My Inner Torch
My Inner Torch offers direct and personal insight with help for those of us in a relationship with someone who is undiagnosed/diagnosed with a Cluster B Personality Disorder. This is a safe place to come for words of inspiration that draw from my personal experiences and is produced to gain understanding and to find direction as we navigate through the often difficult relationships with those we love who suffer with a Cluster B personality disorder that includes BPD and NPD. PLEASE NOTE: This podcast is NOT for those who suffer with these disorders. This podcast is for survivors of these challenging and difficult relationships.
My Inner Torch
What are you sorry about?
As I reflect on my relationship with my partner whom I suspect to be a covert narcissist, I find myself shouldering the burden of her happiness, only to realize the futility in my efforts to make her happy. It’s a hard truth to accept that Cluster B's are fully aware of their actions and unlikely to change, no matter how much love we pour into the relationship.
I’ve struggled with the dual personas of my wife, questioning if Cluster B's are truly capable of love and empathy, given their tendencies towards manipulation and lack of emotional understanding. The traits of covert narcissists, such as gaslighting and manipulation, weigh heavily on my mind, underscoring the importance of not taking responsibility for their behavior.
I urge you not to blame yourself for your Cluster B's actions and to refrain from apologizing for them. It’s crucial to prioritize your well-being and set boundaries when dealing with individuals who exhibit such toxic behaviors.