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How Parents can Encourage Friendships in High School

August 13, 2024 Season 7 Episode 32

In this insightful episode, we dive into the critical role friendships play during high school years. We discuss how healthy friendships can impact a teen's mental health, academic success, and overall well-being. Plus, we’ll explore ways parents can encourage and support their teens in building strong, positive relationships.

Key Topics Covered

  • The Significance of Friendship: Understanding why friendships are essential during the high school years and their effects on their future.
  • Mental Health Benefits: How strong friendships can improve emotional resilience and reduce feelings of loneliness or anxiety.
  • Parents Encouraging Positive Friendships: Practical strategies for parents to foster healthy friendships and support their teens’ social lives.
  • Faith and Friendship: Incorporating Christian values into friendships and encouraging teens to seek like-minded peers.

Guest Interview
This episode features Mateo Canales, young adult from an urban area chosen to speak/pray at the 2022 National Day of Prayer event in Hendricks County. He shares valuable insights on fostering healthy friendships among teens and the role of parents in this journey.

Actionable Takeaways

  1. Open Communication: Encourage regular conversations about friendships.
  2. Offering Consistency: Foster an environment where teens feel comfortable knowing what to expect from parents. 
  3. Encourage Participation: Motivate teens to get involved in extracurricular activities or church groups to build connections.
  4. Cheering each step of the way: Always encourage and cheer for the best in your teen as they navigate the difficulties living values that may be contrary to cultural norms/pressures.
  5. The 5 G's of fathers and mothers include Govern, Guide, Gather, Guard, and Ground, referenced in The Five Fold Fatherhood book by Russell Hylton. 

Scripture References

  • Ecclesiastes 4:9-10: "Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their labor."