Savoring Life's Menu: A Banter Over Breakfast, Love's Quest, and Navigating Self-Discovery

When @AggyAshley__ from New Haven graced the mic, our conversation turned into a culinary tour de force, stirring up controversy over breakfast meats and bartender trustworthiness. Our debate over turkey bacon's rightful place in a breakfast sandwich was just the appetizer in a feast of discussions that ranged from the wisdom in a wine choice to the silent pact we make with those who mix our drinks. Every bite and sip seemed to carry the weight of our personal preferences and the culture that shaped them.

But as the plates cleared, we ventured into the personal realms of solo travel and the quest for authentic love in the modern dating scene. My own adventures in Puerto Rico unfurled stories of self-discovery, emphasizing the joy of making one's own path. Ashley and I also peeled back the layers on the impact of family dynamics and upbringing on our resilience, and how our childhood homes can map out the emotional journeys we take as adults.

Wrapping up with a heartfelt thanks to our listeners, we left no stone unturned—from the digital realms of online learning and the intricacies of navigating social media to the honest reflections on addiction and privacy. We even rated local eateries, sharing a laugh over the wild world of DMs, and pondered the long-reaching influence of father figures. It’s a rollercoaster ride of life’s flavors, both savory and sweet, and we invite you to join us at the table for a serving of raw, unfiltered conversation.

Transcript

Speaker 1 0:04

They have a song on each other. Be like this Fuck, fuck, fuck, fuck, fuck. Be like this Like, give it back to him. I'll be like this. I'll be like this what you doing? Shobha, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa Dick in that pussy, yeah.

Speaker 2 0:18

The little tic-tac.

Speaker 3 0:19

Get back down. We going to wow. We outside, we talking about, we know, lovin' me.

Speaker 1 0:26

Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa whoa, Yo-o-o.

Speaker 3 0:28

we talking about this Like it's salad. What's up, what's up, what's up, what's up.

Speaker 1 0:35

Yo-o-o, what's up, what's up, what's up, what's up. It's like I, out of free, in the front or back, turn that ladder deep Through the triple S when I'm in a free, like a home to a knee.

Speaker 4 0:44

Be a back down, be a trynna ski Then turn around, call stuff to me, Wrap around, feel them, beat them to to she's sleeve. Either pussy up or no, but T Back of day. Like I'm on a G, Slow it down, baby. Rhyme it like a Z. Never call you gonna rhyme it straight to sleep Two holes, trying to fuck them up Everywhere.

Speaker 5 1:27

From the motherfucking gutter. We got your girl, aggie ash, in the fucking building. Sp, pay his dude. You already my guy gas, god, let's talk about it. We got a very special guest today, ashley, someone I follow intently on social media. Ah, feels good to have you in the building. That's what's up. Let's talk about it. Connecticut stand up when you hailing from, ashley. Where, where, what, what, what town do you represent?

Speaker 2 2:10

New Haven, definitely. I was born in Fairhaven, though, so I got a shout out for you then, okay.

Speaker 3 2:17

That's my girl. Okay, shout out for you.

Speaker 2 2:21

Literally Roger's what's the? Lombard deli. That's the best sub you'll have. That's by a slow because there's so many corner stories. We're bound. Sandwiches and new Haven yes, that's like my top tier, like what I'm down the same with my dad, my Grimm, getting a sandwich, my so what deli got the best sandwiches and new Haven Deli got the best sandwiches in Connecticut damn, I Can't say that. But I will say for the ham and cheese sub with everything, rogers got it on Lombard and then Norma's the bacon, egg and cheese just hit so differently.

Speaker 5 2:58

Okay, have you had a bacon, egg and cheese in the city, though, in Manhattan?

Speaker 2 3:03

You play you gotta listen, I Listen let's go.

Speaker 3 3:10

I mean, that's go right now.

Speaker 5 3:15

That's the real bacon I can cheese.

Speaker 2 3:21

If that's on the menu, that's what I get, because that's the same 330 in the morning in New York.

Speaker 3 3:28

Look at the bacon and cheese on the road. So public as long as the bacon.

Speaker 2 3:32

I feel like the biggest thing is if the bacon is nice and like they can eat thin and skimpy, and if there's enough on there and then if the British toast, you give me turkey bacon Bob. Hell, fucking no yo. Let's talk about it. There's a few places that want to push that healthy shit. I feel like they should. They should be letting people know that they only serve turkey bacon. If I ask for a fucking bacon, egg and cheese, I'm expecting a bacon, egg and cheese.

Speaker 2 3:59

I took a bite, and that shit was turkey bacon. I'm like no, they can't do that they can't do that now people be places.

Speaker 5 4:05

Be doing that, especially the hockey places.

Speaker 3 4:11

They don't do that. They cooking that pork first thing in the morning.

Speaker 5 4:18

They don't they do it, and then they don't even tell you about it.

Speaker 2 4:21

They like you get what you get like.

Speaker 3 4:35

I am no.

Speaker 5 4:39

He's bugging. That shit is not see.

Speaker 2 4:41

You're real, no sir, I'm poor weekend, I'm sorry. We eat everything like the pork, blood Pig. Yeah, I'm saying you name it like.

Speaker 5 4:50

well, I don't you're real poor so dirty.

Speaker 3 4:57

I've get my. You can pause. I like the Tinder. Even if you say no homo, it's still you, still what you say after that, it's still like you know that you extra with it, right, yeah, so no homo don't count still.

Speaker 5 5:42

Nah how am I gonna ask again that shit still was crazy.

Speaker 3 5:45

What am I supposed to say? I don't know bro. It's me At the end of the day like yeah, you're right, you know what I'm saying Tinder meat, yeah, fuck it.

Speaker 5 6:01

How was it again? Uh?

Speaker 2 6:03

penny.

Speaker 5 6:05

If it's penny and it's cooked right, you can go to like C-Town they be having. Say how you just said it, though Tinder meat cooked right. Excellent, no homo. What's wrong with that?

Speaker 4 6:18

Nothing at all. I know how to cook Bernie, but I mean like someone I dated. You mean it's cooking, penny, I don't need to they should tell me how to cook. Yeah, I don't really eat pork.

Speaker 1 6:32

This year I ate so much bacon, but Cause I ate it when I was growing up.

Speaker 5 6:38

I'm not gonna lie to you, I wouldn't trust you I ate bacon this year.

Speaker 3 6:44

Just the fact that you don't eat pork on the regular.

Speaker 5 6:48

I wouldn't trust you to make my penny. I respect that.

Speaker 2 6:52

I wouldn't fuck with a bartender that don't drink you know, no, swear to God, that really make a difference. I'm not gonna lie, fuck around and try to pour wine. They try to want wine?

Speaker 3 7:03

make me a cocktail. I ain't going a lot over the ladies. I've been fucking with the wine, the wine on me.

Speaker 2 7:10

It's cute and classy, but it's strong. It's definitely strong. It's just for, like, the moment. If you want to be chill with the buzz, you drink wine. If you want to get turnt outside, wine is just not the best.

Speaker 5 7:22

You bartend right, Talk to me Best drinks.

Speaker 2 7:26

Oh my gosh, I'm really an all-keeper who is hard.

Speaker 5 7:31

Let's talk about it. Somebody that doesn't drink or doesn't really know about different types of drinks what do you recommend?

Speaker 2 7:40

I would recommend. Your bartender is gonna hate me trying to suggest all this fancy shit, um, all right. So margaritas flavored Strawberry, mango, guava, coconut Mojitos are really good. It's like they got mint salt flavored brown, so good. Uh, mascar mules are good, especially if it's flavored. Mascar mules those are really good. It's weird. It's like I'm syrup and then I like to have like mango flavor. It's really good.

Speaker 2 8:20

It's light refreshing, it's kind of bubbly and then, if you like, ginger flavor, it's really good. I can't describe it. But, um, my top one has to be Hennessey, with, like, it's like a peanut colada on the rocks with Hennessey. That's my favorite.

Speaker 4 8:36

Can I recommend a Hennessey drink for you? Of course I used to bartend, but before I started bartending I came up with a drink, because you know how you build a brand behind stuff so you can put it together and you can open it. So I love putting Hennessey with Amaretto, the Cirona one makes a difference. I put that together and I put it with pineapple juice and almond juice.

Speaker 2 8:58

It tastes so good. Oh wow, you actually did something I could like, because I know how they taste. That has to be good.

Speaker 4 9:06

I want to place a big. Same man.

Speaker 2 9:11

I mean, I could bartend with you, yeah, yeah, yeah, that's funny. That sounds so good though.

Speaker 4 9:17

The green tea shots.

Speaker 2 9:18

Of course I could throw them back. So good, they're delicious.

Speaker 3 9:24

I love the green tea.

Speaker 2 9:26

I'm about to say green tea shot. Good thing, green is right now. Where are lemon drop shots? I have never tried lemon drop shots.

Speaker 4 9:34

I can't do that on the internet Listen, so with lemon drop shots you can throw, like sugar or lemon wedge. So you take the shot, and then you suck that up.

Speaker 2 9:42

There's this common name. Oh good Girl, don't get me started.

Speaker 5 9:48

Oh my god, okay. So working as a bartender, do you make good money?

Speaker 2 9:55

bartended. You do make good money, depending on the volume, but even never mind. As long as you have a good personality and you give good service on a slow day you can make money. Either some people over tip or if you know how to upsell a check, you can like make one person spend like 50 bucks if you know how to talk them into something. Yeah. So it's all just like knowing your shit. You got to know your alcohol, know the menu and also know how to read your guest and yeah, you can make it work.

Speaker 3 10:28

That's dope For real.

Speaker 2 10:33

She got your tip already, for sure.

Speaker 5 10:37

What you want.

Speaker 2 10:38

Oh yeah, For sure.

Challenges of Dating in 2023

Speaker 5 10:43

For sure. So do you alright. First off, are you single? Are you dating? Are you in a situation?

Speaker 2 10:50

I'm in a situation I'm single but I'm not looking. I'm just like in my own do a mountain, do whatever.

Speaker 5 10:59

Okay, how has so dating been in 2023 for?

Speaker 2 11:06

you. It's terrible. It's terrible. It's absolute trash, Like basura.

Speaker 5 11:15

Talk to me. Why is it trash? Why are you having struggles?

Speaker 3 11:19

with dating.

