The Talking Mortality Podcast

Good Grief - To A Better Understanding of Bereavement

Dr Calvin J. Lightbody Season 1 Episode 12

Bereavement affects everyone at some point in their life - it is universal but also deeply personal. That said, what do we really understand about the nature of bereavement? Are we, as a society, any good at handling its complexities? Or even just being with those who are bereaved?

Joining me to help answer these questions are two experts when it comes to bereavement. Graeme Bell is a hospital chaplain with previous experience in ministry. Peter McMillan is a Practice Development Practitioner who has spent many years working as a nurse in Care of the Elderly. Together they have formed a team to deliver education around death, dying and bereavement for NHS hospital staff in a course called "Solas" (see link below).

We discuss bereavement definitions, what it can feel like for an individual, societal attitudes, common misconceptions and share some of our personal and professional healthcare experiences. We also look at "anticipatory grief", exploring what this means and how it is recognised.

Here are some links to resources mentioned in this episode:

Solas Bereavement Training (for NHS Lanarkshire Staff)

 https://forms.office.com/e/iCJKQYVjqk


Cruise bereavement support 

 https://www.cruse.org.uk/

 

Dementia UK

 https://www.dementiauk.org/

 

Irish hospice foundation 

 https://hospicefoundation.ie/

 

Marie Curie 

 https://www.mariecurie.org.uk/services/bereavement-support-service