It's another riveting episode featuring the listener confessions! This time about what it's really like to feel sexually unable to complete with black men and how that might just make things really enjoyable. Is it true that there is some sort of natural reward for admitting the truth?
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It's another riveting episode featuring the listener confessions! This time about what it's really like to feel sexually unable to complete with black men and how that might just make things really enjoyable. Is it true that there is some sort of natural reward for admitting the truth?
Links:
Live Chat with Venus - Interracial Cuckolding - May 17th at 2pm PT, 5pm ET - register for free. Members save your spot ➡️ https://www.venuscuckoldress.com/products/communities/thequeensquarters/liveevents Not a member yet? Join the QQ Community for free ➡️ https://www.venuscuckoldress.com/offers/FTNWndiv/checkout
Bad Girls Bible Cuckolding Episode - https://badgirlsbible.com/50-cuckolding-101-how-to-explore-it-why-it-can-be-good-for-your-relationship-with-venus-cuckoldress
This episode is brought to you by Joymode - GREAT SEX SOLVED, NATURALLY
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This is the Venus Cuckoldress podcast, a place to learn all things cuckolding for the curious, for the passionate and for the sexually empowered woman who wants it all. Let's go. Welcome to the show everyone. I'm your host, venus. Thanks for joining me today.
Speaker 1:Today I'm talking about one of my favorite topics, talking about a bbc interracial cuckolding. So I have this thing on my website where you can send in a voice note to me either a question, a comment or a confession and sometimes I go and I take those and I put them on the show and talk about them. Today is one of those, and there are three different confessions that I'm going to talk about today. They are awesome, they are super hot. So stay tuned for that. But first, of course, I have some announcements to make. On the 17th of May, which is, I believe, a Friday, at 2 pm Pacific time, 5 pm Eastern, I'm going to be doing a special live event in the Queens Quarters community. It is a live chat event where I'm going to be talking about my favorite subject interracial cuckolding and I am going to be making a huge announcement during that event and I mean it is big. I am so, so excited for this. I can't spill the beans on it yet, but just know that it has to do with some fun juicy stuff that's coming up, so it's free to attend.
Speaker 1:You can go to venuscuckoldresscom. Click on the link that says events. You can do it that way. The link is also in the show notes for today's episode, so make sure you check that out. That's on the 17th of May, a live chat in the Queens Quarters community. Big announcement we're going to be talking about interracial cuckolding. Don't miss it. Also, recently I had a really fun time being a guest on the Bad Girls Bible podcast. We talked about all things cuckolding and it was really, really a lot of fun. It was very interesting, so make sure you check that out. I will post the link to that show in the show notes for today's episode. All right, that's it for announcements. Let's jump into the show today. Here we go.
Speaker 3:Hey Venus. So my confession is about how I got into this lifestyle, or I should say how, I like, started to enjoy this lifestyle. I guess it started with my first girlfriend who, after we broke up for a little bit, went and slept with a black guy or two and when we actually got back together for a little bit she I was the first person she ever had sex with. But after we broke up and got back together she flat out told me I had a small dick and at first it kind of hurt but it honestly turned me on after time and made me curious about black dicks, which kind of turned me into loving that kind of porn because I would start searching it all the time.
Speaker 3:And just the comparison of those big black dicks compared to mine was like huge. I'm like four and a half five inches, I'm pretty thin and I don't know. I've been told by multiple girls after that I was one of the smallest they've been with and it kind of just made me start to think about how much I loved thinking about all these women in my life. Being with much bigger cocks always arouses me a ton. So at this point in my life I mean I love big black cock. It's just really funny, I guess.
