Morning Mantra: “Sometimes asking for help is the bravest thing you can do.”
Some people aren’t good at asking for help because they’re so used to being ‘the helper’. Throughout their life they’ve experienced an unbalanced give and take, so their instinct is usually “I’ll do it on my own.”
This is actually a trauma response. People that are afraid to ask for help have been let down by those that should be there for them so many times that they develop this attitude of self-reliance. They think this makes them stronger.
But, asking for help isn’t a sign of weakness. It’s a sign of strength. It shows you have the courage to be vulnerable and admit that you don’t know something or can’t do something on your own.
When you are vulnerable you open yourself up to authentic relationships, to learning something new. Even if you get let down by those you ask, you still gain knowledge of who you can trust with your vulnerability.
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Morning Mantra: “Sometimes asking for help is the bravest thing you can do.”
Some people aren’t good at asking for help because they’re so used to being ‘the helper’. Throughout their life they’ve experienced an unbalanced give and take, so their instinct is usually “I’ll do it on my own.”
This is actually a trauma response. People that are afraid to ask for help have been let down by those that should be there for them so many times that they develop this attitude of self-reliance. They think this makes them stronger.
But, asking for help isn’t a sign of weakness. It’s a sign of strength. It shows you have the courage to be vulnerable and admit that you don’t know something or can’t do something on your own.
When you are vulnerable you open yourself up to authentic relationships, to learning something new. Even if you get let down by those you ask, you still gain knowledge of who you can trust with your vulnerability.
#BeWillingToAsk#BeHappy #BeHorsey#BeHippie #HorseHippie#MorningMantra#inspirationalQuotes#MorningMotivation#Equestrian #HorseLover#QuotesToInspire#HorseHippieBrand#HorseHippieBoutique