Unlocking the Secrets of Alignment and Intuition for Manifestation Success. Don't know how to tap into your intuition? This episode has you covered.

Have you ever wondered why despite all your efforts, your dreams remain just out of reach? It all boils down to one vital element: alignment. In this episode of "Find Your Inner Glow," we unlock the secrets of successful manifestation by diving into the essence of aligning with your intuition and higher vibrations. Learn how embodying your future self can pave the way for your dreams to become reality. We'll share practical tips on recognizing and trusting your gut feelings, delve into the crucial role of the solar plexus chakra, and highlight the transformative benefits of energy healing sessions, whether you're joining us from a distance or in person.

Embrace a path of self-discovery with me as I recount my personal transformation journey, where surrendering to the universe and trusting my intuition led to profound personal realizations. Hear the story behind removing my nipple piercings and the insights it brought about seeking external validation, and why cutting my hair short is a bold step towards challenging societal norms of beauty. Through these experiences, discover how intuition is a cornerstone for personal growth and entrepreneurial success. With over 12 years of experience, my coaching program integrates spiritual wisdom to offer a comprehensive healing approach. Tune in for an episode that promises to inspire you to trust your inner guidance and embark on your own holistic healing journey.

Transcript

Speaker 1: 0:01

Hello and welcome to Find your Inner Glow. Hosted by me, kirsty Harris, I am a manifestation coach and an intuitive healer. I am here to talk to you all about mind, body and soul and how we can find your inner glow together. So kick back, grab a cuppa and let's get into it. Hello and welcome back to the podcast. I hope that you're having a really good start to the day or evening or whatever you're doing when you're listening to this podcast. So today I want to log on and I want to tell you the biggest thing that people do not tell you.

Speaker 1: 0:37

When you're talking about manifesting, okay, every coach, everyone, they're all talking about how you manifest a house, how you manifest a car, how you manifest the boyfriend, the girlfriend, the partner, the husband, the children, whatever it is. But you need to be in a state where you reach that vibration and that is almost like an afterthought Do you know what I mean? Where people will say I'm going to manifest this, but I need to be a vibrational match. What does that mean? That means embodying your future self. Okay, so what does that even mean? Okay, so when you look into the future, you're thinking about your ideal life, your dream life. What does it look like, what does it feel like and what characteristics do future you have? Okay, but you know future. You is great, but how do we reach her if we're not in alignment? Okay, alignment is pretty simple If you are constantly fighting with yourself, fighting against your intuition, fighting against everything that comes through you, and you decide no, no, no, I'm not going to do that, I'm going to do X, y, z, and you decide no, no, no, I'm not going to do that, I'm going to do xyz.

Speaker 1: 1:45

And you're fighting against yourself. Guess what you're not in alignment. You're not in alignment with your career, your family, anything. And guess what? You're not going to be in alignment with your manifestations. And I know I'm coming in and I'm sounding very harsh today, but today is a bit of tough love, okay, because I love you and I want you to be successful.

Speaker 1: 2:04

This is why I do this podcast. I give so much value and content away on this podcast. It's absolutely insane, because I literally just sit down and I can't help myself. I literally sat here and I'm like yappa, yappa, yappa, telling this, telling that la, la, la la. But what's really, really important is that we look at manifesting our future self, okay, and how do we get into alignment? Okay, alignment, now alignment is your intuition and, oh my God, if you're this person that's going to be like look, kirsty, I listened to my intuition and it's turned me wrong before. Like, fuck my intuition. No, no, no, no, no.

Speaker 1: 2:42

Your intuition is like a baseline. Okay, it's a baseline, it doesn't change. The minute it starts to change, your emotions are overpowering your intuition, your intuition. You should check back with your intuition and be able to. You can check with a pendulum, you can do a muscle test. You can check your intuition the minute that you start to think something and then you start to like, think something else and think something, and then you start to like, think something else and think something else and you start to flip flop. That's when your emotions are really starting to get involved with your intuition, and then they overpower and then you're in your emotional brain about it and then it's gone. Yeah, that's it. That's what happens.

