Episode 26 | "Money, Cash, Hoes"

In this solo episode, Ellis answers anonymous questions submitted through NGL app. She covers topics such as receiving gifts from clients, ideal work schedules, exclusive arrangements, catching feelings for clients, the importance of money, and more. Ellis also discusses personal growth and mindset changes since starting in the industry, the impact of DEI conversations, and how to prevent burnout as a sex worker.

Takeaways

• Gifts and tips, as well as cash, are greatly appreciated by companions.
• In an ideal world, companions would see fewer clients, make more money, and have longer dates.
• Ellis is open to exclusive arrangements with clients she enjoys.
• Genuine feelings and connections with clients can enhance the quality of time spent together.
• Money is essential for survival, while music brings joy and is a personal necessity for Ellis.
• Ellis plans to retire when she feels she's accomplished her purpose in the industry.
• The single most mistake clients make is booking short appointments and expecting fireworks.
• Ellis does not want to create adult content and prefers to focus on being an escort.
• Rest, self-care, and avoiding clients who do not align with personal values are key to preventing burnout.
• Discretion and respect are important in the industry, both for companions and clients.

Sound Bites

• "Cash will not ever not be a good gift."
• "In an ideal world, one to three clients a week for longer dates would be ideal."
• "When you have genuine feelings or love or a connection with a client, most good clients know where the boundaries lie."

Chapters

00:00
Introduction

01:50
Gifts, Money, and Ideal Work Schedules

04:44
Exclusive Arrangements and Catching Feelings

08:06
The Importance of Money and the Role of Music

09:27
Retirement Plans and Mentality Changes

14:05
The Mistake of Short Appointments and Burnout Prevention

32:08
Discretion and Respect in the Industry

35:02
Conclusion

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Transcript

Ellis (00:01.838)
Hello, you are listening to the voice of Ellis Hendrix - Texas, Dallas to be specific based companion. This is Exclusively Yours podcast. The podcast that gets into bed with professional companions, intimate conversation with intimate professionals.

Today's episode is a solo episode. I'm gonna try to do this in one shot. This episode is all about anonymous questions. These anonymous questions were submitted through the app or website, NGL. NGL stands for not gonna lie. With these questions, I'm going to do my best to answer the appropriate questions not the inappropriate ones, which there were quite a few. I'm going to answer some of these questions. Well, I'm gonna answer as many questions as I can because I know you're probably gonna get bored listening to this. So if you follow me on Instagram @the.hendrix.way, you will see some of the replies to some these questions.

Let's get started. I tried to separate the questions into different categories, but it's just, it's a little bit too jumbled up. So I'm just gonna go ahead and dive right in.

Ellis (01:50.638)
Do you prefer receiving a gift from a client or wish they just given you the money instead? Gifts and tips or money are both greatly appreciated. Gifts are harder to execute because I've gotten gifts in the past that are things that I've not asked for.

And when gifts are things that you've not asked for, they become clutter and no one wants to live in clutter. This is why most companions have wishlists. If you stick to the wishlist, most of the time, the gifts are great. Cash is a really great gift because that shows that you actually care because it's liquid, right?

I can do whatever I want with the cash. I can buy whatever I want. I can pay a bill. I can pay my rent. I can buy groceries or I can put it in an investment account or I can put it into a savings account. Cash will always be a good gift. I could go either way on this. I'd like to say at this stage in my life, I'd prefer cash over gifts, but I know some clients are gift givers.

I've got a wish list through Luxy List, Amazon, and YouPay. I also include a gift for every price point. 

The next question: In your ideal sex work world, how many clients would you see in a month and for what length dates? All right, in an ideal world for me, I want to work as little as possible. I've hustled for so long. I've been in the industry since 2017 and before that I was a sugar baby and that is a huge amount of unpaid labor in itself.

