Becoming Her: Raw & Real
We are two widows on a mission to shatter the stigma of "the good Christian girl." No topic is off limits. Our hope is to help women solidify their identity and self-worth in Christ and become women who will not just survive, but flourish and change their world!
Episodes
40 episodes since 2022
Season 3, Episode 10: Barren/Spiritual Moms
There's nothing quite like not being able to have children to shake your faith in yourself AND your faith in God. In this episode, we chat with our dear friend Lisa Santelli, who through her own journey of infertility, has found a ...
September 08, 2023
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32:22
Season 3, Episode 9: Mom Wars w/Ann Billo
Are you comparing your journey of motherhood with other moms on social media? Are you tired of the mom guilt and the mom wars around you?Listen in as we chat with Ann Billo, mom of 9, about how she maintains her sanity! We learn practica...
September 01, 2023
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Season 3
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Episode 9
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38:26
Season 3, Episode 8: Real Life as a Special Needs Mom w/Rori Braum
Life as a special needs momma is not what you may think. Today we sit down with our dear friend Rori, to discuss the good, the great and the hard of being a special needs momma. We also learn how to best support our friends and eve...
August 25, 2023
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Season 3
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Episode 8
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45:08
Season 3, Episode 7 - Single Moms: The Real Heroes
Moms, in general, often feel alone. Imagine not having a partner, family, or a community to help. Today we hear Katie Cartner’s story about how she not only survived motherhood as a single mom, but found strength, community, and purpose bey...
August 18, 2023
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Season 3
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Episode 7
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36:46
Season 3, Episode 6: Empty Nesting & Parenting Adult Kids
Whether you are looking forward to it or dreading it, coming home to an empty house brings with it a well of emotions, realizations, and the all-consuming thought --- Now what?In today's episode, we welcome Kathy Cunningham, Christian Co...
August 11, 2023
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38:30
Season 3, Episode 5: Mom's Sandwiched Between Two Generations
Are you in the middle of caring for your children and caring for your parents? Do you struggle with boundaries? Experience feelings of guilt for not doing more? Are you torn between time with your kids and your parents? Is the financial b...
August 04, 2023
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Season 3
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Episode 5
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37:41
Season 3, Episode 4: Help! I Have a Teenager!
We believe it is possible not just to survive the teen years but to thrive. It's a beautiful time when as parents, we have the honor of helping them prepare for adulthood.On today’s episode, we get to speak with Candy Peake, a mom...
July 28, 2023
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33:50
Season 3, Episode 3: New Mom! Now What?
When you become a mom, it leaves no woman as if found her. It unravels her and rebuilds her. It cracks her open, takes her to the very edge of herself. It's both beautiful and brutal at the same time.Being a mom is a round-the-clock job....
July 21, 2023
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Season 3
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Episode 3
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34:39
Season 3, Episode 2: The Invisible Mom (w/Kayla Embrey)
TRIGGER WARNING... On today’s show we will be navigating a hard but necessary conversation around miscarriage. MOMMAS, YOU ARE NOT ALONE! It happens more often than you would think and it needs to be talked about. In the studio tod...
July 14, 2023
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Season 3
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Episode 2
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31:37
SEASON 3, EPISODE 1: Mom's Mental Health
We ALL desire to be a good mom, but what we don't stress enough is that a good mom starts with a healthy mom. As we kick off the first episode of Season 3: #Momlife, we have invited our dear friend and favorite Christian Counselor, Kathy ...
July 07, 2023
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Season 3
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Episode 1
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34:28
S2.E14: SEASON 2 FINALE - Creative Rest
Do you want a life that is peaceful, productive, and full? Seems impossible in such a fast-paced society with crazy busy schedules. But, this season of Becoming Her we have learned that rest is not as fleeting as it seems. No matter how crazy y...
April 21, 2023
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Season 2
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Episode 14
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38:17
S2 E13: Sensory Rest
In an overstimulated, overproductive and overtired society, the one thing we need is rest. But how? How do we add yet another thing "to do" on our already excessive to-do list? Well, the good news is, it's SO much easier than you think.
