Shyt They Didn't Tell Us
Come into the room, take a seat, and get REAL comfy. Join childhood friends, Trina Cain and Dr. Jasmonae Joyriel, as they sort through this journey called life. Listen in as they dive into conversations about careers, relationships, money, life, and shyt they just weren't told. But now they are figuring it out and want to build a community so that you can too. They don't have it all together, they don't have all the answers, but they've learned more than a few things along the way!
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Episodes
46 episodes
A Nightmare on Elm Street
Whether we like it or not, trauma impacts us in unimaginable and unpredictable ways. Join us this week as we peel back the layers of how we have confronted and healed through some of our trauma. In this episode we briefly discuss on sex...
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Season 3
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Episode 7
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1:07:21
Jungle Fever
Since the 1960s there has been a steady increase in interracial and intercultural relationships. What does it mean when you date someone who is racially or culturally different from you? This week we dive into our experiences with dating outsid...
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Season 3
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Episode 6
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1:07:35
Overboard
Do you live with your boo? This week dive into the twists and turns that come with moving in, sharing responsibilities, and protecting your personal space when you cohabitate with your significant other. Overboard (1987)Garry ...
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Season 3
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Episode 5
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1:03:34
All Dogs Go To Heaven
What does it really take to own a pet? This week we dive into the financial and emotional considerations that we have had to learn when it comes to being a good pet owner. Listen as we talk about our fur babies and all the ins and out of ...
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Season 3
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Episode 4
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1:06:14
Can't Buy Me Love
Are you frustrated with dating? This week we dive into what we've learned about dating, expectations, and that good 'ol perfect on paper that never seems to translate to real life. Find out what we've learned that's allowed us to date different...
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Season 3
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Episode 3
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1:12:55
Deadly Friend
This week we dive back into friendships and recognizing when it is time for friendships to end. How do you know if a friendship has hit its expiration date? Do you stay and try to make it work or do you let it go. Listen as we dig into the endi...
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Season 3
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Episode 2
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1:05:36
Breakfast Club
Come in and join us as we dive into body image. What is it? How does it impact your life experience and confidence? We pull back the curtain and explore our journey of learning to love our bodies. We share embarrassing, painful, and healing mom...
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Season 3
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Episode 1
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1:07:55
Weekend At Bernie's
Guess what? We're back for Season 3! That's right, come in and get comfortable as we dive even deeper into relationships, work, life, and more shyt they didn't tell us. This season we are digging into our vulnerability and bearing it all. ...
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Season 3
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Episode 1
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7:58
Every Little Step
Welcome back, come in and get comfortable! 20 more episodes?!?!?! Time flies when you're having fun! We will be back in a month ;) In the meantime catch up on the episodes you missed and stay tuned! Thank you for all the love, support and encou...
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Moments in Love
Welcome back, come in and get comfortable! In this episode we are talking about the changes in your love life. As we see a few more grays and experience a little more stiffness, has your love life aged? Have your wants and desires changed with ...
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1:08:37
I Wanna Dance With Somebody
Welcome back, come in and get comfortable! In this episode we are talking about how's it like dating while your older. We are no longer in our 20s and the dating scene is a bit different, LOL. Do you find it difficult dating beyond your early 3...
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1:09:57
She Works Hard For The Money
Welcome back, come in and get comfortable! In this episode we are talking about money and budgeting. Are you a natural at saving and budgeting or is it the burden of adulting? https://youtu.be/1GlJ1lFvkK4?si=3Q8Bn_lONhzy8z9HChec...
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1:10:40
Forever Young
Welcome back, come in and get comfortable! In this episode we are talking about getting older, embracing and enjoying the grays :) What is your perspective on aging, are you fighting it or loving it? https://youtu.be/mwG6g5boyF4?s...
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1:06:29
That's What Friends Are For
Welcome back, come in and get comfortable! In this episode we are talking about friend groups. Finding your tribe, the importance of having multiple groups, and how to nurture them. https://youtu.be/HyTpu6BmE88?si=-hHfU8J7JFsMHo-V
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1:14:28
Under Pressure
Welcome back, come in and get comfortable! In this episode we are talking about pivoting and adapting through life.https://youtu.be/a01QQZyl-_I?si=6VsEkt6qLHmkP5OMCheck JD's new mix, Lights, @jdlionmusic and www.jdlion.netLi...
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1:18:43
Don't Worry Be Happy
Welcome back, come in and get comfortable! In this episode we are talking seasonal blues. The days are shorter, lack of sunshine, stress of ending the year, not where you thought you should be.... blah, blah, blah. Life has been "lifing", it ca...
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1:01:19
Seasons Change
Welcome back, come in and get comfortable! In this episode we have the pleasure of speaking with Megan Joy. Megan is a wanderlusting wellness lover who has leaned into trusting her intuition to leave the predictable path. Living abr...
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Season 2
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Episode 22
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1:42:20
Drity Diana
Welcome back, come in and get comfortable! In this episode we discuss infidelity. What is your stance on the action, is it a dealbreaker for you? https://youtu.be/yUi_S6YWjZw?si=shPBkbEDP4tG7Di4Check JD's music, Evolve or ...
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1:11:14
Walk This Way
Welcome back, come in and get comfortable! In this episode we discuss meeting your partner's family. Is it quintessential for the relationship to have harmony between your families? Do you remember how it was meeting the family for the first ti...
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1:20:51
Papa Don't Preach
Welcome back, come in and get comfortable! Oh baby, baby, baby! Is the biological clock ticking for you? https://youtu.be/G333Is7VPOg?si=3m9Z2MIY9b7-vNKLCheck JD's music, Evolve or Die: The REmixes Parts 1 and 2, @jdlionmu...
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Season 2
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Episode 6
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1:18:40
Hit Me With Your Best Shot
Welcome back, come in and get comfortable! In this episode we talk about the importance of giving and receiving feedback in the bedroom. Are you shy to talk about what you want, or do you find it empowering? https://youtu.be/0JRgHol94Xc...
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Season 2
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Episode 5
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1:20:00
Never Going To Give You Up with JD Lion, pt. 2
Welcome back, come in and get comfortable! In this episode we continue our discussion with special guest, JD Lion! Joe Devadanam aka JD Lion is a professional drummer and producer based in Atlanta. For over 2o years, JD has played with many Ame...
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Season 2
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Episode 4
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1:19:05
Never Going To Give You Up with JD Lion, pt. 1
Welcome back, come in and get comfortable! In this episode we talk about not giving up with special guest, JD Lion! Joe Devadanam aka JD Lion is a professional drummer and producer based in Atlanta. For over 2o years, JD has played with many Am...
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Season 2
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Episode 3
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