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Are you a mama that often solo parents while your partner works away? Are you struggling to keep it together, and balancing all the things on your own? Do you have a hard time setting boundaries and prioritizing self-care? Do you wonder if more joy, peace, and fulfillment is possible for you in this season of life?
The Solo & So Well podcast is a landing spot for all the mamas out there struggling in their solo parenting roles. If that’s you, I want you to know you are safe, seen, and supported here. This is a judgement-free, real talk, value packed, and encouraging community. You are not alone in this season of hardship, and you will come out the other side, brighter and stronger than ever!
I’m your host Heidi Chirkoff, I know what you need, because I needed it too. It wasn’t that long ago that I was having an extremely hard time in the day-to-day - with two small boys, one on the way, a strained marriage, and loss of identity/purpose. I felt alone, I felt overwhelmed, I felt resentful, I felt like I was failing as a mother, and I felt guilty for feeling the way I felt. At the time, I didn’t know how to get “unstuck”, but I knew I needed to start making some changes, for myself, my kids, and my marriage – and that it was up to me, and only me, to start making them.
In my desperate search for solutions, I found some things that worked, and some that didn’t. And now that I’ve come out on the other side, I want to share everything I’ve learned. Here at Solo & So Well, we focus on you, the Mom. Even though it may not feel like it right now, you are the anchoring presence in your home, you are the glue, the tone setter, the gatekeeper, the one who knows all, and has actual superpowers. Don’t let that pressure you, let it empower you. A better life starts with you! When you start to rise – the whole family will rise with you.
My mission with this podcast is to be a guiding light, that shows other mamas the way to more joy, peace, and fulfillment - TODAY. It’s time to stop living in auto pilot, in struggle and survival mode – and start taking ownership of your life, one that is full of vibrancy and purpose. You were made for more! I know it, and you know it! We are going to shift you from always having life happen to you – to life starting to happen for you.
Big change starts with itty bitty, consistent, daily action.
Every time you press play on this podcast, the weight of it all gets lighter.
So let’s get started!
Solo & So Well - Self-care, Daily Habits, Wellness, Time Management, Solo Parenting, Single Parenting Help, Military Spouse, Find Your Purpose
043 // 5 Reasons a Mom in Burnout Might Not Ask for Help
Hey mama! I’m so grateful you're here today! In this episode of The Solo & So Well Podcast, we're diving into a topic that hits home for so many moms: burnout and the challenges of asking for help.
If you're feeling overwhelmed, overworked, and totally run down, it’s natural to wonder why asking for help feels so hard. Today, I’m breaking down 5 common reasons why a mom in burnout might hesitate to reach out for support—from perfectionism to past negative experiences—and how understanding these blocks can empower you to start shifting them.
We'll also explore practical tips to help you take that first brave step toward receiving the support you deserve. Plus, I'll be sharing a little self-coaching prompt to guide you in making a positive shift this week.
And mama, don't forget—I’m offering a scholarship opportunity for my 1:1 coaching program, The Mom Reboot: 12 Weeks to Emerge from Survival-Mode, Feel Energized, Present, and Joyful in Life + Motherhood. Apply before October 8th for a chance to receive this transformative program completely free! You can find the application link in the show notes.
Sending you so much love—let's get started! ❤️
xo
Heidi
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