Speaker 2 11:21

I think people forgot the whole point of dating. Like you're supposed to be dating, potentially to marry and to like bond with each other for life, type shit, like that's the whole purpose of dating. So when people want to lie and make it seem like they really want something serious, knowing they just want casual, like just be up front and deal with not getting what you want, it's just very obnoxious wasting people's time, like that's literally the whole purpose of dating. It's so frustrating, like I was fine on my own being single and you want to interrupt my peace and you are not even equipped to maintain me because we're not on the same path, we don't want the same things. You just want to fucking lie to get what you want and then you don't even want to leave when you get what you want because obviously you wouldn't want to.

Speaker 3 12:10

So it's safe to say you don't need no significant help.

Speaker 2 12:14

Of course not. I want one. There's a big difference from needing one and wanting one.

Speaker 3 12:20

That's why I said it like that. Because some people need that.

Speaker 5 12:25

Yeah, you need that, you need to get some shit together so you're able to sustain and maintain your own happiness, of course. And how do you do that?

Speaker 2 12:35

I do that by.

Speaker 5 12:39

Because from the outside, looking in, you seem like a very happy, a very positive yeah. Person. So I would wonder how do you maintain that happiness that you project to the world authentic?

Speaker 2 13:00

I think if you learn to find happiness in the small things and not be so caught up on what you should have, or what you think where you should be at, or materialistic shit, you could find happiness and you could literally have a moment of like oh my god, this is a great, that outer body experience of like I don't know, I'm happy, this is great. Like you could get that with just laughter Out of body experience.

Speaker 2 13:28

Yes, I hate him, but yeah, Just simple shit. That's how you find happiness. Like when I go out to eat by myself and I like get a bomb ass plate of food and I get a cocktail and I'm just like paying my bills, I'm scrolling through, I'm just doing what I want to do, Like that's really happiness. I'm in my own lane, I'm not bothered by nobody, my peace is not interrupted or just being around dope people Like just trust your instinct.

Speaker 5 13:56

I see recently a trip to Puerto Rico, and that was a solo trip. You went by yourself, yes, you what's that?

Speaker 2 14:07

That was my first solo trip, so how?

Speaker 5 14:09

was that experience and what led to you going on a solo trip and not going with your significant? Other with friends or your girls or anybody. What made you go by yourself?

Speaker 2 14:22

It was a few things. For one, I wanted to be on the beach, like I, literally in a selfish way, I just like it started to get cold, Like fuck this, I want to get out of here. In another sense, I feel like I have been feeling for a solo trip. I feel like I understand the benefits of just being on your own and on your own time, doing your own thing in a beautiful place, and also because I also love my people around me but we just we can never fit the time and I'm not about to put something off just because we can't have the same schedule. Like I'm going to still do it. Like I don't want nothing to hold me back. If I can't go with people, I'm going to go by myself because I have a ball. Hey, I had a good ass time.

Speaker 5 15:09

So is that something that you plan on doing again in the future?

Speaker 2 15:13

100% Yep, until I'm married for real, because I am Hispanic too. Ain't nobody taking those solo trips. I want some lockdown, but I thought right now hell yeah, what that was beautiful.

Speaker 3 15:29

You said no solo trips.

Speaker 2 15:31

Huh Hell no what, I brought my weed. I got a rental. I was drinking, just sipping like daytime, getting drunk at the beach swimming. The waves was fucking me up. I'm not allowed. I totally understand. It was beating my ass.

Speaker 3 15:47

I've done solo trips and shit's as dope bro, like shit. I got on parole. My ass jumped on a flight. I was in Cali for six months. You know what I'm saying. Wow.

Speaker 2 15:56

I said they let me go. How was Cali? Because that's the place. Cali is shit.

Speaker 3 16:00

I know my mom tells me all the time it's just mad expensive More expensive than New York. What Hell yeah, twice you crazy yeah. Bro, and it's not where you're from. So you're spending more money because you want to sightsee. You want to do this. You're not from there, so you want to be a tourist too, you understand what I'm saying, but yeah, that shit's expensive out there bro.

Speaker 5 16:22

Where's next on your list of trips? My list of trips.

Speaker 2 16:27

Sad to say. But Puerto Rico again, I feel like I get what I need out of there. I get the peace, I get the beauty of nature, the humble way of living. I love to see like I love Puerto Rico. I love Puerto Rico. It's such a vibe. I love it. Man. Oh my god. The beaches, the vibes. You could like do jet ski rentals, doing baggies, you could like just go and get a whole bunch of friduras, like batilios and capurias.

Speaker 2 16:56

I mean yo, I swear to God, when I was swimming, when I went by myself, I was like trying to catch a wave and I saw a fucking fish and I screamed I'm like bro, this is embarrassing. Yeah, that's a rivulet like an ishaac oh yeah, yeah.

Speaker 4 17:09

You can see fishes in water, yeah.

Speaker 3 17:11

Yeah, like if you go, no, I'm saying I've only been to the West Coast, I've never did too much Like I was. Do you swim, Do?

Speaker 2 17:19

you like to swim?

Speaker 4 17:20

Yeah, I know how to swim. Yeah, I love to swim, that's cool yeah.

Speaker 3 17:23

How about my mom not listening?

Speaker 2 17:25

She was like don't be swimming while you buzz. I'm like girl you don't even know.

Speaker 3 17:31

I just know not to swim drunk.

Speaker 1 17:33

That's just bad, that's it.

Speaker 3 17:35

No, I know not to swim drunk. I didn't jump in the pool on old sites or swimfacts.

Speaker 5 17:42

I've swimned, so, ashley, what's up?

Speaker 2 17:47

So tell me nice.

Speaker 5 17:49

I've seen a video of you. I guess you was at the gas station, somebody in front of you.

Speaker 2 17:57

Yes.

Speaker 5 17:58

They made a comment about your car not having a license plate. They asked if you was the police. Yeah, and you flipped the script. You was like are you the police? Yes, my name is like yeah, yeah, yeah. And then you said you ended the video with if that's how you wanted to holler. That's not the way you holler, yeah.

Speaker 2 18:19

Fact yeah, yeah, yeah.

Speaker 5 18:20

So let me ask you what is the right way for a nigga to holler at Aggie Ashley in 2024? How can he come correct and impress you?

Speaker 2 18:33

Damn, I'm not going to lie, to be like script-worthy. I know it doesn't happen this way, but like the gas station is just not where you're going to get me, so that's obviously not the way. Like I don't care what you say, there's never going to be a right thing to say at the gas station. I'm about to be like OK, straight. Like no bitch, I got to go pop my gas and go by my day.

Speaker 5 18:52

What if he paid for your gas?

Speaker 2 18:55

Um damn.

Speaker 5 18:57

Now, that's a different. That's not even feel no way.

Speaker 2 19:00

I would just feel so like. I feel like I would have to say thank you so many times because I would feel so weird that he did that for me, that, but that's all he would get. I would just feel so appreciative, but that doesn't mean that you should get my time just because you wanted to do something nice for me.

Speaker 5 19:16

Yeah, yeah, OK.

Speaker 2 19:16

So I didn't ask for that shit, like the fuck I was about to pay for my own shit.

Speaker 3 19:21

I'm like the hell.

Speaker 2 19:23

You did that on your own because you're a nice person, Like if you expected something. I'm sorry, but that's not going to be the case.

Speaker 5 19:29

So what's the right way to?

Speaker 3 19:31

But what's? What's, what's wrong with the gas station? I want, I just want to know why is that like a bad place? Why is that not the right place? Yeah, because what if?

Speaker 2 19:41

I feel like that's just such a quick that's too much of a quick interaction, like if you're trying to get into my space, I have to know how you are as a person, you have to feel your energy.

Speaker 3 19:49

Like that's too quick that you can't engage with somebody and try to see you again, Like this is the only time I see you. Oh the fuck.

Speaker 2 19:58

Well, you would have prayed at the University. Works in your favor and you're in the position to like be in. If that's, I don't know if it's meant to be.

Speaker 3 20:05

It's meant to be I believe that's the second time they see you, you know how many bitch.

Speaker 2 20:09

If you holler at me at the gas station you holler at any pretty bitch like that you don't get.

Speaker 4 20:16

It's as a logic. That's what I was looking for. I'm looking for that.

Speaker 1 20:20

I'm like.

Speaker 3 20:21

I'm like I'm trying to get something out of her like, oh well, like I just want to know, why not the gas station, Like she said it. Like you know, bro, that means you just try to holler at every bitch at the gas station. Like I said, bro, every bitch that cross your path, bro every bit. Listen, at some point in life you had the, had had fun, like it's like all right. Like me personally, I feel like I fucked everybody. I wanted to fuck it. I feel like I'm with you.

Speaker 2 20:49

You know I don't really I'm not even there yet, but that's the thing. But we're different.

Speaker 1 20:55

It's men and women.

Speaker 2 20:56

Like they don't even be about that. For a lot of women, exactly.

Speaker 5 21:01

Unfortunately you did some years, but so if you, when that happens, when you come home, you be on a rampage.

Speaker 3 21:09

That's when I start winning. You are every time. When I come home, I go to the top of my shit.

Speaker 2 21:14

You had too much time. You should have been beating your shit enough to worry why you feel that tough, like to be one to fuck everything.

Speaker 5 21:21

It's like it's crazy.

Speaker 2 21:22

It's different. It's different, it's not even that.

Speaker 3 21:26

It's just first of you when you're a popular person already. Sex like the actual, actual act of sex yeah but you can get that act from an individual.

Speaker 2 21:38

I hate the whole hook up. You can.

Speaker 3 21:42

But when you come home and you and that glow and everybody so like to see, you got to be a somebody to be in that type of position.

Speaker 2 21:49

Being a somebody don't mean that just because you fuck a lot of people and you go on a rampage don't mean you somebody. That doesn't make you anything. Your character makes you somebody. So if anything, that means that you're a piece of shit. I didn't say that.

Speaker 3 22:02

You just jumped in. I was saying I was starting to say she was like crazy. He was saying you see, I was going.

Speaker 5 22:11

She's like whoa whoa.

Speaker 2 22:14

Okay so sorry.

Speaker 3 22:16

We'll hit rewind.

Speaker 2 22:18

All right, you said you called me a piece of shit.

Speaker 3 22:24

You were like whoa, I didn't even say that.

Speaker 5 22:27

Crazy I was getting to a point. Now we're getting back on track. The right way to highlight Aga Yash 2024. Yeah, tell me how to go about it.

Speaker 2 22:43

I don't know. I honestly to say that I don't the only right way to me to get my attention like it would have to be the whole. We would have to be knowing each other like.

Speaker 3 22:57

I don't know, don't get Aggy ash up on Instagram.

