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8. The Scorpion Pit and How to Deal With Hurtful Comments !

February 24, 2024 Sarah Norris - The Baby Detective Episode 8
8. The Scorpion Pit and How to Deal With Hurtful Comments !
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Mama Island
8. The Scorpion Pit and How to Deal With Hurtful Comments !
Feb 24, 2024 Episode 8
Sarah Norris - The Baby Detective

Summary

In this episode, Sarah Norris discusses the importance of addressing hurtful comments and opinions in the parenting world. She highlights the prevalence of criticism and judgment faced by pregnant women and mothers and the harmful effects of internalizing these comments. Sarah introduces the concept of externalizing the hurt by visualizing hurtful thoughts and comments as scorpions. She encourages listeners to protect themselves by checking their armor of knowledge and choosing how to respond to hurtful comments. Sarah emphasizes the need for a grassroots revolution to change the toxic parenting world and calls for valuing oneself and changing perspectives.

Takeaways

  • The parenting world is filled with opinions, criticism, and judgy comments, and it's important to address and externalize the hurt caused by these comments.
  • Visualizing hurtful thoughts and comments as scorpions can help in safely studying and flipping them away.
  • Checking your armor of knowledge and recognizing that you don't deserve to be hurt can empower you to respond to hurtful comments.
  • Replacing poison with antidote by sprinkling respectful and supportive comments in the parenting world can contribute to a more positive and less toxic environment.

You can find out more about Sarah and how to work with her by clicking on the links below:
https://www.instagram.com/thebabydetective/
https://www.babydetective.co.uk
https://www.facebook.com/babydetective/



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Summary

In this episode, Sarah Norris discusses the importance of addressing hurtful comments and opinions in the parenting world. She highlights the prevalence of criticism and judgment faced by pregnant women and mothers and the harmful effects of internalizing these comments. Sarah introduces the concept of externalizing the hurt by visualizing hurtful thoughts and comments as scorpions. She encourages listeners to protect themselves by checking their armor of knowledge and choosing how to respond to hurtful comments. Sarah emphasizes the need for a grassroots revolution to change the toxic parenting world and calls for valuing oneself and changing perspectives.

Takeaways

  • The parenting world is filled with opinions, criticism, and judgy comments, and it's important to address and externalize the hurt caused by these comments.
  • Visualizing hurtful thoughts and comments as scorpions can help in safely studying and flipping them away.
  • Checking your armor of knowledge and recognizing that you don't deserve to be hurt can empower you to respond to hurtful comments.
  • Replacing poison with antidote by sprinkling respectful and supportive comments in the parenting world can contribute to a more positive and less toxic environment.

You can find out more about Sarah and how to work with her by clicking on the links below:
https://www.instagram.com/thebabydetective/
https://www.babydetective.co.uk
https://www.facebook.com/babydetective/



Dealing with Hurtful Comments
The Minefield of Parenting Opinions
03:22 The Expectation to Put Up with Crap
Externalizing the Hurt with Scorpions
Visualizing Thoughts and Comments
Safely Studying and Flipping Scorpions
Reacting to Hurtful Comments
Protecting Yourself from Hurt
Checking Your Armor of Knowledge
09:26 Choosing How to Respond
Using Shutdown Tactics
Addressing Hurtful Comments Directly
Internalizing and Perpetuating Poison
Replacing Poison with Antidote
Sprinkling Antidote in Parenting World
Leaving Toxic Groups and Creating Positive Ones
Valuing Yourself and Changing Perspectives
Stamping Out Scorpions
Dismissing and Neutralizing Poison
Conclusion and Call to Action