Speaker 1:I just love this guy so much and this stood out for me for a couple of reasons. Okay, the first I love that part where he says, yeah, she slept with a black guy or two. The way he said that, oh my God, I don't know why, but I just found that like so fucking adorable. But okay. So he took this like potentially really painful experience where his girlfriend you know, they broke up and she went and slept with some other guys black guys and then she came back and they got back together and she told him straight up like your size is not comparable to these other guys, and he took that, which could have been so hurtful and so damaging. He took that and, instead of allowing it to be something that was destructive for him, into something that was like such a turn on for him. I love the fact that some guys are able to do this and when it comes to origin stories, I think that this might be a little bit common, because I've heard guys being able to do this where either she cheated on him and it was so painful and he was so upset about it, but then, oddly, it turned into something that was like an insane turn on for him and in this case, where it was, you know, his size is lacking, he's got a small dick and she's telling him that and instead of, you know, being really upset about it, it turns into this real kind of obsession about size and such a turn on God. I love that so much. Not all cucks have, you know, small dicks. Not all cucks are lacking in sexual ability. But for the ones who are, the fact that you can really embrace this kind of relationship, this kind of identity as a cuck, as it being like this part that you really do like about yourself, oh my god, I fucking love that so much. And the fact that he went and decided that he enjoys this part, this looking up BBC porn, watching all of this BBC porn. He said he likes the comparison between himself and these guys. Okay, you guys, this is a fucking thing. I'm pretty sure I've said this on the podcast before, but this is legit a fucking thing.
Speaker 1:There are, I want to say, millions of white guys out there obsessing about BBC porn and a lot of them are in the closet about it, but they really enjoy watching BBC porn. This is like mesmerizing for them. This is a real fucking thing. Like this is obviously big business. The BBC category on just Pornhub alone is huge, but then you've got sites like blackcom and stuff that really play into this. These are, I would say, by far almost all white guys obsessing about this. And if there's something that I have noticed over my lifetime and a lot of other women are going to agree when they hear this there's nothing that guys obsess about more than dick size. Well, maybe sports, but I swear to god they've made dick size obsession about bbc into a fucking sport for real. But nothing gets guys fired up more than them talking about thinking about their dick size or the size of other guys. Dicks or whatever Like this is a fucking thing. So I can totally understand why this is such a big thing for cucks.
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Speaker 1:My first cuck boyfriend he was into race play. He loved the whole like racial undertones of interracial cuckolding. I wasn't into it so much for like the racial undertones, but I understood as a woman. I understood that kind of compelling nature that guys black guys have when it comes to like sexual prowess and ability and just size and just fucking sex appeal and all of that sort of stuff Like I obviously understood it. I still do, and so I was into it mainly for like the sexual preference of black guys. So it really did not take much for me to jump on board for that.
Speaker 1:But having said that, like there's tons of cuckolding couples out there that don't have. They don't go down that kind of interracial road. It might just seem like it's bigger than it is, because this is something that I love and I talk about a lot, but it is. It's definitely not everything within cuckolding, but, oh my God, it is something, that is for sure. It is really something.
Speaker 1:But one thing I have noticed is that I do think that there's way more guys thinking about interracial, bbc cuckolding you know that sort of stuff than there are women for sure, like that's guaranteed, that sort of stuff. Then there are women for sure, like that's guaranteed, and I know this because in my matchmaking service there are so few single women who are looking for interracial cuckolding. When it comes to looking for a partner, there are so many single guys who are looking for a woman who's a so-called queen of spades, like myself, who just really enjoys black bulls, and that is a very, very, very stark contrast between the two. There are tons of guys who absolutely have to have. That's a must have. They are so into it. This is part of who they are. They absolutely must be in an interracial cuckolding relationship. So few women, single women, who are out there are looking for that, like it's just, it's so rare. It's so rare, I feel, like the interracial cuckolding couples that are out there. They didn't start out that way. This was something that kind of evolved within their long-term relationship or marriage. So to have a single woman who is, you know, right in the beginning, looking for that kind of dynamic is just it's kind of unrealistic. I'm a bit of a unicorn in that sense, but I also really love the fact that this guy is, you know, really getting into the that.
Speaker 1:A small penis humiliation part of it Like I just I love and adore that. I did not understand that. When I first got into cuckolding that was like I was like what the fuck? I do not get that at all. It didn't make any sense to me. I'd never come across that in life before. In fact, most guys are just really defensive about the size of their dick, so I'd never come across one who really enjoyed being teased about that. But oh my gosh, do I ever love it now? It is really a form of love, really it is. So any of you ladies who are listening out there and you have a guy who is wanting you to tease him about that, fuck, just go for it. It can be so, so much fun. As long as you're both really into it, then go for it.
Speaker 4:Yeah, morning Venus. Yeah, I just my name's Steve. My, I mean, mean I fell upon your, your blog, on that. I think it's absolutely fascinating what you're doing.