Ellis (04:14.478)
I would see less clients, make more money and I would have longer dates. I'd probably have more travel dates as well. I would say one to three clients a week, ideally one client a week for a dinner date or longer, or an extended date every week or weekend or something like that. I think that would be ideal. We're talking like big, big numbers.

Very little interactions with different individuals because the more clients you see, the more risk that you take on. And my opinion, well, it's not an opinion, it's a fact. I'm at the point in my life where I just want to see individuals that I connect with and that I get along with and that appreciate who I am and I appreciate them or who they are. And we just have a really great time together. Next question.

Has anyone ever tried to make an exclusive arrangement with you? Of course. I am originally from the sugar baby world. So I have been in arrangements before and I really did not like them.

Ellis (05:44.366)
I feel like an arrangement with the right person could be really good. And I am definitely open to having an arrangement with someone. An exclusive arrangement I'm not too sure about because that would be rather expensive, but you know, I'm open to it. If anybody wants to have an arrangement with me, please let me know. What's next?

Ellis (06:12.622)
Have you ever caught feelings for a client? If so, did you change anything about your interaction with them? A couple of years ago, I did see like a younger client and I considered maybe seeing him off the clock, but I knew that was bad. So no, we did not do that. I do have a few close clients that I'm very fond of. And I do have one client that we talk about our emotions and how we're feeling and things of that nature. I feel when you do have genuine feelings or love or a connection with a client, most good clients know where the boundaries are. We know this is a business arrangement and if we both decide that we want to see each other outside of the arrangement, maybe that can happen. I haven't had that happen personally, but I am close with some of my really good clients that have been with me for a couple years. We don't really change anything about the interactions. We just have a really good time when we're together. And I think it makes for better quality time together. Next question.

One thing you can't survive without? Money! Money makes the world go round. It's the truth. I can't live without money. I can't pay bills, pay my rent, you know, anything. Get to where I'm going. So that's one thing I definitely can't live without. And then if we're going to do like a little fun, one thing you can't live without the second would be music.

I can't stand the sound of silence. Well, let me take that back. I love like being alone and by myself and enjoying my own company and silence in that way. But I usually have to play a music at least once a day. Like there has to be music somewhere. Like the fact that I don't have music on this podcast because I cannot figure out how to introduce it

Ellis (08:36.206)
into this new software I have bugs the crap out of me if you've listened to earlier episodes of exclusively yours. Let's see.

Ellis (08:47.726)
What are your plans this weekend? I'm going to Las Vegas this weekend.

Ellis (08:55.982)
How old do you want to be when you get married? That's such an interesting question because how do you know I'm not already married? Mystery, mystery. I don't even know if I really want to get married. Being in this job, you just see a lot of things and I would love to be in like a committed relationship with someone, but I don't know if marriage is exactly for me. If it happens, it happens, we'll say.

Ellis (09:27.662)
Not going to answer that because there's some weird questions in here.

Ellis (09:43.374)
Okay, so this is the original question that was asked of me that made me want to record a podcast. Would you say your mentality and attitude have changed from when you started? So as I said previously, sugar baby background, back then I was just trying to supplement my income. I didn't have any real direction. I was just trying to get by.

Now that I have a little bit of direction and I'm older, I would say that things have most definitely changed for the better. Now it's about longevity and now it's about forging the connections that will last like months or years versus just seeing somebody and you know, getting the money and moving on to the next client or the next sugar daddy or the next potential or pot like we call them or used to call them. So I would say definitely that my mentality and attitude have changed. I've always had a positive outlook on all of this. I did get burnt out around like 2019, 2020, 21.

Ellis (11:08.59)
I saw a lot of clients that were not like aligned with the goal, the end goal that I had, which is to always just connect with people that see me for me and then we figure out what we do together. So I would definitely say that my outlook, mentality and attitude have changed from when I started. Let's see what's next.

Ellis (11:37.518)
Do you ever think about clients randomly and want to communicate with them if not booked right then? If so, do you? Do you ever think about clients? Okay. Yeah, I do think about my clients randomly, but that's usually like clients that I've seen like a few times. I'm like, oh yeah, I wonder if so -and -so is gonna book. Like you usually have some indication.

