Grammy, Money And Love... All The Things A Ladyboy Need

When Miley Cyrus transitioned from a teen idol to a Grammy winner, it marked a journey of reinvention that's as fascinating as it is inspiring. Join Lada and me as we revel in the glimmer of the Grammy Awards, celebrating Miley's well-deserved accolade for "Flowers," and discuss the transformations of Disney stars like Selena Gomez and Britney Spears. We also send heartfelt wishes to Celine Dion and unpack the chatter around Taylor Swift's latest surprise at the event. Plus, we tackle the thorny issue of fame in the digital age, reflecting on the unwanted side-effects such as AI-generated images plaguing public figures.

The rich tapestry of Thai culture is more than just picturesque beaches and bustling markets; it's flavored by the experiences of its people, including my own upbringing in the small village of Nan. Our episode takes you on a journey through Thailand's diverse landscapes, contrasting rural traditions with urban attitudes. We highlight the beauty of inclusivity as seen in my high school's approach to ladyboys, sharing stories that celebrate progressiveness in unexpected places. Lada and I hope to illuminate the lesser-known aspects of Thai society that often go unnoticed by the casual observer.

Navigating love and materialism in Thailand's lively tourist hubs presents a unique set of emotional intricacies. We candidly explore the concept of 'butterfly' partners and the depth of relationships that blossom in a world of open connections and fleeting encounters. The giving and receiving of gifts in these bonds takes on a new meaning, as we debate the impact of material tokens versus financial support. Whether it's the longing for a non-possessive partnership or the valuation of loyalty, join us in this candid conversation as we dissect the multifaceted heart of love in the Land of Smiles.

Transcript

Speaker 1: 0:00

Hello everyone and welcome back to my Thai wife podcast. I'm Mike and I'm still doing this without my lovely, lovely wife, sunari that. I know that all of you guys miss her, but we have her replacement. We have Lada here. Hello, lada.

Speaker 2: 0:16

Hello guys, how are you doing?

Speaker 1: 0:20

I'm doing very well. How are you? I'm great. I hear rumors that you are in Bangkok now.

Speaker 2: 0:30

Alright, I'm in Bangkok now. How is?

Speaker 1: 0:34

Bangkok Today.

Speaker 2: 0:35

I spend most of the time to watch about the Grammy Award. Today have the Grammy.

Speaker 1: 0:40

Award.

Speaker 2: 0:41

Yeah and oh, my god, I really enjoy and I am very happy for all the awards, like my very single get.

Speaker 1: 0:52

Who will invest? In the album. No, no, I don't see anything today.

Speaker 2: 1:00

It has many. I like this Grammy Award this year because they include so many amazing things together that you see all the D-Wa has come. So I need to be congratulation for Miley Cyrus that she get about her song flower. She got the award from that.

Speaker 1: 1:28

I never even heard about this song. I never even heard about this song.

Speaker 2: 1:32

She be in the music industry for a long time, but she never get the Grammy Award, and this is her first Grammy Award. I love Miley Cyrus so much, and also I love her ex-boyfriend, liam, as well.

Speaker 1: 1:48

I just know one song by her, so I think it's called Racking.

Speaker 2: 1:52

Ball. What's the song? You know about her.

Speaker 1: 1:55

Racking Ball.

Speaker 2: 1:58

Oh wow, I know why. You know that song Racking Ball yeah. I just know this song.

Speaker 1: 2:08

I don't think she's hot, but this matter of opinion, so it's okay. So who?

Speaker 2: 2:16

Because she from Disney, right From Disney, and also she have like a music evolution that she share, her style, and I love when I see her grow up well with a different type of like. Maybe it's like kind of like a very hard for her. And also Selena Gomez and Miley Cyrus and many people bring her Britney Spear that come from the start. There they start about the music industry by Disney because, like, when you say Disney it's just about the kid right and just think you know some lovely thing.

Speaker 1: 2:53

I think also you know they turn to be sexy. You know, ryan Gosling.

Speaker 2: 3:00

Yeah, I know my husband.

Speaker 1: 3:03

So he also started, I think.

Speaker 2: 3:06

Yeah Ken, I know Ken.

Speaker 1: 3:09

Yeah, ken from Barbie.

Speaker 2: 3:12

I never seen the movie, but I… so first I need to congratulation for Miley Cyrus for her like her first Grammy award. I really love her and I love her song, many, many songs that I love her and I'm happy for her and especially, very special time for her. She almost cried on the stage because she get the award from Mariah Carey. Okay, yeah, so she get this award to me from the hand of Mariah Carey, the D-Wars.

Speaker 1: 3:46

Yeah, so she like her right.