Speaker 2 23:01

I'm not going to lie, maybe because I'm thinking, because I'm already just like tunnel vision locked down, that I don't, I can't even. I don't know. I guess if you have a good sense of humor, like if you're just yourself, you could fill the energy. I one thing I will say is that women could instantly read how hard you're trying Like just be yourself, try to make a bitch giggle, nobody cares about. You're trying to impress with material shit. You want to like be all right and like show this macho man, take all that off, be yourself, treat me like the homie. You will get so much farther just like acting as if I was a homie, versus trying to, I don't know, just put up a front.

Speaker 2 23:44

But, it's not really a fun, because I understand like you want to impress, but you will get farther trying to impress by just not doing too much. It's like honey, don't too much, yeah, like something so simple Like yeah, it's just all about reading energy. If you know your intuition and he's, he's falling or okay, you know what he's seeing. Like a cool guy I might. It's all about that. You'll feel it.

Speaker 5 24:07

Absolutely so. What are some things that you're looking forward to accomplishing? Next year was upcoming for Aguash First quarter.

Speaker 2 24:20

I'm coming honestly, with the way that my platform has like skyrocketed, which has happened so quickly, I would like to be making some bread off of it because, people have such a misconception about how many followers you have.

Speaker 2 24:36

Like it doesn't mean anything. Like people will literally DM me like oh, I know you're famous, but, bitch, I'm not famous at all. I'm literally you. I'm literally you. It's just the fact that one video cause thousands of people to follow from that one video and then a couple more months, another video cause a thousand of you. That's all it is Like. There is no difference. Nobody, I don't know. It's just so weird how people view like viral Instagram people.

Speaker 5 25:06

Yeah, absolutely, it's bananas. So how did you build that following?

Thoughts on Parenthood and Upbringing

Speaker 2 25:11

How did you amass that following that you have I think just being myself and showing my personality, just like with all the videos that I posted, like that one will take off, like the one for me was I was driving a stick shift and I was just like showing how I'm like goofy like me, and I don't know people like like that. I was just being goofy like dumb ass shit. Like I put no thought into that. It was literally a thought. I have a lot of goofy thoughts and I record it as soon as I think, I record it and I post it like I don't put no thought into it. That's why, like, if I go a while without posting, it's because I'm just not inspired. I haven't thought of something like that's how it is. I don't schedule it. That's when it's not fun to me. Like it just literally is authentic. Yeah, it's not exactly natural, it's a genuine process. Like what? If I'm not posting, it's cause I'm sad as fuck.

Speaker 1 26:05

The press talk to you.

Speaker 2 26:06

Bitch against the weight and I don't want to see nobody. You're not even gonna see me, but when I post it last cause I'm like really happy, like I don't know what it is. Like even back in like 2018 on Snapchat, it was all on Snapchat. I did the same shit back in 2018 that I do on my stories. It's just on Instagram. It's a hired platform. It's not as private. So, like, a lot of people get attracted to it and a lot of people just follow it, but I'm really just being retarded and silly.

Speaker 3 26:38

How many sneaky links you got.

Speaker 2 26:40

I don't do sneaky links. I don't. I have a baby, that's my man. But no, I am. Yeah, no sneaky links.

Speaker 5 26:48

You have kids.

Speaker 2 26:49

No, no, kids you want kids. I would love them down the line, but I'm not ready for them right now. I absolutely not.

Speaker 5 26:59

I feel like.

Speaker 2 26:59

I'm still a kid.

Speaker 5 27:01

Let's say the individual that you're dealing with now. Let's say, in two weeks you took a pregnancy test and it said positive. How would y'all respond to that? Do you think he's an eligible candidate to be a father to your child?

Speaker 2 27:21

I think he would be a great candidate. I feel like he's a great man, he has kids and he's a great father, so that wouldn't be a worry. It would just more or less be like, damn, it's not what I would have wanted for my life. This timing, a timing issue, yeah for sure, okay. So yeah, I would be a little disappointed in myself, like damn, you know. Like, yeah, that shit was fun, but damn, now I got a responsibility for the rest of my life at the timing that I don't need it.

Speaker 5 27:49

So you're not out here fucking somebody that you would regret dealing with in the long term.

Speaker 2 27:54

Oh, of course not. No, I do sneaky things, so I don't deny that. Because your energy like I don't, I truly don't understand how people do that. Like you're just giving your energy out to multiple people and you can never focus and have self-control and just I don't know maintain. One thing is so odd to me I feel like that makes me think about the differences of people that grew up with a two parent household and didn't. Because I did so, I grew up with the example and so that's all I know, that's all I want. Same, yeah. So I really can't relate.

Speaker 5 28:35

That makes a major difference, but I don't know what it is.

Speaker 2 28:39

I think that's what it is. But it's so hard because, like the percentage, like we don't have much to work with because everybody else, you know.

Speaker 4 28:48

Single parent household is a dual thing, for sure.

Speaker 5 28:52

So a lot more single parent. I used to get bullied.

Speaker 4 28:54

They should talk shit about me having two parents like it was fucking lame. Like what that's crazy.

Speaker 5 28:59

I made fun of my little brother for growing up with his mom and dad.

Speaker 2 29:04

That's crazy. Yeah, but that was probably coming from you being salty that you didn't come with the two parent household.

Speaker 5 29:09

Yeah, exactly. Because really that's the real benefits of coming with a two parent household and there's a lot of differences Like me and my brother, we have very similar personalities, but he's definitely more mentally and emotionally stable and he could handle a heavier load.

Speaker 2 29:36

Depending on the circumstances, because now you're saying that and now I could see how there's pros to coming in a single parent household versus me coming out of a two parent household, because I feel like, just like the way that they were able to raise me with two parents in one household, I feel like they did such a good job to a point where, like sometimes I'm too fragile with certain shit with my adult life, like I don't know, I feel like I didn't go through enough sometimes, like I don't have a real tough like outer layer, even though, like I'm real secure myself yes, I'm very I'm sometimes I'm too emotional, I'm too sensitive, like I do have tough skin to a point, but when it comes to certain like real life struggles, like I'm very weak because I haven't dealt with much, so I don't know how to deal with it. No, I have three siblings, but I'm the baby.

Speaker 3 30:31

That's me, yeah, that's me.

Speaker 5 30:37

You know, like casual conversation with you, I could tell that your father was in your life all the way. Yeah, I could tell that. I seriously feel like I indicate that within the first 10, 15 minutes of meeting a woman, I could seriously tell, like if you, if your father, had a presence in your life or not, just from your behavior, how you talk, how you carry your phone, small things like that.

Speaker 3 31:09

I can't, I can't, I can't, agree all the way, totally with that, because some people are the hot reality.

Speaker 4 31:15

No you can't catch him in certain environments?

Speaker 3 31:18

Man listen, people have different personalities.

Speaker 5 31:22

Well, you have a one on one conversation with me. Ellie you called her and we're alone for 10 to 15 minutes. I could read your behavior and tell if you had your father present in your life. I promise you that.

Speaker 3 31:36

That's why you're my favorite.

Speaker 4 31:39

I was so genuine.

Speaker 5 31:41

I love that.

Speaker 4 31:41

I'm here for it. I really am.

Speaker 5 31:42

Yeah, we're gonna make a little boy. We're gonna make a little clip out of that.

Speaker 3 31:45

That's my boy.

Speaker 5 31:51

But um yeah, so I can just tell I need that later Would you need a letter. Yeah, I could tell you know you had just their parents from your behavior and like women that don't have either, or you can see an overly emotional response to things. You can see trauma.

Speaker 3 32:19

You don't like that?

Speaker 5 32:20

No, I don't I put that right here. Yeah, I can't.

Speaker 3 32:25

I'm being real, I can't and I try it again. I try to. Just I said, let me break it.

Speaker 5 32:37

So at what age do you feel like would be the appropriate age for you to welcome your first child into this world?

Speaker 2 32:48

I don't think there's no appropriate age. I feel like whenever it happens, it happens and even if I don't feel like I'm ready, I'm obviously gonna get ready because I still have that. I mean, no matter how much like I have the control right now, but if you know, some shit were to fuck around it, I would have to fuck around and find out. I would definitely like you.

Speaker 5 33:09

So if you ended up pregnant tomorrow, would you have an abortion?

Speaker 2 33:15

I feel like it's so crazy because, no matter how much I know I don't want that for me, I could not see myself doing that, which is I don't know, I don't know. It kind of sucks, in a sense, like I'm not gonna lie, but my morals are just so like strict on that, like even though, like there's no fucking way, I don't want to just throw my life away because that's how it will feel right now, like my sleep, my money, my time, everything. But if that shit were to happen, it's like fuck, like damn. I thought they'd get real and I gotta deal with the consequences.

Speaker 5 33:50

Okay, I like that, yeah, so what I hear from you is accountability.

Speaker 2 33:56

Look like oh yeah, you try to eat. I forgot about that. Why you remind me first?

Speaker 5 34:02

Reporting live from the gutter getting into these food reviews. I was on Shaz Halal, so we'll start there. Shaz Halal Food, middletown, connecticut, 344 Main Street. They sell Halal food gyros, salad plat, salad plat is sandwiches, rice and meat combinations pause, what's the name of the spot? Shaz Halal Food. They stand for quality. They sell gyros, salad plat is sandwiches, rice and meat combinations and much more.

Speaker 5 34:42

When I arrived to the spot, nobody was in line, so I went right up to order. I ordered a rice and lamb combination with lettuce, white sauce, pause hot sauce and a root beer. I paid $13.51. Overall, I was extremely satisfied with the quality of the food and the service provided by the staff. The presentation of the food was on point. I had a decent experience and, yeah, I was happy with the food. The lamb was good, nice and seasoned. The rice tastes good. Lettuce was fresh.

Speaker 5 35:14

So let me get into the grades. For presentation I'm going to give them an eight. For portion I'm going to give them an 8.5. They had a decent size portion. I was actually satisfied with it. Affordability I'm going to give them a seven. Service provided by the staff I'm going to give them an eight. Quality of the food I'm going to give them an eight and that gives them a total grade of 7.9. And that's Shah's Halal in Middletown. I definitely recommend them. They have some good food.

Speaker 5 36:01

On the late night vibe I tried NY Chicken and Grill so restaurant located at 168 Burnside Avenue in East Halford. Ny Chicken and Grill is a regular chicken spot, comparable to Kennedy's Chicken, if you're in NY. I ordered a chopped cheese with lettuce, ketchup, mayonnaise and a can of root beer. I paid $12.51. For a late night spot in Connecticut, I was impressed. There's not too many of those around, so the fact that I was able to get a chopped cheese at 12 o'clock in the morning was good. As for the quality of the chopped cheese, it was all right. It wasn't anything special. It wasn't a Bronx or Manhattan chopped cheese. It wasn't one of those chopped cheeses you get in the city, but it was definitely enough to get you through the night. The presentation was OK. The service was great.

