When selecting elders, do we practice legalized gossip — and call it wisdom?In this episode, we examine one of the most accepted but unbiblical traditions in many congregations: “signed and secret objections” during elder selection....

What does it mean to love someone enough to ask gentle questions instead of making harsh accusations?Could we change the culture of our churches by learning how to listen, confront, and encourage without gossip?In this episode, ...

Do you have a safe place to speak openly — and be truly heard? What if you could meet regularly with people who understand your struggles and celebrate your victories? In this episode, I share how people meeting consistently can grow in...

Are we living with the consequences of the leaders we’ve shaped—or failed to shape?Have you ever wondered why toxic conflict lingers in churches, even after a problem person is gone?Could your family background be silently shapi...

Why is transition to new elders sometimes difficult, especially when a preacher has been with a church for decades?Why is a preacher often surprised when he is suddenly dismissed and he has a contract?Here's a method I discovere...