Speaker 2: 3:49

Yeah, she love her so much. And then, like she is Mariah Carey who gonna be like, get the award from Mariah Carey hand Like oh, that's an amazing time. And also the other D-Wars has show up selling D-On. I didn't see her for a while.

Speaker 1: 4:08

She got dying, she got sick and I wish she died.

Speaker 2: 4:11

I wish she get better soon. I feel sad for her, like she have, like her not thinking for a while because she, her health is not good and I wish she get better very, very soon. She show up and then she give the award to Taylor Swift the album of the years. Taylor always wins the album of the years.

Speaker 1: 4:34

First of all I thought Celine Dion died. So sorry, I was sure.

Speaker 2: 4:39

No, I can see that she get better. I can see before she very, very thin.

Speaker 2: 4:44

I understand like a very tired, very. I Confused her but now I can see she. She look fresh and she look like a getting healthy. And when she appear on the set, all my tear cry, my tear pouring. I miss her so much. And she just like diva and she being so hard, she get a really, really hard time to fight with her illness. And now she show up but the only one thing that, like a, it's very big talk of the town, like over the world. You know what?

Speaker 1: 5:17

I don't know, I'm not really into gossip.

Speaker 2: 5:22

Tell us we get the award like album of the year. Yeah, everyone is happy to her because she, she did great in this year, always great. But when she get on the stage she hugged like everyone, like have around ten people, like you're on the street, a Producer, all her friends. She hugged everyone, she thank you everyone. And when she go to take about a Grammy's Tophie from selling the on hand, she not even look at selling the on face or not even thank you to selling the on, selling on just like everyone, just shocked, like what? Because this is the one give you the award and this is the very beautiful moment. You never get this moment in your life.

Speaker 2: 6:10

I think she have a big, big, big moment, like my list. I write very honored, to Mariah Carey right, yes but I think we don't even don't. She don't even look at Selling the on face. She just go to take the Grammy Tophie from selling the on hand and when she speed to thank you, she thank you everyone on the stage, but she's just ignoring to selling the on everyone. Just so, so disappointed, even to me. I love to us with so much, but this is really disappointed to me.

Speaker 1: 6:44

I think that Taylor Swift have many things to worry about Now, right now, because you heard what happened.

Speaker 2: 6:51

Very exciting, but I think maybe she's too exciting.

Speaker 1: 6:55

She have big problem because many people people make Newed pictures of her with AI and post everywhere so Twitter and Facebook.

Speaker 2: 7:08

Yeah, yeah. But if you see how she have fear, she already see selling the on when she on the on down Not on the state yet, because the Lindy on appear and she said she gonna say who gonna win the alabam of the year? Right, and then Taylor Swift seem happy, but the best moment is on the state. This is the best moment of her life. She should not be like that, you understand. She should not be a big mistake like that.

Speaker 1: 7:40

I Really don't know about it's not gonna happen again. It's the best moment from the I just remember that someone is going leave what.

Speaker 2: 7:49

I want to remind you that this is the on and selling the on. Her healthy is not really well, but she come up to show up, she go to join the arm, the Grammy Award with her, no, with all knows. And then she appear and everyone just saw happy and she's just like a you know to people who fighting with herself, her illness for her emotional, for her sixth day. But now she appear and then she deserve.

Speaker 2: 8:17

She deserve better than ignoring on the state you understand this can tell us with hug everyone, tell us to thank you everyone. She, she just jumping around the stand and hug every friend but just ignoring, selling the on. What fuck.

Speaker 1: 8:33

Lada, first of all, you are ignoring me. I tried to tell you something. You don't listen to me.

Speaker 2: 8:41

It's just too much emotional because, I sitting all day just.

Speaker 1: 8:45

I try to tell you these things, that this is how, this is why wait this is nothing. I want to remind you that One year ago or two year ago, someone was about to get the Oscar. Then he slapped someone. I'm talking about will Smith. This is much bigger news, so just not saying hello to someone. This is nothing. This is not interesting. I want to see Taylor Swift take a hammer and bash someone head. This interesting. I Want to see violence.

Speaker 2: 9:23

So I'm just like I know you care about a lot about this like a, when they finish about her, when they finish on the backstain, she come to Huxley Lindy on and take a very nice photo. Maybe she feel like, oh, she missing her best time of her life. It's gonna be the golden moment of her life. She missed it. I mean like Taylor Swift missed that time. Yeah, so she come to Huxley Lindy on and, yeah, they take photo together and also Do oh, and the other surprise, the other, the other thing. The surprise is our JZ and with blue Ivy Ivy, her daughter, with Beyonce, right.

Speaker 2: 10:12

Okay and they, they appear on the stage. So oh, I Brute Ivy just so beautiful, same her mom, really beautiful and humble Okay.