Speaker 5 36:58

So final grades for this restaurant. Presentation we're going to give them a 6.5. Portion. We're going to give them an 8.5. No, I'm lying. Presentation we're going to give them a 6.5. Portion we're going to give them a 7.5. Affordability we're going to give them an 8.5. Service, we're going to give them an 8. Quality, we're going to give them a 7., and that gives them a final grade of 7.5.

Speaker 4 37:37

I just realized I'm not driving.

Speaker 5 37:40

And that's NY.

Speaker 2 37:41

Chicken and Grill. What's your name? Myself, I'm Black.

Restaurant Review and Personal Passions

Speaker 5 37:43

Dredd, I also went to. This would be the final review. I also went to a spot called my Wife Didn't Cook in New Britain, some beautiful black owned restaurant at 89 West Main Street. When I arrived, there was nobody there but the staff. I was greeted by the owner, devon himself. I ordered a fried whiteened mac and cheese, yams, a piece of cornbread and the house fruit punch, kool-aid. I paid 21-24.

Speaker 5 38:16

Overall, I was thoroughly impressed with every aspect of the restaurant. The presentation was great. The quality of the food was superb. The restaurant was in immaculate shape. The service was top tier. As for the numbers presentation, we're going to give them a 9.5. Before the ability, we're going to give them a 9. Service we're going to give them a 10. They had excellent service. Quality we're going to give them a 8.5. And for final grade, we're going to give them a 9.2, which makes them the highest rated restaurant on my page so far. So shout out to my Wife Didn't Cook, shout out to Devon. And they also have an Instagram. Their Instagram will be tagged. And yeah, shout out to my Wife Didn't Cook, they have more than one location. If you're in New Britain, definitely give them a look into and go get some soul food. Go get some good soul food. Y'all just had some Chinese food, ashley. Yes, live review. Yes, god, live review. How was first off? Let's go to the name of the spot China Kitchen. Yeah, china Kitchen.

Speaker 2 39:49

China Kitchen in Bristol.

Speaker 5 39:50

Yeah, china Kitchen in Bristol, Bristol, connecticut, bristol. Stand Up, yeah, 827 Pine Street.

Speaker 2 39:57

That's crazy. I had a boom bust inside because after tasting that, I want to like Bristol, Stand Down.

Speaker 5 40:06

Oh yeah, okay, I'm sorry, but.

Speaker 2 40:09

I come from New Haven.

Speaker 5 40:10

It's all to me.

Speaker 2 40:11

How did you feel about that? My Chinese was so fucking made I'm not trying to go too crazy Like if you starving, you know you buzzed you high. That shit is all right, you know you're going to eat it, definitely edible, I was fucking it up, but that shit was so made. There was no sauce on my spare ribs. It's literally ribs tips. Like I want that little Asian barbecue sauce.

Speaker 5 40:33

Yeah, so it was dry.

Speaker 2 40:34

No, dry, the fucking Chinese food. I feel like there was not no soy sauce, it was dry, it was over here it was, over here it was over here. That was bad.

Speaker 5 40:44

The biggest thing in Bristol is ESPN. But on the Chinese food, how was the pork, fried rice and the Chinese wings? You had His chicken wings were great, though. The chicken wings was good. They were good. Yeah, I thought the chicken wings was button.

Speaker 2 41:03

They were crispy Gas.

Speaker 5 41:05

God.

Speaker 4 41:07

The chicken wings was. Button.

Speaker 3 41:08

The chicken wings is fucking awesome. I'm not even gonna lie. It was small as fuck, though, but they was a high. I ain't gonna lie. Let me shit this on.

Speaker 5 41:17

What about everything else?

Speaker 3 41:20

Everything else, I ate it. I'm starving.

Speaker 2 41:24

Yeah, the chicken was the highlight. That was real good.

Speaker 5 41:27

That was the best thing you tasted, mm-hmm. All right, so great China, let's go. Let's get into the ratings and how you feel about the food you just ate overall.

Speaker 2 41:44

I would rate it a presentation.

Speaker 5 41:46

What are you giving it? One through 10?

Speaker 2 41:49

Presentation damn, that shit is a four.

Speaker 5 41:53

Ooh, so she's a harsh grader.

Speaker 2 41:55

Yeah, because there was no sauce. Like I even my eyes first. Yeah, I knew it was about to be so in.

Speaker 5 42:02

Okay, portion one through 10,. What do you give?

Speaker 2 42:05

it, Bro. They always get us together. It's a strong 10. Chinese people don't play. You eat that shit for like two, three days. You straight. That's what it got.

Speaker 5 42:16

Affordability. For those two meals it was $29.

Speaker 2 42:21

Again with the 10, they get us together. It's matchy.

Speaker 5 42:24

Okay, like Service provided.

Speaker 2 42:30

They could have a little more hospitality over the phone. No, I'm kidding, I would give it like a basic eight, like it was good, wasn't bad, wasn't average.

Speaker 5 42:41

Quality of the food, the most important one.

Speaker 2 42:47

The quality was kind of fresh, but it was still bad. I would give it a good six.

Speaker 5 42:52

Okay, so let's add those up.

Speaker 2 43:03

Add those up for 10, 10, 8, 6.

Speaker 4 43:07

I'm not driving. Okay, I don't want to hit on the chair.

Speaker 5 43:11

So overall grade for a great China. Ashley gives them a 7.6., 7.6.

Speaker 2 43:19

That's good, because overall I was going to give a 6.5 overall, so that's pretty close.

Speaker 5 43:26

Yeah, so overall goes based off the categories, and then you get an average Give them a little chance to lose your boost. So she's a harsh grader. I look forward to doing some more food reviews with Ashley. Okay, talk to me about. Talk to me about. Talk to me about your passions. Do you have any passions, and if so, what are they?

Speaker 2 43:54

Yeah, I do. I love cooking. That's a passion. My family, I'm very passionate about them. I don't know. I think just enjoying life is a passion. I feel like that's literally how I base all my decisions on. So it's never easy to make decisions, even though they might not be the best, because in someone else's eyes they would be more logical, or somebody else would be more strict, or somebody would be more modest or safe, and I don't know. I just do whatever. Yeah.

Speaker 5 44:38

I feel it's best. Okay, you do what comes from the heart, yeah.

Speaker 2 44:44

I'm not mad at that, no.

Speaker 5 44:46

I'm not mad at that. Are you planning on diving more into your YouTube in 2024? Or more into your YouTube channel, creating content?

Speaker 2 45:00

I wish that was a passion. I feel like it sucks when you know you're. You could be so good at something if you applied yourself.

Speaker 5 45:08

Yeah, absolutely.

Speaker 2 45:09

It's so fucking frustrating, like when the moments get quiet after all the noises away and you really sit down and think and it's like damn like, if I really apply I'll be so good. But it just doesn't feel like a passion right now. Mm-hmm, like Really, what a passion right now for me. I know it's a phase it better be a phase, because I want a Better lifestyle than what I'm living right now, like I deserve so much better and I need to work harder. But as of right now, I just want to Enjoy life, I want to be present, I want to like make memories, I want to laugh, I want to Just have experiences. I'm not really like pressured on Figuring shit out right now. Right now, yeah, which I feel the pressure. I know I should be, I know that like I understand the importance of that and figuring that out as early as possible, but I'm not gonna stress myself out either.

Speaker 5 46:07

So do you have like a five-year plan and ten-year plan?

Speaker 2 46:11

I don't have any plan.

Speaker 5 46:12

No plan.

Speaker 2 46:13

Oh, which is so scary when you like, saying it right now. Yeah so crazy like I'm getting that question. Is I open?

Speaker 5 46:22

did you Graduate school?

Speaker 2 46:24

I did. I graduated in 2015.

Speaker 5 46:28

Okay.

Speaker 2 46:30

Yeah, I graduated a year early.

Speaker 5 46:33

And what was your major? What did you graduate with degree?

Speaker 2 46:37

No high school, my gosh, I did not go to college.

Speaker 5 46:39

Oh, okay, okay.

Speaker 2 46:41

No, I went for a semester. I first went for nursing actually, I'm lying I first went for culinary because cooking is a passion of mine, but then I got talked into switching my major into something more practical Because I had a professor that literally, yeah, I had a professor that would talk so much shit. He would say Americans are stupid and we're just, we want to live our dreams. And this is a night and I Thought about it and also, like my mom also Said the same thing going up all the time. So the fact that his opinion allied with what I heard from my mom growing up all the time, it's like, okay, well, I know that with cooking I don't need the degree. Like cooking could come from experience, it could come from social media, like other places. I don't need the degree in that. So, okay, let me just like have that as backup.

Speaker 2 47:38

But Some of the courses were interesting, but school was just not my thing and we were paying out of pocket. So I pay out of pocket if I'm not gonna go to school on time, if I'm not gonna do the homework and apply myself, like I don't. School is just not it for me. Yeah, I'll figure it out somewhere else. I don't know what it is, but I will make it like that's how I see everything that I'm just not interested in. Okay, I'm not mad at you, I'm curious. Well, you ever home school?

Online Learning and Nicki Minaj Album

Speaker 4 48:07

No, do you believe? Or you? You're well aware of people on internet learning. We have Unlimited potential on your. Yeah, easily accessible, yeah, right on your phone everywhere.

Speaker 2 48:19

Yeah, yeah, I don't know. That is very true, but when you learn online, you don't learn the same. Well, some people actually, I guess it's different for everybody. For me, I know myself that I need to be taught like in person. I need that interaction, like Because my attention span it sucks, like I can't Force myself to do it, because if it's online I have to do the, I have to have the discipline into and no, I need to like be in front and center, like paying attention to a whole instructor and taking down notes and all of that for me to really be into it plus learning online is a whole All different thing, because that opens up another world of issues.

Speaker 4 49:06

I'm not way. I actually I'm not even talking about going to school online.

Speaker 2 49:09

But just like seeking further information.

Speaker 5 49:13

All the time Even that I would say even more so.

Speaker 4 49:20

I don't know, this is so much fake news. Information. It's all there, the depth of it is to your extent.

Speaker 5 49:33

Yeah, absolutely.

Speaker 4 49:35

Yeah, how deep do you want? Dwell down on fucking rabbit hole? Yeah, sure.

Speaker 2 49:39

But then that's. But then that's another thing. What if? What if? Like sometimes I have to like Unfollow and change my feet. Because what if all I'm reading is bullshit?

Speaker 4 49:53

I'd be quick to unfollow Literally.

