In this episode, dive into the steamy world of sex, relationships, and intimacy with your hosts, Jordan and Sherman! We're here to share how our passion for all things sexy led us to create the Supersex pod. Get ready for a tantalizing mix of our backgrounds, personal quirks, and big dreams for this podcast, all wrapped up in plenty of laughs.
We’ll spill the tea on why we believe talking about sexual health and intimacy is so crucial, and we’ll tease you with some juicy tidbits about what’s to come. From the science of sexual attraction to the art of effective communication in relationships, we've got you covered.
So, sit back, relax, and join us for the very first episode of what we hope will be an endless journey of sexual discovery and fun. Let's make sex ed sexy together!
In this episode, dive into the steamy world of sex, relationships, and intimacy with your hosts, Jordan and Sherman! We're here to share how our passion for all things sexy led us to create the Supersex pod. Get ready for a tantalizing mix of our backgrounds, personal quirks, and big dreams for this podcast, all wrapped up in plenty of laughs.
We’ll spill the tea on why we believe talking about sexual health and intimacy is so crucial, and we’ll tease you with some juicy tidbits about what’s to come. From the science of sexual attraction to the art of effective communication in relationships, we've got you covered.
So, sit back, relax, and join us for the very first episode of what we hope will be an endless journey of sexual discovery and fun. Let's make sex ed sexy together!
Speaker 1:
Hey to all the straights, gays and nays, welcome to Supersex, the podcast where we have conversations and share our perspectives on sexuality, sex and more.
Speaker 2:
I'm Sherman and I'm Jordan. Two friends, one straight, one gay taking on all things sex, one straight one gay taking on all things sex.
Speaker 1:
All right, shem, here we are I can't believe it's actually starting. It's actually starting. Why are we?
Speaker 2:
here. We are here because we are two friends. I'm gay, he's straight, and we just wanted to start a podcast about talking about sex, being a bit more open about it, give some information and, yeah, just have some fun.
Speaker 1:
Yeah, I think it would be pretty cool. Like I'm a sex educator, so I work with special needs children, and they sort of thrust the sex ed portfolio to me like what, maybe three years ago now, and it's gone from like a little trickle to a bit of a passion. But one of the things I am noticing is that there's literally no cisgender male heterosexual voices out there. This is true, you know, like kids these days getting a sex ed from everybody else apart from cisgender male heteros, you know. So I think it's really cool and interesting idea to sort of put that and contrast my views on sex and sex ed and my views because I'm pretty sure sex ed doesn't really talk about that side of things.
Speaker 2:
Yeah, I've been in one of my classes, though there you go. This is true, true, but you're different.
Speaker 1:
You're special, that's true.
Speaker 2:
The majority of people out there. I'm pretty sure, look, I don't have kids, obviously. But yeah, I'm pretty sure that that's not a conversation that happens where you sit and talk about anything related to gay sex, Because the minute you say gay sex, immediately it's like ooh, You're going to make those kids gay you're gonna make those kids gay, it's like come on, who really thinks that they're gonna get gay from listening to you?
Speaker 2:
but at the end of the day, if you're gonna listen to, I listen to. Um, everything about straight sex I did uh, it's not that much sex education, but my sex education was based around straight sex. Yeah, I'm not straight, so why would the opposite happen?
Speaker 1:
well here's. Here's the crazy thing about it, right, like I had a fairly I'm going to say liberal upbringing with sex, like my dad was really fucking good with like sex ed stuff. He was really open about stuff. Mom was a bit more conservative, like Northern English girl, but dad was really really open to stuff, really open to different ideas and yeah. So I grew up with like this really cool notion that hey, it's all free, all fun. But the more I'm looking around like people just don't have that shit. No, I didn't.
Speaker 2:
People can't talk about it. My mum tried to have a conversation about sex when I was, I think, 16 or 17 years old.
Speaker 1:
You got as late as that.