Speaker 1: 10:22

I never see.

Speaker 2: 10:24

Yeah. And then Jesse said it's really surprised and this support that Beyonce is the person who get the most Like a lot of like a modern 32 Grammy award, but she never win the album of the year. Jesse said he very disappointed and he really disappointed. What's going on why she not win the album of the year? Maybe she?

Speaker 1: 10:53

need to make his voice. Maybe she need to make better albums.

Speaker 2: 10:59

Yeah, and then like and the beyond surface look really sad as well because, like her, she works so hard. Yeah, she get a lot of Grammy, but maybe the album of the year is kind of like a very, very big award for every single.

Speaker 1: 11:16

You know if, if we already talk about music, One of our comments that we got a new tip YouTube. Someone told me that in the last episode that we recorded I Missed something you did like an Adele song. You say hello, hello, and I Don't know this is me.

Speaker 1: 11:35

Yeah, I don't know this Adele. But he say, oh Mike, you missed Adele song. I say, oh shit. So if we already, on this subject, have some. We get a lot of comments in the last past two weeks, or something like that, from many different places. So I want to start reading them to you because they have questions for you. They are having some questions for you.

Speaker 2: 12:08

I just want to, I just want to Congratulation with everyone that get the award for Grammy. They deserve, they deserve. I love every award and I think everyone deserve it.

Speaker 1: 12:23

Congratulations for everyone that won the Grammy, the Amy and the Oscars. So the first thing that I want to tell you that someone comment is this he want me to ask you where is that? I say I Like to hear from Lada where she grew up in Isan, and what it was like for lady boy in high school in high school and the community there.

Speaker 2: 13:01

But he don't know you're not from Isan. I didn't come from Isan. Yeah, I'm from the north, but yeah, it's kind of like yeah.

Speaker 1: 13:12

Can you say which province?

Speaker 2: 13:13

not turn. And also the eastern is like a we stick to each other, even the food very similar.

Speaker 1: 13:20

Can you say which bobbins?

Speaker 2: 13:21

it's similar, but we have local languages. We are not so different. The local food as well. So, uh, to the point that I how did it go off on high school to?

Speaker 1: 13:33

be like lady boy. Lada. He want to know first where, where you came from, like where did you grow up, pardon? He want to know where you grow up, what province.

Speaker 2: 13:47

Oh, where I go up. Yeah, I mean say the proven right. So I says I'm from the northern, I'm from man. Proven a very small poem, okay hometown is behind Martin.

Speaker 1: 14:02

Okay.

Speaker 2: 14:04

Friends, but not much people eat it. Now eat the monkeys. Yeah, in my village, yes, in my village. We are hunter, we live in the forest, we eat everything we can in the forest, like the animals.

Speaker 1: 14:22

Is it tasty? I've never eaten monkey before.

Speaker 2: 14:30

For me. I can't remember the taste of it because when I was young, I ate a lot of things that my dad put in my mouth when he went to party with his friend when he finished the farm and everyone liked to party drinking. Sometimes they eat something that they don't tell me what is that. And when I grow up, maybe five years ago, I know what I eat. I eat a lot. I eat the dogs what the fuck?

Speaker 1: 15:05

It's the cat, it's the chicken, it's the monkey.

Speaker 2: 15:08

Yeah, the cat is so good. It seems like my friends from Bangkok come to visit me in the hometown. People were cooking. When someone comes from Bangkok and we see some friends in the countryside, the people in my village would be very, very interesting and very, very happy and they would come to say hi, they would come to have a look at the face of the city, guy city girl, they would see all the scary beautiful, very wild, something like that, and they like to cook for them.

Speaker 2: 15:47

So my friend takes about some curry. She enjoys a lot. She takes like two bowls, she eats a lot of sticky rice, a lot of food. But nobody told her what the food made from. And in the last day. They say it's from the dog. She's just crying. She tried to warm it. I think I said, ah bitch, it's too late. And then she's crying and she says no, no, no way. And then I asked her what's about the taste? Like she said fucking delicious.

Speaker 1: 16:31

Well, maybe it depends on what kind of dog.

Speaker 2: 16:36

Because the good things about the Nautan food is like yeah, I love Nautan food so much compared to the food in another side of Thailand, like Isan food I also love, and Isan food in the bed is so dumb right, so very, very delicious in Isan style and also in the South they also have like gang som. I love it so much. They made from the feet and a little bit sour not a little bit very sour and very spicy. So I love that tasting also. But in my Nautan food the six majors we put so many herbal, we put so many ingredients, we put so many spice.

Speaker 2: 17:22

So the food is very rich so even through some meat that have very strong smell, we will not smell that things.

