SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIPS ARE ABOUT GIVING YOUR PARTNER WHAT THEY NEED, WANT & DESIRE.My personal relationship philosophy is no more complex than the above statement.  Give your partner want your partner wants.  C...

10 BDSM Skills That Can Inform All Relationships : 06 - Own Each Other! / Or, How Relationships Die!Owning a human being is a concept that is a bit out of date by normal standards.As with all things in the BD...

ANNOUNCING NEW IN-PERSON, 7-DAY RETREAT.  IN CYPRUS!  FEBRUARY ’25.I’m very excited to be announcing a new Intensive BDSM Retreat that I will be offering, starting in February 2025.  The worksh...

TALKING TO MY FRIEND JENELLE - A GRADUATE OF OUR PRIESTESS TRAINING.Janelle came into the Priestess Training with little to no knowledge about BDSM, and with very little connection to her own Dominant or submissive archetypes....

DO WOMEN NEED TO BE KEPT IN CHECK?Not all women.  But the women who have the desire for being in a hierarchical relationship should understand this point : One of the functions and responsibilities of th...

MEN - DON’T TRY TO PARTNER WITH A WOMAN WHO DOESN’T NEED YOU!Men need to be needed.  Men want to be useful.Men’s esteem is intricately connected to them making themselves into the kind of men who ...

Speaking on various topics related to BDSM, eros and man-woman relating.

What is a Reclaimed Woman - with Kelly Brogan MDKelly discusses her new book, The Reclaimed Woman which unpacks bitterness and resentment of the modern day woman through rich narratives and thoughtful critiqu...

ASK A PRODOMME!Conversation with Geraecka Lyonns about:The cathartic possibilities in BDSM play.Architecting humiliation play.Releasing shame and guilt through punishment s...

REGAINING OUR EDGE AS MEN - PODCAST WITH DANIELE WHITEIn this conversation, Daniel and Om Rupani discuss the concept of masculinity and the importance of men finding their edge. They address the false eq...

UPCOMING COURSES WITH LEAH PIPER. SACRAMENTO; MAY 10-12.Leah and I discuss the possibilities in both the tantric and BDSM traditions.  We will be teaching a new course titled : MAKING SEX DIRTY AGAIN, that will offer the ...

GRADUATES OF PRIESTESS TRAINING SHARING ABOUT THIER EXPERIENCEThe next run of Priestess Training starts on June 22.Several of our graduates share here about their experience with the course....

10 BDSM SKILLS THAT CAN INFORM ALL RELATIONSHIPS : 05 - END YOUR SCENE!Long-term couples are often struggling with recapturing the spark they felt with each other during the beginning of their connections.Reg...

MEN SHOULD RESIST THE URGE TO SPEAK & ACT ANONYMOUSLY IN THIS WORLD***************UPCOMING COURSE FOR MEN —-DISMANTLING THE NICE GUY IDENTITY :

THE SHADOW SIDE OF NICE GUY IDENTITY*(This is part of the module from the upcoming course DISMANTLING THE NICE GUY IDENTITY)Nice guys aren’t all that nice, it turns out.Nice guys are often h...

NEW COURSE ON DARK EROS WITH LEAH PIPER!I’m very excited to be collaborating with Leah Piper for a new course that will allow the participants to investigate the darker, more troublesome and ‘NO’ element of their Eros.<...

PODCAST WITH DANIEL COETSEE ABOUT THE NICE GUY IDENTITYA conversation about modern masculinity and the Nice Guy scenario that seems so wide-spread in our culture today.I have 2 upcoming courses for men to add...

Q&A about upcoming Priestess TrainingLauren and I discuss some of the aspects of this in-depth training and take questions from women considering joining us for the next run, which starts in June.COURSE P...

RELAUNCHING THE PRIESTESS TRAINING IN JUNEThis is the most advanced and in-depth BDSM training I offer for people who want to deepen this exploration for themselves and bring it to others for whom they want to hold space.<...

CONVERSATION ABOUT UPCOMING CLASSES IN BOULDERI’ll be doing a Demo and Q&A on BDSM this Friday 3/22/24.REGISTRATION PAGE :

PODCAST WITH LEAH PIPER & DR. WILLOW BROWNAnother lively conversation with these two delightful, amazing women.  We talk about many things having to do with modern man-woman relating and eros.Our con...

MAN - WOMAN & BDSM CONVERSATION ABOUT UPCOMING CLASSES IN BOULDERI will be doing a talk on BDSM principles along with a live demo in Boulder on Friday, March 22, 2024.Following that, I will be teaching a ...

WHY WOMEN DON’T HAVE AN INNER MASCULINE : IF YOU DID, YOU WOULD HAVE SOME NATIVE UNDERSTANDING OF WHAT IT IS TO BE A MAN — WHICH YOU DON’T!The idea that certain energies and activities are masculine or feminine, and therefore ...

A MAN’S SUGGESTIONS ON HOW WOMEN MAY BE MORE FEMININE: 01 - GIVE UP YOUR INNER MASCULINEMore and more women are writing to me these days, asking how they might step more into their feminine.I thought about th...

10 BDSM SKILLS THAT CAN INFORM ALL RELATIONSHIPS : 04 - FIND YOUR DOM RIGHTFind your Dom right.Find your Man right.Find your Leader right.These can be guiding principles for navigatin...