We Were There

In this episode, Gene and Emily Trowbridge discuss the concept of the primal wound in adoption. They explore the trauma that adoptees experience when they are separated from their biological mothers at birth. They discuss the impact of this trauma on adoptees' relationships, emotional well-being, and sense of identity. They also touch on the importance of adoptive parents being open and honest with their children about their adoption. The conversation highlights the common experiences and challenges faced by adoptees and emphasizes the need for understanding and support. The conversation explores the concept of the primal wound in adoption and its impact on adoptees. It delves into the different ways individuals deal with trauma and loss, highlighting the unique experiences of each person. The discussion touches on the idea that the primal wound is a lifelong presence that cannot be fully healed but can be treated and managed. The fear of abandonment and separation is a common thread among adoptees, influencing their relationships and behaviors. The conversation also emphasizes the importance of creating a supportive community for adoptees to share their experiences and find understanding.

Story Notes:

• The Primal Wound and Its Impact
• The Importance of Openness and Honesty
• Understanding and Supporting Adoptees
• Different Ways of Dealing with Trauma and Loss
• The Primal Wound Theory and its Impact
• The Significance of Birthdays for Adoptees
• Can the Primal Wound be Cured?
• The Connection Between Love and Abandonment
• The Fear of Rejection in Reconnecting with Birth Parents
• The Primal Wound as a Lifelong Presence
• The Emotional Journey of an Adoptee and Adopted Father