When a client will book, like I have some clients that will see me quarterly or some clients that'll see me like twice a year or some clients that'll see me when I fly to their city. So sometimes I do think about them, but like I usually don't reach out. There are very few individuals that I am comfortable reaching out to. And discretion in this industry is important, right?

Like you want to be discreet, especially there are men who are married or in relationships and have significant others. So you can't always reach out when you want to. And I have sent like an email to a client before I'm like, yeah, what's up? Or like, yeah, I'm in your city. And like, I've been left on read before it's happened. So that is the answer to your question. It's very few individuals that I will reach out to.

For the most part, I think that clients should just reach out to the provider when you're ready to book, because that's the beauty of this industry. It's like no strings attached. Like when you want to meet up, we meet up. Next question. Do you have a plan for when you are done, make a specific amount or hit a certain age and quit? Or will it just be whenever you get a feeling? Okay.

Uh, if you fail to plan, you plan to fail. Ooh, I used to have that on my website. I don't know if I still have that on my website in regards to going to going to be able to book ahead, um, with me because I'm busy. I have stuff to do. Okay.

Ellis (13:49.582)
Do I have a plan? Okay. My plan is to retire when I feel like the ancestors have shown me that I have done the work that I was supposed to do with these men, with the clients, and that is when I will stop.

So there is no certain age, there is no certain amount, there's no like thing. I mean, because you can be 60 or 70 and still be a sex worker or an escort, like age is nothing but a number, a specific amount, that would be great. But like, life is still expensive. So what did I say on Instagram? I said, when life stops becoming so expensive or when the ancestors tell me to stop, like.

They whisper to me, child enough, okay? That is when I will quit.

Ellis (14:43.054)
Okay, I really like this one and I kind of want to go back to my Instagram and read what I wrote. Single most mistake guys make on a date is what? The single most mistake I feel personally, and a lot of people might disagree with this, a lot of providers might disagree with this and a lot of clients might disagree with this, but I feel like your mistake is in booking one hour or less with a new provider and expecting fireworks.

you're not going to get like a great experience or a feel for who a person is or get a good first impression of a person in 60 minutes. That's just my personal opinion and my personal experience. There are like a ton of people on these recent ex or Twitter threads that say they love booking hour appointments. Hourly clients are not my clients, those are not my people.

I feel it just puts way too much pressure on the client to perform and both the provider to perform. I'm gonna look and see exactly, I'm gonna read exactly what I put on Instagram because I feel like it was a little bit better.

Ellis (16:07.214)
Alright, alright, where is it, where is it, where is it?

Ellis (16:13.742)
Okay, so this is what I put on Instagram. I think a mistake is booking one hour with someone new and expecting fireworks, like I just said. It's such a short amount of time to relax, be intimate, and make lasting impression that's beyond a purely physical experience. Sure, it's great to be service oriented, but I'd like to make a difference, or I'd like to think that I made a difference in your day or even in your life.

For this reason, I priced my one hour extremely high and I also do not participate in repeat culture. So every single client that I've had that's stuck with me for a year or so or more, they've always booked a longer appointment first. I've never had like a repeat client come from a one hour booking.

Ellis (17:02.574)
I suppose that's relative because some people love one hour bookings. They love to get the client in and out and in and out. You can see more clients that way. It's personally, it's just not for me. Next question.

Ellis (17:25.422)
any clients that you've had to turn down after you see their package. All right. This is a little on the risque side to answer, but everything is subjective. I've never really had that issue before.

So there's your answer.

Ellis (17:48.622)
Ideal vacation destination. See, I didn't answer this on Instagram because there's way too many. So it depends on the time of year, but an ideal vacation for me is a beach vacation or any vacation where there's water. So say a mountain vacation or a vacation in the mountains where there's a lake. Excellent. I recently just said I wanted to go to Banff. I would love, like really, really, really love to do that. Let's see, a beach vacation.