Speaker 1: 3:22

So with your intuition, how would you know your intuition is talking to you? It is that gut feeling. It's that way of like, oh God, that feeling in your tummy that niggles you, that just won't go away. That gut feeling is your intuition talking to you Sit around your solar plexus as well a little bit, which is like, basically in the dip of your ribs at the top, like just underneath your chest, that's where your solar plexus lives. That in the dip of your ribs at the top, like just underneath your chest, um, that's where your solar plexus lives. That's the hub of, like, your intuition, that's the hub of your identity. Okay, um, also, like you know, you do get other chakras involved with your intuition, like your third eye and your crown chakra and your throat chakra, because you're speaking your truth, you're speaking into existence what you want to bring in, because you're in alignment. It's always good to have all your chakras in alignment anyway.

Speaker 1: 4:06

So, if you've not had a healing session with me, defo, check out my healing sessions, because we don't just do chakra alignment, we do aura stuff, we do all your chakra stuff. Honestly, like, the stuff I do in my healing sessions are absolutely insane. So, yeah, go check them out on my website, which is linked below, because this is such a good way to get lots of healing done without being conscious with it. It's not about bringing it all up to the surface and having to go through a very deep emotional experience. You will have that at some point, like you will have to do some of the work. Constantly having energy healing won't fix all of your problems, but it's a good way to release a lot of pressure on you. So, yeah, go check out my website.

Speaker 1: 4:51

Um, I do distance and I do in person. I much prefer in person, always. But, yeah, if you want to book a distance thing, then just let me know. And okay, let's go back to intuition. So, sudden insights. Okay, this can be like a bolt of lightning. It feels like you could be in the kitchen, like doing the washing up or something, and all of a sudden it's like bam, that epiphany, that aha moment. You suddenly get an answer to a problem or understand the situation, or things come together like a jigsaw, or you just get a thought which changes your perception on a situation where you're like oh, that's why. So, yeah, that's really cool.

Speaker 1: 5:32

Another one that could be an intuitive pull of physical sensations. I don't get physical sensations, um, but some people might. So you may get, um, sensations likeling, a sense of warmth or discomfort. Well, actually, yeah, I do get physical sensations. What am I on about? Of course I do so. Yeah, if I'm like not feeling somebody's energy, like I feel actually repelled, and when I like, really like somebody's energy, then I do feel a sense of warmth to them. I feel like, oh my god, I love this person. I don't get the tingling though, though, but yeah, the sense of warmth or like repel energy, yeah, like that, literally, is totally me. I don't know why I didn't think that. Anyway, god, as you can tell, I am in such like a high vibe, high loving life, romanticizing my life, being my future self vibe. Right now, I'm just so, so fucking happy to be here and so grateful to be here in this, on this platform, talking to people, like talking to people spreading the message of what intuition feels like, because this is our superpower, this is what's kept us alive for generations, huns, so why are we ignoring it now?

Speaker 1: 6:39

Okay, another thing dreams and symbols. Intuitive messages can come through your dreams or as symbolism. Okay, if you find that you are having very intense dreams, or like you're having dreams which are reoccurring, things like that, you can write them down in a dream journal I read, did I read it? Yeah, I think I read it. I read this article and it was about how this woman would have like very intense dreams and then she would wake up and keep her eyes closed and then, when she was ready, then she would open her eyes and write. So she wouldn't like open her eyes, look at her phone, no, she got up, grabbed her journal which was by the side of her bed, pulled it into her and then opened her eyes as soon as she opened a page. It got to the right page and then she would write so that she could remember as many details of her dream as possible.