Speaker 2 49:57

I'm not gonna lie like something I'll get entertaining. Then I'll like hit a moment like what the fuck am I doing? Like bitch, if you don't look at some educational shit, like, alright, let's get a little, because you had enough. Internet be internet and, yes, intermission and it's such a good distraction like. It's such an easy. That is the quickest distraction from life, like the second. You know things go bad. You pick up your phone real quick. It's so easy to get sucked up into it, so fuck.

Speaker 5 50:31

Yeah, you could definitely get lost in your phone swiping up and down.

Speaker 2 50:35

Yes, you know. I've been thinking which I'm obviously not gonna do because I'll find a way. But I was like yo I would love to like go back to having a flip phone, to where I don't have the option to have data, like I don't want to be able to have apps and all this shit 2024.

Speaker 4 50:56

I'm sorry, I'm the person who's gonna like.

Speaker 2 50:57

All you need to do is call tags, have an alarm clock.

Speaker 5 51:01

I don't think you could do that in 2024.

Speaker 2 51:04

I'm saying mentally from like just because we're so stuck in our ways. I'm addicted to my phone, so obviously I think with that habit that's what I'm saying I will always find a way. I know I couldn't do it now, but it's just a thought that crosses my mind, like I would love to do that like. That's why I wish yeah, I spent way too much not being able to have Instagram and Facebook.

Speaker 5 51:27

Yeah, in your pocket. Oh, they got.

Speaker 4 51:30

That's all they got the phone is their laptop desktop fucking. I wish I had a fucking thing. I'll take the phone to the ceiling, yeah.

Speaker 5 51:38

Yeah, I know niggas that don't even have no internet, that don't even have no internet, that live off this, off Wi-Fi For real, like I believe you, off Wi-Fi, off Wi-Fi outside, on the Wi-Fi. That's it. Hit you straight from text-free Yo that's it.

Speaker 4 51:56

That's it. No, you're crazy.

Speaker 3 51:58

That's great straight.

Speaker 2 52:01

Hey, I should have a man in a great text-free.

Speaker 5 52:06

Hit you right from the text-free at the bottom.

Speaker 2 52:08

It's okay. No, I said I've been there like everybody everybody. Then the number about the expires, so you gotta get new one, like you know, yeah crazy.

Speaker 5 52:32

Don't go 30 days without Texan, don't go 30 days without Texas. Funny, it changed that number right up on you. All right, talk to me about Nicky new album. You listen to it?

Speaker 2 52:46

I have. I've dippled in Davos just a little bit. How you feel? Are you a Nicky fan? Um, am I a Nicky fan? No, yeah I am. But here's what I will say. I'm not gonna lie. I'm a little biased because I'm a OG Nicky fan. Like pull up the hot topic and get the little Barbie chain when she had like the bangs with the colored wigs back in her, like underground Nicky, like her mix tapes. But I'm like begging for her to go on a concert with just her mix tapes, like she used to just spit differently. She wasn't as animated, which sometimes is cool. But like I don't know, I wish she could just like go back into her, her beginning era that she was fired. So like After Pink Friday, maybe Roman reloaded was the last album that I really cared for but after that she just I don't know.

Speaker 2 53:43

There was a decade where she was just like not really I Didn't care for her, and then her attitude she was a little, she was being a little better. Can we talk about it?

Speaker 5 53:52

Talk about it.

Speaker 2 53:53

She was being a little, she being better towards like we go, we don't say no names, we don't Know, I don't.

Speaker 5 54:01

I feel like the only beef that I know about is like Cardi B.

Speaker 2 54:05

I feel like she's just a little shady, she. She requires too much recognition. I feel like you don't think she. You don't think she deserves that recognition, though it doesn't matter. If you deserve it, that doesn't take. If you don't get, it doesn't matter. You shouldn't need the recognition to know that you have it exactly like.

Speaker 4 54:24

Coming from no.

Speaker 5 54:30

You be feeling like.

Speaker 3 54:36

Like.

Speaker 4 54:41

I.

Speaker 5 54:43

Paid the way for you to do this content creating Enough.

Speaker 2 54:49

They gave flowers, but she literally wanted to kiss. She wanted them to kiss ass.

Speaker 5 54:55

Like she deserves her ass to be kissed. No, she does not why not?

Speaker 2 55:00

It's fake, first of all, but let's.

Speaker 5 55:05

That's the fucking Like.

Speaker 2 55:14

No she wants her ass. Kiss bro, and nobody but to do all of that. Like, I'm sorry, no, like. They gave her flowers and move along. We're not about to keep talking about it. That's what was Aggie, but anyway, I promise you I feel like the old, like the pink Friday, like that old Nikki.

Speaker 4 55:37

Roman in them and come back.

Speaker 2 55:47

He needs to be in a cage. We love Roman, though, but he was. He was spits some shit, but, like Roman, he had his moment and he was to stay. Yeah, but no, that shit like fuck this club up, hit my body different. Like I can't wait to the first time I hear that in the club I'm gonna what I need to show right there like.

Speaker 5 56:18

I see the video you made.

Speaker 2 56:22

Yo, did you listen to that song?

Speaker 5 56:24

Yeah, I did listen to that album. That part the beat was just crazy. Yeah, I wonder.

Speaker 2 56:30

I need to know who produced that beat, because that shit was fine.

Speaker 5 56:33

Yeah, I can't tell you that you go look at the credit.

Speaker 2 56:35

I know I need to, because I need to meet this man like. Why did you like do that?

Speaker 5 56:41

I'm a Nikki Finn, I fuck with me. I see you just went hard for her.

Speaker 3 56:44

You don't have to tell us, baby, like we.

Speaker 5 56:53

So I fuck with Nikki. I'm team Nikki.

Speaker 1 56:55

I'm.

Speaker 5 56:55

Trinidadian she's.

Speaker 4 56:57

Trinidadian you know I'm saying Trinidadian love.

Speaker 5 57:01

You know, I'm saying for real.

Speaker 4 57:02

I know all the depth. Yeah, so it's deep in the night, it's like my mom loved Nikki.

Speaker 3 57:08

See how good it is and my mom, don't love nobody, no love oh.

Speaker 5 57:15

My mom don't like nobody, she don't even like me keep it honest.

Speaker 2 57:19

That's like my mom with J-Lo I don't like me.

Speaker 4 57:21

Sometimes my mom don't like me.

Speaker 5 57:25

Now your mom go hard for you. But she really don't like. Your mom's ready to scrap with baby daddy.

Speaker 4 57:33

They think my mom is soft on me. She's not. She may be feeling less love my whole life. Yeah, mom's is ready to scrap with baby daddy. She's like. And then he, she just took it for herself like I was nine years old, like, look, first of all.

Speaker 5 57:48

Yeah, your mom's deserve.

Speaker 2 57:51

Maybe she was trying to build you up to be.

Speaker 4 57:55

Your mom's deserve it honestly.

Speaker 5 58:01

I'm not gonna hold you. Whatever. Whatever your mom's took from you, she deserved it.

Speaker 4 58:05

She's hard on me, yeah, and you right, cuz she shouldn't be lacking.

Speaker 5 58:08

I feel like that she should have anything before I have it 100, because she sacrificed so much for you that you don't even, you don't even know she's hard on me, you know, and I respect her.

Speaker 4 58:21

But I gotta be like she don't love me as much, but my dad don't love me as much. I feel like the same they both. They both show me love, but it's only so much love you can show like you know, man, mm-hmm, how they got people should be hard on you to teach you to believe it was character. What race are you?

Speaker 2 58:36

I'm Dominican. Dominican or Hispanic or just color people, I don't know, but I feel like For some reason they feel like it shouldn't have to be said, it should just be understood. Like, even growing up with us, we didn't say we love each other on a like regular basis. We didn't like greet each other with a warm greeting, like a hug or a kiss. It was like when we go to our teeth these house and we kiss everybody, that's when. But like for our own immediate family, like it wasn't none of that.

Speaker 1 59:06

Like Like random moments like bitch.

Speaker 2 59:10

You should know I love you and.

Speaker 4 59:14

We see each other. We don't even like really. I mean, we do kind of I guess when you, but like we, each other, like this has like a little blips on, the graph is all black. I'm trying to vision for real. I can't really like a shit, sorry. Oh, you see that Maybe it's got that track, you know, you know.

Speaker 5 59:40

I'm not gonna lie, it sounds like a you, moms and pops, need to have a sit down and maybe do like some family therapy. Y'all ever thought about it?

Speaker 1 59:55

Nah, they're actually hard-working people that are overworked, but I know where they're coming from and why they are cuz life is hard on them.

Speaker 4 1:00:02

Life is hard on everybody. That's where they come from.

Speaker 2 1:00:05

They're especially the generation of people. They don't really care. Yo, they oldest my dad.

Speaker 4 1:00:08

He was to be 64. I always tell him I used to be 64. He's like yeah, he's like I'm 50s.

Speaker 5 1:00:19

Are you? Are you against therapy? I?

Speaker 4 1:00:22

Actually have a therapist who became a friend and I'm so honest with my therapist, like I told him, like you know this, he I put in the fridge and I brought it here for you. Like I told him that he knew this, I Wasn't gonna be in a dirty, my dirty pizza. I knew it dirty, I'm gonna give you. I mean, and he would give it to them, and then they tell me, like it was, it's come back that you're, they said, wrong with your organs, so they're concerned you, he's actually made a fake Facebook account one time or sign cuz I have people harassing me, so I had some.

Speaker 4 1:01:01

I make a fake Facebook account but he don't even use it, like he kept the same account but it's just there. I noticed like they just there, you know. But he added like we added each other on a real one day or talk on it or not, and it's just I said my ball hey, do you do take people on this client?

Speaker 4 1:01:19

He says, yeah, it's just, he's got to provide, you know, your information if you want inquire, so that you could be contacted by the office. So so, if you want to hit him up, he's a real one on some live shit, he's a little LFGT radio. He's out here in Connecticut. I ain't gonna lie, he's a real one. Mr Kopinski is his name. He's a real one. Hmm, they keep it a honey with you. He ain't gonna lie, definitely. I was referred to him from probation. I was in the system. You know I'm out here. You know, ain't no game by the shit. You can't deny the shit you can't deny, ain't no game by.

Speaker 3 1:01:57

That's crazy.

Speaker 4 1:01:58

Well, rap yo.

Speaker 5 1:02:00

That's crazy. All right, something that I ask all the females that come up here, that I'm gonna ask you.

Speaker 2 1:02:12

That's scary. You're about to hide under the table. Okay, I'm just saying that straight.