Hmm. Mexico is always a good choice. Turks and Caicos is another favorite of mine. You know, they just opened the Tulum airport. I can't forget to mention that. Let's see what else. There's a few other places I feel like that Puerto Rico is another great place. And then we can get into Europe. That would be an amazing vacation.

Let's see. Next question.

Ellis (18:53.39)
Has being face out ever led to someone knowing who you were in a non -sex work setting? Okay. So if you recognize me from sex work and you're not paying me, you don't see me. Do you feel me? Do you get me? Do you get what I'm putting down? So if you see me and you recognize me, that means you most likely paid me because I don't know how someone would recognize me.

without having paid me or seen me in person. Also, if you see me and recognize me, that also means you're looking for hookers. Need I say more? It's never happened.

I'm not that important. No one cares. Promise.

Ellis (19:47.886)
Oh, this is a good question. What's the biggest goal you want to accomplish in 2024? The biggest goal I like to accomplish in 2024 is to align all of the things within my brand. So I've got something special that is coming up soon, but I'm not going to. I don't really want to talk about it yet because it's still in the works. So that is

really the biggest goal is just to align everything in the brand and reach more clients, get to network with more providers, sex workers, anybody inside and outside of this industry. That is my ultimate goal. And also I am working with PS Group as a brand strategist. So that's another great thing. If you need any help with branding, please

Please, please let us know at PSGroup.

Let's see what else.

Okay, so this one was really, it threw me for a loop a little bit. Okay. How has business gotten slow since DEI became part of the conversations?

Ellis (21:13.102)
All right, so let's talk about DEI, shall we? I'm sure many of you know what DEI is. It's diversity, equality or equity and inclusion. I always get the E's mixed up.

Ellis (21:30.99)
Equity, yes, not equality. Equity. So diversity, equity and inclusion. I pulled this from Google. Diversity, equity, inclusion is based on the idea that recruiting and supporting workers of various backgrounds is integral to a company's success. I'm sorry, it makes me giggle. It encompasses policies and initiative designed to help all employees feel welcomed and equipped to perform their jobs at a high level. Okay. So for as long as I...

Can't remember I've been black.

I hate to say it like, okay, for as long as I can remember, I've been black and for as long as I can remember, I've always spoken about my experiences in the industry. So it's not new to me that I'm talking about this. We don't have a union, we're not regulated, we're not organized or anything like that. So we don't have, this market doesn't have DEI. What I talk about is,

that Black Companions do not get paid as much as White Companions do or are counterparts, mainly White Companions. That is a known fact. You can ask a Black Companion. You can ask any Black Companion. It takes a lot, a lot, a lot of work to command higher rates as a Black Companion. So I talk about it. I don't know why you would think business has gotten slow since I've spoken about it.

I'm still black. So there's not anything, you know, that's hindering people from booking me. People will still book me if they want to book me. I'm just not going to be the top choice. What I do is just bring attention and awareness to the situation. And I want people to think about the choices that they've made and the providers that they see and the preferences and biases that they have. So hopefully that answers the question. I'm not sure if it does or not.

Ellis (23:30.958)
I mean, it hasn't done anything for me. It hasn't slowed down my business. I've gotten better clients.

Ellis (23:41.07)
I don't know what else to say about that. I've gotten better clients since I've raised my rates. So if I'm not the first person to do it and make room for other people.

who are coming after me or people who are priced lower than me, I'll be the first one to do it. I don't mind it. Like I'll cut into my income. I don't mind it. If that means that I'm going to see clients that are more aligned with the vision that I have for myself, then so be it. All right, next question.

Ellis (24:22.862)
Jodeci or boys to men? Okay, I answered this on Twitter. So I said, are we drinking first? If we're drinking liquor, then definitely Jodeci. And if we are drinking wine, then it is boys to men. I'm sure y 'all get the vibes, okay? Are you a member of the Mile High Club? Yes, I am. And I will not comment any further for free. Let's see.

