Assisted Living Network Podcast

Are Mom And Dad In A Home You Feel Good About?

RAL Academy Season 1 Episode 41

You probably haven’t even considered putting mom or dad into a home. You just got to a point where it was harder than you thought and you didn't have the time, the skills or maybe the heart. You weren't designed to be that caregiver. You needed that help and you know they did too. In your heart, you know it's the right thing, When it comes to a home, it's not just their physical need, it's their emotional needs, their spiritual need.

A lot of older people have gotten to the point where they're not social anymore. Sitting and watching TV isn't very social for you or me. It's certainly not for them. But maybe there's games that can be played, puzzles that can be put together, or playing cards. Maybe it's artwork or crafts. Maybe it's dancing. When was the last time you saw your parents dance? They even had some really cool dances that they did.

Bring some music that would have been from when they were younger. Ask them did they ever go to a speakeasy or an after hours club? Some of the stories that will come out will tickle their imagination and bring life into their eyes and conversation. And the biggest one, just sit and talk. Ask them, “where did you travel? Where did you meet your spouse? Tell me about your kids.” If you start thinking about those things differently, you may just find that your parent is in the home you always dreamed of.

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