Speaker 4:My confession is, obviously, as a young white guy teenager the young like 20s I used to listen to the girls and they're talking about how the sexual prowess of black guys and it really really used to grate on me. It really used to grate on me. It really used to make me angry and then one day it's like fast forward. I don't know as young guys do, I was reading this magazine and I just read this story about this how this man worked with this black guy and he had fantasies of him like sleeping with his wife and like he told his wife and all that, and like he told his wife and like she said no, and then basically he, he sort of like dragged her down and all that and, um, she eventually yeah, yeah, said yes, yeah. And I was reading this story and it's like, and he got the man back to his house and all that, how much bigger he was and all that. You know, so angry and all that. But at the same time, I can understand it. I'm so turned on and anyway, uh, fast forward to today and I'm with this, my girlfriend now.
Speaker 4:I was married and all that vanilla relationship but that broke down. I'm with a girlfriend now and we openly talk about fantasies and I told her and I think god's like she takes me on. It's almost like now I don't know she teases me and all that. And we've actually been to a club in England called the Black Man's Fan Club where white couples go and single black men go, and she hasn't actually slept with a black guy yet, but we do fantasize about it and basically it's well, we went there, she was flirting with them and all that. She put a cage on me and I was subtle.
Speaker 4:It was like I don't know, I was angry but turned on and oh God, the emotions were absolutely fantastic and at that point I loved them more than anything in the world for some of you know. And yeah, she just flirted with them. They won just a handjob and all that and I just realised, like the size of some of these guys I could never even begin to compete, but that turned me on even more. But then she'd come on, she'd kiss me and we stayed in a travel lodge and we went back and she teased me all night. It was just absolutely fantastic and it's almost like the more um, I admit I can never compete like sexually with them, uh the more it's like more turned on I'll get, the better erections I get, the better orgasms I have. It's almost like nature's little uh reward for admitting the truth. You know what I mean? That's just my little thing. It's probably boring. Keep up the good work and I think you're a fantastic lady. Anyway, take care. Bye.
Speaker 1:Such a great little story. I've heard this. This reminds me, actually, of a story that I think I read it on the Goddess Worshipper blog where he was talking about. It might have been on thereiper blog, um, where he was talking about it might have been on there anyway where he was talking about how, in the beginning, like he would get, he's a white guy and he would get so upset about the fact that the women, the girls in college or whatever, whoever they were, were, um, always flocking towards the black guys and the black guys were getting so many of these girls and like it always made him so mad, like there was this real frustration and anger that he felt about it. And then one day, I guess, he just kind of broke through that emotion and there was this sense of defeat when, and with that sense of defeat, came this, like it was oddly, like such a turn on for him to realize that and from that point onwards, it was just this obsession about bbc and obsession about white women with black men and and all of that sort of stuff, and so it was a, it was like a switch was flipped and his frame of thinking just changed and and I will never forget that story Because I obviously I have no idea what it's like to be a white guy Like I don't know what it's like to feel those things, but I feel like it's so fascinating to hear that. So when I heard this story, that's what it made me think of, and so this is just kind of echoes that where this guy was, you know, he would always get upset.
Speaker 1:He was talking about how you know he would hear the women talk about the sexual prowess of black men and it would make him mad and and then, you know, frustrated, all that sort of stuff. And then, oh my god, what was it that he said? Um, the more I admit I could never compete sexually with them, the more turned on I get, the more the better erections, the better orgasms I get. And then he goes on to say that this is like nature's reward for admitting the truth. Oh my God, when I heard that, I'm like that's exactly it, and that's kind of like that switch that gets flipped where, if you just admit that you've been defeated, that this competition no longer exists, that these guys have won and you have lost, there's something oddly fun about that. I will never understand it, but I absolutely love the fact that more than one of these guys out there are all experiencing this when it comes to understanding that black guys are just for the most part, in my opinion, just better in bed.
Speaker 1:So, and it's not just about size, although he did talk about the size and, by the way, okay, what is this club? What is this? The black man's fan club? I feel like, um, I need to be there. He said that was in, I think, london or UK or something like that. Anyway, I obviously am not in that part of the world, but I apparently need to be, because I've never heard of a club like that in the city that I live, but that sounds so fun, like hello, why don't we have that here? Anyway, the Black Man's Fan Club, yes, yes, yes, please sign me up.
