Why Am I So Effing Stressed??!!

Episode 14: Fear the Frenemy

August 09, 2023 Annemarie Bell Episode 14
Episode 14: Fear the Frenemy
Why Am I So Effing Stressed??!!
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Why Am I So Effing Stressed??!!
Episode 14: Fear the Frenemy
Aug 09, 2023 Episode 14
Annemarie Bell

We know it’s been a while since the release of a new episode. You’re probably wondering why there has been so much radio silence over the past several months. With a sad and heavy heart, your host Annemarie had to say goodbye to her mother in May of this year. After spending time caring for her mother and enjoying precious moments with her family, she’s excited to be back and looks forward to all the episodes we have in the pipeline! 

Jumping into today’s episode, which we’ve titled Fear the Frenemy, we define the term “frenemy” and look at two keywords in the definition of fear: anticipation and awareness. We then dive into a discussion on the different flavors of fear and how our bodies respond to each of these “fear-cream cones.” Our conversation steers toward how to actively manage your fear and quiet your mind, and we share five steps to move your thoughts from the negative zone to the neutral zone. This is a jam-packed episode, filled with incredible insights into how fear functions and great tips on how to manage the fear in your life. If fear reigns supreme in your life, be sure to tune in to learn how to regain control, lengthen your lifespan, and improve your health and well-being on many levels!


Key Points From This Episode:

  • Why Annemarie took a break from podcasting (and a message to caregivers).
  • Why she refers to fear as her frenemy and what exactly a frenemy is. 
  • Two keywords in the definition of fear: anticipation versus awareness.
  • A discussion on the different flavors of fear and how our bodies respond.
  • Reasons we cannot eliminate fear from our lives completely. 
  • The importance of learning to actively manage our fear.
  • Ways that you can gain control back from fear by quieting your mind.
  • Tips for how you can quiet your mind.
  • A quick recap on the acronym, D-O-S-E.
  • The importance of writing down your thoughts.
  • Five steps to move your thoughts from the negative zone to the neutral zone.
  • The importance of articulating and writing down the fear. 
  • Why you should rationalize and “talk to” your fear.
  • A few final thoughts on sifting through your thoughts. 


Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:

Episode 2: What’s Happening Inside of Our Bodies When We Are Stressing Out?

Episode 9: Nature is the Ultimate Mind Spa

Annemarie Bell on Instagram

Annemarie Bell Email


Disclaimer

This podcast represents the opinions and views of Annemarie Bell and her guests. The content herein should not be taken or construed as medical advice or therapeutic services. Additionally, views and opinions expressed in the podcast are those of Annemarie Bell and/or her guests and do not represent those of her employer.

Show Notes

We know it’s been a while since the release of a new episode. You’re probably wondering why there has been so much radio silence over the past several months. With a sad and heavy heart, your host Annemarie had to say goodbye to her mother in May of this year. After spending time caring for her mother and enjoying precious moments with her family, she’s excited to be back and looks forward to all the episodes we have in the pipeline! 

Jumping into today’s episode, which we’ve titled Fear the Frenemy, we define the term “frenemy” and look at two keywords in the definition of fear: anticipation and awareness. We then dive into a discussion on the different flavors of fear and how our bodies respond to each of these “fear-cream cones.” Our conversation steers toward how to actively manage your fear and quiet your mind, and we share five steps to move your thoughts from the negative zone to the neutral zone. This is a jam-packed episode, filled with incredible insights into how fear functions and great tips on how to manage the fear in your life. If fear reigns supreme in your life, be sure to tune in to learn how to regain control, lengthen your lifespan, and improve your health and well-being on many levels!


Key Points From This Episode:

  • Why Annemarie took a break from podcasting (and a message to caregivers).
  • Why she refers to fear as her frenemy and what exactly a frenemy is. 
  • Two keywords in the definition of fear: anticipation versus awareness.
  • A discussion on the different flavors of fear and how our bodies respond.
  • Reasons we cannot eliminate fear from our lives completely. 
  • The importance of learning to actively manage our fear.
  • Ways that you can gain control back from fear by quieting your mind.
  • Tips for how you can quiet your mind.
  • A quick recap on the acronym, D-O-S-E.
  • The importance of writing down your thoughts.
  • Five steps to move your thoughts from the negative zone to the neutral zone.
  • The importance of articulating and writing down the fear. 
  • Why you should rationalize and “talk to” your fear.
  • A few final thoughts on sifting through your thoughts. 


Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:

Episode 2: What’s Happening Inside of Our Bodies When We Are Stressing Out?

Episode 9: Nature is the Ultimate Mind Spa

Annemarie Bell on Instagram

Annemarie Bell Email


Disclaimer

This podcast represents the opinions and views of Annemarie Bell and her guests. The content herein should not be taken or construed as medical advice or therapeutic services. Additionally, views and opinions expressed in the podcast are those of Annemarie Bell and/or her guests and do not represent those of her employer.