Are you open -minded to kinks like face farting and foot fetishes when booked? All right, y 'all, I call myself high -def girlfriend, girlfriend. Like not kinky girlfriend, not anything like that. I'm just a girlfriend, you know, I'm pretty vanilla, like in my normal life too. So no, I'm not gonna, what was it? Face farting? Absolutely not. Now feet, that's a different thing. Those are two ends of the spectrum.

Like, please pay for my pedicure and play with my toes. I do not care. I can put my whole foot in your mouth if that's what you want, okay? Like, that's not an issue. Like, a feet thing is so fun for me. But nobody ever says they have a foot fetish. But if you like straight up come to me and you just like want me to put my feet on your face and fart in your mouth, mouth? Feet, fart, mouth, oh my God. Like, I just can't even.

separate everything. Like, I'm not gonna do that. But like, if you wanna like suck my toes, I'm all for it. But I'm definitely not gonna suck your toes, okay? Let's just make that clear.

Ellis (26:05.038)
Nas or Jay -Z? Okay, probably shouldn't have put this one in here, but I'm gonna have to go with Jay -Z first and Nas second. All right, I love Jay -Z so much. Growing up, I'm in middle school, big pimping was literally my ringtone on my phone. What do I know about big pimping? Could you just see like foreshadow that I was gonna be a hoe? I think so, it has to be.

And then I just saw Nas live in Napa Valley a couple months ago and that was amazing. So I love Nas too. Man, that's a hard choice, but a really good question. Understanding, okay, this one, this one, this one, this one, this question. Understanding it's a job, do you ever get anything out of bedroom activity at work other than money? Okay, so what a cringy question to ask.

So when you go to work, what do you wanna get out of work? Do you do a job that's rewarding to you? Do you just do a job for the money? Does anybody care if you just do a job for the money? I don't think there's anything wrong with just doing a job for the money. So I initially said I don't understand the question.

Ellis (27:29.87)
And then I feel like, okay, sorry, we'll try to word it better. Do you ever get physical pleasure out of paid dates or just the satisfaction that you're making money? Okay. I feel like this is subjective because it depends on the chemistry between the people. Okay. And chemistry usually takes time. Sometimes it's an instant thing. Sometimes two people just click and other times it'll take a few times to know, you know, get it going, get the fire going.

You know? And I'm just gonna be quite frank about sex in general. We're gonna take out the part about, we're gonna take out that part, okay? I'm not gonna say out loud what I mean. A lot of people overthink sex, in my opinion. I feel like in a previous life or maybe my next life, I'll be a sex therapist. A lot of people overthink sex. They're not in their body, they're in their head, okay?

We gotta get out of our head and we just gotta get into our own bodies and enjoy it for what it is.

Does that answer your question? Maybe. And as a person who like, if I didn't like sex, I wouldn't be doing this. Hello.

Ellis (28:49.454)
Especially since 2017 if I didn't like sex. I wouldn't be having sex period point blank, especially not with strangers Has anyone ever thought of that? Okay next question

Ellis (29:13.486)
Anyone done the rock climbing date yet? Never saw the rate on that. Okay, so if you don't know, I have a whole page dedicated to rock climbing dates to bouldering. There are a few gyms in my area and that's something that I'm interested in and I would like to do with a date. And yes, I have done one already. The rates are on the page. It literally says climbing dates and below is a button and it says, let's rock. Isn't that cute? I know it is, you're welcome.

So all you gotta do is click Let's Rock. It will take you to the rates page for rock climbing dates.

Ellis (29:55.278)
All right, this one is something I feel very passionate about. Can't wait to answer it. Ever thought about making BG, which is boy girl or Gigi, girl girl content? Okay, listen. Let me take a deep breath.