Speaker 1:But then he talked about that kind of mix of emotions, of like. He said it was like a mix of being angry and turned on watching his girlfriend play with these black guys, and I can only imagine that that's kind of what like angst, feels like for cucks, that kind of like it's uncomfortable but it's yet very, very exciting and it's such a turn on. And I've heard this from so many guys out there who have said so many cucks out there who've said that it's a cuckolding fantasy, either talking about it, sharing that fantasy with somebody or following through with that fantasy with somebody. There's something about that that creates the most powerful erections, the most powerful orgasms of a guy's entire life, and I've heard this so many times from guys that this that it is kind of shocking for them because it's not expected.
Speaker 1:But it also says something that these desires, these cuckolding desires, are so powerful and I've heard, like I said, I've heard that from so many guys. This is an actual, real thing, so I can absolutely understand where the interracial aspect plays into that. It's just so fun. I think cucks are so amazing and I just love the fact that you guys can go through this kind of like psychologically emotional turmoil and discomfort and yet be so turned on at the same time and just be so excited about it at the same time. I just think that's so fascinating. I don't really know that there's anything else like that out there that I have experienced before. This is why I love CUC so much and, of course, this is why I love interracial cuckolding so much.
Speaker 2:Hi Venus, this is Dave and I wanted to share a CUC experience I had this past weekend. But I also want to say thank you for all you do to bring awareness to cuck holding lives and cuck lifestyle. I think it's more common than people think or people want to admit anyway, but as far as my experience goes, it was this past Saturday about 2 am. My wife's phone rings and it's her boyfriend, and she hangs up and tells me that he's going to be here in about 20 minutes. So I get up to get dressed, but she instead hands me a nightgown and tells me to put that on instead. So I go out to the living room straighten up while she gets ready for her boyfriend. When he arrives, they meet and greet at the door.
Speaker 2:I go out to the living room straighten up while she gets ready for her boyfriend. When he arrives, they meet, greet at the door. She tells me to make him a couple of drinks while they go into the bedroom and as I hand him the drink, she's asking him if he likes my nightgown and what he thinks about it. And so I think that's another. Just head back into the living room, wait for them to call me back and about maybe five minutes later, she calls me and tells me to start sucking his cock. And so I do. And while I'm doing that, she grabs some glue out of the drawer, starts moving me up. I'm thinking, well, she's going to fuck me with a strap-on while I'm sucking this cock.
Speaker 2:After she gets done moving me up, she lays back down and tells me to eat her pussy. So I do. After a couple minutes she hands me a condom and tells me to put it on him. And at this point I realize that he's going to fuck me with the nightgown on. So I put the condom on, just positioned myself to take his cock and I mean her pussy and she's fucking me. And he probably fucks me for a little few minutes and takes the cock off and fucks my wife until he comes inside her pussy. Of course I clean her up and I clean his cock up. It was different in the sense that I've been penetrated by other guys, but this was spur of the moment type thing, not planned. Obviously she planned it and they had planned it, but I didn't know about it. It was different, but fun and exciting at the same time.
Speaker 1:I enjoyed it. Okay, so the first thing I noticed about this story, this confession, when it first came in and I listened to it, the first thing that went through my mind was is this real? I'm always quite skeptical when guys talk about like a fantasy experience that they've just had, because I've come across so many guys who tell this story about what they did or what was done to them or whatever or whatever, and it's obvious that is bullshit, that this is just a story that they've made up in their mind, that they just want to talk about it because it's hot and they're rubbing one out at the same time and they just want me to talk about it with them or something like that. It's just very common to come across that online where guys are just bullshitting, just basically fantasy vomiting and stuff like that. So that was the first thing that went through my mind was like, is this real? This doesn't seem real to me. But then I like I listened to it a couple more times. I'm like, well, maybe it is because he was talking at the end. He was talking about how, like you know, he's been penetrated by other guys before. But this was different, because this was a spur of the moment, unplanned kind of thing. So I was like, well, maybe this is something that him and his wife do partake in for real. I don't know, I'm still not entirely convinced that this happened for real, but I'll just assume that it was. There are a couple of things that I found interesting about this, obviously, that you know his wife is down for this. Couple things that I found interesting about this, obviously that you know his wife is down for this.