Speaker 1: 17:31

Are you talking about dog meat?

Speaker 2: 17:32

again, we smell the basil leaf, we smell the lemon glass, we smell the other things, because one curry we can put like 10 of spice, 10 ingredients.

Speaker 1: 17:43

So I think you talk about dog meat again. You are talking about dog meat again. How to disguise the smell of the dog meat. And the comments.

Speaker 2: 17:56

I can't go up now. I don't eat dog anymore. I just know myself like when I grow up and I know it's a dog, I never eat it anymore, but I eat it. Yeah, we talked about that.

Speaker 1: 18:07

We talked about that. You try to help them and give them food and everything. And the comment that we got also they want to know how was like it for you to.

Speaker 2: 18:18

Okay, sorry, I weigh too much about the food. I love food.

Speaker 1: 18:21

No, it's okay About high school.

Speaker 2: 18:26

So when I was in high school the good thing is like I live in the school that like I don't know what English call, but it is cool for the poor students all around the city, all around the province we have the poor student. Some students don't have parents. Some parents have too much kids, so they put in this school and this school is specially for the poor kids from every district in our province.

Speaker 2: 18:58

So we stay together and we live there. We have the house, many, many houses, and also have the school in there, so we live there, we learn there. I don't know what English call.

Speaker 1: 19:16

Okay, it's called boarding school, but he want to know what is like being a lady boy in high school and the community.

Speaker 2: 19:23

So when I live there, the good thing is like they're very open minded for lady or lady boys. And also we have many, many lady boys as well. I have like five lady boy friends, like a young generation and old generation as well. We have sister. We have eldest sister and younger sister and every sister. We have no hair.

Speaker 1: 19:47

Okay.

Speaker 2: 19:48

We have no long hair. We just try to get like a little bit longer in the front of our like in our forehead, and try to put some cutie things and some cutie thing on it, but when the teacher see, he said take out, take out. But when teacher don't see, we put again. We should try to be beautiful as much as we can but, moreover, we're very open minded. So this kind of people, all my friends, we always do something like dancing, something like very active things, like for make the fancy or something. In our school they would think about us, like when you're doing some festival, when you have like a big Buddha day, big mother day, teacher day or something that you need to have some show or something like that, and when we have some show or some dancing things, they always use us to do this and we happy, yeah. So myself is not really difficult to live in the school when.

Speaker 2: 20:49

I was in the high school because we very open in my school.

Speaker 1: 20:54

And what about the community, the people in your village or stuff like that, everyone except you, or have some people?

Speaker 2: 21:02

The community school is very more open from the village. The village is like they kind of like bully, but sometimes they're just like a kidding, they're just like very kidding, they're laughing, but sometimes for myself maybe I'm not a good, most like bitch, I'm not fun, kind of like that but they just do it like usual because, like in my village, I'm very weak, I'm always crying. I'm just a little boy and the signature of myself is I always cry, cry, cry, cry, cry, cry Because, like when I go to school, a boy always make me cry and then they love things.

Speaker 1: 21:47

Yeah, I understand, it was kind of difficult.

Speaker 2: 21:51

Sometimes my brother go to fight for me. But when we grow up we become good friends. But when we are the kids we do something like nonsense. But I totally understand because, like yeah, it's very difficult as well when we grow up like that and then we become like in Thailand, we call it the lady boy, we call it the girl. It's just kind of like an easy word. But when they say, oh, sometimes these words, some people are not feeling anything, but some people are, they're feeling it cut deep down to the heart, also me sometimes. I know they're just doing fun, but I'm not fun.

Speaker 2: 22:32

It's the old God, even though we know that we are, but we don't want people to call it but we don't want people to call it.

Speaker 1: 22:46

So how do you or not only you how do lady boys want everyone to refer to them? Just say this lady boy, or just say oh, what is your name? Okay, your name is Jenny. Hi Jenny, how are you?

Speaker 2: 23:02

I'm a little bit more like a little names because, like every lady boy, we grow up with a man name, right, but we also have like another name, for example me. My name is like my original name, is like when I go back to the countryside some people still call me joy. They call me like a very thin boy, very small boy joy, joy, joy. I hate this word.

Speaker 2: 23:30

I hate this name, but I know they call me like, kind of like a lovely like they like me, they love me, and also my original name is Wee, but sometimes when I grow up I tend to be my friend, call me Wee-wee, wee-wee, but also when I grow up, another. I change my name to be Lada. I change my name to be like more beautiful, more beautiful name.

Speaker 1: 23:58

Yeah.

Speaker 2: 23:59

Oh, so, so we want. We want everyone to call our name, because I'm sure, like every lady boy, have a beautiful name to call herself.

