The Divorced Dadvocate: Strategic Defense for Fathers
Being unprepared is how great fathers become weekend visitors. I ensure your mistakes don’t become your permanent reality.
The Divorced Dadvocate: Strategic Defense for Fathers is the essential operational briefing for men navigating the most high-stakes transition of their lives. In a family court system that rewards preparation, pattern, and restraint, this podcast serves as your Command Center for protecting your parental role and securing your children’s future.
Hosted by Jude Sandvall, each weekly briefing delivers mission-critical intelligence designed to help you navigate the "Decision Gap"—the critical time between court dates where your long-term influence as a father is either won or lost through tactical preparation or strategic drift.
Every episode provides the tactical advantage you need to:
- Identify Exposure Points: Pinpoint the subtle mistakes that lead to the "quiet loss" of your parental authority.
- Master Restraint: Develop the high-conflict emotional regulation required to remain calm and defensible under pressure.
- Execute Strategy: Move from reactive "hot mess" to a proactive Strategic Defense Blueprint.
- Bridge the Lawyer Gap: Learn to manage the daily communications and co-parenting precedents that your attorney isn’t designed to handle.
Since 2020, Jude has distilled thousands of hours of coaching and real-world case files into a primary resource for fathers who refuse to be sidelined. This is not just a podcast; it is your guide to paternal authority and role preservation.
Access full briefings and collective intelligence inside the Command Center: https://thedivorceddadvocate.com/
Stay strong—your kids are counting on you.
DISCLAIMER: The purpose of this podcast is to provide strategic information, not legal influence. It is not a substitute for professional legal or psychological care. The host and guests express their own tactical opinions and experiences; The Divorced Dadvocate neither endorses nor opposes specific views discussed.
Episodes
293 - How A Dad Beat Legal Gaslighting And Built A Better Life
292 - Build A Life That Backs You
291 - Love Is The Fuel, Skills Are The Steering Wheel
290 - Structure Over Strength
289 - New Year, Same Chaos, Better Plan
288 - What If The Pain Is Your Path To Becoming The Dad Your Kids Need
287 - When The Truth Hurts Your Child More Than A Lie
286 - Life 2.0 After Divorce
285 - Half Your Decisions Are Trash Right Now, Here’s The Fix
284 - Your Ex Pressed Send; Your Brain Pressed Panic—Now What?
283 - The Infection Stage Before Parental Alienation
282 - REPLAY: 6 Practical Ways To Reduce Holiday Stress During Divorce
281 - REPLAY: Stoicism For Divorcing Dads
280 - How Privacy Policies Sideline Dads In Teen Healthcare
279 - What If The Bravest Thing Is To Keep Showing Up?
278 - Single Dad Money Reset
277 - REPLAY - Dads Matter: Authoritative Parenting
276 - What To Do Immediately After Being Served Divorce Papers
275 - What 43 False Allegations Taught One Father About Changing the System
274 - A Dad's Guide to Post-Divorce Romance
273 - Equal Custody: Data vs Dangerous Dad Narratives
272 - Why Every Divorcing Dad Needs a Divorce Coach
271 - The Paper Trail: How Documentation Saves Dads in Divorce
270 - The Truth About Guardian Ad Litems That Every Dad Needs to Know
269 - Don't Leave Money on the Table When Your Marriage Ends