Speaker 4 1:02:17

Right there, I mean sit up straight.

Speaker 5 1:02:21

Be honest with me too, because I don't want to ask for your phone. I don't want to have to ask for your phone.

Speaker 4 1:02:25

That's crazy. Ask for the phone.

Speaker 5 1:02:27

That's it, top five wildest DMs of 2023. Oh my God, so funny. Be honest.

Speaker 2 1:02:38

Hold on, this is about to be easy.

Speaker 1 1:02:39

Let me get a shot of this. I love that you did.

Speaker 2 1:02:41

Go ahead, let's go through. They be so funny, like they be so clever. I'm like, wow, I can't even be mad because you so clever and funny, I get them. Damn, let me see if I can find them quick. I'm gonna try to, cause they were. They didn't like so.

Speaker 5 1:03:03

Give me five ones that made you be like? Did this thing have the audacity to send that to me in a message Like?

Speaker 2 1:03:13

Yeah, oh my God, it's so recent, I'm gonna have to look up the oldest messages.

Speaker 4 1:03:18

I'm gonna try from the bottom, Cause I'm so grateful I don't get messages no more Like honestly, I like cause I never liked that. I feel like the internet was like people hit you up at the dark Like my. I get an over-divacation. It's a weird shit that should piss me off, Cause I'm being creative somewhere. It's my free time.

Speaker 2 1:03:37

Yeah, I'm getting shit just piss me off Like the fuck. It's not a fucking million dollar opportunity, I got it. Some dickhead niggas piss me off bro, Not even.

Speaker 4 1:03:45

oh, I'm just so weird. Talk to me what you got.

DMs and Relationship Insecurities

Speaker 2 1:03:47

Bro, thank God this was just December 6th and I was like I know I can find them at screenshots quick, cause I screenshot them, so I have posted. I have posted me eating a soft pretzel and this man said you'll make a better one life size. You hear me Like trying to say he gonna turn me into a life size. Pretzel is old as fuck. That's great, right? That's never.

Speaker 4 1:04:17

He never, he never, he never, he never, he never, he never, he never, he never, he, never, he, never, he, never.

Speaker 5 1:04:20

Nah, but you couldn't Google that, you couldn't.

Speaker 2 1:04:22

Google it.

Speaker 5 1:04:23

Cause that's on the spot. Yeah, that's like that's different.

Speaker 2 1:04:25

Clever. And then this one time that was clever. I didn't like Google that.

Speaker 5 1:04:29

That was very clever.

Speaker 3 1:04:30

That was never a fact. Oh my God that shit was just.

Speaker 2 1:04:33

No, that's very creative.

Speaker 5 1:04:35

That's what I said. Did you go to his profile after that? I did.

Speaker 2 1:04:40

You see, that's what I'm saying. No, I'm not gonna lie.

Speaker 5 1:04:44

I'm not gonna lie you have to go Cause you're like who the fuck is this nigga? That have the audacity to send me this.

Speaker 2 1:04:51

It's so funny, though, because only the bold ones be the dustiest ones, so I just literally go to be like bro I know he look like a fucking clown Like I go there knowing, expecting to like get bamboozled Like I know. You look crustiest Fuck and you literally so bold.

Speaker 5 1:05:07

He met your expectations. He got nothing to lose. Huh, he met your expectations.

Speaker 2 1:05:11

He was a dusty Of course Anybody that talk like that's always gonna be dust, like it is. Who does it Right? Crazy, I was sorry.

Speaker 5 1:05:21

You got more.

Speaker 2 1:05:21

You got more.

Speaker 5 1:05:23

You got more.

Speaker 2 1:05:25

There's one off the top of my head. We could go and there's definitely like too many.

Speaker 5 1:05:31

I was like I'm sure if you go to Instagram and go to your DMs right now, we could find five to talk about right now.

Speaker 2 1:05:39

Yes, Okay, let me see. Damn, they all be so hater, they so dumb. But this one guy was like laying in bed and I had it like this, just talking to them, and he's like so this is what it'll look like to be on top of you.

Speaker 3 1:05:59

I said you, you Hold on, hold on you, you, you got me, you you.

Speaker 4 1:06:07

You know? No wait, I'll tell you one more time no I didn't even.

Speaker 2 1:06:12

This was like it's memorable. I'm sorry. I will never forget this one. Yo, I was just taking a video talking shit in the camera. I was laying in bed and I had the camera up top and he's like so this is what it'll look like to be on top of you. Crazy. Like where do you come up with this shit? Like don't embarrass me.

Speaker 5 1:06:33

Yeah, that's wild.

Speaker 2 1:06:34

That's crazy. They be talking crazy to me in the DM and I guess this is just the hidden request. No, like they go, they go far. Then there's no good they go far, that's just hidden.

Speaker 5 1:06:51

Yeah, like no these like bro, I know those, the ones that get thrown.

Speaker 2 1:06:57

Oh wait, no, that's just general. Hold on Like Damn.

Speaker 5 1:07:04

How many DMs do you have right now?

Speaker 4 1:07:07

They're crazy, they're crazy, uh-huh. They're talking about the messages and the funny shit.

Speaker 5 1:07:15

That's how you just got a face on what was that?

Speaker 4 1:07:17

I don't know, I don't know where he's got the phone. He by looking, but I don't know what.

Speaker 5 1:07:21

Like where's the video? He's probably trying to come, don't worry, here right now. So that's how he behaves. Yeah, definitely, that's what I'm saying.

Speaker 4 1:07:38

I treat people mean I don't get messages no more, unless you the new year is, I don't know. They just probably write some weird shit. I get weird messages. I don't even feel no mind. I'll be honest.

Speaker 2 1:07:47

Yeah, bro, what when I be bored, I be like bro what dumb shit am I going to hear today. I be giggling every time I do not get what I promise you.

Speaker 5 1:07:56

I'm not even going to find it. I get wild DMs on the podcast page. Did it? Hell yeah, that's crazy, is it? Huh? Hell yeah, that should, that should, that should. It's crazy. It's always a female's boyfriend. That's DMing me Really.

Speaker 4 1:08:13

Yeah, that's crazy For when they female gets. That you must have.

Speaker 5 1:08:17

Or someone that's potentially coming up here.

Speaker 4 1:08:21

I guess they must be sweating.

Speaker 5 1:08:24

Sometimes maybe, maybe not even expecting that.

Speaker 2 1:08:26

I'm not finna lie.

Speaker 5 1:08:29

Yeah, like A lot of out of line weird shit.

Speaker 2 1:08:33

I like that shit. You better be crazy about me. Get it. Yeah, hey, hey, why don't you Like? You know what I don't know?

Speaker 4 1:08:43

that's what. I'm like Spice it up a bit, ok, no, I don't know. I don't like it when people do Is that?

Speaker 2 1:08:49

is that behavior that you would encourage Ashley, I would not encourage it.

Speaker 5 1:08:53

But so let's say, let's say let's say, the nigga that you talking to. He DM'd me and he was like yo, I don't want Agni Ash coming up to that podcast tomorrow. Yeah, Cancel that interview.

Speaker 2 1:09:12

How would you respond to that If I just send you a screenshot like yo Well, he would never do that though, so it's like that just wouldn't even be the scenario.

Speaker 5 1:09:20

That wouldn't be the scenario, so you wouldn't even tolerate that.

Speaker 2 1:09:24

No, it's not that he wouldn't even give a fuck that much. Yeah, Like, whatever it means, I mess it with Like they're secure enough to not.

Speaker 5 1:09:33

That's good, that's good. Amen, yeah. Round of applause to that.

Speaker 2 1:09:38

Round of applause.

Speaker 4 1:09:39

I was good Round of applause to that you know you're worth it, you expect it.

Speaker 3 1:09:44

But, no, I'm not going to lie.

Speaker 2 1:09:45

I've had. I've had, like past relationships and I'm sure, like you know, the future. It happens Like I've been insecure, I'm going to be insecure again, like it's a natural feeling that's shit Realized, fuck Like what. Sometimes, if you feel that way, there's a reason to feel that way. So it's like they're not always crazy Like hell. No, the intuition, that gut feeling, ain't no fucking joke. But sometimes some people do just be crazy and secure too, so that is another thing.

Speaker 2 1:10:15

There's just so many like you can't really judge unless you have the actual situation at hand. It's hard to tell you. Go to your megaphone. Oh my god, no, no, no, no.

Speaker 5 1:10:27

Never.

Speaker 2 1:10:28

No, that's not my business. I don't touch his phone. I have in the past, that is. You have done it in the past. What have I? Oh my gosh, what.

Speaker 5 1:10:41

And how has that resulted for you? It's around.

Speaker 2 1:10:43

If you're listening now, don't get it. That's my ex. Oh, he know damn well, I was all up in that phone. I would. He would change the password. I would figure out the password again, like yo don't. Yo that shit. I'm having PTSD, what I'm taking a shot. Oh my god, that's the worst, the worst. You will always find something. I'll never go through another phone again.

Speaker 5 1:11:10

I just never want to go through another phone If you're at the point of hacking phones and finding out passwords. That's the reason to leave.

Speaker 2 1:11:17

Yeah, I get it, of course, but sometimes you need that extra push because like it's just hard, Like it don't stop. How much of a difference.

Speaker 5 1:11:27

I'm sure every time you unlocked it you found something you didn't want to see.

Speaker 4 1:11:30

Yeah, it shows you like a different perception to what you presume to be reality. Yeah, absolutely. What is that?

Speaker 2 1:11:37

And that's where, like relationships suck, like just having to lose that fantasy of what you think relationships should be and what they really are, like I feel like I might be a little cat lady or gay.

Speaker 4 1:11:52

Or gay. Yeah, that means you're happy.

Speaker 2 1:11:55

Yeah.

Speaker 4 1:11:56

Fits mom.

Speaker 2 1:11:57

So weird.

Speaker 4 1:11:57

I'm going to be a little cat lady, I feel like you've been from the past, had something so pure that was stuff of weird shit is being teinted and washed down and things are being spoke down on. So being gay may be found upon, but it's really a smart piece. Just want to make that clear. I just want to make that clear.

Speaker 2 1:12:14

No if we might fight. So I can't date a bitch, but now I hear that I'm not gay.

Speaker 4 1:12:19

I've never dated a woman, ever. I'm just a honey. I'm the eldest of two boys. I'm a tom girl, kind of like I'm a placenta muscle person.

Speaker 2 1:12:28

That's fun.

Speaker 5 1:12:30

Let's say Tarone went through your phone. Would he find anything that he wouldn't like, that he wouldn't approve of?