Speaker 1: 24:09

Yeah.

Speaker 2: 24:12

So we'll be happy if you call us.

Speaker 1: 24:15

But if I'm talking to my friend oh, you see this I want to say you see, this bar, this lady boy bar, what better? I say this is not nice if I say like this Lady boy bar.

Speaker 2: 24:28

It's okay. It's because it's not. It's not about like what we call to the people. You understand, it's just a place.

Speaker 1: 24:37

Oh, so you, you say it's better to like. If it's a group of people, it's okay, but just don't call you like this lady boy, it's okay.

Speaker 2: 24:45

Yeah lady boy society. It's okay, lady boy, how it's okay? But just not call to any others like, oh, you fucking lady boy. You lady boy, sometimes it's just normal word, but we don't like them to call. Maybe just call me all La da, or better than lady boy, lady boy, lady boy understand.

Speaker 1: 25:08

Yeah, and I have One more comment for you. I think this even more interesting for you. So someone named Dane.

Speaker 2: 25:20

Okay, he told me to ask you a question.

Speaker 1: 25:26

He say I Want to know about what ladder thinks of many customers who come sporadically. How do lady boys feels about butterflies and how they do they feel about the people that come back every two years and so?

Speaker 2: 25:53

Hmm, means about most of the man that come like a butterfly, right no?

Speaker 1: 25:58

he mean? He said he talked about three things. First of all he he talked about men, that that come every, let's say, every two years or one year, but come back to you. They want to see you again, see you again, see you again. And then he asked what a Different question it's. Let's say you have a customer or something, but now maybe you get a little bit close, or maybe even boyfriend, girlfriend, but he's butterfly. How you feel about that? And also he want to know how you feel in general about people coming and going like would you prefer someone stay with you regular and only like this, or it's okay for you, like having A, let's say, many, many different customer, but never see them again.

Speaker 2: 26:45

To to be like me, to work in this, are this city. We know, oh the. The big point is we know that 99% of a man, he just come and go, 99% of a man is a butterfly, but it's not wrong that he is a butterfly, because this city create for a butterfly guys. Yes, but he mean if he is your boyfriend.

Speaker 1: 27:14

Let's say you have a boyfriend and he's a butterfly. How? You feel about that.

Speaker 2: 27:19

But sometimes love can happen, mm-hmm, even through. We know the situation of each other. Right, I know it's like I also have some. Yeah, I know he's come like a one year per time. One time per years and Every time when he come he come to visit me, come to spend time with me, but Not just only me.

Speaker 2: 27:45

He overcome back and again and again to me, but not only me. He have another as well, but we we talk. We talk like, okay, come this time, 15 day, I want to spend time with you, five day, and then the other 10 day I want to go, this one, this one, but we all know that he have another one. I'm okay with that. I Maybe, I like him, I love him, but I need to understand him also. He come for vacation and he want to be happy. He did such to do everything that making happy because he worked for all the long years, all years, very long. But sometimes it's just kind of like a. It's really difficult to explain Sometimes we all know. Say, for example, I add I always said that we have the big rule, a strong rule, that don't fall in love with your fucking stock customer, right?

Speaker 2: 28:43

Yeah but sometimes a man make us to feel like her when you spend time together and this man is very kind to you. This man, in holding your hand, this man take care you very well. So you, you fall in love and you have some relationship. But you cannot call a boyfriend or girlfriends Because on the point we become like a friend with benefit. But some couples or some friends Can be a boyfriend, a girlfriend in the real life as well, depend on what they are very into to that relationship. But relationship can grow up as well, depend on so many reasons.

Speaker 1: 29:27

Mm-hmm. Yeah, but let's say, let's say you stop walking bars and let's say you are walking something else and you meet a boyfriend Faranghutai, doesn't matter, right. And you are living together and everything okay. How you feel if he be butterfly?

Speaker 2: 29:52

How I feel I have to talk with him. Say if you want to be a butterfly, I will do the same.

Speaker 1: 30:01

So basically, you are saying that you are open, you are open for an open relationship, right? So for you it's okay, you can stay with someone.

Speaker 2: 30:10

This is about me, but not everyone. Some, some woman or some lady boy cannot handle with this thing, because I've most of the lady lady. We don't want our man to go to have sex with other girls. It's also the man. He don't want his girl to go to fuck around with another man as well.

Speaker 2: 30:29

Yeah but for myself, in my opinion, the relationship that I really want for myself. I see so many relationship around me for my friend who wedding, have a baby, have like a big wedding, have a good money, have everything in life, but they're not successful about love. And nowadays I think like it's really difficult to find a true love Because, like you, just sometimes you just go out, you just win your eyes, you get another one to fuck with. Sometimes you just lie your phone on Tinder. One, one minute, you can get two, three guys.

