I do, but I haven't done anything like that in a while, oh yeah.
Speaker 1:So she tagged me. Hillary and I went to New York a few years ago and saw Wicked and it was so fun. We had the best time. We got completely drunk and drank too much wine and lost our phone and we ate. Applebee's we had the best we need.
Speaker 2:Applebee's Y'all. This is the kind of stuff where I'm like it goes back to even last week, Like it just doesn't have to be so perfect.
Speaker 1:No, no, Like it was not. So she tagged me in this thing. There's a new Broadway show coming Death Becomes Her. Do you remember this movie? Yeah, With Goldie Hawn and Meryl Streep in it. Is it Meryl Streep? Yeah, she tagged me in it that it's coming to Broadway in October. Bought the tickets. I booked our flights today. She got the hotel. I'm like we're going up for a couple of nights. Let's go see it.
Speaker 2:When is it?
Speaker 1:November.
Speaker 2:No, oh, okay, like the beginning of November.
Speaker 1:Yeah, because I'm like, why not? Like, it is not that expensive to fly to New York. No, the tickets for the show were not that expensive. They were less than a hundred bucks. So it's like you don't even have to.
Speaker 2:I've made expensive decisions lately that weren't even like. This is me with the Post Malone tickets. I asked three people. I was like, hey, do you want to go, do you want to go? And no one seemed like, really, did I tell you this? We talked about it, but then we didn't go any further. So I like literally I panic bought two tickets, did you? When is it? It's October 9th, okay.
Speaker 2:I literally but I was like I don't want to miss it. And then I was like, well, if I end up going with friends, I can always sell off two tickets. But was like, and they weren't cheap, I got great seats and I just was like I'm afraid I'm gonna miss it, like I'm being more afraid to, and it's not in a FOMO way, yeah, I'm not like. Oh, why didn't I get invited to your party? Like I'm completely fine not getting invited to your party if you don't want me there. Totally fine with that. But it was like one of those things where I was like it's his, is it f1 trillion? So it's like country remakes which, yes, I know. So I just was like, and I just like, randomly, I am in a deep place of more.
Speaker 1:I love that, but I won't be so. I was talking to my lash girl about this the other day. Shout out to dina, I don't dream. Lash and brow we'll'll tag her, we'll tag her. But she was telling me she was like, yeah, I wanted to go see Billie Eilish. She said, but no, none of my friends would pay for tickets for front row. And she said, if I'm going to see her once in my life, I'm going front row. She's like I'm just going by myself. I'm like that is bad ass.
Speaker 2:My stylist is going to a concert in Atlanta. You know, my stylist, that I'm obsessed with Ashley at Shag Salon. Yeah, if I could make enough money so that she was with me all the time, I would. I named her as my driver.
Speaker 1:When you make enough money, let's make enough.
Speaker 2:Yeah, let's make enough money. That's why I love you. When I have enough money, ashley will be with me all the time. She will manage my calendar and my life and like we have the best time together. She literally just told me she bought tickets to is it Morgan Wallen or somebody in? They're going to be in Atlanta. She's going by herself, didn't even ask anyone. It's not like she's like, I'm just going good for her.
Speaker 1:I love that. I don't know if I could. I don't know if I could do that by myself. I don't know if I could do that by myself. Like I feel, like I'm people, I know, I feel like I could do most things by myself, but like I don't know, I feel like I like the tailgate, like no, I think I do and I think it is.
Speaker 2:I think it is very much. The way she explained it to me was like under the cloak of darkness, like she went somewhere. No one will know her. She's literally telling me to stay overnight. Maybe it's not in Atlanta, maybe it's in Charlotte. It might be in Charlotte, um, but she's no one will know her. She's like I'll be really safe Cause there'd be a ton of people around. No one will probably even realize I'm by myself and I can literally just like have the time of my life and like be. She also really has gotten to the place where she enjoys her own company too.
Speaker 1:She also really has gotten to the place where she enjoys her own company too. Yeah, no, I mean that. That's pretty bad-ass. I need to need to get some kahunas and do that.
Speaker 2:I love that that just became a goal, because we know two people who are serious, like no cause.
Speaker 1:I mean honestly I don't regret. I don't have many regrets in life. I really don't. I really regret not flying to Vegas and seeing Britney Spears when she had her residency.
Speaker 2:I didn't have that regret until you just said it, but now I do too I really, and my window has passed. Her window has passed also.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I know, she's Cuckoo.
Speaker 2:I know, but I don't think that's her fault. I don't think that's her fault. I don't think that's how she shaved her head, though I now that I'm a mom and I've been through relationship stuff that might've happened.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I get it, I get it.
Speaker 2:And I kind of feel bad for watching it and judging her. I saw this thing yesterday maybe not yesterday cause there wasn't really an Insta I posted but I didn't look during the week this girl it was in a podcast situation. It was a girl talking to a guy. I want to say it was black and white, I'm going to manifest it so it comes back up. I might've saved it, but she was in tears and she they obviously like isolated this audio. So I don't know the context.
Speaker 2:But she said we need to normalize that if we see somebody acting outside of their normal pattern, before we judge them, we need to worry about why the pattern change and give them support before we give them judgment. And I was like, isn't that like the deepest? I was like I watched it probably four times because I feel like I've definitely been there, but I was like that is such a good way to look at it. If we see somebody acting outside of the traditional pattern that they've presented, we need to normalize making sure that they don't need our support before we cast judgment.
Speaker 1:Yeah, no, I completely agree. I think that's brilliant. I loved it.
Speaker 2:I'm going to try to find it. I hope I saved it. I might have sent it to Christina.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I mean I definitely had to unfollow her because, as a two.
Speaker 2:I unfollowed her also because it was hard to watch I really struggled not being able to help somebody.
Speaker 1:Like, like, honestly, like I carry it with me and I'm not saying I was walking around every day worrying about bernie spears, but I don't know but it it upset me like I'm like something's got to give like she is not in a good spot and but yeah, no I can't.
Speaker 2:I can't watch that kind of like. Um, it makes me sad, especially because I understand that I do feel like she was robbed. Yes, I don't think any of that is her fault, and it's so sad to see like. I mean, I just hope that she feels well, even though it feels like chaos to us. I hope that whatever she's in now feels better than it looks, because I don't wish her anything but wellness.
Speaker 1:Oh, agreed. Like I wish she would get back to singing. Like I think she's brilliant. Like I was obsessed.
Speaker 2:Except they were like torturing her while that was happening.
Speaker 1:Yes, but I was obsessed. All right, we've gone long and I don't really know if we've gone anywhere, but we haven't seen each other in a while, and this is what happens when Beck and I haven't talked in a bit, y'all catch the brunt end of it.
Speaker 2:No, and like here's the thing as soon as that school bus and that car line starts, we are, we should do some like fun, random, like we'll, we'll. We'll. Start creating reels where we're in the car together and people can get like the one-off conversations.
Speaker 1:But we're gonna be a lot scarier than what y'all get privy to you know this is semi-controlled chaos, unscripted yeah, snail trail chaos snail trail chaos. Yeah, all right everybody. Well, thanks for tuning in another fun week of mayhem and we will see you next week.