Marriage Unmasked
Marriage can be really tough, especially when it feels like you are struggling alone.
Welcome to the Marriage Unmasked Podcast where certified marriage and life coaches, Adam and Cara Nitz, share real, raw, honest conversation about topics you are dealing with in your marriage.
We want to help you take your marriage from painful to peaceful, get deeply connected to your spouse and live fully loved by God and each other.
Find your next step with our online marriage course, support groups, coaching and so many other helpful marriage resources at our website: https://www.thewayforlove.com/
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Latest Episodes
Let's Clear Up the Confusion About Masculinity and Femininity
What exactly does it mean to be "masculine" or "feminine" in your marriage?There are so many conflicting and confusing ideas, even in the church, about what it means to “be a man” or “be a woman.” Some of them create unhealthy competitio...
Here’s Why He Doesn’t Do What He Says He’s Going To Do
Why does a husband say he’ll do something, but then not follow through? Over time, that pattern leaves a wife feeling like she has to carry everything, manage everything, and constantly remind her husband to step up. Eventually, dis...
Are You Taking Care of Your Husband or Are You Raising Him?
No wife wants to believe she's raising her husband. No man wants to be "raised" managed or controlled. Yet, sometimes a husband goes passive and checks out of responsibility at home, and a wife takes over. Maybe he's afraid to get i...
How to Become Allies Instead of Enemies
Is your spouse your enemy? When there’s been years of hurt, disappointment, rejection, criticism, or unmet needs, it’s easy to start seeing your spouse through the lens of your pain. Their words feel threatening. Their reactions con...
He's Not the Spiritual Leader, but Should He Be?
What does it actually look like for a man to be the spiritual leader of his family? Is it about leading family devotions, making sure everyone is in church, praying out loud, or checking all the “right” boxes? And what happens when a wife feels...
Fan Mail
This is for Adam. Hey brother my wife found you guys on Insta and shared your stuff with me. My wife and I have been through it and at one point even separated. Now we are trying to work things out but I feel like nothing I tried was ever enough. I find myself wanting to give up again. I feel like we are just hurting each other more than drawing closer. I don't want to give up but sometimes I also find myself just burned out from all the criticism and harsh responses and especially the rejection. Thank you for your time and I really appreciate you guys for sharing your advise followed by scripture. Blessings.
Albany, Oregon