Out Here Tryna Survive
Out Here Tryna Survive is a trauma-informed, reflective podcast centering the emotional lives, resilience, and humanity of Black women — especially those of us navigating midlife, healing, motherhood, and healing after survival.
Hosted by Grace Sandra — Mama, storyteller, advocate, and lifelong student of survival — this podcast explores what it feels like to live in a world that constantly demands our strength while offering little protection.
Through personal storytelling, cultural reflection, and nervous-system-aware conversations, each episode holds space for truth, grief, joy, rage, softness, and repair.
This is not a place for perfection or performance. It’s a place for us as Black women to exhale, feel seen, and remember ourselves.
We are braver than we believe ✨
Out Here Tryna Survive
Latest Episodes
Ep 54: Your Body Knows What You Need. Are You Listening?
Your body is not subtle forever. Sometimes it whispers through curiosity, tension, or that weird tiredness you can’t “push through.” Sometimes it yells through burnout, shutdown, or the kind of restlessness that makes you question everything. I...
Ep 53: The Real Problem isn't Being a Pick-Me. It's Self-Abandonment
A single line on a reality show can expose a lifetime of conditioning. After watching Love Island’s most explosive moments, we sit with the gut-punch of hearing someone plead to be chosen and ask the real question behind all the viral “pick me”...
Epi 52: I Almost Quit My Dream Because I Was In A Hormonal Crash
One glance at my Apple Podcasts stats had me ready to throw the whole dream away. I filmed a full “I’m quitting” rant, cried real tears, and convinced myself it was bravery and honesty when it was actually a crash: PMDD, perimenopause, and plai...
Ep 51: Banish The Fantasy Of Male Protection
Subscribe to my Substack: https://substack.com/@outheretrynasurviveGet the Out Here Tryna Survive Journal: https://stan.store/GraceSandraBusiness Inquiries: OutHereTrynaSurvive@gmail.comA man knows where you live, and sudde...
Ep 50: My 50 Best Lessons On Sex, Healing & Survival in my 50th Year!
Fifty lessons. Three themes. Zero sugarcoating. I’m celebrating a huge personal milestone with a rapid-fire list of what I’ve learned about sex, healing, and survival while rebuilding my life and learning to trust my body again.We start...