Speaker 1:There's not, like I don't want to say there's not a lot of women out there who who are into this form of cuckolding, this that is like the forced feminization, the, uh, forced by aspect, whether it's forced or not, I don't know. But, um, I just haven't come across a lot of women who are, I guess, in that part of the spectrum of different dynamics and practices within cuckolding. I haven't come across a lot who are. But I've heard from a lot of guys who do fantasize about these things. So I don't know If she is like that. She's gone down that road and she loves it and she's comfortable with it and they're both having fun with it Like fuck, yes, that's amazing, that's awesome that you guys both are compatible in that way when it comes to your fantasies, that's great, but I have not come across a lot of women who are in that. I that that stage or whatever, so maybe that's why I was a little skeptical as well.
Speaker 1:However, you know this the getting your man to wear women's panties or women's nightgown or something like that as a form of sexual humiliation this is a theme that you do hear about sometimes within cuckolding. It's not something that I have practiced, because it's just not. It's not something that really turns me on. Um, so it's not something I wrote that I have gone down, or, or I don't think I will, but, um, there are a lot of women who get off on that. There's a lot of husbands who get off on that aspect of it. So I get it. Um, the fact that she was she was the one who initiated all of this.
Speaker 1:This is a very common male fantasy when it comes to cuckolding, and you'll see this in like a lot of like the porn memes and stuff like that, where it'll be her catching him off guard. Oh, by by the way, so-and-so is coming over in 20 minutes and you don't have any say in it. This is what I want and I'm going to make this happen, kind of thing. This is a very, very, very common kind of storyline when it comes to cuckolding. Whether or not there's a lot of women out there who really do take the lead like that and really like to. You know, throw down the surprise bull visits and stuff like that and, oh surprise, he's gonna fuck you and you know you don't have any say in it, kind of thing. Whether or not that actually happens for real, very often I kind of doubt. But this is something that a lot of guys do fantasize about. I guess the loss of control over the situation like she's going to make me do this and she's going to, you know, surprise me with this and I don't have any say in it. And yeah, this is just something I see very often.
Speaker 1:But one of the things that like I really I don't get it, really I don't get it, I don't get it. So I like I've thought about this before like would I get my cuck to dress in panties and would I put makeup on him in a wig? And like I don't know, I don't understand this whole thing because, like I get it as a form of humiliation. But for me, I can't wrap my head around the part about like are you, you're trying to make him look like a woman and that's supposed to be insulting. Is looking like a woman? I don't know, but I can't that. To me that fucks with my mind because I'm like women shouldn't be looked upon like that. So wouldn't dressing your man like a woman be a compliment and not like a degradation? I don't know, I can't do it.
Speaker 1:And then there's the part about like in the story where he was saying yeah, so my wife, you know, she made me dress in this nightgown and she had her bull come over, boyfriend or whatever, come over and she asked him if he likes my nightgown. He didn't, in this story, say what the response was by the bull, but I can't help but like, wonder what the fuck the response was. Like what? Because I'm trying to put myself in the position of a bull and I come over to her house and her husband's there in her nightgown. I mean, I'm trying to figure out what my reaction would be. I would, I would probably be like he looks like a fucking idiot. Like I don't know what do you want me to say here? Like, oh, he looks gorgeous. Like, oh, that looks cute, I don't know, like I feel like it looks like a fucking idiot. But maybe that's the point is that she was looking for like a genuine reaction, or maybe this is a bull who just likes to play along with the whole forced feminization, humiliation game that they're playing, and maybe this bull was like, oh yeah, he looks like such a dirty little slut or something like that. You know, maybe that he just would get into that kind of little headspace game. I don't know, he just would get into that kind of little headspace game. I don't know, but for me it would be hard for me not to blurt out that. You know, this looks like a fucking idiot. I don't know, and I don't mean that in any way, shape or form. That's going to yuck somebody's yum, I'm just trying to put myself in that headspace and it is hard for me to get past that. So anyway, there's that. Otherwise, I like this story, even though, like, it didn't have anything to do with the race of the bull. That is totally fine. There were these other kind of dynamics within this story and it was super hot, and I do really like this confession story.
Speaker 1:Thanks for joining me today. Make sure you go to venuscuckledresscom. That's where you can book a private chat with me, you can check out any cuckolding events that might be happening and you can even ask a question for the show, as well as, of course, join the Queens Quarters fan club and get all the benefits for that. You can also follow me on Instagram, the Venus Kuckledrist podcast. I haven't been banned there Well, I have, but not recently. You can also follow me on Twitter, or whatever the fuck you want to call it. My handle is at Kuckledrist V. That's it for today. We'll see you next time.