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12. Calling off the Wedding After Discovering His Sexual Addictions With Jane Doe

Mandj Episode 13

ONE OF MY FAVORITE EPISODES <3

One month after I discovered my partner's secret porn & sex addiction, I received a phone call from my friend crying who just discovered her fiance's secret porn and sex addiction. 

Now over a year later, we've talked almost every day throughout our healing journeys and I'm SO proud of how far she's come. In this episode,  I interview her and we discuss:

  • what she discovered, the red flags
  • why she left him and called off the engagement
  • the fear of not recognizing who your partner is anymore
  • her healing journey and the emotional roller coaster of Partner Betrayal Trauma
  • the stages of grief: grieving your partner and the future you thought you had
  • normalizing the feelings of self-doubt after leaving
  • thinking you're the crazy one in the relationship and self-gaslighting yourself
  • advice for anyone in a similar situation
  • the importance of listening to your gut intuition as a woman
  • an emphasis on self-love and empowerment


If you can relate, know that you are stronger than you think. We have your back! My DMs and Jane Doe's DMs are always open <3 

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