The Examined Lives of the Secret Wives
Join Lauren Hayes, your Swinging Lifestyle Coach and expert in ethical non-monogamy, alongside her co-host Ben, an ex-LDS polyamorous friend, as they dive into the reality TV show The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives. Together, they peel back the curtain on how the show portrays relationships, particularly in the LDS and swinger communities.
Lauren and Ben take on each episode, discussing what’s real, what’s exaggerated, and what’s just plain wrong about how non-monogamous and Mormon lifestyles are represented. From the cultural nuances of Mormonism to the misconceptions about swinging and ethical non-monogamy, Lauren and Ben bring their firsthand knowledge and humor to every episode.
If you’re tired of TV shows sensationalizing these lifestyles without understanding them, this podcast is for you. Tune in for insightful commentary, honest conversations, and a whole lot of myth-busting as they explore the complexities of these 8 modern Mormon women and their relationships.
Unofficially representing the real communities misrepresented in the reality show
Hosted by: Lauren Hayes, Swinging lifestyle coach & her poly friend, Ben
This podcast is not affiliated with, endorsed by, or sponsored by the producers of The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives.
The Examined Lives of the Secret Wives
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In the inaugural episode of The Examined Lives of the Secret Wives, hosts Lauren and Ben dive into their review of the reality show The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives through the lens of ethical non-monogamy.
Lauren, a swinger, and Ben, who is polyamorous, set the stage by introducing themselves and sharing their frustrations with how the media often misrepresents their communities.
This episode explores key themes like Mormonism, ethical non-monogamy, and how religious upbringing can collide with alternative lifestyles. Lauren and Ben break down the crucial difference between ethical non-monogamy and cheating, emphasizing the importance of honesty, boundaries, and community support. They also dig into their personal experiences with addiction and discuss the concept of 'new relationship energy.'
Throughout the conversation, Lauren and Ben remain thoughtful and respectful, aiming to offer insightful, nuanced commentary while honoring the people featured in the show.
What You'll Learn:
- The difference between ethical non-monogamy and cheating
- How religious backgrounds influence alternative relationship choices
- The role of community and support in non-monogamous relationships
- Personal experiences with addiction and its intersection with lifestyle choices
- What 'new relationship energy' means and how it plays out in ethical non-monogamy
If you enjoyed this episode and want to hear more, don’t forget to hit that subscribe button! We’ve got a lot more to unpack, and you won’t want to miss the upcoming episodes where we dig into the juicy details, tackle misconceptions, and share even more insights on non-monogamy, relationships, and reality TV. Make sure you're subscribed so you’re always in the loop!
Find Lauren at swinginglifestylecoach.com.