April 07, 2023
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Season 2
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Episode 13
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36:51
S2.E12: Social Rest pt. 2
What do you think of when you hear the term "social rest?" Solitude? Unplugging from social media? Eliminating the noise in your life? Whelp, it's none of those things. Not in this chapter anyway. The truth is, we were not ma...
March 31, 2023
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Season 2
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Episode 12
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21:34
S2.E11: Social Rest pt. 1
What do you think of when you hear the term "social rest?" Solitude? Unplugging from social media? Eliminating the noise in your life? Whelp, it's none of those things. Not in this chapter anyway. The truth is, we were not ma...
March 24, 2023
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Season 2
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Episode 11
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26:58
S2.E10: Spiritual Rest (pt. 2)
On episode 2 of Spiritual Rest, we will continue our conversation by sharing our own personal experiences and help you uncover the signs of spiritual unrest in your own life. You don’t want to miss this episode because Joyce drops a bomb on us ...
March 17, 2023
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Season 2
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Episode 10
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30:34
S2.E9: Spiritual Rest pt. 1
Where is God when I hurt?How can a loving God allow this?Life’s trials can cause these questions to bubble up and pour out of our mouths. When life punches us in the gut we can be left with anger towards God, a lack of belief in God and...
March 10, 2023
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Season 2
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Episode 9
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22:22
S2.E8: Emotional Rest pt. 2
Just because it’s good, doesn’t mean it’s God. What are some of the signs that you may be suffering from emotional rest deficit? In part 2 of "Emotional Rest," we unpack further the decisions we make everyday that deplete our emoti...
March 03, 2023
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Season 2
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Episode 8
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27:09
S2.E7: Emotional Rest (pt 1)
Are your emotions depleted? Are you saying yes to everything? Where are you spending your emotional energy? Between what's going on in the world and what's going on in our own lives, we have SO much coming against us. In...
February 24, 2023
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Season 2
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Episode 7
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25:20
S2.E6: Mental Rest (pt. 2)
In today's world of information overload, how do we learn to quiet our minds? How do we shut off the mental noise? In part 2 of mental rest, we will continue our conversation and find out how to: 1. Evaluate our current po...
February 17, 2023
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Season 2
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Episode 6
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22:22
S2.E5: Mental Rest (pt. 1)
The New Year is often a time when many of us deep clean or declutter our homes. There is just something about clearing out our physical spaces that leads to a feeling of refreshing... a lightness. We love the peace that comes with a freshly org...
February 10, 2023
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Season 2
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Episode 5
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24:09
S2.E4: Physical Rest
Do you find yourself worn out, exhausted, wishing you could just go on a permanent vacation? Just because the world is running at 100% doesn’t mean we have to!! Today we will dive into the FIRST of 7 types of rest: Physical rest. And no...
February 03, 2023
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Season 2
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Episode 4
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36:09
S2E3: The Lie of Striving w/Renee Scott (pt. 2)
Ok girls get ready for part 2 of Striving with Renee Scott! We know that God has called us to rest in Him and to know that He is in control, but we also have an enemy who wants to disrupt our rest and kick us into striving.
January 27, 2023
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Season 2
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Episode 3
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28:45
S2E2: The Lie of Striving w/Renee Scott (pt. 1)
According to statistics, the self-improvement market size is expected to reach $14.0 billion by 2025. And the average consumers are women in their 40s. Wow! I’m pretty sure every single one of us has contributed to this statistic… ...
January 20, 2023
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Season 2
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Episode 2
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29:31
S2E1: Rest Resolutions for 2023 with Pat Layton
Happy New Year, friends and WELCOME to the season 2 premier of BH! What comes to mind when you think of the New Year? How do you usually approach the start of a fresh new year? Do visions of planners, vision boards, and highlighter...
January 13, 2023
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Season 2
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Episode 1
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31:51
Episode 16: Hope Part 2 - Perspective (SEASON FINALE)
"The positive thinker sees the invisible, feels the intangible and achieves the impossible." - Winston ChurchillWhat narrative are you playing and replaying in your brain? What is really behind the power of perspective?Why ...
December 16, 2022
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Season 1
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Episode 16
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23:45