Speaker 2 1:12:45

For my actions? Absolutely not. I think he wouldn't like like seeing all the DMs that I get and like little shit like that Other than that. No, he gon' see me linking up with my besties to go get some fucking sushi and drinks. He gon' see my porn search history no, that's literally about it. Like a whole bunch of screenshots of dumb ass shit. Like you want to see what I want. Like buy it for me.

Speaker 5 1:13:12

Let's say, hypothetically speaking, on air, he did come across your porn search history. What would be in that search bar? Would it be like Latina BBC? Like what would it say?

Speaker 2 1:13:30

Oh my god.

Speaker 5 1:13:31

Girl on girl.

Speaker 2 1:13:34

Damn, I don't want to. That's a little I mean. That's a little personal right. I mean I really don't give a fuck. I just give a fuck because I'm like into somebody right now, I'm like I don't know why I feel modest right now and you don't want to, you don't want to disappoint him. No, not disappoint him. No, he can't be disappointed.

Speaker 5 1:13:53

So what is it? What is it that you don't want to say? Because of what?

Speaker 2 1:13:59

It's not that I don't, I don't know. It's just because of this large platform and I don't know for women, I don't know. Sometimes sounding explicit sounds a little off, but then again it's life Like fuck it. I don't give a fuck because on a regular day I really don't give a shit.

Speaker 5 1:14:16

So, anyways, my interest on Coyote Hub is yeah, what would your top three last searches be See?

Speaker 4 1:14:22

I don't be on phone. How about you on Twitter? I don't have time to start.

Discussion on Twitter, Porn, and Addiction

Speaker 2 1:14:25

Twitter is. I'm sorry, twitter is crazy.

Speaker 4 1:14:30

And it sure is because I'm not doing nothing, I'm never, I don't like.

Speaker 3 1:14:33

Twitter is fine, so I don't ever fucking do nothing, that's why, now I'm about to make my shit private, but when you asked if I had a Twitter, I said no because I'd be liking this shit, because I want to go back to it.

Speaker 2 1:14:44

You got to like share, send it to yourself. We're wrong. I don't want to lose this masterpiece, bro.

Speaker 4 1:14:50

I'm gonna fuck my heart, shit my heart will be right there, Bro.

Speaker 5 1:14:55

No sorry, no you can get lost in Twitter porn.

Speaker 2 1:15:00

Yo, that's it. You know what, but it's.

Speaker 4 1:15:02

It's the Twitterverse, it's the Xverse, yeah, the Xverse.

Speaker 2 1:15:08

Yo, you know what's funny.

Speaker 3 1:15:09

Like on some high shit.

Speaker 2 1:15:10

I'm like you. Imagine they change it to X because that's all we fucking watch. Is X, X, X videos on there, because, yeah, that's the only shit I use it for no but you can tell.

Speaker 3 1:15:22

Twitter yes, so, I hate that it's just like.

Speaker 2 1:15:24

it's like little teasers, though it's like I have six seconds True.

Speaker 5 1:15:27

Twitter accounts Nasty. I have an explicit Twitter account and I have a non explicit Twitter. On neither account I post anything. Oh, what to say? I just I'm not an active, you're a commenter, not even.

Speaker 1 1:15:44

I just I.

Speaker 5 1:15:46

A view room. I'm an avid viewer and I use that platform for content. I find a lot of content. Yeah, there's a lot of shit. I get a lot of breaking news from Twitter.

Speaker 4 1:15:59

So first responder.

Speaker 5 1:16:01

Yeah. So to further elaborate my point, like I have one Twitter, that's just straight.

Speaker 2 1:16:08

You could get lost in the porn and the explicitness and just like you know, what's funny is that I actually think I'm addicted to porn right now and I need to stop. And I talked about this to my friend last night and she was like I think you got too much time on your hands. And I was like, oh my god, you really ate with that. I fucking do, like, even when I'm boring, like I don't even need to, I just play.

Speaker 5 1:16:31

So where do you go? To Porn hub or Twitter?

Speaker 2 1:16:35

Twitter X and X, X. And then my man got me on baddies hub. That shit's fine.

Speaker 4 1:16:43

Baddies hub is fine, because a bitch is actually pretty, is it baddieshubcom?

Speaker 2 1:16:47

I don't know, I never heard this.

Speaker 5 1:16:49

I'm just curious If you never fucked with it. It's baddiehubcom.

Speaker 4 1:16:53

Is it IE or I would what IE.

Speaker 5 1:16:56

OK, yeah, baddie hub like porn hub.

Speaker 2 1:16:59

And it's like amateur but like with pretty bitches, so it makes it look like more like pleasurable to the eye.

Speaker 5 1:17:06

They're very selective with the women that they pick, and they actually pick baddies yeah.

Speaker 4 1:17:13

And they found them.

Speaker 2 1:17:15

Yeah, and the men be fired too though OK.

Speaker 5 1:17:19

Yeah, so baddie hub is shout out to baddie hub.

Speaker 4 1:17:21

Baddie hub, I'm going to have to check it out.

Speaker 2 1:17:24

Yeah, sponsor us.

Speaker 4 1:17:26

OK, it wasn't you, hey, yeah.

Speaker 5 1:17:28

Sponsor us, absolutely, yeah, we'll.

Speaker 4 1:17:31

Yeah, questions will be answered, Baddies hub.

Speaker 5 1:17:34

We'll send you some viewers, so that's what you'd be tapping in with X and X, yeah, but mostly when they're.

Speaker 2 1:17:43

Yeah, because I don't know, I like to go like get some head action, maybe busing on there.

Speaker 4 1:17:51

Yeah maybe Now is this girl, or a guy with a girl, or whatever, I don't know, I'm just curious. Say it again.

Speaker 5 1:18:00

What kind of action are you on for oh?

Speaker 2 1:18:02

um curious Guy eating girl out Guy eating girl. Yeah, I'm trying to be like mad, like cute with the vocabulary, I don't want to be so explicit. Guy eating vaginas. You know the testicles and the like, the letters. You know his mouth is grazing those letters. That's hilarious.

Speaker 5 1:18:27

That's so funny. So where are you watching your point at Esperanza?

Speaker 2 1:18:31

I don't watch porn I just said I'd be watching it. Don't fucking, that's the same shit. Yeah, that was my say.

Speaker 5 1:18:36

Don't lie to me, Like don't both of us.

Speaker 4 1:18:39

Oh, I love you all my children, never mind, okay, like I said, though, Alright, listen, listen, listen, listen, listen.

Speaker 5 1:18:45

This is where we stop, this is where we hold things up. Alright, I'm going to click safari, Click safari. I'm on safari. I don't even have safari, because you said you don't watch porn, so let me grab this Okay, boom, we'll grab this.

Speaker 4 1:18:58

You know I mess with a guy and he sent me some sexual links. So if you look at shit, the date should add up to what I'm saying. That's what I'm saying. He said send me shit. And I looked at that shit because he said it to me Because I did this.

Speaker 2 1:19:07

So what did he say? And I got messages.

Speaker 5 1:19:09

He said move the date I could just look at all of your history.

Speaker 4 1:19:13

That's literally what it is right now, because it ain't what I got. You know, this is how I got it.

Speaker 5 1:19:17

That's the good thing about Iphone. It's like I could literally click this. I got to see this and I could see everything that you've been doing the last 30 days.

Speaker 4 1:19:27

Tell me what I do. Tell me what do I do.

Speaker 3 1:19:29

I'm going to see you right now I'm going to see you right now. You're going to try to cook.

Speaker 4 1:19:34

He's going to say you try to bake and random shit, I don't know.

Speaker 5 1:19:40

I can see that you actually don't look at any porn.

Speaker 4 1:19:44

I'm so serious? Not at all.

Speaker 2 1:19:48

I feel like.

Speaker 4 1:19:48

I should see a therapist for that. What?

Speaker 2 1:19:51

No, I've heard that before. It's how I feel about the people that I'm interested, but not necessarily.

Speaker 4 1:19:55

I've had relations before in the past where I didn't really have received pleasure out of them, but then I came across this one person and I feel like wow, that was majestic as fuck, you know. And it's like damn, now I'm stuck on somebody that is like we're not together.

Speaker 1 1:20:09

What is?

Speaker 4 1:20:10

this, it's saying it, it's not it. There's something, Whatever it is. It is what it is. It's got to be something better than this. I don't know what that is. I don't know what that is.

Speaker 2 1:20:20

I want to stop watching porn. I wish I could get to a point where I don't need it.

Speaker 4 1:20:24

I look at shit but I just, I don't know, it doesn't cause a reaction for me. I don't know, I don't like to do it.

Speaker 5 1:20:32

I'm even looking at your Twitter right now and I don't see I have mad Twitter accounts.

Speaker 4 1:20:36

I got like four of them and that I can sign into Okay, okay, okay, that I can sign into. The other ones I'm trying to get into Cause. I've been mad accounts when I was younger trying to be an entrepreneur.

Speaker 2 1:20:44

I've been trying to sign out. Like so many accounts I can't get in Cause nigga's done. Broke, my shit took hard, drives out.

Speaker 4 1:20:49

Like shit's crazy. I have to change my password cause nigga's was trying to just fuck my life up. I don't even remember the passwords. Like shit's retarded Fuck.

Speaker 5 1:20:58

Like life ain't hard enough. Whatever you're doing, you're very good at hiding all of your explicit content. I'm gonna show you my shit right now. I ain't got shit in the house.

Speaker 4 1:21:08

I said you want to see Cause I don't see anything. This is my new account that I just made to and it says let me show you this is Bay THC, cause I said them a week. I stand up for holistic medicine, like it's who I am. So I feel like Bay THC is like. Thc is like a. It almost matches the chromosomes in our body. Like you know. It's almost like as good as the food that we consume and shit. You know, like the air that we breathe, like shit's real.

Speaker 1 1:21:35

It's like tip dirty, Like you smoke weed you smoke weed, I smoke weed go with confidence and we all breathe.

Speaker 4 1:21:42

You know what I'm saying? Like it's a dude, don't? You don't have to do weed People. Let the weed do what it do. Let the weed be.

Speaker 1 1:21:49

You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 4 1:21:50

They Connecticut shot to Connecticut. They about to drop a lot of the charges, by the way. Yeah, I see that.

Speaker 4 1:21:57

That's so good for us doing something popping it's about time, Cause I'm like I'm tired of holding this shit up myself, Like y'all. If people treat me so well, I'm like I'm out here trying to represent this, Like I'm from here. I feel some type of way I do, Cause people treat me like shit and all I'm like yo, I'm here, so I'm at and it's like nigga, I'm not from here, and these motherfuckers out here is something else. I'll tell you that, but it is what it is and they all facts.