I don't want to. I am not a porn star. I will tell anybody any day of the week at any time, I am not a porn star. I am a companion. I do not want to film myself having sex and I do not want to publish it. I do not want that to be on the internet forever. Yeah, well, you show your face as a companion and as an escort. Yeah, that's completely different than having sex on camera.

Also, I had my little stint with that. It was not fun to like position a camera and then try to have sex in front of it. Also, people don't understand there's a lot of things that go into making content you have to find people to film content with. You also have to get tested for STDs frequently. And if nobody is up to date on like what is going on in the porn world, people are having like STDs, people are giving people STDs.

people are like faking STD results or men for the most part. It just seems like it's kind of part of it. It's just kind of toxic. I don't want to involve myself with that. I don't want to have to find like talent to like film with. Like if I'm going to record sex, myself having sex, I want it to be like a freaky fun for your eyes only sex tape for me and the person that I'm with. That's how sex tapes in.

intimate things of that nature are. So no, I don't want to feel porn. And if somebody asks me one more time, I swear to God, I don't want to, I don't want to, I don't want to. I just want to be an escort. Like I love being an escort. I do not want to be a porn star. Like I'm fascinated with porn stars and strippers, but that is one thing I just do not want to do. Tried it, didn't like it, moving on.

Ellis (32:08.398)
Okay, this one was weird to me. How often do hotel, bar, and restaurant staff feel the need to signal they know the situation? Nobody cares. Why do you think people care about what we do? You cannot tell me that I'm like a hook, I don't have like a blaring scarlet letter on my chest or on my forehead that I'm a hooker. I'm just like a normal person and I'm having dinner or I'm having a drink. Like I'm not wearing like the pretty woman thigh high boots or the wig.

or bright makeup, like I'm just like a normal person and like I'm a hooker, all right? I just happen to be a hooker, happen to be an escort. Nobody really cares, like also I could be like in an age gap relationship with a man and most of the time it just looks like a business meeting because I'm wearing an engagement ring or wedding ring set, especially if my client is married, that's a little hint, little tip for some of y 'all, putting y 'all on game, all right?

Like, come on, nobody cares. Like, and I'm not wanting to like freestyle and go out. Like, so this is what I say to do when you go out, please treat your service staff very well and tip them. That's all they want. They just want to be treated nicely because you just never know what kind of day someone is having. And they just want to make money. At the end of the day, they're people too. I'm working and they're working. It's not a big deal.

I thought that was such an odd question.

Ellis (33:47.918)
Okay, this one is a little bit serious. Okay, ever felt unsafe with a client? Okay, absolutely not. I probably have been in like a situation back when I was new where I was just nervous. Now this is before, when I listened to what everyone else was saying to screen with references, I remember in my first year of being an escort,

I saw a client I did not know his real name and I had diarrhea up until the moment I met him. That was not a good experience for me. So I'd say maybe that would probably be the only reason or the only situation or scenario where I felt I didn't feel unsafe. I just felt like nervous. I just I didn't feel right in my body doing that, like seeing a client and not knowing exactly who he was. And that is why today that's that's why I scream.

So I don't ever put myself in that position where I'm going to feel unsafe with a client. And if anybody is ever in that situation, please do what you can to get through the appointment or just leave.

Just leave. It's not worth it.

Ellis (35:02.286)
Date dining options. Would you rather have great food at a casual restaurant or okay food at a really high -end chic restaurant? No, I'm a girl that likes food. I really am passionate about two things, sex and food, all right? I don't talk about sex a whole lot, but I will talk about food, okay? Because I'm a lady. Lady in the streets, freak in the sheets.

So it doesn't really matter where we go as long as the food is good and the company is even better. So the date is about you. It's not about the food. Do you ever think about that? And then they elaborated on this question. I thought.