Speaker 2: 31:12

Okay so I don't, I don't know what's going on with the relationship if we become like a two, two, two, very strong in the relationship, like that. But someone can be if our, if they really love each other. But for myself, I want to open relationship. If I want to have a man, I Don't want any drama, I want to be happy, I want to be myself, I want to do everything that I want to do and I want him the same. I keep him a freedom, a privacy, and he can do whatever he want to do, just enjoy his life and make it he's so happy. But in the end of the day we're gonna know that we have each other.

Speaker 1: 31:52

Mm-hmm.

Speaker 2: 31:53

Like when you have a sad time, when you have a problem, when we need some help. We know that we have each other hand. I, I want that relationship, I think that's how we can go to watch a movie, we can go to dinner, we can fuck sometime, and also.

Speaker 1: 32:12

You stay together same room, you sleep in bed, you eat some food, you take care of each other. If you seek, he take care of you, and if he seek you take care of him. Right.

Speaker 2: 32:24

Yeah, and sometime maybe, if he interesting, I know I got some relationship or some couple. They do this thing also. They want to keep the relationship as long as they want because they cannot live without each other but they still want another person to feel-feel. They seek things or to feel-feel their emotional, because some family, when they be a couple for long term they don't have any passion for the sex to each other anymore. Maybe first night when you first meet you have sex like three times your ball is run out of the sperm. But when you stay together like two years, three years, four years, five years, ten years, you have not feeling the things anymore. You understand. So sometime they relate, sometime some couple, they do this. They invite the other person to come to join for the sex like three times, can be five times, can be six times or whatever, can be ten or gangbang to keep the relationship. You understand yeah.

Speaker 1: 33:36

So basically you say it's up to the people, for you it's okay, but some people it's not okay for them.

Speaker 2: 33:45

Yeah, some people are not okay, but for myself I think I'm okay because I think I can't get enough with a man. Yeah, I will get the cock until I'm 80 years old, even through I'm 80 years old, I will get a cock. As my said, I can until my last breath. And if my last breath I want to die with the cock in front of myself and also in my ass and also in my mouth. And they told you, I want to die like that.

Speaker 1: 34:18

And another part of this question was about customers that come back to you every time. Do you have a little bit of feeling with them? You respect them more than someone else?

Speaker 2: 34:32

Yeah, for sure, we have a feeling, not just only me. I know he has a feeling as well. I have some life from Italy and also some from America, but I know like a million percent that he not have only me. But I talk with him Like, hey, I really like you, I really love you and we have like many long term that we know each other. Whatever make you happy, you can do that, because it's not easy for some man to be with you and he know that you work on the street, he know that you sleep with a hundred guys, a thousand guys, yeah, but I mean something else with a man, I mean something else.

Speaker 1: 35:19

I mean, do you feel that, like, when you have a regular customer that come back for you maybe one time every year, two time every year, three time every year, up to when he in Thailand, like do you save spatial time for him, like he's more important for you than other customers, or for you it's same same, it doesn't matter?

Speaker 2: 35:43

I do same same. This is what I want to say. This is all that we talk about. I mean like, yeah, we can have the feeling, but we're talking. We're sitting and we talk Like what situation that I can give you? What is our relationship? We talk, Not relationship for sure, no relationship, just for me and also he have the feelings, but we don't be a couple like that. We be like very open couples, you know.

Speaker 1: 36:19

Yeah, but he mean maybe no. No, but I mean he speak about something else. He speak about. Let's say you have a customer right, and this customer like not only you right, you're not in relationship, not a feeling, but every time he come Thailand, he come visit you maybe two or three times. He want to know do you have a spatial place for him in your heart, like if have regular customer and new customer who do you choose to go with?

Speaker 2: 36:50

Yes, we have the special place in our heart for him, but he also have a special place in our heart for us, for me as well. But, as you know, he brought back to the, basically what I am. I have the freelancer, and who is he? He is the butterfly man, the customer. So back to the point, maybe. So if you go back to the point who we are you can understand this question well. Yeah, yeah, our relationship can grow up right, but we also know that we cannot be a couple.

Speaker 2: 37:41

So we also have the place for each other, to support each other, to care each other and to spend time to each other.

Speaker 1: 37:49

I think you didn't understand the question.

Speaker 2: 37:52

Because our situation and he still want to be a butterfly, he still have fun to go sleep with the other girls or he have girl number one, number two, number three, number four, but maybe not, maybe definitely sure he get maybe 10, but I get 100. I get 1000.