Speaker 1: 7:27

And i'm'm like that's such a good method because I never remember my dreams. Sometimes I do, and sometimes they're significant. I've had like spirit come to me in dreams, like my cousin did Various family members have, but no like prophecies or prophetic dreams where, like I think about something and then it happens. But yeah, that doesn't mean like it, it doesn't, it won't happen for you. So with dreams and symbols, this is our subconscious mind's playground. When we are dreaming, we're in that subconscious mind. Everything that's really important can come out then and you can go to sleep with an intention and be like I really intend for this and allow those thoughts to come into your brain before you go to sleep or whilst you're in that dream state. And don't forget, our energy is so open when we're asleep as well. This is a perfect time for spirit to come and visit us.

Speaker 1: 8:19

So yeah, trust your experience, even if it feels made up. I know that sounds a bit scary, and when um, I heard it for the first time. Trust your experience, even if it feels made up. I'm like what if it is made up, though. I'm like what if it is made up? Like, don't tell me that, but no, now I literally fully trust my experiences, even if they feel made up. I just trust them because I'm having them for a reason, and if they're made up, if they're a manifestation of my subconscious brain, then I need to hear it, see it, feel it, for whatever reason, okay.

Speaker 1: 8:55

Another way that you can tap into your intuition is having a quiet mind. This is why meditation on mindfulness can really help. And if you're working and you're looking after the kids and you're doing this and you're doing that and you're running around like a headless chicken, guess what? You're not having any time to listen to your, to your higher self or to your intuition. So your intuition is that guide and your higher self. So your higher self is like your spiritual brain. It doesn't have an ego and it just allows for like energy to like energy and guidance to pass through you, through your intuition. Yeah, how can that happen if you don't have any quiet time? Even if it's five minutes having a cup of tea and just doing some deep breathing, this can massively change your life and your connection with your intuition. Okay, so, oh my god, there's just so many. There's just so many ways you can connect your intuition. This is why it's so beautiful.

Speaker 1: 9:49

We are so taught in society to be disconnected from this superpower, but you need to get into it, because then you start to become aligned, you start to become your future you, you start to live a life that you romanticize about, that you love, that makes you so, so happy and grateful, and you don't have to fight with yourself all the time. Okay, another thing that is linked with understanding and listening to your intuition is listening to your heart. Your heart is often associated with emotions and intuition. If a decision feels right on an emotional level, it might be worth considering, okay. So, basically, what?

Speaker 1: 10:29

What I say to clients is if it's not a fuck, yes, it's a fuck, no. You know that feeling of like. Oh, I need to do this and I need to do it. You know that feeling, you know what that feels like and if, like, you have not got that feeling, it's a no, it's a no or not right now, it doesn't mean that you'll never do it. But, yeah, you can definitely tap in and listen to what your heart is telling you and if that is, that's you being aligned, that's you listening to your intuition.

Speaker 1: 11:00

Okay, so what's really, really important is that you listen to yourself and if listening to yourself is a bit harder, maybe you want to recognize some patterns that you do. So you may be um, making like similar behaviors over and over again. You may may find, like you're making yourself connections without clear evidence. This could be your intuition at work. So what do I mean you are talking about? Like synchronicities. This is what I'm talking about have things just fall into alignment with like no effort. That can be. Like your intuition is pushing you and guiding you on a subconscious level.

Speaker 1: 11:41

Okay, also with your intuition. Like I said at the start, there will always be somebody listening to this podcast that goes oh, kira Stieber, I listened to my intuition and this did me wrong and da, da, da, da, da da. Well, learn from your past experience. Okay, reflect on times when your intuition was proven. When it was proven, when were you right? When was that gut feeling saying don't do it, you did it anyway and you got hurt? When was that Okay, right? When was that gut feeling saying don't do it, you did it anyway and you got hurt? When was that okay? Think about what that gut feeling feels like. You know, you may have also had positive experiences by following your intuition in the past. How does that look? And that should build trust in your instincts as well.