Dating Dining Options Part Two, any kind of food that you are not that into. No, I'm not picky. I am in my 30s. I'm grown, I'm gonna eat whatever. And I love to try new things. So I don't have any issues with trying like, I'm like thinking, is there anything that I haven't tried before? Oh, the one thing that I will not eat is uni. I think it's disgusting. Like I have tried to eat it. I don't know, it's the consistency.

or the color. I don't understand the hype around uni. Okay, that's sea urchin if you don't know what I'm talking about. So gross. Oh, God. Oh, but I do like my favorite foods are Mexican food, Italian food, Mediterranean food, Italian food, all food. Oh, my goodness. And if you follow me, I just had a really nice dinner with one of my long time regulars and we

I pick the restaurant and he usually picks the restaurant when we get together, but he is really, I think he's really happy with our choice. And I swear we had the world's best Caesar salad. All right, next question.

Ellis (37:08.526)
Okay, this one came in when I just started to record. If you have a hunch about something affecting someone else, do you tell them about it beforehand or do you keep it to yourself? All right, I think it's really important here to read a person. So as a sex worker or an escort, most of the time we're really good at reading people. So read the person, their body language, what they're saying to you or what they're not saying, kind of read between the lines.

with that and go from there. Maybe you can tell them, maybe they're like very sensitive and you cannot tell them. But my approach usually is just to let the person open up and they'll tell you everything that you need to know.

How do you prevent burnout? All right. Y 'all are not gonna like the answer to this, okay? But you have to rest. You have to put yourself first. You have to make yourself and rest and recovery your priority. You have to stop taking the bookings. You have to stop taking the bookings that you do not like. You have to stop taking the bookings with the clients that you do not enjoy.

That is what burns us out.

Can I get an amen, an imaginary amen, okay? So when you see clients that you do not align with, clients that treat you poorly, clients that push boundaries, clients that put your health at risk, clients who short -chain you, clients who short your rate, this has all happened to me before. I've lived through it, I've been burnt out, and how you avoid it is just to cut the bullshit, basically, just cut the bullshit.

Ellis (38:55.406)
Leave the loser clients in the dust. Let them be dealt with by someone else. You don't have to do it. You don't have to put up with it. Okay? So that is the first step. Stop seeing shitty people or putting yourself in shitty positions. And I completely understand the situation with some survival sex workers. That is the only choice that they have. And I feel for people that are in that situation.

I mean, I've been through it myself, but you have to just cut, cut, cut the crap, take time to rest. And then you have to figure out what it is that you want to do moving forward. Who do you want to see? What types of dates do you enjoy the most? How can you market those types of dates to those types of individuals that you want to see? And you just got to live it. You got to walk the walk, talk the talk, even if you got to fake it until you make it. And that is how.

I prevent burnout. Also just be sure to take breaks. Take a break before you break your foot in someone's ass because I know how it feels sometimes. I see people posting the screenshots on Twitter, the text message conversations, the emails, the IDs. Like don't do that to your clients. Please don't. I mean.

Discretion is paramount. Like you want to be treated with respect, please treat your clients with respect, even if they are assholes. Just don't see them again.

That is how LS prevents burnout.

Ellis (40:32.814)
Okay, I got a new message in here. Okay, this is cute. Does your milkshake bring all the boys to the yard? I would like to, this is a perfect way to end this podcast. Oh my God, we're at 40 minutes. I am so sorry. This was not supposed to be like a long podcast, but like I've gotten so many questions and a lot of questions I didn't even read because they were stupid and childish and immature. Like,

What are you wearing? What color are your panties? Like really, y 'all? Absolutely not. Absolutely not going to answer that. But yes, I like to think that my milkshake does bring all the boys to the yard. And I can teach you, but I'd have to charge. So thank you for listening to my one shot of exclusively yours podcast. I cannot wait to see what the rest of the year holds. Oh, oh, and before I forget, if you are coming to Texas,

specifically to Dallas, Texas to see the eclipse on April 8th, please don't forget to support your local sex workers and buy a little bit of pussy, all right? All right. I'll talk to y 'all next time.