The Bumble Blab
The Bumble Blab is a candid, curious, and slightly unhinged exploration of modern dating, relationships, and self-awareness.
Through real dating stories, voice-note-worthy reflections, and honest conversations, I break down what’s actually happening beneath the surface. From attachment patterns and mixed signals to people-pleasing, chemistry, and walking away when it’s not aligned.
This isn’t a podcast about “doing dating right.”
It’s about noticing yourself, questioning your stories, and learning how to stay grounded, playful, and sovereign while navigating connection.
Come for the dating blabs.
Stay for the self-trust.
The Bumble Blab
5 Steps To Get You In Control of Your Brain
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This podcast is going to dive deep into one of my favorite coaching tools, The Model. This was developed by Brooke Castillo and rooted from the work of Bryon Katie. The model goes like this:
5 Steps
Circumstances:
Thoughts:
Feelings:
Actions:
Results:
Circumstances: These are the facts, take out the drama. They said words, they did actions, are examples of circumstances. These are the things outside of you, the things you can't control.
THOUGHTS: This is what precedes the circumstance. When something happens what comes to mind, this is the drama. This is where the ego resides and dominates, or unconscious thought, the thoughts that just come to you without your awareness.
FEELINGS: These are the emotions that come from the thoughts that you are thinking. These are one word answers like angry, sad, afraid, fearful, hopeless, happy, peaceful, joyful.
ACTIONS: These are the behaviors you excude because of the the thoughts you are believing and emotions you are feeling. Do you like the behaviors?
RESULTS: This is the conclusion of what you are thinking feeling and acting, what does this give you, do you like how you are showing up? Do you like the results, especially considering that sometimes you cant change circumstances all the time.
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