Speaker 1: 38:14

Yeah, but I think you didn't understand.

Speaker 2: 38:17

I live with a man more than he live with the girls.

Speaker 1: 38:20

Yes, but I think you didn't understand the questions. He mean something else. He not talk about butterfly, he not talk about this, he talk just. He want to know like do you like, when a customer come back looking for you, or for you, better to get new customers all the time? What is better for you, regular customers that come back or finding new customers?

Speaker 2: 38:49

That point is means like if the customer come back, you want to be with your regular customer or you want a new customer? Yeah, right, yeah.

Speaker 1: 39:00

For sure.

Speaker 2: 39:02

We will keep the regular customer for some reasons. When we need his support, he will take care of us as well and also he can have second aunt and bae. But if we have the new customer come in the same time, we make the schedules. We tell him like, oh, today I'm busy, maybe I can meet you tomorrow, but we meet him anyway. Yeah, but we just need to take a schedule. I mean, like most of the girls to be like that, but some girls they're just ah, ah, the new customer pay much money, more than that. I take new customer and then he can say, oh, he cannot go to me, meet him. He busy, she busy, yeah, be like that. But most of them we always give a good time for the regular customer because we have more feelings and we appreciate what he's brought us.

Speaker 2: 39:58

Every customer to take aunt is mean he's support us.

Speaker 1: 40:02

Yeah, but not just only fuck.

Speaker 2: 40:04

and bae is mean, he's support and we really appreciate.

Speaker 1: 40:08

But when the customers come, let's say after one year, come back again, normally they bring you gift and stuff like that.

Speaker 2: 40:16

Yeah, that's good, that's, that can be very good, because we, I, I, I, I don't get the point what, what, what, what, what, what. The question is meaning I, I. I think I explained a lot of things already.

Speaker 1: 40:31

No, no, no. Maybe we, not you, explain. Now I'm asking a new question. Now I want to ask questions. My question to you is it's a new question I want to know normally, when have a returning customer that come after after every one year or two years come visit you and he always tell you oh Lada, soon I be in Thailand, I go meet you. I want to know they bring you gifts or stuff like that, or just meeting regular.

Speaker 2: 41:00

Oh, I give, yeah, yeah, yeah, oh, we would give, because when you, when you, when you feeling something like a, when you feeling something more than the normal, you always give a gift. And maybe it's not a gift we take to. He take me to the very night restaurants.

Speaker 1: 41:21

What is the best gift you got? I want to know.

Speaker 2: 41:25

Best gift I got money.

Speaker 1: 41:34

And after money, what number two? Okay.

Speaker 2: 41:38

For me. I don't want to say anything.

Speaker 1: 41:41

I said that money.

Speaker 2: 41:42

For me, money is the best. And let's say, maybe when, when, when some men surprise the girls like, oh, can you open the box? You can open this thing, this thing, this thing. And then when we open, oh, it's the bag, it's like a luxury bag, it's like something. But I comparative and you can ask all the girls, every girl she want a big flowers, she want a chocolate, she want like.

Speaker 1: 42:16

I will cut. No, no, no, no, no, no, no. I will tell you one time I tried to give soon, soon, a rem away flowers. You know what she told me? What should I do with flowers? Even I cannot eat it, and she put garbage.

Speaker 2: 42:30

That's why I told you, every girl want money. In special days, like a special day, like all Valentine's Day. You give me a big, like a big bunch of the roads and then maybe you can put all the road, like the red road, all over the base or take a very nice romantic candle. She may, she may, very happy, she may smile, but she will be so much more happy. Did you give her money?

Speaker 1: 43:00

How much? How much need to give for Valentine? I want to know.

Speaker 2: 43:04

As much as you can.

Speaker 1: 43:06

Oh, that's a good answer. So if I can give only 10 baht, but this what I have, this perfect right.

Speaker 2: 43:13

No, that's not possible.

Speaker 1: 43:16

So as much as you can, but minimum. What is the minimum?

Speaker 2: 43:22

Depend on how rich a man is.

Speaker 1: 43:24

Okay, I will not get the straight answer for you If I give her like 10,000, she will be very happy because she know that he not rich.

Speaker 2: 43:33

But if she know that she have fucking money but you just just give her just less money and she will not happy.

Speaker 1: 43:42

I understand. So you say that everything comes down to money in the end?

Speaker 2: 43:46

I give him pussy every day. He fuck my pussy every fucking day. Then he make my pussy very big, very wide, then he make my pussy heard and he just give me 1000 baht. What the fuck.

Speaker 1: 44:02

So everything come down to money in the end. Well, at least we are honest about that. You know we are not bullshitting people around.