Speaker 2:
Yeah, 17 years old. We were driving in the car and I just knew it was coming. You know, when you just like sense that the air just got thick and I'm like, oh no, fuck, no, please, no. And she just I don't know what she said, but she said one sentence and knew exactly where it was going and I'm pretty sure I just was like it's okay, we don't have to have this conversation. I'm like, come on, I'm 17 years old.
Speaker 1:
I've already had sex.
Speaker 2:
You want to tell me about it now. So yes, I had the exact opposite upbringing. We never spoke about sex. Sex was not a thing that was even on the table to talk about. It was just. You learned about that from everything else but your parents see.
Speaker 1:
My first like real major conversation was I used to go to work with dad on the weekends and that was like our thing. I used to love it, um, but basically we pulled up the hardware store one day and he says just wait here. So I'm sitting in the van just waiting. He goes into the hardware store, comes back, throws a whole heap of screws at me and he goes, just wait here. And then I'm like, okay, cool.
Speaker 1:
And he walks straight across the car park to an adult shop and I'm like this is weird. I must have only been like what, what? 12, 13, 14, whatever it was at that age and he walks straight in. I'm like, cool, straight, comes back out with like this massive, like packet and he goes there. You go, he's like, have a look at those, you're going to have some questions and as soon as you do We'll talk about it. That's amazing. But I got home and there was magazines in there of like everything Like you know, boobs, butt, guys, girls, everything in between and I was just like, okay, this is great, but there was lube in there. My dad was that forward thinking.
Speaker 2:
Like my dad could be a caveman in some ways, but there's like a little packet of lube in there, I was just like, oh fuck, this guy knows what's going on, he knew exactly what was going to happen.
Speaker 1:
I'm trying to put it on the door hinges. He didn't tell me what to do with it. I'm like, oh, maybe he got this from the hardware shop and Nike forgot about it.
Speaker 2:
So I want to know, the first moment you say you open the packet, you take them out, you open, you opened the first magazine. What is your first thought as a 12, 13, 14-year-old? Fuck, yes.
Speaker 1:
What is happening in my pants? I don't think I came out in a room for like two weeks. It was great, oh God that is hilarious. First thought was just like oh my God, this is like firstly overwhelming and like a little bit embarrassing. Yeah, why did my dad buy me these things?
Speaker 2:
I mean, it would be very embarrassing at that. You know everything embarrassing at that age. It really was right.
Speaker 1:
But the more I sort of started looking and it I don't know it like it settled things down and I suppose the fact that my dad was open to it meant that I was in an okay space and I knew that I could approach him with any sort of questions I feel like that's the best part is that him doing that allows you to understand that, hey, I'm here, this is normal, this is what happens.
Speaker 2:
Yeah, if ever you need to speak about anything like this, come and talk to me. I mean, I did not have that and I would have loved that, because I feel like that's some really good parenting, because you're leaving that door open. It's just like, hey, you know what, if you need, come speak to me, but I know that this is what's going to happen, rather than pretending like, oh, my kid's not going to do that, my kid's not going to touch themselves, my kid's not going to come on. It's ridiculous to think that, as you know, you grow up, you got a kid. I don't think I'll have kids one day, but if I did, I'm not going to be that parent that pretends like none of this shit, it's going to happen. Of course it's going to happen. I mean, I think about when I, the first time I decided to mount, decided to masturbate at night. I don't remember how it happened. My, definitely, my father did not give me any materials. Wait, that sounded so wrong. Um, but yeah, I'm gonna say, look, I think it was.
Speaker 1:
It's a really cool way of parenting yeah, oh for sure, open communication, and I suppose that's what we're doing here, right? Yep, we are trying to break down stigmas. Yep, just Stereotypes, stereotypes, stigmas, shame. Yes, get away from shame, because-.
Speaker 2:
Oh, my God.
Speaker 1:
It fucks so many people up and I've seen so many of my students come through with so much shame and it fucking sucks.