Speaker 5 1:22:22

That's what it's going to be. Yeah, what she was saying is a majority of the old low level convictions in Connecticut are to be erased in January 2024. That's a new law that they're passing. That just was passed and it going to affect that's also taking place in New York too.

Speaker 2 1:22:40

It's coming in New York City. Yeah, yeah, it's coming in New. York.

Speaker 4 1:22:45

City Cause I came from New York City to CT and I always felt like I was doing something but nobody ever fucking seen the fucking level that that shit was to me. Like you know, at your level, where you hold time up, like nobody gives a fuck, like how people add plaques, I went from my you know associates to my bachelors like niggas, don't add shit up.

Speaker 4 1:23:05

I don't know, shit crazy. Well, shit, shit don't make no sense. It's wild. You be real. Keep it a hundred with a nigga, and they do dirty Like you ain't just right beside them, it's all the time you be a niggas ride.

Speaker 4 1:23:16

They'll fucking rob you and leave Like I'll find a way out of here. I know you brought me, though I have some shit. I've been through shit like that nigga Rob me for a thousand plus dollars. Nigga, I've hurt myself. Shit was years ago Not too long, though, cause I remember like it's not too long.

Speaker 5 1:23:31

Damn. I see that shit hurt you.

Speaker 4 1:23:33

Man, this shit hurt me cause I don't have much shit hard for me. It was dirty money, but it was real to me. Yeah, not funny, it wasn't even mine. I was like yo, this is coming oh shit. And niggas took it right from under me and it was somebody that was my blood. So I was like, damn, this was really like mine, the worst. I felt so bad. Niggas did the time everything. I felt bad.

Speaker 5 1:23:56

Yeah, that is terrible. It is terrible, it's bad, that is terrible.

Speaker 4 1:24:01

I was just saying do the time for the time. You know, no, act like life won't punish you. Yeah, no, I will. Life is cruel too. That's it. It'll abuse you, it will Fuck.

Speaker 1 1:24:11

It will.

Speaker 4 1:24:12

Shout out to the love that we try to show here on Live From the Gutter Radio Cause we definitely show about your love.

Speaker 5 1:24:19

Do you have a Latin report for today?

Speaker 4 1:24:22

Honestly, I do not have a Latin report.

Speaker 5 1:24:25

I'm not a Latin. I ain't mad at you. I ain't mad at you. We'll see moms on Sunday. Moms, fill us in, ashley, you have any businesses or anything you wanted to shout out before we wrap this up.

Speaker 4 1:24:36

I do oh, go ahead. No, no, I don't get that. I don't get that, I don't get that, I don't get that, I don't get that?

Speaker 2 1:24:40

I don't get that. You want to think about it real?

Speaker 4 1:24:41

quick. Yeah, go ahead, think about your friends, what they do, people in your community that you like, people that you see online or they want to fuck with it, or shit like that you know.

Speaker 5 1:24:50

What you got.

Speaker 4 1:24:52

So right now, mind Body and Soul in Meriden, connecticut, a restaurant, okay, they are doing a toy job for the community, you know, and they're giving away toys, you know. They're giving away a toy for a child, for a child like you know, to you know. But in Meriden they're on West Main Street, mind Body and Soul. You can go with them, you know. There's no bad reviews, I believe. Okay, it's good food.

Speaker 5 1:25:19

It's good people. Okay, Ashley, real quick on camera. Before you leave, tell us three restaurants to go review so I could go do my life in the gutter reviews. You're a lifelong Connecticut citizen. I want to hear your opinion and some spots to go check out.

Speaker 2 1:25:46

Hmm, I would say number one, camacho's Garage.

Speaker 5 1:25:54

Camacho's Garage. Yeah, okay, where's that?

Speaker 2 1:25:57

Have you. It's in Westville, new Haven.

Speaker 5 1:26:00

Okay, what kind of food they got there.

Speaker 2 1:26:05

So it's a Mexican spot.

Speaker 5 1:26:06

Okay, I love Mexican food.

Speaker 2 1:26:08

Literally, you ever had media tacos. What kind of tacos. The media.

Speaker 5 1:26:13

It's like oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. She's saying that the rules finish where. Sorry, bidia, yeah, yeah.

Speaker 4 1:26:20

I know exactly what you said, that's true. Nah, yeah, that's they don't know. They don't know. Yeah, we don't know. I know, I apologize, those are wet tacos. No, I apologize.

Speaker 2 1:26:27

No, wet tacos is crazy. That sounds disgusting when he put it like that. I don't like it. Don't call them wet tacos.

Speaker 4 1:26:35

But they come with the sauce. You dip it in the sauce to. I agree, but I mean. Write a rule. You know what it is. It's not disrespect, it's disrespect. Oh yeah, so it's like, it's like that's the trigger you know how people say like myself. People might find their offensive that I say niggas often, but I mean You're black though yeah, yeah, yeah, my sons is black like it's, not even it's not even that.

Speaker 5 1:26:59

But when you say niggas, are you saying niggas or niggas? My mom be putting relaxer in her shit. When you say niggas, are you saying niggas?

Speaker 4 1:27:05

or niggas. I hear you where you come from. I definitely say niggas. Oh, you say niggas, I say niggas. Nah, see me.

Speaker 5 1:27:13

I be, at work. I call niggas niggas because that's how they act Yo, I can't stand it.

Speaker 2 1:27:18

Oh nah, bro, they act like niggas.

Speaker 5 1:27:20

so I tell them like yo, y'all are a bunch of niggas. That's how y'all act like niggas, nah what?

Speaker 4 1:27:28

Yeah, yeah, I'm gonna see all this footage on Patreon.

Speaker 5 1:27:31

Yeah, we're gonna do it. You're gonna see all this footage on Patreon. No, but it's gonna be with so much legendary hype. All right, so we got Camacho's garage. That's Mexican food.

Speaker 2 1:27:41

Yes the media. Tacos are my favorite. Their mojitos are fired extra martini, bussin' Okay. Then they even had like chocolate stuffed churros with ice cream on the side strawberries, did you do Listen? Yes, get the martini a little bit. Oh, no, damn, that's not good yeah she getting crafty. Yeah, it's crazy. Literally they have Thresk Leche. You ever had Thresk? Yeah, oh my God. Yeah, it's a little milky cake yeah, so that's number one. Number two I would do Ola in orange. Ola H-O-L-A, no A-No O-L-A. Okay yeah, it's not like, hey, ola.

Speaker 5 1:28:23

Okay, Ola, and where's that?

Speaker 2 1:28:25

That's in orange. They actually have two locations, I forget the other one. You go have to. All right, don't worry, we'll go to orange, maybe Wallingford, but um, now we went by Worst Hat.

Speaker 5 1:28:35

What kind of food they got there.

Speaker 2 1:28:37

Another Spanish spot, but it's different. I don't know which type specifically. I think it's a blend, but if you like steak, their Chorazco steak and then they do like a fried rice with, like sweet plantains inside and it's so good, oh, rice with plantains inside.

Speaker 4 1:28:53

Bro, literally, but and then it's seasoned so well.

Speaker 5 1:28:57

And it's the sweet plantain right.

Speaker 2 1:28:58

Plate presentation is crazy. Like it's so Instagram worthy, that's number one. Then their cocktails are fire. Okay, their margarita. If you get that, they like put a little flame up top. Okay, oh yeah, that's fire. Yeah, oh my God yeah, Fire okay. Yeah, none of you got happy hour drinks at the bar. There's none of that.

Speaker 5 1:29:17

So we got Camacho's Garage, then we got Ola. What's your third and your final recommendation for the state of Connecticut?

Speaker 2 1:29:25

Oh, bon Chan, this is easy. I love me some food. I'm not gonna lie, that's Asian right. Yes, I feel like they have the cheap code to crispy, fried fucking chicken Like, but then it's saucy like they toss it in the sauce but it's still crispy as fuck. It make no sense to me.

Speaker 5 1:29:42

There's a couple of Bon Chan. That's a chain.

Speaker 2 1:29:44

Really. Oh yeah, it is actually. Yeah, I've only ever seen the one in New Haven, though. Okay, but their fried rice is so fire too, and they got a bar. Margaritas are busted, they go fire and they got a bar. Yes, they do in happy hour.

Speaker 5 1:29:59

All right, I'm not sure if Bon Chan is local, so give me one more just in case, cause I think Bon Chan is all over Like a friendship. Yeah, I'm pretty sure it is.

Speaker 4 1:30:13

It sounds like it is and I have real hope.

Speaker 2 1:30:16

I would say do you like steak?

Speaker 5 1:30:19

I love steak.

Speaker 2 1:30:21

Oh say less.

Speaker 5 1:30:22

Which one should I take you to? I'm looking for local spots, though.

Speaker 2 1:30:27

There's two local, I feel like one. He needs the support honestly, because Give me that one. He used to be on Derby, it was called Fratellis, okay, but now he changed. He went to Stratford. It's called Ristorante di Sofia. It's Italian, but when I tell you, they know how to cook a fucking steak, bro, but it comes with like a sauce of red wine reduction. Ristorante di Sofia Huh, yeah, it's like DI Freddy, yeah. And then Sofia with the F instead of P. She said Sofia, yeah, so good. And then their hospitality, like it's a family restaurant, so like dad and the son and they're just so cute and it's like it feels like fine dining, but it's super chill. Yeah, the steak is really good, it's fire. And then they do like a the sign. Instead of like mashed potatoes, it's called a potato croquet.

Speaker 5 1:31:19

Okay.

Speaker 2 1:31:20

It's like mashed potatoes, but then it's covered in breadcrumbs so it's crispy on the outside. Okay, that's fire.

Speaker 5 1:31:25

And mashed potatoes on the inside bro.

Speaker 2 1:31:27

That shit is so good I'm making myself hungry.

Speaker 5 1:31:29

That sounds fire. Yeah, that sounds fire Bro sponsor me.

Speaker 2 1:31:32

I'm getting y'all some ed. Don't get me. Ha, ha, ha ha.

Episode 15 Wrap-Up and Shout Outs

Speaker 5 1:31:36

Now, that's what I'm talking about the good energy that you be having. I love it, nice. It's a wrap for episode 15. Shout out to Aggie Ashley for pulling up. Yeah. Shout out to Gas God. Shout out to Pay Is Do. Another great episode live from the gutter radio. When y'all tuning, y'all staying tuned. Y'all follow our Instagrams. Tell them your IG.

Speaker 2 1:31:58

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Speaker 5 1:32:05

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