Speaker 1: 12:23

And if you want to do this, you could just literally set yourself a task for 30 minutes. I'm going to sit in quiet and I'm just going to allow whatever comes into my mind. You might sit there with a specific question. You may go hey, I'm going to sit here with this specific question and I'm going to wait and see what happens. I'm going to see what comes through to me and you might say what's the next step in my career? That might be your intention. And then you wait and you see what comes up.

Speaker 1: 12:51

And now, our intuition doesn't always do the easy things, okay, it doesn't always take the easy route and it's our logical brain. Okay, another thing that coaches are not talking about in the manifestation world is that manifestation is not linear. It's not a straight line. Okay, you know. So, for example, yeah, we have our logic brain and then we have our intuition. Sometimes we have to completely surrender and go in with our intuition.

Speaker 1: 13:22

That's what I said at the beginning of the year. I said to myself I am going to massively surrender to the universe, to my higher self, to my intuition, and I'm going to do it even if it's scary, even if it doesn't make sense, even if, like, I don't know the end of it, even if I can't see the physical end or the logical end of it. I'm going to deeply trust myself and trust my ability, which, if you had said this to me a year or two ago, I would have been like Kirsty, you're absolutely off your bin. You're absolutely off your bin, but no, I'm like, I'm here now, I'm gonna do it.

Speaker 1: 13:56

So the first thing that, like, my intuition told me to was to take my nipple piercings out. I'm like, cool, great, took my nipple piercings out and actually felt really good about it. So I had my nipples pierced for a while and my TMI. But here we are baby, we're on the podcast and one never fully healed properly. So it always caused problems. And then now I took it out I was like that's great, I guess what I'm looking at manifesting, like my future partner, my husband, my, the father of my children.

Speaker 1: 14:25

And when I did that I realized the reason why I got my nipples pierced and that was because I wanted to be more desirable to men which you know we do things, don't we as women because we want to be more desirable to the other, to the opposite sex, sex. But the value I had placed on that was disproportionate. Yeah, I didn't do it for myself. I lied and said I did it for myself, but actually I didn't. I did it to be more appealing to a male when we were intimate. I didn't do it because I really wanted it. I just kind of wanted that self-expression of being that different girl that that guy had been with. Um, and that's not like soulmate energy. That isn't me saying this is the man I'm gonna marry. Do you know what I mean? It doesn't want. You know, let's not oversimplify it. If you got your nipples pierced and you're married, brilliant. But what I'm saying is it was the context in which I had them done and the belief I held around them made that happen. Okay, so I'm? I am recording this early January, so when? To be honest, it's not, it's 30th of December, but I like to just sit down and get it out when I want to get it out, you know.

Speaker 1: 15:36

The next step for me is to cut my hair again. Why am I cutting my hair? That's my worst nightmare. Why do I want to cut my hair? I pay a lot of money for my hair. No, no, no, intuition says cut it. Why? Because I believe that my attractiveness is linked with my hair. So now I'm going to cut it. I'm just going to cut it. I'm not going to cut it all off, I'm not going to become bald, but I'm going to cut it. I'm going to cut it short, shorter than what it is now like, a lot shorter.

Speaker 1: 16:06

So, yeah, again, embracing the fact that I can't hide behind her anymore. I just have to be my outward self. And again, this is the learning experience, this is me doing my healing, this is me doing the journey and this is me uncovering so much stuff that I just absolutely love and love to share with you. You know, I'm on this journey just as much as you are. We're learning together, we're sharing and it's great. So, yeah, god knows what else my intuition has in store for me, but I'm very excited for it. And the intuition when I spoke to like my other friends who are like a bit more intuitive and things like that, they're like, yeah, your intuition makes you do crazy stuff, but you just gotta go with it. And I'm like's go, um, so yeah, so again, just tap into your intuition. It is your superpower, it is going to be that thing that really pulls you. And those intuitive pulls are so important with business.