Speaker 2:
That is the. I think that is one of the biggest issues. Within, speaking obviously from the uh queer community, shame is the biggest issue because you get it from. You get it from all sides and the worst side is yourself. You are feeling shame about every part of your life based on your sexuality and how people treat you. So, yeah, this is what we're here for, this, what you're here to discuss breaking shit down, breaking shit down. One of my favorite things in life to do is to kind of break down people's ideas of who I should be. Yeah, because, okay, yeah, I'm a gay man, but I don't feel like I'm that flamboyant, I don't know, I just don't think I am. You can be at times, look I can but other times you're totally not.
Speaker 2:
This is the thing is like, and the thing is like. I don't find I have no issue with my flamboyant side. It is who I am. But at the end of the day, I'm different around different people. I feel a lot more, um, comfortable when I'm around a certain person to be a little bit more me and if I decide, you know what I want to be like, yes, queen, that's going to come out with who I wanted to come out with. Yeah, but it's this idea that if you are a gay man, you have a lot of straight especially straight males thinking that, oh, oh, of course you, uh, you definitely do wear makeup or you play with makeup or you do hair, which, yes, fair enough, I do both. Where do these stereotypes come from? But I'm also into cars I love. I'm a very hands-on person. Anything's broken in my house, I'm gonna go out there and fix it myself. I'm not gonna be like, oh god, no, I need a man to come and do it for me. I'm that man, I gotta do that shit for myself.
Speaker 1:
So I'm big on trying to um, break down those stereotypes yeah, see, and I love that you're doing that from a gay side and I like doing that from a hetero side as well. Yeah, because there are so many guys out there that are like man, you know, need to go out and get a girl and bang bang, bang, bang bang.
Speaker 1:
And you know I'm just going to leave my load of cum right there and that's great and it's like, dude, fucking calm down. Like you know, this chick's going to want it and she's going to get it. I'm just like no man, that's not the way this shit works. You know you've got to lead the horse to water. You can't just like force its fucking face into the pond.
Speaker 2:
I mean, unless that's what they want.
Speaker 1:
Hey don't yuck somebody else's yum, right, Exactly. So let's break down some shit. Let's just have these fun conversations.
Speaker 2:
Go places where probably haven't gone before like we've talked about a lot of shit normally over a big glass of gin I feel like this is gonna be the one time we really get to know each other. After what 20 years of friendship, 21 years of friendship, 21 years, 21 years of friendship I feel like we definitely got to get to know each other a lot more Like really intimate.
Speaker 1:
As my wife says, we're having some boy and boy time now.
Speaker 2:
Not the boy on boy time. Oh my God, this is our boy on boy time.
Speaker 1:
All right, so let's get down to it. We're going to be hopefully trying to bang out some episodes every week, just going on some different rants about different topics that come up. We've got our own ideas on some topics that we're going to be putting out, but if you guys have got some ideas, shoot us a line on Instagram. We've got. I think we're going to set up a TikTok as well, right?
Speaker 2:
Yes, we'll set up a.
Speaker 1:
TikTok, You're a king of TikTok. King or queen?
Speaker 2:
Hey, yes, queen, yes queen.
Speaker 1:
All right, queen of TikTok, and we've also got an email address, so that's all in the outro anyway. So until then, next episode coming up soon, stay tuned. Thanks for tuning in to today's episode of Super Sex. We hope you found our discussion both enlightening and entertaining.
Speaker 2:
It's been a pleasure sharing insights with you all. Remember knowledge is power and talking about these topics openly is the first step to understanding and acceptance, Absolutely.
Speaker 1:
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Speaker 2:
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Speaker 1:
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Speaker 2:
your feedback helps us make each episode better than the last so until next time, stay curious, stay open and keep the dialogue alive thanks for listening to super sex, where we explore the many facets of sex and relationships.
Speaker 1:
One conversation at a time. Catch you next week. Bye, bye.
