What I Know So Far

18. “What If” Versus “What Is”

April 30, 2024 Lisa McNees
18. “What If” Versus “What Is”
What I Know So Far
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What I Know So Far
18. “What If” Versus “What Is”
Apr 30, 2024
Lisa McNees

The challenges of indulging in "what ifs" and seeking unnecessary information.

  • I explore the difference between "what is" and "what if" in life.
  • I share how I avoided Googling a scary “what if” medical condition, opting for a doctor's appointment instead.

Exploring "what ifs" in life and managing anxiety. 

  • I reflect on my ability to think through multiple possibilities and scenarios, sometimes to the point of catastrophizing.
  • I suggest exploring “what ifs” can be helpful in certain situations, like making big decisions or preparing for potentially challenging outcomes.

Managing anxiety through self-confidence and focusing on the present moment.

  • Indulging in "what ifs" and conversing with others about them occasionally leads to us feeling worse afterward, so gentle boundaries are needed. 
  • I suggest that sometimes inaction can lead to things working out, but also acknowledge the importance of effort and decision-making.
  • I reflect on the importance of being present in the moment and dealing with “what is” rather than getting caught up in “what ifs.”
  • I encourage listeners to remember they will handle whatever life throws their way.


Follow me on Instagram HERE and HERE.


Are you interested in 1:1 Coaching?  If so, I invite you to explore my website to discover how we can work together to achieve your goals and unlock your full potential -
LisaMcNees.com


Show Notes

The challenges of indulging in "what ifs" and seeking unnecessary information.

  • I explore the difference between "what is" and "what if" in life.
  • I share how I avoided Googling a scary “what if” medical condition, opting for a doctor's appointment instead.

Exploring "what ifs" in life and managing anxiety. 

  • I reflect on my ability to think through multiple possibilities and scenarios, sometimes to the point of catastrophizing.
  • I suggest exploring “what ifs” can be helpful in certain situations, like making big decisions or preparing for potentially challenging outcomes.

Managing anxiety through self-confidence and focusing on the present moment.

  • Indulging in "what ifs" and conversing with others about them occasionally leads to us feeling worse afterward, so gentle boundaries are needed. 
  • I suggest that sometimes inaction can lead to things working out, but also acknowledge the importance of effort and decision-making.
  • I reflect on the importance of being present in the moment and dealing with “what is” rather than getting caught up in “what ifs.”
  • I encourage listeners to remember they will handle whatever life throws their way.


Follow me on Instagram HERE and HERE.


Are you interested in 1:1 Coaching?  If so, I invite you to explore my website to discover how we can work together to achieve your goals and unlock your full potential -
LisaMcNees.com