Conflict Resolution

Types of Conflict within Relationships 

1. Sin of one spouse 
   • Not just affairs. This is a true infraction, not an imagined one. (sexual sin, angry outburst, substance abuse, thievery, pride, envy, conceit, controlling behavior)
2. Immaturity or brokenness of one person
   • Most people get married totally unaware of their spouses shortcomings. 
3. Hurt feelings that are no one’s fault
   • Things we are sensitive about but are not actually attacks or offenses. 
4. Conflicting desires  
   • Difference of preferences (type of movie, type of restaurant, etc) 
5. Desires of one person vs the needs of the relationship
   • When one persons desires are not beneficial for well-being the marriage 
6. Known vs Unknown problems 
   • Denial vs. Blind Spots 

Source: Boundaries in Marriage by Dr. Henry Cloud & Dr. John Townsend