Speaker 1: 17:00

If you want to be a soul-based leader, if you want to be a soul-based practitioner, whatever you do, it has to come from a place of enjoyment. And I have to say, like I was watching oh god, I was watching TikTok of all bloody things earlier and the energy guy, who is a really good um TikTok account to follow, by the way um, he was saying if you had 10 million pound, would you still do the job that you do today? And if the answer was no, you're doing it for money, which I know a lot of us are doing it for money. But for me, who's somebody who's self-employed I was like I would still do it. Why? Because I still absolutely adore helping other people and that is why I've remastered all my coaching, my coaching structure. So basically, we have a structure of my coaching program in place for my 12 week program now and what we do is we go through like we have themes and they're loose themes, because everything again, soul based, intuitive sessions Okay, so I'm able to pull in so much information and so much detail.

Speaker 1: 18:05

Like when I actually wrote it down, I was like the value of this coaching is absolutely unreal because I am. I just I bring so much. Not only do I bring 12 years of experience working with multiple um and highly complex, multiple multifaceted and complex women with multiple layers of trauma in a trauma-informed way. I bring like so much spiritual knowledge to the table as well. So we are working on energetic, emotional, mental and physical level when we are going through my coaching program. And one thing I've just got to tell you is that, because of all of my experiences, I don't just have one healing modality which I pull out and I go right, we're going to use this on every single client. No, I have a tool bag that is full to the brim of different healing modalities, from CBT to counseling, to mentorship, to shamanic soul retrieval, to Reiki and aura healing and or you know just so, so much like within that too, which is on, you know, physical shaking, like somatic healing. Oh my god, there's just so so much I have knowledge about and have enough information about to support you through any sort of journey that you need to go on and again, it's not just me like intuitively going oh, you need to do this. I'm linking in with your spirit guides. Your spirit guides and my spirit guides are going to work together and we will be intuitively putting you through this program for you to become the best version of you, obviously you gotta put the work in.

Speaker 1: 19:37

Coaching is hard. 12 weeks of intensive coaching can absolutely transform your life, and transformation doesn't come by doing a couple of tick box exercise. It just doesn't. So if you're interested in coaching, literally hit me up because I am going to be increasing my prices soon. And if you want to look in the price point, it's definitely better to do that now, because they are like ridiculously priced right now, and then you can. Yeah, even if you don't want to start and you want to have an installment plan, plan whatever. As long as you're signed up by the 1st of February, then you're all good, you're absolutely all good.

Speaker 1: 20:16

So, yeah, that's kind of everything I wanted to talk about today. I guess that went in a different way than maybe I sat down and planned. I just kind of I didn't really sit down with a plan, I just kind of went. I just really feel like talking and sharing my story and sharing something, and that's usually how all the best podcasts are birthed. So, yeah, I hope that you're having a really good start to the year, though, and, yeah, I'm just kind of thinking about 2024, and how it's going to be the year of abundance.

Speaker 1: 20:49

2024 and how it's going to be the year of abundance. So, when we look at numerology, two plus zero plus two plus four equals eight. Eight is the number of abundance. So last year, number seven was all about, like inner work, inner healing, all of that, and now this year is all about reaping what you sow and what you've been working on. So, yeah, this is the year for you to truly step into your best self, into, you know, that girl era, like into that soft life, into whatever you want, whatever that future self or future version of you desires.

Speaker 1: 21:23

You can do it like. You can make it happen because, like when I read one of Emma Mumford's books, she said, like abundance is all around us. You just have to, like, remove your limiting beliefs around it. We're the ones who put those fences up, not anybody else. So, yeah, this is my invitation for you to take down those walls and live your most abundant life, and I'm going to leave it there. You know where you can find me. I'm on all the socials. Send me an email, respond to the podcast. I'd love to hear from you. Leave a review. I would really like that. Leave a review. And, yeah, just wishing you the most happy and abundant rest of your day and thank you so much for listening. Amen.