Crossing Boundaries

Defining Healthy Relationships

December 28, 2018 Elizabeth & Xavier Ifill Season 1 Episode 2
Defining Healthy Relationships
Crossing Boundaries
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Crossing Boundaries
Defining Healthy Relationships
Dec 28, 2018 Season 1 Episode 2
Elizabeth & Xavier Ifill

We’re not experts. We’re just looking to engage the community around us. We believe our world can be deeply impacted by having healthier relationships with each other.

We formatted this episode in a creative way to define what healthy relationships look like. We created a Q&A with each other asking the following questions:

  1. What are some unhealthy behaviors or patterns you have observed or personally experienced? 
  2. Where did your information on relationships come from? 
  3. What’s a behavior you had to change to make our relationship more successful?  
  4. What’s the image of a successful relationship in the past vs now? 
  5. At the moment that we met, were we thinking of marriage?


 At the end of the episode, we talk about healthy dating. Our takeaways to healthy dating:

  1. Must be two, healthy individuals.  
  2. Be comfortable with who you are, what you like about yourself as well as opportunities for growth. 
  3. Chase your passion and calling instead of chasing people.
  4. When you do find that person…keep doing what you're doing! Follow the call on your life and be patient.
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We’re not experts. We’re just looking to engage the community around us. We believe our world can be deeply impacted by having healthier relationships with each other.

We formatted this episode in a creative way to define what healthy relationships look like. We created a Q&A with each other asking the following questions:

  1. What are some unhealthy behaviors or patterns you have observed or personally experienced? 
  2. Where did your information on relationships come from? 
  3. What’s a behavior you had to change to make our relationship more successful?  
  4. What’s the image of a successful relationship in the past vs now? 
  5. At the moment that we met, were we thinking of marriage?


 At the end of the episode, we talk about healthy dating. Our takeaways to healthy dating:

  1. Must be two, healthy individuals.  
  2. Be comfortable with who you are, what you like about yourself as well as opportunities for growth. 
  3. Chase your passion and calling instead of chasing people.
  4. When you do find that person…keep doing what you're doing! Follow the call on your life and be patient.