Speaker 2: 44:14

Yeah, yeah, yeah, I told you like for all my fans, for all my fans and for all followers, or for everyone they listen my voice. The best gift the lady want is money. Best gift. She will happy for sure when we give her money. It's the best gift ever. Maybe it can be luxury car.

Speaker 1: 44:40

Like luxury car or money. You say like okay, I understand. So minimum, minimum, minimum, one, one million baht.

Speaker 2: 44:51

Yeah. Well minimum, minimum, minimum. But, as I told you, you can give her as much as you can.

Speaker 1: 45:01

As soon as Valentine, right.

Speaker 2: 45:02

As much as you can, as much as you have.

Speaker 1: 45:06

Soon as Valentine Day, right.

Speaker 2: 45:09

Yeah, I'm still waiting for the gift.

Speaker 1: 45:14

I hope you find someone that will give you a luxury car or one million baht.

Speaker 2: 45:19

No, I don't know, I first one money first.

Speaker 1: 45:23

Okay, one million baht and then buy you a luxury car. This is what I wish for you, yeah luxury car For me.

Speaker 2: 45:29

I don't want right now. If I get the luxury car, I sell it for sure.

Speaker 1: 45:33

Okay, so everyone there that want to give gifts for Lada, for.

Speaker 2: 45:37

Valentine, because I cannot drive. Yeah yeah yeah, you can donate to us and we will buy, not a car to be like when offset by a luxury car, like a sport car for car to be. She says, like some Jimmy, I can ask her, like you can even drive, why you need a new car or luxury car. She said I should take a photo with that.

Speaker 1: 46:05

Well, when you are that rich as car to be, it doesn't matter. So I want to end this podcast with some something I want to say to our listeners. First of all, I want to thank our listeners to all the support that we got in the past two weeks. You were donating a little bit money for us and it's really helped us to make the podcast better about sound quality and everything. So thank you for that. It's really important and it's amazing that there is a community around us that really try to help us be better and we really appreciate that it's making us feel more like a motivation to make a good podcast.

Speaker 1: 46:59

And also, if someone wants to give gifts for Lada for Christmas, just send us email to my wife wait, my wife pod at gmailcom. I said that again, my wife pod at gmailcom and I will give you her all the information and you would be able to send gifts for her whatever you want for Valentine's. That's it. I want to thank you for listening to us and for giving us your questions and your comments and everything. We really appreciate that and we love you. Thank you very much, lada. You have anything? Yeah, for me.

Speaker 2: 47:46

I also want to say thank you so much for your support and we really appreciate it. I know maybe it's like we are very new and also sometimes we talk a lot or sometimes maybe some point you lie or some point you don't lie. I'm really sorry about that If I say something that you don't like or you don't agree with. But, yeah, you can send me the comment below. I want to hear from you.

Speaker 2: 48:12

Good things are also bad things. Maybe the bad things are the things that I not speak well or do something like that. I can come back and have a look and reading and then maybe I can make it better or I can. You know like it's good or bad, because all your comments will be very, very important for me and for my always. And yeah, if you want to ask to talk about some things you can comment on below so we can talk about that things and we can share the good story together. And also, thank you so much for your support and if you like our podcast, please support us. At least I would collect the money or some things. I can make the big book for that thing. I really hope my chips will not go into my wife because the name of the podcast is my time wife and maybe it's going to his wife, not me.

Speaker 1: 49:16

You know, one of the comments that we got was we don't have to change the name of the podcast, I just need to marry you. Yeah, I think, I think.

Speaker 2: 49:30

Okay, if we hit a lot of followers, we will share the whole podcast name for sure.

Speaker 1: 49:36

Oh, we will marry. We're not sure what we will do.

Speaker 2: 49:38

Someone that you know to follow us. So if we get more followers, I will share the new names.

Speaker 1: 49:46

Yeah, and another thing I want to add guys, even if you want to, there is another way you can support us, not just by giving us, not by just financially support us, but also you can just do a like or share that with your friend, or give a comment or subscribe or whatever you feel is comfortable for you. It doesn't cost you even a dime, it's for free. And every time you click this button, it's really help us to go more, more, more, not just for the algorithm, but for the channel itself. So we really do hope you can do that for us. It will mean a lot for us.

Speaker 2: 50:28

Yeah, so you're like and you share and also your subscribe will be mean. It's mean a lot to us.

Speaker 1: 50:34

Thank you. So, lada, thank you for this episode and we will talk next week, I guess, okay, okay, Bye everyone.

Speaker 2: 50:47

I didn't finish my Grammy award yet.

Speaker 1: 50:51

We will continue that next week, I promise. Okay, okay, okay, bye, bye.

Speaker 2: 51:00

Bye, bye, everyone Take care.