Partnered with a Survivor: David Mandel and Ruth Reymundo Mandel
This podcast is a series of conversations.
What started as a series of intimate conversations between Ruth and David that ranged from personal to professional experiences around violence, relationships, abuse, and system and professional responses which harm, not help, has now become a global conversation about systems and culture change. In many episodes, David and Ruth are joined by a global leader in different areas like child safety, men and masculinity, and, of course, partnering with survivors. Each episode is a deep dive into complex topics like how systems fail domestic abuse survivors and their children, societal views of masculinity and violence, and how intersectionalities such as cultural beliefs, religious beliefs, and unique vulnerabilities impact how we respond to abuse and violence. These far-ranging discussions offer an insider look into how we navigate the world together as professionals, as parents, and as partners. During these podcasts, David and Ruth challenge the notions which keep all of us from moving forward collectively as systems, as cultures, and as families into safety, nurturance, and healing.
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Partnered with a Survivor: David Mandel and Ruth Reymundo Mandel
Season 4 Episode 6: "The Professional Part of Me Is Not Separated from the Personal": An Interview with Nneka MacGregor
Survivors who are professionals can live in fear that if they share their experience in the workplace, they will be dismissed and disregarded. In this episode, Ruth and David speak with Nneka MacGregor, founder and executive director of WomenatthecentrE, about the need to transform our systems so that professionals who are survivors can safely share their experience to strengthen the response of systems to gender-based violence.
Nneka shares her journey as a survivor and a professional, including how attempts by those in the domestic violence field to silence her made her even more committed to speaking out. She outlines how survivor knowledge of systems and service failures is vital to making those systems more effective and responsive.
Ruth, David, and Nneka discuss how survivors are treated as “other,” reflecting cultural attitudes which see survivors as broken and biased. They dive down into the negative impact on professionals and survivors when organizational cultures operate from a place of demeaning, diminishing, controlling, silencing, and dictating to survivors.
Nneka also shares concrete strategies from WomenatthecentrE that help in creating a professional, survivor-nurturing, successful, and supportive advocacy organization. Together, David, Ruth, and Nneka explore how professionals and organizations can partner with survivors and the importance of organizational performance markers for supporting survivors inside an agency.
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